₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
That's because you are insecure and certain that those single, unmarried female friends would invariably reveal to her how little value you truly bring to her existence, right? I grew up around your kind: men do all that is possible to isolate their wives from friends — outside support of their own—and family, in some cases, who could get in the way of them maintaining control over their wives.

2. Of course, keep her as isolated and blind to the truth of your real worth to her, abi?

1. You are one of those people

2. She has awesome friends that I know and even tells me about some of her friends I have not met.

EDGEof2MORO:
1. You are one of those people
2. She has awesome friends that I know and even tells me about some of her friends I have not met.

Then what are you still afraid of?

Kobojunkie:
Why do you people keep skirting the facts here?

The image I posted clearly informs you that, in the case of a gift, once the gift changes hands from the donor to the recipient, it becomes the property of the recipient. (It no longer matters that the donor has the receipt.) And once that has happened, forcibly retrieving a gift without consent(from the recipient) can be considered a crime, such as theft or forceful entry.

He may claimed he borrowed it to you

Kobojunkie:
When will Nigerian police step up and take seriously their duty to serve and protect the public, abeg? 🥱🥱🥱

See the audacity of these boys! They literally showed up in broad daylight to rob this woman's house, and expect us to believe they were doing some sort of good service. That woman should use this as evidence to have all of them charged and arrested, abeg.

How do you know it's unconditional gift? If u like go and date as a tool to escaping accountability as an adult this may happen to you, all these poor liabilities looking for who to sponsor their lazy ass. I pity uninformed men who spend their resources chasing women with zero accountability and then expect everything to go smoothly.

GENERALFRENKIE:
➜He may claimed he borrowed it to you

He would have to provide possible written documentation of this leasing of the items then, and prove that this was clearly communicated to the recipient, at the time of the exchange. 🥱🥱🥱

Baronthecelebri:
I support what the guy did

Yeah.
Even though it's illegal.
Some of our women are terrible.
They go into a relationship with the end already in sight, just to extort.

Kobojunkie:
Then what are you still afraid of?

your single unmarried life scares me. abeg find another topic jor. i am tired. go and disturb someone else

EDGEof2MORO:
➜your single unmarried life scares me. abeg find another topic jor. i am tired. go and disturb someone else

I am glad you admit, in your own words, that your married reality is not as happy as you formerly claimed, given that it is threatened by the existence of single, unmarried women out there who could potentially befriend your wife.

Shawarmagirl:
Advice to ALL ladies.

No matter how broke you are, never allow any man buy you a phone unless you are married or engage with him. Be managing your touch light, save and buy the phone yourself. Same goes with other items to save your dignity and pride.

even when married, don't. This guy will take this attitude to marriage

Kobojunkie:
I am glad you admit, in your own words, that your married reality is not as happy as you formerly claimed, given that it is threatened by the existence of single, unmarried women out there who could potentially befriend your wife.

of course it is threatened because you single unmarried women do not like seeing other women in happy marriages. Now, why are you still chatting with another woman's husband on nairaland even after he has passed his message clearly on the initial topic of the thread. Funny thing is that my wife is reading all these messages and laughing

thank you for the free entertainment

now, go away.

Diamond098454:
What can of nonsense is going on here? Why collecting them back? He has been sleeping with this girl, he has been knacking this lady

This is bad

Nack vs money, only prostitutes equate back and money (gifts)

The moment we see relationship beyond as a poverty eradication scheme in Nigeria the end of all of these. Do you know why 70 percent of relationships is always ended by those who didn't spend a dime(women) during the relationship? It's because what you didn't break a west for you don't care whether it works or not the moment a higher bidder comes that's the end.

Instead of you to be worried about what she also gave the guy you are talking of sex as if she was a prostitute in the relationship that should be paid for the sex as if she didn't also had sex with the guy just as the guy had sex with her.

When they say Nigerian ladies should work and get paid so they don't see themselves as sex objects offering sex to receive money in relationships you all will get agitated as if you will be giving your earnings to someone.

I have nothing to say than to laugh. 😂😂😂

Mirasteel:
I have nothing to say than to laugh. 😂😂😂

my own is that she should go and pack all the gifts she gave the boyfriend. No one is stopping her

EDGEof2MORO:
➜of course it is threatened because you single unmarried women do not like seeing other women in happy marriages.
➜ Now, why are you still chatting with another woman's husband on nairaland even after he has passed his message clearly on the initial topic of the thread. Funny thing is that my wife is reading all these messages and laughing thank you for the free entertainment now, go away.

1. So, rather than take accountability for your marriage existing in an obviously fragile state, you would rather look for ways to blame third parties? I told you earlier that I grew up around many tiny-brained men such as yourself, right?

2. You mean this other woman's husband, who is desperately trying to make it seem all women are a threat and problem with his marriage, right? Nonsense! 🥱🥱🥱🥱

pansophist:
As for me and my household, we support equality.

The girl should also storm the guy’s house with her squad and pack everything she bought for the guy, shikena.

That's only if she bought anything for the guy. 😂 in Nigeria relationship, the guy is always the ATM.

Afriifa:
I don't want to insult you but ya making it so hard. Relationship is a contract. The fact that if you gift a girl something you can't get it back after break up does not make the one that do it a bad person. Everybody has their ways. I personally, don't have problem with a guy wanting to retrieve things he got for a girl during their relationship if things goes south. She should also go and get her things back. So you mean if your sister got a guy a TV during their courtship and things goes south, if you believe there is nothing that same guy gifted your sister to equal the worth of that TV gift, you will not talk your girl or go there yourself to retrieve the TV? you want his new woman to come and enjoy the TV?

I will support taking back gifts if the girl was the one who left the relationship unjustly.
A guy that buys so much for a girl truly want to be with her however if the guy begin the manifest some bad behaviour is another thing. Relationship can be complicated anyways.

EDGEof2MORO:
my own is that she should go and pack all the gifts she gave the boyfriend. No one is stopping her

That's only if she bought gifts for him.

Mirasteel:
That's only if she bought gifts for him.

Diamond098454:
What can of nonsense is going on here? Why collecting them back? He has been sleeping with this girl, he has been knacking this lady

This is bad

and she has been taking who since?
The air?? Or her father?
She moan abi she no moan?
She said "baby no comot am" ,abi she no talk am?


So you are one of those funny mind who after consenting to mutually enjoyed sex you still believe you are doing the man a favour like the lady was having a pain or she was raped?






No use this brain train kids ooooooo

pansophist:
As for me and my household, we support equality.

The girl should also storm the guy’s house with her squad and pack everything she bought for the guy, shikena.

she no fit now;na boxers and turning stick she wan collect back be dat

Kobojunkie:
As long as that thing, whatever it is, is on someone else's property, you need to follow due process in obtaining your property.

If you kicked a ball into your neighbor's property, you don't say that because the ball has your name on it, that means you can just waltz into your neighbor's compound to get it.

Stop wasting your energy;at no point in the video did it seemed that the guy didn't pre_inform her?


Be intelligent,listen and be observant,didn't you see that they had known that he is coming and that is why they separated his stuffs(the room is disorganised?).
They were expecting him.

You are only defending facade bro,your points are standing on emotions .


I JUST HOPE YOU ARE NOT A LAWYER

Diamond098454:
What can of nonsense is going on here? Why collecting them back? He has been sleeping with this girl, he has been knacking this lady

This is bad

That means the lady is a hooker and it is best she storm the street and make it a profession.

Between both enjoyed the rendezvous and equating it to financial income speaks about your mindset

Kobojunkie:
I would instead advise her not to date kids anymore, and make certain that she knows to call the police next time she encounters such hooligans in the future.

He who furnished her room is the kid but she who benefitted is the what?




You need to leave feeding bottle bro and grow up.

Kobojunkie:
When will Nigerian police step up and take seriously their duty to serve and protect the public, abeg? 🥱🥱🥱

See the audacity of these boys! They literally showed up in broad daylight to rob this woman's house, and expect us to believe they were doing some sort of good service. That woman should use this as evidence to have all of them charged and arrested, abeg.

All of this only holds if the items gifted is in her name ..

Silentgroper:
➜All of this only holds if the items gifted is in her name ..

Wrong! Go back and re-read what the legal suggests instead. A gift does not need to come with a receipt or a name attached. It simply needs to be delivered and completely gifted by a donor to a recipient.

Mamaafrik1:
➜He who furnished her room is the kid but she who benefitted is the what? You need to leave feeding bottle bro and grow up.

Kids are able to take back gifts— of course, parents are supposed to teach them better about not taking things back that they have given to others. However, adults are under the law, and the law is clear that forcibly taking gifts back may earn them charges of theft and home invasion.

adamkkk:
weak man, that's Y i respect my cousin...


Got a young gal, rented a house for the gal, furnished it, and bought her a car... After a while, he got bored of the gal... it doesn't av to be drama.


My sister was insisting he claimed those things back, my cousin says that stress is bad for his skin. He just like giving, not for the puss. She can take it and live her life... it won't bite his account for being nice

Sent millions to that ungrateful gal, broke up with her and didn't take the money out... He said he knew it(the relationship) won't work but he just lyk to give


This is real, not a made up story

If u don't have money, don't date... Don't go about stacking investments on a gal if you know u won't be able to let it go... it wrong from all front to be a cheap man.

.. pls tell your cuz not to ever stop ...

He should keep doing that with every girl he meets..

They say experience is the best teacher ..


Gracias

Kobojunkie:
He would have to provide possible written documentation of this leasing of the items then, and prove that this was clearly communicated to the recipient, at the time of the exchange. 🥱🥱🥱

What of transfer of ownership? If you gifted a car or even a TV to your girlfriend but the receipts and documents are still in your name, what happens if you want your items back?

Kobojunkie:
Wrong! Go back and re-read what the legal suggests instead. A gift does not need to come with a receipt or a name attached. It simply needs to be delivered and completely gifted by a donor to a recipient.

How can you prove a vehicle was gifted to you, without receipt or other documentation? You would need documentation before the vehicle is allowed to change ownership, and have it registered in your name.

wirinet:
➜What of transfer of ownership? If you gifted a car or even a TV to your girlfriend but the receipts and documents are still in your name, what happens if you want your items back?

If the documents of the car are not in the gift recipient's name, then the donor can argue that it was not meant as a gift in that case, but would likely need to provide communication that makes this claim explicitly known to the other party.

But if you gift a person a car, you make certain at that point that all documents on the car are in that person's name. That much is known to all.

wirinet:
➜How can you prove a vehicle was gifted to you, without receipt or other documentation? You would need documentation before the vehicle is allowed to change ownership, and have it registered in your name.

Usually, when folks gift cars to others, they ensure the documents pertaining to the vehicle, not necessarily the receipt that was used to purchase it, are transferred to the recipient. This ain't nothing new to any of us.

placeofallure:
Knowing Nigerian youths for what they are, he must have bought all of these, while she paid back with her body. The relationship is most probably transactional. How does she quantify and recover her body that the guy has so misused and battered mercilessly? Just how?

If I were her, those things move nowhere!

Lol .. bruhhh . This gender are unbelievable ..

Didn't the girl have a taste of his penis too ..

How's he going to recover all the hours of trying to please her or make her come during the coitus they have had .. How would he recover from all the pains in wanting the girl to feel good or basically even using his mouth to stimulate her for the purpose of achieving orgasm .. As long as that girl or any girl orgasm during each coitus then there's nothing to quantify here ... Since they both achieved their aim of the process...