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My Husband's Mason Stole My Purse, Should I Confront Him? by Caaz(op): 9:19pm On Nov 19, 2025
This afternoon when my husband and I returned from site....we felt we needed to rest and we headed home.

Hubs said he was craving noodles and I prepared it for him,i was in my garden getting bell peppers and tomatoes when my hubs worker suddenly checked in on us.

I welcomed him in...told him to feel at home.....i came inside and started drilling the holes in my wardrope to fix the handle.

But since i was also cooking,i told my husband to take over while i tend to my noodles.

So he was left completely with my husband at the sitting room....gisting while my husband was drilling the handle of the wardrope.

Caaz:
I remember calling my husband twice asking if he would need chicken added to the Noodles,and he told me no.

Meanwhile when we entered our home from the site.. I carelessly left my hand bag ontop the teevee stand unzipped and the miniature purse attached to the bag.

We entertained him and the rest....it was only when he left i noticed the miniature purse missing....my atms were inside my bag even my other small wallet.

I could recall i was in the kitchen when he left in a jiffy....i waved it off....only to realised later that the miniature purse attached to my handbag has disappeared.

Feel at home nor mean say steal from me nau.
Re: My Husband's Mason Stole My Purse, Should I Confront Him? by VOsimhen144(m): 9:23pm On Nov 19, 2025
Your mistake was telling him to feel at home grin
Charity begins at home.. now that baba felt he’s at home,, u want to confront him?
Re: My Husband's Mason Stole My Purse, Should I Confront Him? by Caaz(op):
I remember calling my husband twice asking if he would need chicken added to the Noodles,and he told me no.

Meanwhile when we entered our home from the site.. I carelessly left my hand bag ontop the teevee stand unzipped and the miniature purse attached to the bag.


We entertained him and the rest....it was only when he left i noticed the miniature purse missing....my atms were inside my bag even my other small wallet.


I could recall i was in the kitchen when he left in a jiffy....i waved it off....only to realised later that the miniature purse attached to my handbag has disappeared.


Feel at home nor mean say steal from me nau.
Re: My Husband's Mason Stole My Purse, Should I Confront Him? by Sonnobax15(m): 9:26pm On Nov 19, 2025
lipsrsealed
Hehehe,Dem don run my sister street cheesy

What else do you expect, after you already told him to feel at home cheesy. So he felt more than at home cheesy

But honestly,I think you should confront him undecided. Especially if he was the only one around,at the time the whole thing took place undecided

Na WA.
Re: My Husband's Mason Stole My Purse, Should I Confront Him? by Caaz(op): 9:29pm On Nov 19, 2025
I drew my husband attention to it and he said the miniature purse might fallen on our way home.

I told him.... NO
That i m certained when i kept my handbag that the miniature purse was there.

And this human being na choir for my husband church o....he said i should let it slide that he would give me money to buy another color of the same handbag.


Why re some humanbeing like this?

Re: My Husband's Mason Stole My Purse, Should I Confront Him? by Caaz(op): 9:30pm On Nov 19, 2025
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Hehehe,Dem don run my sister street cheesy

What else do you expect, after you already told him to feel at home cheesy. So he felt more than at home cheesy

Na WA.
Feed at home nor mean say.....dagbo me.
Re: My Husband's Mason Stole My Purse, Should I Confront Him? by Sonnobax15(m): 9:31pm On Nov 19, 2025
Caaz:
Feed at home nor mean say.....dagbo me.
grin. Dem don use you jump fence oh cheesy
Re: My Husband's Mason Stole My Purse, Should I Confront Him? by Caaz(op): 9:46pm On Nov 19, 2025
Sonnobax15:
grin. Dem don use you jump fence oh cheesy
We go break the fence,cement back.


I looseguard nor get small.
Re: My Husband's Mason Stole My Purse, Should I Confront Him? by Caaz(op): 9:47pm On Nov 19, 2025
VOsimhen144:
Your mistake was telling him to feel at home grin
Charity begins at home.. now that baba felt he’s at home,, u want to confront him?
Ko da nau....o wrong gan.
Re: My Husband's Mason Stole My Purse, Should I Confront Him? by Caaz(op): 9:51pm On Nov 19, 2025
Husband said i shouldnt and i should let it slide....i thought choir members re jesus disciples?
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Hehehe,Dem don run my sister street cheesy

What else do you expect, after you already told him to feel at home cheesy. So he felt more than at home cheesy

But honestly,I think you should confront him undecided. Especially if he was the only one around,at the time the whole thing took place undecided

Na WA.
Re: My Husband's Mason Stole My Purse, Should I Confront Him? by Demetrix: 9:51pm On Nov 19, 2025
Before you confront him, just be prepared to lose the friendship and the purse together. If you can afford this,go ahead. It is actually pointless confronting him as the best thing is to keep him at arms length.
Re: My Husband's Mason Stole My Purse, Should I Confront Him? by correctyourself(m):
Caaz:
This afternoon when my husband and I returned from site....we felt we needed to rest and we headed home.


Hubs said he was craving noodles and I prepared it for him,i was in my garden getting bell peppers and tomatoes when my hubs worker suddenly checked in on us.


I welcomed him in...told him to feel at home.....i came inside and started drilling the holes in my wardrope to fix the handle.


But since i was also cooking,i told my husband to take over while i tend to my noodles.



So he was left completely with my husband at the sitting room....



Cc:
nlfpmod
Dominique
But how come you a married woman choose to put this part of your body on your profile picture?

Well una husband dey o. With this you don't need to ask someone to feel at home o, the home is ready 😂
Re: My Husband's Mason Stole My Purse, Should I Confront Him? by Sonnobax15(m): 9:53pm On Nov 19, 2025
Caaz:
Husband said i shouldnt and i should let it slide....i thought choir members re jesus disciples?
grin grin grin. Were all the disciples of Jesus Christ not former criminals? angry.

Well, just count your losses and move on grin
Re: My Husband's Mason Stole My Purse, Should I Confront Him? by Caaz(op): 9:57pm On Nov 19, 2025
Sonnobax15:
grin grin grin. Were all the disciples of Jesus Christ not former criminals? angry.

Well, just count your losses and move on grin
Na only judas be the oda'le in the pack.
Re: My Husband's Mason Stole My Purse, Should I Confront Him? by Caaz(op):
correctyourself:
But how come you a married woman choose to put this part of your body on your profile picture?

Well una husband dey o. With this you don't need to ask someone to feel at home o, the home is ready 😂
Seem you re used to married women tying wrapper and smelling like hot zoborodo.... Oga abeg face front.

What is wrong with my profile pics?
Wor korebe...as your brain Brief,na so your intestines Brief too


Dem go check you well o.

Re: My Husband's Mason Stole My Purse, Should I Confront Him? by correctyourself(m):
Caaz:
Seem you re used to married women tying wrapper and smelling like eja.... Oga abeg face front.


Dem go check you well o.
You would have just removed the pieces of paper on top of your lap! 😂 to make u special.

To tell you the truth, leave this post for single ladies it's not for married women
Re: My Husband's Mason Stole My Purse, Should I Confront Him? by Kaczynski: 2:04am On Nov 20, 2025
so you could not confront the guy that took your purse but instead choose to share it here with a bunch of internet lusers


make my knee bend if this is true and not some hallucinated gibberish from your head

Re: My Husband's Mason Stole My Purse, Should I Confront Him? by Baronthecelebri(m): 3:09am On Nov 20, 2025
Swear for him and his entire family
Re: My Husband's Mason Stole My Purse, Should I Confront Him? by sisisioge: 4:24am On Nov 20, 2025
Please tread with caution o. You mentioned that the your ATM and other wallet were in the actual bag. If those were not stolen, it is curious that the alleged thief only stole the small purse. Biko if nothing dey the stolen purse, leave the matter as is. Your husband might be correct that it fell off.

I remember complaining to my sister that her friend stole something of mine because it went missing when she was around. I even called the alleged thief jokingly to ask if she's sure she didn't mistakenly pack with her stuff when leaving. Imagine my shame when I eventually found the missing item.....biko don't be like me. The babe I accused found the whole accusation funny because it was just my favorite pair of scissors, your visitor may not fund it funny fa.

Just count your loss and move on. May God replenish your purse a gazillion fold!
Re: My Husband's Mason Stole My Purse, Should I Confront Him? by Caaz(op): 4:35am On Nov 20, 2025
Nne E nor fall off, na me carry the handbag come house,like i stated before i kept it atop the teevee stand.i know wetin i dey talk,i saw the purse when i was using the drilling machine to drill,before asking oga to take over.
sisisioge:
Please tread with caution o. You mentioned that the your ATM and other wallet were in the actual bag. If those were not stolen, it is curious that the alleged thief only stole the small purse. Biko if nothing dey the stolen purse, leave the matter as is. Your husband might be correct that it fell off.

I remember complaining to my sister that her friend stole something of mine because it went missing when she was around. I even called the alleged thief jokingly to ask if she's sure she didn't mistakenly pack with her stuff when leaving. Imagine my shame when I eventually found the missing item.....biko don't be like me. The babe I accused found the whole accusation funny because it was just my favorite pair of scissors, your visitor may not fund it funny fa.

Just count your loss and move on. May God replenish your purse a gazillion fold!
Oga said i should let it slide,that he would get me another one.
I m only pained because we think highly of him at home.
Re: My Husband's Mason Stole My Purse, Should I Confront Him? by sisisioge: 4:54am On Nov 20, 2025
Caaz:
Nne E nor fall off, na me carry the handbag come house,like i stated before i kept it atop the teevee stand.i know wetin i dey talk,i saw the purse when i was using the drilling machine to drill,before asking oga to take over.

Oga said i should let it slide,that he would get me another one.
I m only pained because we think highly of him at home.
I understand you....let him boss replace it. All is now good and dandy grin
Re: My Husband's Mason Stole My Purse, Should I Confront Him? by FalseProphet1(m): 10:13am On Nov 20, 2025
Call down the fire on him and he'll return it ASAP.

This I have seen.
Re: My Husband's Mason Stole My Purse, Should I Confront Him? by IamPlato(m): 10:14am On Nov 20, 2025
Somebody stole from you, you are asking if you should confront him.

Reward him
Re: My Husband's Mason Stole My Purse, Should I Confront Him? by Offpoint1: 10:16am On Nov 20, 2025
Feel at home and took something from my home... How is that stealing?
Re: My Husband's Mason Stole My Purse, Should I Confront Him? by Greenback: 10:17am On Nov 20, 2025
Caaz:
Nne E nor fall off, na me carry the handbag come house,like i stated before i kept it atop the teevee stand.i know wetin i dey talk,i saw the purse when i was using the drilling machine to drill,before asking oga to take over.

Oga said i should let it slide,that he would get me another one.
I m only pained because we think highly of him at home.
You people should try and finish up your stories nahhhh,what now happened to your arm cards,what have you done to secure your accounts and other stuff?
Re: My Husband's Mason Stole My Purse, Should I Confront Him? by Greenback: 10:19am On Nov 20, 2025
sisisioge:
I understand you....let him boss replace it. All is now good and dandy grin
All is now good and bla bla bla,what about the stolen or lost ATM cards?

Women and children behaviour sef!ê
Re: My Husband's Mason Stole My Purse, Should I Confront Him? by airsaylongcome: 10:21am On Nov 20, 2025
Caaz:
Feed at home nor mean say.....dagbo me.
This one wey u dey use "dagbo".... U be Warri?
Re: My Husband's Mason Stole My Purse, Should I Confront Him? by thisisit: 10:22am On Nov 20, 2025
THIS WOMAN IS CRUSHING ON THE ......,.
Re: My Husband's Mason Stole My Purse, Should I Confront Him? by UkoAnnang(m): 10:23am On Nov 20, 2025
Don't ask Nairaland members for contact details (email, phone, bbpin) or investments.
Re: My Husband's Mason Stole My Purse, Should I Confront Him? by Olu1000: 10:25am On Nov 20, 2025
Caaz:
This afternoon when my husband and I returned from site....we felt we needed to rest and we headed home.

Hubs said he was craving noodles and I prepared it for him,i was in my garden getting bell peppers and tomatoes when my hubs worker suddenly checked in on us.

I welcomed him in...told him to feel at home.....i came inside and started drilling the holes in my wardrope to fix the handle.

But since i was also cooking,i told my husband to take over while i tend to my noodles.

So he was left completely with my husband at the sitting room....gisting while my husband was drilling the handle of the wardrope.
Always be very strict with handy men and make sure they are always fully supervised while the job they are doing is ongoing.You and Oga should have supervised the mason and then you prepare the noodles after the man has left.I hope this teaches you a lesson.Always draw boundaries; even with domestic workers.You should confront him since he was the only person who entered your home.Even if he denies it , atleast he will know you are not a coward or stupid.
Re: My Husband's Mason Stole My Purse, Should I Confront Him? by Dogalmighty17: 10:26am On Nov 20, 2025
Caaz:
.....i came inside and started drilling the holes
Poor word choice if you ask me 😂😂😂
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