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Today makes me 41 years old.
I have been jobless since I finish school.
I have never work in my life.
The only work I did was teaching in private school for years with peanut.
I decided to resign and sold some property I got from family.

I am just tired and i need direction to manage this money before I waste everything.

Please make una advice me.

Dont DM any scammer here ooo. Take advise and analyse them well but dont pay money to no one especially NL momey doubling gurus.

Ibtxxo:
Today makes me 41 years old.
I have been jobless since I finish school.
I have never work in my life.
The only work I did was teaching in private school for years with peanut.
I decided to resign and sold some property I got from family.
I am just tired and i need direction to manage this money before I waste everything.
Please make una advice me

No amount is small, no amount is big. Everything depends on the level one is operating on.
Bro, the money is well ok for you to start up a family and set up something, no matter how little.
If you keep waiting for the money to be enough, it might never be.
Find a calm, well mannered woman and start up your life, channel the remaining funds into a business (preferably food stuffs), and watch it multiply.

Good luck bro!

Do you want to start a business or marry
Because in this economy, I doubt it will be sufficient even for a small scale enterprise.

Why don’t you start a profiting business then marry later on
And before you tell me about failing business- which would you prefer, to start a business and fail alone or to start a business,marry and then use the profit to cater for your family and still fail

Or better still fail with your wife🤷‍♂️🤧
🚶‍♂️

Op better start a business and when you are financially capable of taking care of a family then you can do so. If doing the same at once you will go into regret tomorrow as the economy isn't smiling.

We too funny for this country.

You nor get work,you wan marry.

Once you put that N5m on marriage, that money go finish in 2 years maximum unless na Otedola pikin u marry...and hell is being married and broke.

Better go learn a skill and grow from there.

yomi007k:

We too funny for this country.

You nor get work,you wan marry.

Once you put that N5m on marriage, that money go finish in 2 years maximum unless na Otedola pikin u marry...and hell is being married and broke.

Better go learn a skill and grow from there.

What kind of skills should I learn

Ibtxxo:
What kind of skills should I learn

welding



get tools and be the best among ya folks

Kaczynski:
welding



get tools and be the best among ya folks

Apart from welding what other skill do you suggest I do

Keep your 5m go and learn how to barb hair or repair shoes.

Barbing is recommended because you're a bit old.

Get good at this thing I mean very good if you can see any Senegalese to teach you better those guys are too much.

If you get good enter STREET BARBING.

EVEN IF YOU NO DEY PURSUE WOMAN you go see them plenty.

But make sure the woman is the one doing the loving if na you dey love women you're in a disadvantage position.

Anyone telling you otherwise will learn from his folly when challenges show in the relationship.

You've got a skill that predisposed you to meet future wifey.

Before you find her and as you continue to hustle learn about making money on YouTube.

Because you can easily funnel your wifey and business to make money on YouTube.

Any man wey get gf or children wey no fit funnel them to make money on YouTube na sorry be him name.

I've done all these with gf concubine and even crushes.

Here's one instant.

A married woman we use to bang back in the days called me.

I left her because she was married but as she called I answered.

She wants to rekindle past glory that oga is not performing up to expectations.

I told her to do twenty videos on a niche and if she did we will rekindle the fire but she has to come over.

More than 500+ miles and she agreed.

She got me the video I delivered and I'm making money with those video.

Even outsource getting the video to a hair dresser now I do research she does the video as she works on clients hair.

Win win for both of us... here's what anyone should know.

I make more money than the hair dresser sometimes she collects 5k 10k 15k.

The money is not in shooting or posting videos it's in making videos audience wants to watch.

There are high rmp niches that just doing crazy things will bring money.

You've to search for those things (research man)

But people are so struck.

Some are finding who will teach them
Some don't want to do any work they want AI to do it for them.

All these you can do with
Your phone
And a good grasp of keyword research.

I'd hope I've motivated someone out there.


To add to this based on comments here.

Don't buy a car or Keke if you'll not be the one driving it or you've zero ideas about cars mechanic go use you cash out.

Don't relocate to any other state in search of any pot/port of gold.

Don't start any online store and use Facebook ads... except you've money to dash Facebook.

Running Facebook ads is a skill that comes with testing and patience please save your money.

Try not to chase women I can't stress this enough. Anything we as humans chase flee from us.

Millions of men and women chase money but only few people get it and in abundant I'm not talking yahoo money ooo.

Also if you want to enjoy relationship make sure you're not the chasing a woman ooo.

You see all the comments of people saying marriage is this and that is because they were in 90% the one doing the choosing.

Bro listen carefully

1. If a woman chooses you and 2 could spend her money on you (you've got a ride or die).

Here's why.

Women don't spend money on men except the ones they really love.

Most women at age 30+ marry to secure the bag and their future.

One more thing years ago banshee buy slaves with the hope that the slaves are worth more than the price. I'm not calling a woman a slave oo God's forbid.

Like a banshee will screen a slave to make sure she's worth the price

Please screen (interview) any woman that comes your way.

Relationship is too easy na thirsty and desperate men dey make am hard.

The online business part please note you'll not see results immediately ooo.

It takes time and consistency to get there and only few people are getting real results because the majority quit after six months.

Even if you have a system that works its a little bit shorter to see results.


If you want to learn how to make money on YouTube right now I suggest you watch videos make by Matt par.

Matt has a lot of good content some which I agree with(meta data and suggested video loops) and also disagree with especially his idea of keyword research.

I've three people I combined all their methods.

And it works.

Full disclosure: I'm an affiliate for Matt par but I don't sell to nairaland members so I'm not interested in dropping any affiliate link.

I've also stop selling courses to nairaland members because they won't pay in USD or mama charlie currency they want to pay in naira...let me sell in peace on my website.

For the nigga asking for niches with higher rmp please pay attention.

When eating there's what we call table manners.

Don't talk why you're eating I'm sure I got that right yes!

I'm currently eating from the niche do you want me to talk and choke?

Ooo Nigerian are too greedy and you maybe right?

But do you think the YouTube gurus who are telling you to go to this niche because of the high rmp have any channels on those niches?

If you say yes then I have a beach to sell to you.

If these niches are niches that's profitable and easy to monitize I promise you they'll be observing table manners.

It's what it's anyone that reveal a real goodmine on YouTube has nothing to lose.

Sadly many have something to lose so they observe table manners.

Here's something you looking for me to reveal these profitable niches for you that you should think about for a minute.

The YouTube gurus preaching profitable niches to you are making their money with EDUCATIONAL VIDEOS.

BUT THEY'LL tell you African tale is a 10k 15k niche
Do they do it? Hello hello hello o

JUST KNOW IF U NO USE PERSON: PERSON GO USE YOU.

I really hope I annoyed( ruffled a lot of feathers and break some people feeling) a lot of folks today.

If you want to send a hate mail feel free to do so my email is on my signature.

I like getting hate mails because I'm sure going to monitize it.

Guy focus on your “business” and grow the money with single concentration.

You might want to leave the country as time goes on. Don’t tie yourself down.

Give yourself time to improve on yourself.

Ibtxxo:
Today makes me 41 years old.
I have been jobless since I finish school.
I have never work in my life.
The only work I did was teaching in private school for years with peanut.
I decided to resign and sold some property I got from family.
I am just tired and i need direction to manage this money before I waste everything.
Please make una advice me

Don't start a new business then get married at the same time.

Start the business first and give it time to stabilize before you start thinking of getting married

Buy a decent car for 4milllion and start e hailing taxi business. Use the remaining 1million to pay rent and get food at home. Work for 6months and save up money aggressively. Use 500k from the money to marry your woman in a very low key wedding. Make sure your woman also works and earns well. Y'all good to go.

Ps: as you work, map out time to learn tech skills and also build your brand on social media to earn social media money.

In all you do. Don’t spend more than 1m for marriage. This includes paying for bride price and any other rites

Any business you want to start, make sure you don't use the whole 5m for it.

You're 41 yrs you should get a woman in her 30's that has something doing to start a relationship with and settle down.

Avoid Gen Z girls

Everyone one can’t get married. Hope you didn’t sell your family land

Apply multiplication method: 5m x 2odds=10m. Investor vibes

Just use the 5M to get married chikena!

Marriage is a business as well.

Stand on #BUSINESS.

Generate income daily and re invest the profits.

I wish you #Well

It can be enough if you manage it well.

It all depends if you want to impress the public or live for yourself.

Do not do any wedding ceremony, just pay brideprice and satisfy traditional rite and move on. If you must celebrate, do it later or like in a parlous settings. That should not be more than 1.5-2M Naira.

Then proceed to think of a business that you can use the rest for. The business should be something that brings return everyday, like logistics and food for example.

Hopefully your wife is hardworking and can assist, but with 5M, you are starting from a very reasonable position.

Ibtxxo:
Today makes me 41 years old.
I have been jobless since I finish school.
I have never work in my life.
The only work I did was teaching in private school for years with peanut.
I decided to resign and sold some property I got from family.

I am just tired and i need direction to manage this money before I waste everything.

Please make una advice me.

If you have little more money, my brother, look for a job in Kuwait 📌💯

More than enough. just make sure you don't spend over 500k on the wedding. Among the Nigerian bannies that remain in the market now, none is worth spending more than that on.

Ekpa make sure you hold better bah before you even think of procreating.

#Antinatalism. Stop bringing kids to this world to suffer. What is your gain if you can't take care of your child in this wicked world.

You said you haven't worked and needed direction at 41 years, yet wants to get married to someone's daughter?

Start a business with the money and ensure you have something that comes in everymonth to sustain your family.

But it is also possible, you will mismanage the money and the marriage because you havent managed your life till now.

God bless you for this, u are a true patriot and a good Nigerian



quote author=CodeTemplarr post=137351982]Dont DM any scammer here ooo. Take advise and analyse them well but dont pay money to no one especially NL momey doubling gurus.[/quote]

Go learn hand work,I repeat go learn hand work.
If you want do business, do buying and selling business (FMCG).
Nor go marry ooo!!! I repeat nor go marry ooo !!!
Nor give girl Belle ooo!!! I repeat nor give girl Belle ooo !!!
A word is enough for the wise.

Ibtxxo:
Today makes me 41 years old.
I have been jobless since I finish school.
I have never work in my life.
The only work I did was teaching in private school for years with peanut.
I decided to resign and sold some property I got from family.

I am just tired and i need direction to manage this money before I waste everything.

Please make una advice me.

Buy a good Toyota corolla 2003/4/5/6/7. Relocate to Lagos/Ogun and drive on uber/bolt/indrive. You will make 300k to 500k monthly

It depends on you and the woman you're marrying.
Some women can turn 100k to 100m, while others just burn your money, life and everything.
Choose wisely.

Start from somewhere.

Agriculture is ok.

4get marriage or if possible forget woman for now. Start business and gain ground first. If not, you're likely coming back to blame somebody here.
Get money first. Cos if you get it, you won't need our advice at all.