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Do you currently allow your partner check your phone freely and do you check their phones freely?

If you are not married to a person, they may have tangible reasons not to let you check their phones. It may not be that they are unfaithful. It may be that their phone or phones have some business deals they want private, family information that needs to be kept private e.t.c. But there should be a level of access to your partner's phone if possible.

For those who are married. Firstly, it is good to marry someone you can trust; and if you trust someone and they trust, you both should be free to check your phones in marriage.

Check your partner's phone sometimes.

I check my woman's phone secretly every once in a while. She also checks mine but I don't know when.

I don't have that time

Check the phones of the bannies of this generation and you'll definitely find a very good reason to end the relationship

That last time I did that sh*te, I wasn’t shocked but I don’t think I can attempt or even think of doing that again.

Why should I be checking his phone when I don't even go through my niblings' phones? Anyways, he is free with his phone around me, so I have no reason to be suspicious of anything.

But I'm not gonna lie, during the time when he was in a critical condition in hospital and I was in possession of his phone, whenever I'd hear a message notification, I'd always fear for the worst and start holding a small prayer... ... I had to end up switching it off because I didn't want to end up in a critical condition as well due to a heart attack.

But guys, if you're going to cheat, at least buy a secret phone that you'll use for your shenanigans and leave it in your workplace, because you're gonna give some of us heart attacks.

People are now so smart, so searching of phone isn't 100% effective because dem fit delete chat immediately. So as a man wey marry a non-virgin, searching of phone isn't what you need atall, what you need is a DNA test and you're alright. I remember a friend of mine who said " guy, I no believe say this my babe dey cheat on me, I was always searching her phone whenever she dey around and I no see anything" . Funny thing be say, she go even tell you about the numerous guys wey dey disturb her, so as to win your trust, some will even show you chats as evidence. But wetin she no go tell you na the guys wey dey cable her pipeline . I'm not saying you shouldn't trust your non-virgin partner oooooooo but abeg, go for DNA test. God wey entrust her with virginity, she disappointed God by sharing it to street boys, how much more you 😁. Before you spend those millions in buying Pampers and baby food for another man pikin, use from inside take run DNA test. But until you do DNA test, make the pikin dey call you UNCLE SAM. You have nothing to lost if you do DNA and discover say na your child, but you stand to lost if you no do DNA and dem no be your children.

What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA test

Samantha125:
Why should I be checking his phone when I don't even go through my niblings' phones? Anyways, he is free with his phone around me, so I have no reason to be suspicious of anything.

But I'm not gonna lie, during the time when he was in a critical condition in hospital and I was in possession of his phone, whenever I'd hear a message notification, I'd always fear for the worst and start holding a small prayer... ... I had to end up switching it off because I didn't want to end up in a critical condition as well due to a heart attack.

But guys, if you're going to cheat, at least buy a secret phone that you'll use for your shenanigans and leave it in your workplace, because you're gonna give some of us heart attacks.