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Samantha125:
I also spoke for myself and all the other people who prefer light skinned people, so I really don't understand what you're on about...🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

And light skinned Africans were already there before even colonialists came to Africa...🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

She also spoke for herself and vast majority who prefer them dark and medium skinned. So what's the fuse about?

Cybertroll:
Was bleaching a part of our culture pre-colonialism?

Exactly, that's why I said 'I'. I didn't generalize or trying to pull dark men down which is ridiculous because they are vastly preferred. Stereotypes are bitter truths.

I think bleaching came from Europeans

Samantha125:
I've never seen Africans tanning their skin before.

And just because you prefer them medium to dark, it doesn't mean others don't prefer them fair.

The fairest girl in my department has a thing for dark guys lol.

Samantha125:
We love fair guys, and I mean unambiguous African fair guys and not those mixed ones, don't let those dark skinned guys with superiority complex fool you.

So far I've never seen fair skinned people trying to darken their looks, but we can't say the same thing about dark skinned people, can we?

Samantha125 you seem to love men a lot. Hope you are in a serious relationship? There is a reason I'm asking.

Samantha125:
We love fair guys, and I mean unambiguous African fair guys and not those mixed ones, don't let those dark skinned guys with superiority complex fool you.

So far I've never seen fair skinned people trying to darken their looks, but we can't say the same thing about dark skinned people, can we?

Go and check if there is no element of bleaching

Okay, and your point is?

tollyboy5:
The fairest girl in my department has a thing for dark guys lol.

I don't know, she's the one who came for me for speaking on behalf of myself and the people who preferred light skinned Africans.

MrSly:
She also spoke for herself and vast majority who prefer them dark and medium skinned. So what's the fuse about?

Who doesn't want a handsome man? I mean facial features don't get altered by the person's complexion... You can be light skinned, but ugly and vice versa.

dreamxhaser:
You see! What you all fail to understand is, it’s more of a trend.



Few years back it was the fair guys. These days it the dark skin guys.

Millennial women prefer light-skin, while GenZ prefer dark-skin.

But what i have come to realize is if you ask women to show the light-skin or dark-skin guys they like, they will show you pictures of the most handsome among both.

So at the end, they just love handsome men, it’s just the trend that’s creates a serotype.

Hi.

KingMack:
Hello Samantha?

I'm married...😒😒😒

professore:
Samantha125 you seem to love men a lot. Hope you are in a serious relationship? There is a reason I'm asking.

kushercain:
Stay one place....what point are you trying to make exactly

she just dey jump everywhere.

Bendeco02:
Go and learn color first before you come to argue

You think being fair is looking like Ramsey Nouah?

You don't know what is fair abeg

Which one is medium?

WizKid isn't fair. The word chocolate is ok for WizKid. If WizKid is fair what would you now call flavour or phyno? Albino?

Bendeco02:
Stop deceiving yourself.

You mentioned Burna Boy because you're dark and want to support dark skin.

I did not say that all girls will choose wizzy but majority.

Bad boy is not by muscle but by doings and cordination.

Most bad or play boys that women like are soft looking guys.

Even the dark guys women crush on are the soft looking ones not the gra gra or muscle type.

The asake you mentioned, do he look manly?. Person wey be like say na man he dey do

Bro ... how can you argue with a woman about what a woman finds attractive in a man? How about what you find attractive in a man she doesn't? You're giving out rainbow vibes . Men and women are wired differently... especially when it comes to opposite sex attraction. Ninety percent of men may have five attractive qualities in a woman .... boobs ....yansh .. legs ... complexion ... personality ... that's it. For women ... it's like 50 attractive qualities minimum.... height... hair .. voice ... deeper the more attractive ... complexion ... hair on face or chest ... fashion sense ... ruggedness ... status ... wealth ...and I can write until tomorrow. Just don't be arguing with a woman on reason for her attraction ... it will make no sense to a man but fully supported by women. Again ...women are wired differently.

Cybertroll:
People have been tanning themselves for ages tho.
And you should say YOU love fair men. I prefer them medium to dark.

Hmm, Idan

Originalsly:
Bro ... how can you argue with a woman about what a woman finds attractive in a man? How about what you find attractive in a man she doesn't? You living out rainbow vibes . Men and women are wired differently... especially when it comes to opposite sex attraction. Ninety percent of men may have five attractive qualities in a woman .... boobs ....yansh .. legs ... complexion ... personality ... that's it. For women ... it's like 50 attractive qualities minimum.... height... hair .. voice ... deeper the more attractive ... complexion ... hair on face or chest ... fashion sense ... ruggedness ... status ... wealth ...and I can write until tomorrow. Just don't be arguing with a woman on reason for her attraction ... it will make no sense to a man but fully supported by women. Again ...women are wired differently.

Na you know what you're saying

Majority of women that talk negative about fair guys had bad experience with them if you observed well.

When they talk you observe it.

For most of them to say that fair guys are player or womanizer and proud says it all.

Someone that is not attractive can't be a player and womanizer when you also claim they are mostly broke. What then attract women to them?

Enter Facebook and observe when a fair guy post picture compare the engagement to when a dark person post his picture as well. The fair guys followers/commenters are mostly women.

The same girl you're defending claimed that her boyfriend is fair. Why didn't she chose dark guy to date when dark guys are majority in the society? Not that dark guys are scarce or don't toast her

Diamond098454:
I can't be fair and still date a fair guy no......
Me personally, I prefer dark skin guys hmmmmm they looks too handsome

oya come let's date... I am dark

Samantha125:
Okay, and your point is?

My point is, going for the fairer ones is not what many ladies dance to.
That's just your preference

Diamond098454:
what....... Albino.......... This guy really hate me

I love you like that... You are very beautiful

Cruzmaster:
Just the way a lot of we men love and adore fair ladies. They are more attractive

Well, that is for you. I have no reason to adore fair girls.

jiggyman:
Lol I'm light skinned, I probably slept with over 100 women who prefer dark skinned guys.

At the end of the day, its about what you can offer.

That is it!

I'm a lady and I know what I'm talking about, the lady in your department doesn't represent us all... Because if that was the case, light skinned African men would've been struggling to get girlfriends or even to get married, but that's not the case, they're getting married almost every weekend... Some dark skinned men across Africa would even bleach their skin... Some of us prefer light skinned African men the same way the lady in your department prefers dark skinned men.

tollyboy5:
My point is, going for the fairer ones is not what many ladies dance to.
That's just your preference

Samantha125:
I'm a lady and I know what I'm talking about, the lady in your department doesn't represent us all... Because if that was the case, light skinned African men would've been struggling to get girlfriends or even to get married, but that's not the case, they're getting married almost every weekend... Some dark skinned men across Africa would even bleach their skin... Some of us prefer light skinned African men the same way the lady in your department prefers dark skinned men.

Alright I'm not going to argue. I think I'll agree with you on this.

MONEY247:
A blatant lie. Girls adore fair guys, many do not just admit it.
I know many fair guys girls run after like flies even without the guy showing interest. That's why many guys bleach their skin.

Girls can pretend like crazy...

Oga forget fair guys,John Fashanu and Richard Mofe Damijo are above 60 and I can tell you ladies will run after them before you fair guys

Kog45:
Oga forget fair guys,John Fashanu and Richard Mofe Damijo are above 60 and I can tell you ladies will run after them before you fair guys

They are rich bro
I am talking of street level

Cybertroll:
Wizkid is somewhat 'effeminate'. Burna is a bad boy. Two different aesthetics that most women find irresistible.

I'll choose Burna any way. Rema used to be my favorite, but he's obviously homosexual.

So it's Burna, Asake, and Odumodu (because have you heard his damn voice?!)

Diddy oils say hi

Bendeco02:
Nigeria women are not naturally fair skin more

They bleach to be fair and they have that mentality that most fair guys bleach too.

They hate what they do . They bleach and they hate men that bleach. They have pride and believed fair guys have pride too

Without bleaching Over 70% of women are chocolate and dark.

Only Fulani have more number of natural fair ladies.

Forget about muscular or not. The ones that says they like dark men only picture handsome dark guys in their head and only accept them. As average dark guy they will insult you to take good care of your skin and reject you without wasting time.

Even the handsome dark guys they follow are still soft looking guys that looks like ajebo not portable looking men

we are not talking about ajebo, regularly black house and regular fair guys. Girls will prefer darker guys, fair guys will only be picked by very dark girls but fairs girls won't want fair guys that will be sharing sunscreen with them.

jaxxy:
we are not talking about ajebo, regularly black house and regular fair guys. Girls will prefer darker guys, fair guys will only be picked by very dark girls but fairs girls won't want fair guys that will be sharing sunscreen with them.

It depends on what you sees as fair sha

Someone like Mike Tyson is still fair. Hope you're aware?

What most of you sees as fair are those that looks like half cast.

For some people that sees fair guys as soft.

Muhammed Ali is fair, Mike Tyson is fair, Anthony Joshua is fair. Why are they dominating their dark counterpart physically?

MONEY247:
A blatant lie. Girls adore fair guys, many do not just admit it.
I know many fair guys girls run after like flies even without the guy showing interest. That's why many guys bleach their skin.

Girls can pretend like crazy...

Who pushed this to the front page for God’s sake
This is so irrelevant

MONEY247:
A blatant lie. Girls adore fair guys, many do not just admit it.
I know many fair guys girls run after like flies even without the guy showing interest. That's why many guys bleach their skin.

Girls can pretend like crazy...

Of course women do , especially when they themselves are dark skinned .

But the main reason they fail to admit it is that thet are usually scared of the level of women attracted to such guys and would rather not date seriously .

9JaSweet:
Who pushed this to the front page for God’s sake
This is so irrelevant

Engage man
It's a social dysfunctional syndrome among ladies..

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