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Chilipepper:
My dad wants me to claim the pregnancy he is responsible for: man seeks help

SpencerForbes:
The question is—

• Do you love your family well to uphold its integrity?

• Can your mother bear the outcome of the news (some women are patients of HBP and diabetes)?

. What’s the guarantee your father won’t repeat the mistake again??


Great contribution.

JSYK: She’s untouchable to you. So marriage is out of the plan but if you can take the fall while she’s on baby mama stipend, then there’s no problem. But if your mom can stomach the news without you destroying the family. Then you can refuse.

Before you quote me, remember women have been hiding paternity fraud for ages and they’ve been forgiven. So there’s no harm in also forgiving a man

Kobojunkie:
If your wife refuses you sex, you have every right to divorce her. Not shit on yourself by cheating and then come back when caught to play the victim. Any person who cheats in retaliation is just a despicable human being. Just divorce and go do you outside of marriage. .

emmyN:
➜If his spouse denies him sex, that is cheating in itself.
➜ If he decides to cheat back, they are both in the same class and are deserving of each other.

Kobojunkie:
I disagree! Denying your spouse sex can be considered a form of abuse if and only if the one you are denying sex has not previously made it clear that she/he is not interested in sex with you. Your spouse is not some sort of On/Off toy you can flick whenever it pleases you. I know at least one man who has, for many years, literally told their wives that they do not find them sexually attractive, only to later turn to the same woman for sex—whenever their sidechick/sidedick refuses to play into their hands— and then complain that she denied him sex.

2. I disagree! Cheating back—in retaliation for being denied sex, or any other problem between you and your spouse (the two individuals in the marriage) —makes you a despicable person. It is not on the same level.

emmyN:
➜The one who denies the other sex is equally as despicable, that's the point. The first point I was making is this - marriage is a social contract and with it comes responsibilities and privileges.
➜ The moment one person unilaterally withdraws from fulfilling any of their obligations, they make void the contract. That itself is cheating. It's on the same foundation extra-marital affair is referred to as cheating too.
➜ When one spouse has extra-marital sex, they break the terms of exclusivity laid out in their marriage contract. That's why it is cheating. So it's not cheating because genital fluid was exchanged with a non-partner, but because the terms of the contract was broken.

TheWolfen:
Help your father nah you s*lly b×stard. You still thinking hard on what to do? Are you sure you really his son

femi4:
Inform your mum..scatter everything

Kobojunkie:
Your dad literally hates your mother and you as well since he is all too willing to have your own reputation messed up for his sake, yet you come here to ask us wetin? Do you hate yourself and your mother that much?

dequir:
And kill the mother with hypertension.

SpencerForbes:
The question is—

• Do you love your family well to uphold its integrity?

• Can your mother bear the outcome of the news (some women are patients of HBP and diabetes)?

. What’s the guarantee your father won’t repeat the mistake again??

JSYK: She’s untouchable to you. So marriage is out of the plan but if you can take the fall while she’s on baby mama stipend, then there’s no problem. But if your mom can stomach the news without you destroying the family. Then you can refuse.

Before you quote me, remember women have been hiding paternity fraud for ages and they’ve been forgiven. So there’s no harm in also forgiving a man

nwirinedu:
Spot on, the only mistake dad made was getting the maid pregnant. Asking the son to take the fall is wicked. The boy should tell his mum asap.
This is what wives get for being stingy with their cavities are agreeing to hire a good looking maid with curves and outsourcing their responsibilities.

Chilipepper:
My dad wants me to claim the pregnancy he is responsible for: man seeks help

Kobojunkie:
If your wife refuses you sex, you have every right to divorce her. Not shit on yourself by cheating and then come back when caught to play the victim. Any person who cheats in retaliation is just a despicable human being. Just divorce and go do you outside of marriage. .

Rhassidy360:
Pls do it for him it will go a long way bro. Safe him now you wont regret. Na your papa

Bahamas95:
All man for himself, his father should carry his cross......No responsible father would do that nonsense.


That kinda father can also kee someone tomorrow and tell him to claim responsibility and he'll go to prison for a crime he didn't commit.