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Pennilessword1:
Come and tell us how she took the break up.

neonly:
I believe yur story na who never reach der no go understand
But it ok sha welcome to a life of freedom again

equity1:
Does it mean you never noticed this violet signs during courtship or did you ignore it ?

guest1234:
I Finally Chose to Walk Away from My Marriage

After deep reflection and repeated attempts to make things work, I have decided to step away from my marriage for the sake of my peace, safety, and well-being.

For a long time, I have endured constant physical and emotional abuse from my wife. During disagreements, she often resorts to violence, slapping, hitting, and using hurtful words. On several occasions, she has even threatened me with sharp objects such as knives and scissors. Unfortunately, today, she carried out that threat and stabbed me in the neck. By the grace of God, it wasn’t fatal, but it was the final straw that made me realize I cannot continue living in fear.

Throughout our marriage, I have done my best to provide for our home and ensure we lacked nothing. Despite my efforts, I have never received her support, emotionally, mentally, or otherwise. I have never raised my hand against her, yet that restraint has often been taken for weakness, giving her the boldness to abuse me repeatedly.

My family, having witnessed much of what I’ve gone through, has now asked her to leave and packed her belongings. She has quarreled with nearly every member of my family and remains in conflict with them.

This decision to end the marriage is not out of anger but self-preservation. I am choosing to prioritize my mental, emotional, and physical health. I have nothing to hide and no intention to tarnish her image; I am only speaking the truth about my experience.

From this point forward, I am focused on healing, rebuilding, and finding peace again.

guest1234:
That is the category of men I fell into, sadly it hurt

Sammy101111:
You did the right thing .She can't give you peace so it better she should leave . God I no one marry two wife or divorce please give a woman that will give me peace of mind because I no like wahala I can't shout or argue with woman

Sammy101111:
You did the right thing .She can't give you peace so it better she should leave . God I no one marry two wife or divorce please give a woman that will give me peace of mind because I no like wahala I can't shout or argue with woman

guest1234:
1) My family is taking it as a pain upon themselves because they know that she is taking my weakness as a strength to her because I don't talk or beat her, she has started misbehaving. This said ladies has slapped me over hundred times this year without me retaliate.
2) I started having the thought of divorce when she started misbehaving and hitting me and today when she stab me is what broke the camel back
3) No ( child) issue yet we courted for five years and the marry is one year and 8 months.

eagleonearth:
somebody's moniker is"junkie" and you have time to be replying her mentions.

guest1234:
It was a little quarrel and I never knew she will be in possession of the object but God gave me the strength to overcame

guest1234:
You can go and meet her in her parents house to get her own version since you believe it is everyone that can fabricate stories to get likes.
Take care

guest1234:
She don't beat me but always use that as her first target because she knows I will not retaliate

Kobojunkie:
That's a crime since you have no right to do any such to an individual for assaulting you.

budaatum:
We live in the best of times with opportunities to upgrade ourselves.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R0lsn0-H5kY?si=pzDtV8Qu8yz0vT72

Sorry it's not short. If you'd rather read, best I found is pdf.

https://ia801309.us.archive.org/12/items/TheArtOfLoving/43799393-The-Art-of-Loving-Erich-Fromm_text.pdf

LOVEGINO:
make money and marry two or more women and know peace.