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Jman06:
I never expected to make sense to YOU. No be you again? You have a reputation here for never giving up an argument nor seeing sense in other people's thoughts.

irumole1975:
I didn’t know what to say so I just left her on read. And I liked one of the msgs where she prayed for me. I wish her well tho

You have been saved from wasted money on nonsense hair style.

bigpicture001:
Leave girls alone ND go ND find money for yourself...

Anyhow u see it. Women are all about money.. I respected myself and I HV peace.. I haven't slept with anyone for almost 5years now.. and I didn't die..

I rest, them rest, my acct balance rest...

Choose your priorities rightly

..so if konji hold you nko ? 🙄

Kobojunkie:
So, a woman asking her man for money to take care of her hair needs is a street girl?

Why bother dating women when you are not willing to give even the bare minimum where dating is concerned? Why even engage women if you know you have nothing to offer them?

What do women give as their bare minimum?

Lucky you

irumole1975:
I didn’t know what to say so I just left her on read. And I liked one of the msgs where she prayed for me. I wish her well tho

You did the right thing. The girl is a materialistic person that would have wrecked you. God has saved you from Delilah. She is not above your grade but actually below it because her point of view is too narrow. She will regret her decisions later on.

Kobojunkie:
1. Women are not commodities; rather, relationships are transactional. Note the difference! A man who wants a certain type of woman should be willing and able to take on a part of what it costs— be it financial cost, emotional, physical& mental labor, etc.,— for her to maintain herself in the way that he likes her. A man who wants a woman who dresses like a million dollars should be ready to have to take on some of the cost of maintaining that million-dollar look that he so likes. This is nothing new.

There have always been costs associated with dating culture; this is something that adult men and women have engaged in for centuries; only a child of a man would think he could get a woman he cannot afford above his range at no cost to him.

2. I don't play these childish games with your kind, using the content of that book, which you lot have little or no regard for at the end of the day. 🥱🥱🥱🥱

He really hurrrrt you bad didn’t he… that wound never healing .. never… I enjoy how you waste effort countering meaningful discussion… sink baby sink.. into that rabbit hole of pain

irumole1975:
I didn’t know what to say so I just left her on read. And I liked one of the msgs where she prayed for me. I wish her well tho

Forget her, she is definitely not your woman. A woman that belongs to you will manage with you at the level you are now, working for progress with you and exercise patience as you move up from one level of progress to the other. No one becomes a billionaire overnight, it is a gradual process. And if she cannot wait for that gradual process, please let her go, she is not your woman

SO?

Qualityoffer:
According to you, the OP should work hard on getting a woman he can afford or make more money to satisfy the needs of the present one and retain her - which means that you believe that women are just commodities and are like infants that should be taking care of by their dads.

And the same you have a problem with someone, the person you quoted in particular, who advised the OP to know that once he starts dating a woman, he should know that he has become her second dad - dads are good in taking care of their infants.

Well, my bible has your type of person in mind when it says in 1 Timothy 6:4 - they are conceited and understand nothing. They have an unhealthy interest in controversies and quarrels about words that result in envy, strife, malicious talk, evil suspicions.

Don't even think that I will dignify you with meaningless back-and-forth exchange of words on this thread.

Seconded and thirded gbamsolutely. You didn't have to waste wisdom though.

Don't date above your level, leave big brezz and biy ikebe for now.

If I where op ,I would love to leave a relationship of a thing for now an then focus on my self to be financially stable an then I'll look further to see who's with good character,heart an mind to marry

ufotunang:
..so if konji hold you nko ? 🙄

Nothing much than to mãstùrbatê

Tolu2024:
If you are not a yahoo boy and you want to date please look for someone who have something doing or someone still living with her parents and respected background and good home training, leave all this street girls for yahoo boys you can’t compete with them.

Very sensible comment

You are safe





Enjoy your December in peace

correctyourself:
Her tone said it all and very clear that both of you're:

1) Very young & inexperienced
2) Not relationship that would be meaningful
3) You're in a materialistic relationship
4) You're not stable financially for such relationships

Finally my advice; continue to improve and develop your yourself for the future ahead of you. Maybe you guys can still be together in future. She understands she needs help which you can't render for now.

BIG NO! He should never go back to such girl in future. What help does she need now that she can't work to take care of? Pls let's stop encouraging laziness and entitlement mentality.

Mullermuller:
Nothing much than to mãstùrbatê

.. nawaaooo ...🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃

Kobojunkie:
. She says she deserves better. So, yes, let her go, and you, too, can move on to finding yourself a woman well within your range. Work on getting a woman you can afford, or better still, put all of your energy into building your financial capacity and strength so you don't run up against the same issue again.

For the very first time, I agree with you.

They would be following up and down the ladies they can't afford, and when they drop bills for them, they will run to the social medias to lament. Some men will even pretend to be rich, so that she can date them. Rubbish!

Thank heavens for Vaseline and tissue paper.

Haha 😂

Kobojunkie:
So, a woman asking her man for money to take care of her hair needs is a street girl?

Why bother dating women when you are not willing to give even the bare minimum where dating is concerned? Why even engage women if you know you have nothing to offer them?

Thats private prostitution na
No difference

irumole1975:
I didn’t know what to say so I just left her on read. And I liked one of the msgs where she prayed for me. I wish her well tho

CHOOSE A GIRL YOU CAN AFFORD
CHOOSE A GIRL YOU CAN AFFORD
CHOOSE A GIRL YOU CAN AFFORD
CHOOSE A GIRL YOU CAN AFFORD
CHOOSE A GIRL YOU CAN AFFORD
CHOOSE A GIRL YOU CAN AFFORD
CHOOSE A GIRL YOU CAN AFFORD
CHOOSE A GIRL YOU CAN AFFORD
CHOOSE A GIRL YOU CAN AFFORD

AVOID ALL THESE STORIES THAT TOUCH!!!

Kobojunkie:
So, a woman asking her man for money to take care of her hair needs is a street girl?

Why bother dating women when you are not willing to give even the bare minimum where dating is concerned? Why even engage women if you know you have nothing to offer them?

Always off as usual. I knew I would find you here yearning dust like you usually do.

If I were the guy I wouldn't say anything, I will just delete her number and that settles it

Kobojunkie:
So, a woman asking her man for money to take care of her hair needs is a street girl?

Why bother dating women when you are not willing to give even the bare minimum where dating is concerned? Why even engage women if you know you have nothing to offer them?

your loyalty your score, if im adding woman budget in my budget. The woman work for it,not for free😀

irumole1975:
I didn’t know what to say so I just left her on read. And I liked one of the msgs where she prayed for me. I wish her well tho

You cannot take care of a lady and you're proud of it.

Shame on you.

irumole1975:
I didn’t know what to say so I just left her on read. And I liked one of the msgs where she prayed for me. I wish her well tho

Before you start celebrating, what and what has she done for you? Pls don't include sex.

You're a real man ...you deserve a beer .

Silence they say is the best treatment for a fool . And you played it well

Kobojunkie:
. She says she deserves better. So, yes, let her go, and you, too, can move on to finding yourself a woman well within your range. Work on getting a woman you can afford, or better still, put all of your energy into building your financial capacity and strength so you don't run up against the same issue again.

So women are now commodities to be "afforded?"

The lady is a pure liability whose parents failed to raise properly.

Kobojunkie:
If this is what you truly think it means to date a girl, then why bother with women altogether? Clearly, you don't like or regard them at all for you to suggest that you are taking the place of her dad when you choose to date them?

You support a man acting the role of a father to a fully grown woman because I honestly don't get your point. What's wrong with a grown adult taking care of her own damn needs?