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Kobojunkie:
If all the value you offer a woman in a relationship with you is the money you bring to her in the relationship, then be sure that she can and should rightly dump you when she no longer has a benefit to gain from being with you.

Even if, in your mind, you convince yourself that you are working hard enough, again, if your hard work DOES NOT translate to something of value to the woman, then yes, she has every reason to leave you.It is that simple!🥱🥱🥱

and that is why you will remain single forever

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No matter how hard you tried the day you don’t give her , she will dump you the next dick.

That why you don’t need waste your time if you are doing Legitimate work/business to date someone who is not doing anything only depends on you to take care of her .

leave these women abeg. they are a special breed.

legionISproteus:
➜and that is why you will remain single forever

Where were you born with your dick attached to a vagina that you would suggest that being single forever is some sort of curse on your life?

legionISproteus:
did you send this messages to yourself for content?

If you think so

legionISproteus:
➜and that is why you will remain single forever

Well, if you are this afraid of being alone with your own energy, that says a lot about your inability to love other human beings, do you know that? I suggest you spend time learning to be comfortable alone with your own self first, so you can better learn how to "love your neighbor as you love yourself". Otherwise, you will spend your life chasing shadows.

legionISproteus:
did you send this messages to yourself for content?

.

Take her to a barber.

Gid butter yiur bread .. she no get parents?

If na me I go just reply with okay

Kobojunkie:
. She says she deserves better. So, yes, let her go, and you, too, can move on to finding yourself a woman well within your range. Work on getting a woman you can afford, or better still, put all of your energy into building your financial capacity and strength so you don't run up against the same issue again.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

If this is true then good riddance to bad rubbish. You will get better. Thank GOD she used her own hand to remove herself.

If this is false, then go find something better to do with your time.

Kobojunkie:
. She says she deserves better. So, yes, let her go, and you, too, can move on to finding yourself a woman well within your range. Work on getting a woman you can afford, or better still, put all of your energy into building your financial capacity and strength so you don't run up against the same issue again.

I like the guy ghosting… crazy entitled people,e even try Dey do am sub

Go to church and do thanksgiving tomorrow... You just escaped from one bullet... I thank God for you

Bro,you won

Kobojunkie:
So, a woman asking her man for money to take care of her hair needs is a street girl?

Why bother dating women when you are not willing to give even the bare minimum where dating is concerned? Why even engage women if you know you have nothing to offer them?

If the OP cannot give her what she "deserves". What she needs is not a change of boyfriend but to get a JOB. Please stop being ignominious

A lady that can't afford the basic things she needs is saying that she deserves better. It's all right, but with whose money?

If you deserve better, you should be able to grind your way up to be able to afford the basic things you need for yourself as a lady; not hoping that one man should be the one to do that for you.

I can see that you are not serious with your life with this type of delusional reasoning coming from you as a lady.

One commenter up there is saying op should go for a woman he can afford. I want to ask if women of this generation have turned themselves to commodities that men need to afford at all cost.

Op, do not reply that message. You can never tame a lady whose eyes👁️👁️ are already outside.

Friends Don KOBALISE dis one again.... Now e Don backfire.... Why is she expecting a response again? She wan use emotional blackmail, but Bobo Don read in between the lines. May that spirit of entitlement die amongst some of our ladies in Jesus name... AMENNNNNNN!!!

irumole1975:
I didn’t know what to say so I just left her on read. And I liked one of the msgs where she prayed for me. I wish her well tho

Bro, you don't need anybody to tell you that this girl is for temporary time. it shows her threat or she has seen another guy. Please don't respond to any of her both call or message till after February. The question is that is she not working?, what you have been for her is not enough, you are not her father.

Kobojunkie:
. She says she deserves better. So, yes, let her go, and you, too, can move on to finding yourself a woman well within your range. Work on getting a woman you can afford, or better still, put all of your energy into building your financial capacity and strength so you don't run up against the same issue again.

. So women are commodity that we should strive to afford. Na people like you (dumb brain) Dey make women think that they come this life to live off men and feel stupidly entitled. What’s she adding to the young man’s life if she cannot afford data, airtime or even pay for her own hair. Abi no be person born her. Why can’t she channel her entitlement to people responsible for her family

even if with a job or something's to eat i just give a birth, but it was saddens that we lost the dad of my kids with my teaching job, try to you shall never fall in to the hands of your enemies and your haters... and this my acct

Who carry this talk come front page?

Nigeria dey bleed you dey talk of girlfriend leave U becos of hair money....na wa oo

Kobojunkie:
. She says she deserves better. So, yes, let her go, and you, too, can move on to finding yourself a woman well within your range. Work on getting a woman you can afford, or better still, put all of your energy into building your financial capacity and strength so you don't run up against the same issue again.

Never date a broke girl

I’m always extra crafty with my money with any lady that I date. In fact, there was a time I did an investment through my ex. It was time to collect the profit , she didn’t know I had gone behind her back to change the withdrawal account from her account to mine. When money dropped I saw almost 80% and the rest went to her account. Come and see drama. I asked for her to send the remaining. That’s how she started showing her entitlement mentality. I quickly escalated the matter. I ensured I collected all my money to the last kobo. I don’t joke with my money especially with women. Aside basic financial bail out of 2k 3k, bill me beyond this range, I go just start to dey give excuse till she’s tired. When you realize women plenty even better than the current one giving you attitude, you won’t get pressured by any woman ever again.

RealityKings1:
No, Go through the chat, she can't afford to do anything for herself.
She can't even afford her own airtime and data nor make her own hair. A hungry dog has many owners

The bone of contention here is that she needs a job or ask her own father and mother for hair money. She can't be making the guy feel PRESSURED like he's broke and can't afford things when it's obvious she's the problem.

A hungry dog has many owners

A hungry dog has many owners!

This statement should be framed and hanged up in your sitting room kobojunkie so you can see it every morning.

Op, you just dodged a cannon ball. I know you are young but beware of leeches like these ones when you intend settling down. EOD

Kobojunkie:
So, a woman asking her man for money to take care of her hair needs is a street girl?

Why bother dating women when you are not willing to give even the bare minimum where dating is concerned? Why even engage women if you know you have nothing to offer them?

any girl who asks money from a guy is a street girl...
if you don't have or don't give.. they call it quits

that's how you know it's about money and not love... it's a street life

find a responsible girl who is not jobless

irumole1975:
I didn’t know what to say so I just left her on read. And I liked one of the msgs where she prayed for me. I wish her well tho

Congratulations..

One down... Many more to go

You are a champion sir, keep it up. Don't even reply her again. Let her ask her father for money.

Kobojunkie:
So, a woman asking her man for money to take care of her hair needs is a street girl?

Why bother dating women when you are not willing to give even the bare minimum where dating is concerned? Why even engage women if you know you have nothing to offer them?

Which dating rule says a man must give a woman the money to make her hair? Or that you must take care of a woman's financial needs because you are dating her?
What does dating really mean to you girls of nowadays?
And what do you "dated" women have to offer except dragging equality and arguing women rights with a man? Same man you expect to care of your needs as if you are handicapped.

irumole1975:
I didn’t know what to say so I just left her on read. And I liked one of the msgs where she prayed for me. I wish her well tho

You did well. You're not her father...just a boyfriend

Even the subs you did for her is not your responsibility