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Mariangeles:
What a shameless and irresponsible dad you have.

Plot twist: the son also slept with the maid.

I believed since you have all details you're in a better position to advise him or what do you think?

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Mariangeles:
What a shameless and irresponsible dad you have.

Plot twist: the son also slept with the maid.

Huummm, say Na imagination or talking from experience? But it's very possible sha.

Qualityoffer:
Just do it. My bible tells me in Ephesians 6:1-3
- Son, honor your father .... so that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth.

Of course, I know that the story isn't real.

We all know that the story is most probably untrue, BUT BELOW IS WHAT CONCERNS ME.

,,,, There's a way to study the book of life (The Holy bible)... in that same book of Ephesians, please check how the bible say a father should do towards his son before HOW A SON SHOULD HONOUR HIS FATHER.

Thanks!

Chilipepper:
My dad wants me to claim the pregnancy he is responsible for: man seeks help

Inform your mum..scatter everything

Your mum may end up hating you.

Find someone else to claim the pregnancy.

Why must it be you? It is suggestive your father has some concrete plans for the househelp i.e take care of the child.

Cock and bull story

Why can't you find another fall guy outside the home?

If this really happened, it's better the truth is brought out now, because the truth will still be revealed in the future.

I was actually waiting for someone to say the story is not real. I no dey chuk mouth for this kind post. No be my emotion dem go use generate traffic.

Qualityoffer:
Just do it. My bible tells me in Ephesians 6:1-3
- Son, honor your father .... so that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth.

Of course, I know that the story isn't real.

I don't want to believe this story,it looks like a make up story.

Chilipepper:
My dad wants me to claim the pregnancy he is responsible for: man seeks help

Please take responsibility for the pregnancy. Cover his shame and save the marriage of your mum and dad.

I would do that for my dad if I am in your shoes.

Wallade:
Please take responsibility for the pregnancy. Cover his shame and save the marriage of your mum and dad.

I would do that for my dad if I am in your shoes.

Imagine your mother found out eventually that not only did your dad cheat on her and betray her, you also, her son joined with your father to betray her.
A woman might not survive that.

Mariangeles:
Imagine your mother found out eventually that not only did your dad cheat on her and betray her, you also, her son joined with your father to betray her.
A woman might not survive that.

She could see it as betrayal.

I see it as saving the marriage. They are grown parents. They will get over it.

My mother should be matured enough to take a pinch. She would survive it.

Bro papa never die but he don dey claim inheritance

Kobojunkie:
If your wife refuses you sex, you have every right to divorce her. Not shit on yourself by cheating and then come back when caught to play the victim. Any person who cheats in retaliation is just a despicable human being.

You are funny even though you are right. But to say you want to divorce your wife because she denies you sex will look somehow. Many men are going through a lot. I am telling you the truth. You hear of many pastors committing adultery, just ask about what happens between them and their wives.

lol you don’t understand that one honeypot many of men get tired of it it’s just natural… sometimes if man cheat outside does not determine that the man don’t love his wife… but if woman cheat on her husband it’s definitely that the woman don’t love her husband again cos woman act emotionally but men don’t in nature….

pretydiva:
He doesn’t want to lose your mom yet he couldn’t control his 3rd leg. Your dad lacks self control. Better open up to your mom and let your dad face the consequences of his shameful action.

Hmm!

The fruit does not fall far from the tree after all.

Wallade:
She could see it as betrayal.

I see it as saving the marriage. They are grown parents. They will get over it.

My mother should be matured enough to take a pinch. She would survive it.

Chilipepper:
My dad wants me to claim the pregnancy he is responsible for: man seeks help

Tell your dad that you will do that under only one condition, he will transfer all his properties to you now. Create an agreement and let him sign. Because in the long run your papa go add the unborn child to his will

Wallade:
➜She could see it as betrayal. I see it as saving the marriage. They are grown parents. They will get over it.
➜ My mother should be matured enough to take a pinch. She would survive it.

So, if your wife cheated on you and your daughters helped her keep the secret, you would also see it as them saving the marriage, abi?

2. So, if your mother had cheated on your father during that same time, and maybe she even had a child during that time, which she hid away somewhere—maybe during a time when your dad had to travel for an extended period for work or some other occasion— your father should not only be able to accept it(take a pinch) but also survive it?

Kobojunkie:
So, if your wife cheated on you and your daughters helped her keep the secret, you would also see it as them saving the marriage, abi?

2. So, if your mother had cheated on your father during that same time, and maybe she even had a child during that time, which she hid away somewhere—maybe during a time when your dad had to travel for an extended period for work or some other occasion— your father should not only be able to accept it(take a pinch) but also survive it?

Would you rather have me die or go crazy because I found out that she cheated on me?

What you don't know doesn't hurt you. It becomes hurtful when you get to know about it.

We all handle cases differently and I have just said the manner in which I would handle it, if presented such case. Since my dad asked and pleaded with me to do that for him, he is ashamed and sad that it happened and loves my mother to the extent that he wouldn't risk the marriage.

You don't have to handle it the way I would.

duro4chang:
➜You are funny even though you are right. But to say you want to divorce your wife because she denies you sex will look somehow.
➜ Many men are going through a lot. I am telling you the truth.
➜ You hear of many pastors committing adultery, just ask about what happens between them and their wives.

Divorcing a woman for refusing you sex is somehow, but committing adultery, a literal unofficial nullification of the marriage born from a place of abuse, seems more OK?

2. Divorce has always been available as a clear official solution to this problem. Again, people who cheat in retaliation are despicable individuals.

3. People being despicable to each other are some of the lowest humans out there.

Wallade:
➜Would you rather have me die or go crazy because I found out that she cheated on me? What you don't know doesn't hurt you. It becomes hurtful when you get to know about it. We all handle cases differently and I have just said the manner in which I would handle it, if presented such case. You don't have to handle it the way I would.

We all handle cases differently, yet your earlier suggestion was that since your mother was debased and humiliated by your father in marriage, therefore, all other women should have to and be able to endure pretty much the same shame and degradation in the name of saving a marriage?

pretydiva:
He doesn’t want to lose your mom yet he couldn’t control his 3rd leg. Your dad lacks self control. Better open up to your mom and let your dad face the consequences of his shameful action.

It is not in his place to report the mater to his mum

Chilipepper:
My dad wants me to claim the pregnancy he is responsible for: man seeks help

Simple help you can't do for your own father! Are you sure you are his biological son?

Abortion na 20k i don't understand the whole drama

pretydiva:
He doesn’t want to lose your mom yet he couldn’t control his 3rd leg. Your dad lacks self control. Better open up to your mom and let your dad face the consequences of his shameful action.

did they asked you to insult the father?

Kobojunkie:
Divorcing a woman for refusing you sex is somehow, but committing adultery, a literal unofficial nullification of the marriage born from a place of abuse, seems more OK?

2. Divorce has always been available as a clear official solution to this problem. Again, people who cheat in retaliation are despicable individuals.

3. People being despicable to each other are some of the lowest humans out there.

Let us just end it here. According to the Bible if you divorce and marries another one, you have committed adultery. You can't even divorce your wife except she commits adultery. So as a Christian, divorcing your wife because she denies you sex is not acceptable. Well, I don't know the religion of the family involved here but it looks as if they are not Muslims. Are you married?

Kobojunkie:
We all handle cases differently, yet your earlier suggestion was that since your mother was debased and humiliated by your father in marriage, therefore, all other women should have to and be able to endure pretty much the same shame and degradation in the name of saving a marriage?

Did you see me advise other women?

I am only concerned about my mom, dad and the unborn child. I have no business with your father and mother and I can't influence how you would handle yours in your home except you seek my advice.

Humiliation and embarrassment doesn't kill, the effect is temporary if you are matured enough to handle it.

I don't wanna care about how you would handle it and I have no advice for you on that.

duro4chang:
➜Let us just end it here. According to the Bible if you divorce and marries another one, you have committed adultery. You can't even divorce your wife except she commits adultery. So as a Christian, divorcing your wife because she denies you sex is not acceptable.
➜Well, I don't know the religion of the family involved here but it looks as if they are not Muslims. Are you married?

The book also says that the man who made that statement was sent only to the descendants of Jacob(the man whose God gave the name Israel). Unfortunately, the religion of fraud conveniently ignores that fact while it only uses the book to claim justification for some of the most despicable ideas it holds to. Religion is bullsheet to this argument.

2. Again, the constitution allows a man to divorce his wife when it no longer benefits him.

Then the immoral act is not stopping anytime soon

obinna58:
Cock and bull story

It can be real.