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A young lady has stirred intense debate online after declaring that if her marriage ever ends, she would leave everything behind, including her children, for her husband to care for.

In a post shared on X (formerly Twitter), the woman explained that she plans to sign an agreement with her husband before marriage in case things go wrong.

She wrote: “My husband and I will have a written agreement that if ever our marriage ends, he’ll take the kids and I’ll leave with nothing.

“I get them on weekends and holidays and I’ll be checking in on them. My status will be ‘Oh, I’m single and I have two kids but they’re growing up nicely with their daddy.’”

DyshApp:
➜A young lady has stirred intense debate online after declaring that if her marriage ever ends, she would leave everything behind, including her children, for her husband to care for.
In a post shared on X (formerly Twitter), the woman explained that she plans to sign an agreement with her husband before marriage in case things go wrong. She wrote: “My husband and I will have a written agreement that if ever our marriage ends, he’ll take the kids and I’ll leave with nothing. “I get them on weekends and holidays and I’ll be checking in on them. My status will be ‘Oh, I’m single and I have two kids but they’re growing up nicely with their daddy.’”

I hope she does not compromise on this later on.

‘Single mother’ is a title in this generation and it’s even celebrated.
Any man that gets married to her should be ready for divorce in 3-6 months.

I guess she hasn’t gotten any child yet and when she feels the love of a child, she’ll understand better.

I guess she hasn’t gotten any child yet and when she feels the love of a child, she’ll understand better.

Love of a child? One of the most absurd of myths that was used to manipulate many women into having and raising children when ordinarily they would have happily lived without them.

What we now know is that there is no such thing as the love of a child— biological or otherwise— and women are not biologically nurturers.

Kobojunkie:
Love of a child? One of the most absurd of myths that was used to manipulate many women into having and raising children when ordinarily they would have happily lived without them.

What we now know is that there is no such thing as the love of a child— biological or otherwise— and women are not biologically nurturers.

Suit yourself, but if she isn’t ready to nurture a kid, maybe she shouldn't have one. I really doubt she can hold a family together, so what's the point of having children?

It would be best if she finds someone who sees things the same way and marries them. No kid deserves to go through the struggles of single parenthood or the pains of a dysfunctional family.

Kobojunkie:
Love of a child? One of the most absurd of myths that was used to manipulate many women into having and raising children when ordinarily they would have happily lived without them.

What we now know is that there is no such thing as the love of a child— biological or otherwise— and women are not biologically nurturers.

So says an unmarried woman, see how u are projecting your single reality on a general reality .

Kind of things teenage mothers say before giving their kids up for adoption. The kids need a stable home and family. But later, emotions kick in and they start looking for kids they abandoned and crying that they're their biological mothers.

If you believe in what this lady expressed, then allow me sell the national stadium in Lagos to you

ngmgeek:
✓ Kind of things teenage mothers say before giving their kids up for adoption. The kids need a stable home and family. But later, emotions kick in and they start looking for kids they abandoned and crying that they're their biological mothers.
✓ If you believe in what this lady expressed, then allow me sell the national stadium in Lagos to you

When it comes to Nigerians, it is instead usually the children searching for their parents and not the other way around, I have noticed. 🥱🤟🥱

2. Usually, men abandon children with the woman. What she is simply saying is that she will instead let the man -- the children's own father -- have them or be their primary parent -- they also have his last name(not hers) naw. So what is so wrong about that? 🥱🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
When it comes to Nigerians, it is instead usually the children searching for their parents and not the other way around, I have noticed. 🥱🤟🥱

2. Usually, men abandon children with the woman. What she is simply saying is that she will instead lett the man -+ the children's own father --+ have them -+ they also have his last name(not hers) naw. So what is so wrong about that? 🥱🥱🥱

Why are you asking question? Answer your question since you know it all. 😜

These moomoo genz bannies have turned everything to content.......

But then again,as a man who's ready to settle down, nothing should draw you closer to bannies with this kind of mentality.

She's already planned how her life would be