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This was my last post were I was complaining about a girl ghosting me, I moved on shaa after advice from nairalands.. luckily I got another one on Facebook last 3 weeks, I collected her number the rest history.. Omo I don love this girl kpaa, this girl just dey burst my brain.. love sweet like werey!!! My head won burst I pray it last well!!! Since yesterday I just dey blush and happy.. uno tell me say na like this love sweet reach..

Single people keep off

I'm speechless.
I'm speechless.

Richsteemit:
https://www.nairaland.com/8520119/should-put-more-effort

This was my last post were I was complaining about a girl ghosting me, I moved on shaa after advice from nairalands.. luckily I got another one on Facebook last 3 weeks, I collected her number the rest history.. Omo I don love this girl kpaa, this girl just dey burst my brain.. love sweet like werey!!! My head won burst I pray it last well!!! Since yesterday I just dey blush and happy.. uno tell me say na like this love sweet reach..

Single people keep off

simp ❌

Until you pay for her wig and handbag 👜

Joeboypondeck:
simp ❌

Until you pay for her wig and handbag 👜

So na simp dey love?? Dey playoo!! By the way, na she don spend on me self na one of the reason she dey burst my head be that

Love is very sweet! Especially the honeymoon phase where you see nothing but perfection. I would say don’t get too caught up in this process, instead ask the right questions and listen carefully to the answers. Get to know her because you’re dealing with her representative at the moment. Best wishes! Love makes the world go round 🌍

Double0h7:
Love is very sweet! Especially the honeymoon phase where you see nothing but perfection. I would say don’t get too caught up in this process, instead ask the right questions and listen carefully to the answers. Get to know her because you’re dealing with her representative at the moment. Best wishes! Love makes the world go round 🌍

Thanks for your advice. I will keep that in mind . By the way you look beautiful though. Nice pix

just spend what you can afford to lose... girls of nowadays are like gambling so date responsibly

Joeboypondeck:
simp ❌

Until you pay for her wig and handbag 👜

Did he tell you that he can't afford to buy it for her

Leave him to enjoy his new love

Richsteemit:
Thanks for your advice. I will keep that in mind . By the way you look beautiful though. Nice pix

Thank you ☺️

Richsteemit:
https://www.nairaland.com/8520119/should-put-more-effort

This was my last post were I was complaining about a girl ghosting me, I moved on shaa after advice from nairalands.. luckily I got another one on Facebook last 3 weeks, I collected her number the rest history.. Omo I don love this girl kpaa, this girl just dey burst my brain.. love sweet like werey!!! My head won burst I pray it last well!!! Since yesterday I just dey blush and happy.. uno tell me say na like this love sweet reach..

Single people keep off

Lol. Abeg update us when everywhere don blur, okay?

Enjoy it while it lasts. You obviously haven't had much of experience with women.

Tenrack:
Lol. Abeg update us when everywhere don blur, okay?

I no dey loose guard finish, but let me self enjoy this love small..

Jman06:
Enjoy it while it lasts. You obviously haven't had much of experience with women.

Yes bro, make I gain experience

Richsteemit:
I no dey loose guard finish, but let me self enjoy this love small..

Thank God say you still dey aware.

Richsteemit:
I no dey loose guard finish, but let me self enjoy this love small..

Tell us more: what has she said or done to have you so sprung? I love a good gist 🤭

Double0h7:
Tell us more: what has she said or done to have you so sprung? I love a good gist 🤭

Ehn! You won learn so that you go use am catch one married man or person boyfriend.☹️

Dtruthspeaker:
Ehn! You won learn so that you go use am catch one married man or person boyfriend.☹️

You’re assuming that I haven’t already deployed said tactics and caught myself a big fish 😏

Richsteemit:
Yes bro, make I gain experience

Don't give all your heart ooo because anything can happen. That girl that's 'sweeting' you now can break your heart anytime sha

Billingsmacin is on the way

Richsteemit:
https://www.nairaland.com/8520119/should-put-more-effort

This was my last post were I was complaining about a girl ghosting me, I moved on shaa after advice from nairalands.. luckily I got another one on Facebook last 3 weeks, I collected her number the rest history.. Omo I don love this girl kpaa, this girl just dey burst my brain.. love sweet like werey!!! My head won burst I pray it last well!!! Since yesterday I just dey blush and happy.. uno tell me say na like this love sweet reach..

Single people keep off

Love sweet kee you there
Simp
Simp
Simp

Richsteemit:
https://www.nairaland.com/8520119/should-put-more-effort

This was my last post were I was complaining about a girl ghosting me, I moved on shaa after advice from nairalands.. luckily I got another one on Facebook last 3 weeks, I collected her number the rest history.. Omo I don love this girl kpaa, this girl just dey burst my brain.. love sweet like werey!!! My head won burst I pray it last well!!! Since yesterday I just dey blush and happy.. uno tell me say na like this love sweet reach..

Single people keep off

New taker 🌝

when you eat har honeypot, na when you go rest and post " she is giving me troubles what do i do"

We will be here!!

Richsteemit:
https://www.nairaland.com/8520119/should-put-more-effort

This was my last post were I was complaining about a girl ghosting me, I moved on shaa after advice from nairalands.. luckily I got another one on Facebook last 3 weeks, I collected her number the rest history.. Omo I don love this girl kpaa, this girl just dey burst my brain.. love sweet like werey!!! My head won burst I pray it last well!!! Since yesterday I just dey blush and happy.. uno tell me say na like this love sweet reach..

Single people keep off

girl wey I just knack finish... Dey play

Welcome to the club OP ...
If you like cheat on her make your eyes peel.

Richsteemit:
https://www.nairaland.com/8520119/should-put-more-effort

This was my last post were I was complaining about a girl ghosting me, I moved on shaa after advice from nairalands.. luckily I got another one on Facebook last 3 weeks, I collected her number the rest history.. Omo I don love this girl kpaa, this girl just dey burst my brain.. love sweet like werey!!! My head won burst I pray it last well!!! Since yesterday I just dey blush and happy.. uno tell me say na like this love sweet reach..
Single people keep off

How old are you? 🤔

ChizzyBuna:
girl wey I just knack finish... Dey play

A girl you knack finish does not deserve to be loved by any man? Doesn't that say a lot about you and not the girl?🤔

Kobojunkie:
How old are you? 🤔

You want to insult me?? . I'm 23 years, your insult is welcome!!!

MikeofKd:
Welcome to the club OP ...
If you like cheat on her make your eyes peel.

I no go cheatoo!!! . Omo just today alone, this girl don use love message kill me, my head dey burst, I'm losing it . Happiness won finish me!!! Love too sweet!!! Chaii this experience is so good!!!

Jman06:
Don't give all your heart ooo because anything can happen. That girl that's 'sweeting' you now can break your heart anytime sha

You know how many people wey done leave me this year. I'm always expecting anything.. me wey I dey expect death everyday...

Double0h7:
Tell us more: what has she said or done to have you so sprung? I love a good gist 🤭

She said I make her feel like a real woman. Don't let me gist you finish. My head just dey burst.. love don dey drive me craze

Richsteemit:
✓ You want to insult me?? . I'm 23 years, your insult is welcome!!!

No, I do not wish to insult you. I only wished to know how experienced one would need to be to think what you described is love. 🥱🥱🥱

You see one thing about love that I have learned in my years is that if you don't first have healthy self-love --- not the performative kind we like to tag as self-confidence that is instead born of selfish desire to thrive at the expense of others--- you will not know true love. You will of course experience chemically induced form which is really an addictive high in addition to the trauma born kind which is really trauma bonding, as well as the codependent kind which is really another form of crazy, but not the real-connection-forming, safety-giving sort of love that many of us truly yearn for. 🤔

So, ol' boy, you are still too young to be running after women. You still have a lot of work to do on yourself to build yourself for life -- I am talking of your mental, emotional and social intelligence. 🤔🤔

This time is time for you to focus on that hole inside of you that you have been trying to throw girls at. You can't close it with external things. You can only close it by dealing with the internal issues keeping it open -- childhood trauma, lost dreams, disappointments, hurts, betrayals,etc. You need to confront them, accept and forgive yourself (or them) to close up that large hole. The more you tackle them, the more you grow into the best version of you necessary for you to have the best life possible. 🥱🥱

Ask yourself, what are you waiting for? There will always be girls out there for you. Loose that scarcity mindset that is driving you right now. And focus your attention on healing yourself otherwise you will end up as clueless as many of those before you, chased by many of the same shadows from their youth even in their old age, not realizing it is their mind that keeps trying to bring them back to the same issue for them to properly resolve their own self.