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To all the homies and sharp boys who think themselves very smart for marrying a virgin after all their disvirgining kerewas out there, do you see what has happened to your brother who had even done this earlier?

https://www.nairaland.com/8563521/mature-people-only-need-advice/1#137516008

See how the plan did not work and check his threads, he has been complaining and lamenting since, but now it is about to shëlē!

Wise men fear God!

It’s virgin or nothing bro..

1,000 threads can not change that fact..

Don’t play..

Wait, just because I married a virgin, I'm supposed to suddenly start caring what she does? Nope. For a man, the core reason for marriage is to have children—procreation. Everything else is secondary or optional. Just because one situation didn't work out doesn't mean the whole concept is flawed; it just means that particular woman wasn't skilled enough to hide her 'game.'

Meanwhile, the women who have been in a hundred relationships? They can easily be with you for ten years and you'd never know what they were up to on the side. They might have another relationship for 10 years why you’re thinking she’s your ‘sweetie’ and the crazy part is that it might be her ex and she’ll be seeing you as a weak man.

Also, let's be real: just because a girl is a virgin doesn't mean she's clueless about sex, especially nowadays. Not having done one thing doesn't mean she’s innocent about everything else. If she's got enough knowledge about other things, she's probably bound to explore eventually.

Even if you marry a virgin, you absolutely need to run DNA tests—more than once—just to be totally safe. Marrying a virgin is like buying a crate of good eggs: if two are rotten, it doesn't mean the whole batch is bad. But marrying a woman with a high body count? That's like going for the bargain bin crate of cheap eggs where there's zero guarantee that even half of them will be good.

PulaPower:
It’s virgin or nothing bro..

1,000 threads can not change that fact..

Don’t play..

Carry on ooo. I am not tired of watching you people's moves.

SpencerForbes:
Wait, just because I married a virgin, I'm supposed to suddenly start caring what she does? Nope. For a man, the core reason for marriage is to have children—procreation. Everything else is secondary or optional....

Is like nobody has told you that you are talking rubbish. I wish I could see you toasting a girl and your point is that you want her just because she has eggs, ovaries and a womb.

But, no problem. It's your show and our watching

Dtruthspeaker:
Is like nobody has told you that you are talking rubbish. I wish I could see you toasting a girl and your point is that you want her just because she has eggs, ovaries and a womb.

Why else do you want to marry, so she can help you in old age😂😂😂 wake up boy, wake up. If I read your post sometimes I just wonder which planet you’re from Just because you married a b2b midfielder doesn’t mean we all will do the same. And wash that nonsense thought that anybody is coming for you. NOT EVEN YOUR CHILD!!! That’s how you lot bother the next generation with your burdens.

Ladies are free to choose the high and classy wealthy men but if we men demand standard (just one) we’re the villains. I pity any man that doesn’t have self esteem.

Keep settling for less. Any woman that cannot respect you— virgin or not is not meant to be with you. Accept that!!! and that trait is mainly exhibited by women that have lost emotional connection because of what she knows she can get from another man.

They think we are not bright 🌞

"The leather on seat of tear-rubber car isn't comfortable for behind so.... Buy Tokunboh "

God forbid.

PulaPower:
It’s virgin or nothing bro..

1,000 threads can not change that fact..

Don’t play..

If you like talk from today till rapture, I'll take my chances with a virgin

Another noise.

It is like mocking someone that bought a brandnew car fresh from the factory while you are driving a tenth hand car with 2 million km mileage.

SpencerForbes:
Why else do you want to marry, so she can help you in old age😂😂😂 wake up boy, wake up. If I read your post sometimes I just wonder which planet you’re from Just because you married a b2b midfielder doesn’t mean we all will do the same. And wash that nonsense thought that anybody is coming for you. NOT EVEN YOUR CHILD!!! That’s how you lot bother the next generation with your burdens.

Not everyone is as narrow as you are.

Secondly, no where do you see me forcing anyone to follow me and neither am I the one complaining about marriage.

So, keep on carrying out your plans, it is not me who will complain and lament when it does not play out as you planned it

SpencerForbes:
Ladies are free to choose the high and classy wealthy men but if we men demand standard (just one) we’re the villains. I pity any man that doesn’t have self esteem.

Keep settling for less. Any woman that cannot respect you— virgin or not is not meant to be with you. Accept that!!! and that trait is mainly exhibited by women that have lost emotional connection because of what she knows she can get from another man.

You obviously do not real eyes that you are talking about marriage. Which means that you have gotten your chosen choice. So marriage now means that it is time to live with your chosen choice.

And that's when the movie begins and I love real life movies, so carry on let's see how you play this life.

xareal:
If you like talk from today till rapture, I'll take my chat chances with a virgin

See, the broda up took his chance. Maybe you will do better

jmoore:
Another noise.

It is like mocking someone that bought a brandnew car fresh from the factory while you are driving a tenth hand car with 2 million km mileage.

Will the brand new car still remain brand new and mile-none after you have bought it?

Will you not over mileage that first 2 weeks?

Anyway, I am not even trying to mock you guys, I am just saying hot problems are waiting for you guys as the guy up has experienced. That is all

A virgin is the best.

Dtruthspeaker:
You obviously do not real eyes that you are talking about marriage. Which means that you have gotten your chosen choice. So marriage now means that it is time to live with your chosen choice.

And that's when the movie begins and I love real life movies, so carry on let's see how you play this life.

Nah…. Instead of me thinking of happy endings, I rather think of worst possible scenarios and how to maneuver them. Reduces surprises

So if I marry a virgin, I don’t have to start watching if she cheats or not. Before I get married, I’ll make sure I marry someone that respect me and not necessarily love. She she respects you there’s nothing to fear.

If she values the marriage, she’ll behave. But if she doesn’t want to, she’s free to go. Shikena!!!

dollypi:
A virgin is the best.

Come to think of it. Uncle Ned Nwoko married a virgin, and we can all see the movie that is playing out.

SpencerForbes:
Nah…. Instead of me thinking of happy endings, I rather think of worst possible scenarios and how to maneuver them. Reduces surprises

So if I marry a virgin, I don’t have to start watching if she cheats or not. Before I get married, I’ll make sure I marry someone that respect me and not necessarily love. She she respects you there’s nothing to fear.

If she values the marriage, she’ll behave. But if she doesn’t want to, she’s free to go. Shikena!!!

Ok.

Just that I would love to watch your own movie

Any girl you see is still virgin at 24 upward in this digital age, I advise the luck guy to go to 7 different mountains to pray about her.

90% chances the luck man will regret his actions, I'm very sure virgin crews are guys below 30 years, not yet graduated from formative stage.

@Dtruthspeaker I really Want to understand your moral philosophy? Are you Against marrying of Virgins or What Bruv I don't get it. Because of someone's experience you use it to make final judgement?

Dtruthspeaker:
Ok.

Just that I would love to watch your own movie

Too many guys are thinking with their third legs instead of their actual heads. Nobody is claiming a virgin is automatically perfect, but it's about choosing the lesser of two evils or the greater good. There’s a much higher probability that a virgin hasn't developed deep emotional attachments to a bunch of other men before you.

We need to stop thinking about choosing the 'best wife' for ourselves and start thinking about the mother for our kids. Seriously, what kind of morals do you think a promiscuous wife is going to teach your daughters?

I guarantee you, every single man would feel a burst of pride if his wife honestly told his daughter she was a virgin when they met. Compare that feeling to the guy who knows his wife is lying about her past!

Personally, I don't even like the idea of relying on a woman for emotional support (loneliness or boredom) I’ll choose my guy friends for that anytime. If a wife decides to become promiscuous after marriage, the joke is truly on her. She'll be the one losing everything, and honestly, she'll be super easy to catch

SpencerForbes:
Also, let's be real: just because a girl is a virgin doesn't mean she's clueless about sex, especially nowadays. Not having done one thing doesn't mean she’s innocent about everything else. If she's got enough knowledge about other things, she's probably bound to explore eventually.

I agree with you on this. These days, some virgins are actually more sexually exposed than people who’ve already had partners.

Many of them have already gone far with intimate activities such as kissing, smooching, even sucking deek and swallowing. They watch adult content on their phones and masturbate regularly.

And let me surprise you. Most virgins actually enjoy sex conversations more than people who are already sexually active. Some of them are extremely naughty and engage in nasty discussions very comfortably.

And once they finally have sex, most lose that initial restraint and may become curious about exploring with other partners. This is where cheating comes into play despite the fact that you met her a virgin.

Virginity has its value no doubt, but at the end of the day, character, discipline, and self-control are what truly matter when choosing a spouse.

Dtruthspeaker:
Will the brand new car still remain brand new and mile-none after you have bought it?

Will you not over mileage that first 2 weeks?

Anyway, I am not even trying to mock you guys, I am just saying hot problems are waiting for you guys as the guy up has experienced. That is all

You go explain tire. You are free to marry ashaw. Let those that want virgins go for it.

Why is their choice giving you migraine?

Nazgul:
I agree with you on this. These days, some virgins are actually more sexually exposed than people who’ve already had partners.

Many of them have already gone far with intimate activities such as kissing, smooching, even sucking deek and swallowing. They watch adult content on their phones and masturbate regularly.

And let me surprise you. Most virgins actually enjoy sex conversations more than people who are already sexually active. Some of them are extremely naughty and engage in nasty discussions very comfortably.

And once they finally have sex, most lose that initial restraint and may become curious about exploring with other partners. This is where cheating comes into play despite the fact that you met her a virgin.

Virginity has its value no doubt, but at the end of the day, character, discipline, and self-control are what truly matter when choosing a spouse.

since I’m free, let me ‘kwarapt’ the thread
We basically have three types of virgins

Religious Virgins: These are the ones who abstain purely because of their faith—like nuns, monks, or devout Christians/Muslims. Their commitment is rooted in their spiritual beliefs.

Traditional Virgins: Their abstinence is guided by culture, family rules, or the expectations of the family they're marrying into. It's about honoring tradition and family expectations.

Feminist Virgins: Now this is the twist! These are the ones who want to break their hymen entirely on their own terms. They aren't holding out for a husband or marriage; they believe in using intimacy gadgets to deflower themselves. They see it as a personal experiment to test and understand their own sexuality and limits.

And you're right, we are seeing way more of that third category than the first two.

surprisingly. The issue is, when guys marry them, they think they're marrying a traditional 'queen,' but the virginity was never actually about the man or the marriage—it was a personal goal. So, once they lose it (often not to the husband, or because of a personal choice), all hell breaks loose because their initial motivation was totally self-centered.

Ultimately, the goal isn't just to marry a virgin; the goal is to marry a virgin who also has virtues. They are rare, sure, but if you find that mix, you’ve probably found something truly worthwhile and lasting.

If virgin can be that bad,now imagine non virgin. She go too disgrace you outside brah

Virgin is still better.

Man no even suppose pay bride price for woman wey many guys done tear,na only virgins deserve bride price..I no Dey like buy used accessories,na only new I Dey like..

Who Dem go give tear rubber say no say nay fairly and public use him want?

Nbanu

Virgin girls for life.

Dtruthspeaker:
To all the homies and sharp boys who think themselves very smart for marrying a virgin after all their disvirgining kerewas out there, do you see what has happened to your brother who had even done this earlier?

https://www.nairaland.com/8563521/mature-people-only-need-advice/1#137516008

See how the plan did not work and check his threads, he has been complaining and lamenting since, but now it is about to shëlē!

Wise men fear God!

Marry your olosho in peace.

Let others marry their virgins in peace too

PulaPower:
It’s virgin or nothing bro..

1,000 threads can not change that fact..

Don’t play..

Since you started searching for virgins, haven't you seen any, or you are not ready, or you are looking someone's child to spoil, cho cho cho are your sisters virgin

Gggjhhj:
Since you started searching for virgins, haven't you seen any, or you are not ready, or you are looking someone's child to spoil, cho cho cho are your sisters virgin

Seriously though, is he trying to live his sister's life for her? 😂 Someone is talking about his own family decisions, and suddenly his sisters are part of the conversation. Plus, how do you even know his sisters aren't already married?

Not everyone is looking for a virgin bride, anyway. Some guys actually prefer women who are experienced, especially in the oza room , but others have simply decided they want a virgin. That's a personal choice, and it should be respected.

The main takeaway here is that marriage isn't something you should ever rush into. You absolutely have to lay down a solid foundation before committing. If you rush the entrance, you're almost certainly going to rush the exit.
And one more thing: how exactly does his decision to marry a virgin ‘spoil someone’s daughter life? That makes zero sense.

Gggjhhj:
Since you started searching for virgins, haven't you seen any, or you are not ready, or you are looking someone's child to spoil, cho cho cho are your sisters virgin

Not just ready to marry yet, if not, virgin nah water 💦