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| Brother Wants Sister To Take Care Of The Five Kids His Wife Left Behind by Kobojunkie(op): 5:54am On Nov 24, 2025 |
My elder brother who has repeatedly mǎłtrěäted his wife is trying to turn me and my mum into Nannies for his five kids.An abusive father of five decided to gaslight his sister and his mother into caring for his five children after his wife decided to leave them with him.  7 Likes 1 Share
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| Re: Brother Wants Sister To Take Care Of The Five Kids His Wife Left Behind by LordIsaac(m): 1:44pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
Again, it's the quality of our population! Quote me daily. 5 Likes |
| Re: Brother Wants Sister To Take Care Of The Five Kids His Wife Left Behind by Coder2Client(m): 1:45pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
If he pays you for the upkeep, help him 8 Likes |
| Re: Brother Wants Sister To Take Care Of The Five Kids His Wife Left Behind by Preator: 1:45pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
Its is well with all of una. He should allow the wife take custody and pay for upkeep. 11 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Brother Wants Sister To Take Care Of The Five Kids His Wife Left Behind by Ifexibe(m): 1:45pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
Are the kids his? Biologically? 7 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Brother Wants Sister To Take Care Of The Five Kids His Wife Left Behind by ogunbiyi(m): 1:46pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
Lord had mercy, train up your child in a proper way 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Brother Wants Sister To Take Care Of The Five Kids His Wife Left Behind by nairalanda1(m): 1:46pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
Man has made his bed, make he lie down in it. He might learn a lesson or two If he wanted his sister to take care of the kids, maybe he should have married her first. Nairaland redpillers, see the end of your red pill life  . You will be begging the same women you call evil to come and look after your progeny  50 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Brother Wants Sister To Take Care Of The Five Kids His Wife Left Behind by Marvyx(m): 1:47pm On Nov 24, 2025*. Modified: 2:52pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
Even if sister refuses to take care of the kids, the problem is that the mother would be in a dilemma, she won't want to abandon her grandkids even if she wants to teach her son a lesson. Na so my mama be, my siblings go fit carry their children drop for her and she'll cancel her entire plans for the day to watch them. It's like they take advantage of it. 18 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Brother Wants Sister To Take Care Of The Five Kids His Wife Left Behind by nairalanda1(m): 1:47pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
Coder2Client:Consider that th sister may have a job and also may have a finacee as well too. Make the man look after him own matter. No be him wey dey think he go do single father 40 Likes |
| Re: Brother Wants Sister To Take Care Of The Five Kids His Wife Left Behind by Oisagbai78: 1:48pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
2nd Marriage Loading....... If care is not even taking, the beast in human form would rape u and convert u into his new wife. That's automatically incest. Aunty, run o. No even allow ur Mama to go sef. Na beating She go dey receive on a daily. 2 Likes |
| Re: Brother Wants Sister To Take Care Of The Five Kids His Wife Left Behind by nairalanda1(m): 1:48pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
Marvyx:Or the man refused to release his kids. And since she is a woman,nothing she can do about it. No be Nigeria we dey? 31 Likes |
| Re: Brother Wants Sister To Take Care Of The Five Kids His Wife Left Behind by nairalanda1(m): 1:49pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
Ifexibe:If he is keeping them,they are his . Confirmed via DNA test. Not so, redpillers? 26 Likes |
| Re: Brother Wants Sister To Take Care Of The Five Kids His Wife Left Behind by nairalanda1(m): 1:51pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
LordIsaac:The same issues happen even in sane climes. Even in USA, there are cases where police have been called in because man was beating up his wife in the presence of their kids and even sometimes where the woman was the aggressor 23 Likes |
| Re: Brother Wants Sister To Take Care Of The Five Kids His Wife Left Behind by Neddstark: 1:51pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
Heartless mother, she left her 5 kids that she nurtured from her womb to an irresponsible man to take care of. She should have taken like 2 or 3 of them. But she didn't. The children will despise her. Heartless father, treated the children's mother badly. rather than take charge of his children, he is willing to abandon them for his aged mother and unmarried sister. In marriage breakup, the children are indeed the biggest victims. 10 Likes |
| Re: Brother Wants Sister To Take Care Of The Five Kids His Wife Left Behind by Coder2Client(m): 1:52pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
nairalanda1:But his wife is wicked o. I always see women fight for the custody of their children but this one just left without looking back. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Brother Wants Sister To Take Care Of The Five Kids His Wife Left Behind by geoworldedu: 1:52pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
This thing is happening to someone around my place too. This man beats his wife every now and then, until last week when he beat her to coma. When she recovered from the coma, she assured herself that it was enough. She reported at the police station, but the man already threatened the children to speak positive of him. They supported the man's lies that he always gave her 70k weekly. Lol. This is a man who doesn't like to work, but always relying on his wife to provide for the family. He has a Keke napep that could fetch money, but refused to use it. Then he sold the Keke for 180k and was asking his wife to tell her mother to give her 300k to give him to start a business. The wife felt betrayed that the children supported the father, so she left her home and the husband was looking for her everywhere. This is a man that after they returned from the police station, he has been threatening fire and brimstone, thinking that the wife has nowhere to go because he felt they are tied together by the children. Now he is running from pillar to post looking for her. The woman that has fled to a far away place to start afresh. Not every woman will die in husband house like Osinachi abeg. 42 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: Brother Wants Sister To Take Care Of The Five Kids His Wife Left Behind by Gotocourt: 1:53pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
Nothing can be done ma'am. That's the extra baggages that comes with some families 📌💯 |
| Re: Brother Wants Sister To Take Care Of The Five Kids His Wife Left Behind by alphaconde(m): 1:54pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
SO Amaka u brought my matter online. After all the money i gave u and mama. 3 Likes |
| Re: Brother Wants Sister To Take Care Of The Five Kids His Wife Left Behind by Gotocourt: 1:54pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
Coder2Client:Most women who fight for custody end up regretting. It works for weak Men, don't fight over kids, she will use it to pepper you if you're a emotional man. |
| Re: Brother Wants Sister To Take Care Of The Five Kids His Wife Left Behind by dingbang(m): 1:55pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
Coder2Client:wicked how? How can a man be maltreating his wife and you expect her to stay.. Mchew 14 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Brother Wants Sister To Take Care Of The Five Kids His Wife Left Behind by nairalanda1(m): 1:55pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
Coder2Client:This is Nigeria where the children of a union are considered to belong to the man. Even if the woman fights or gets court order she will still lose. Only in rare circumstances can she win ( apart from being a single mother where the relationship has not been finalized in marriage) This is not america where women can fight and win custody like that. 24 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Brother Wants Sister To Take Care Of The Five Kids His Wife Left Behind by SlavaUkraini: 1:58pm On Nov 24, 2025*. Modified: 5:14pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
Coder2Client:The wife is wicked how ? Didn't you read the part where the sister said the wife was constantly maltreated ? And you still expect her to run away with 5 kids ? She did the right thing... Let that idiot continue to maltreat his own children. He is looking for someone's daughter that he wants to kill. Even his own sister was not supportive of the way he handled his marriage. 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Brother Wants Sister To Take Care Of The Five Kids His Wife Left Behind by Cmanforall: 1:58pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
Kobojunkie:Some people still give birth to 5 children with the current economy? 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Brother Wants Sister To Take Care Of The Five Kids His Wife Left Behind by pocohantas(f): 1:59pm On Nov 24, 2025*. Modified: 12:03am On Nov 25, 2025 |
I am proud of his sister and she should be made our regional chairlady. I also warned my brother when he was busy doing "my mother this, my mother that". If your wife leaves you, I won't help you o. You know I am an evil feminist. Better protect your home. 30 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Brother Wants Sister To Take Care Of The Five Kids His Wife Left Behind by 2mch(m): 2:00pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
You better leave him to his own problem and go and live your own life. Before he put you in a situation where you forgo your life to raise his kids. Let him hire nanny. This his cheapness is probably why the wife ran away. Go and find your own husband and runaway too. A word is enough for the wise. Or you will wake up at 50 and realize you wasted your life for a sibling that can’t keep a marriage. He will even have time to make more children and bring them to you to raise. Let him learn his own lesson. 5 children and he allowed the wife to go? He’s not a serious man. When you have more than 2 kids with anyone you have to treat them well so they don’t runaway. If you sit down raise kids for one week, all the madness wey de your head go run. 25 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Brother Wants Sister To Take Care Of The Five Kids His Wife Left Behind by grandstar(m): 2:01pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
ogunbiyi:The fact the mum has no influence speaks volumes. 1 Like |
| Re: Brother Wants Sister To Take Care Of The Five Kids His Wife Left Behind by geoworldedu: 2:01pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
Coder2Client:It could be deeper than you think. Sometimes you need to fight for the custody of your life and sanity first, so that you can have life left to fight for the custody of your children. My story above is a perfect example of that. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Brother Wants Sister To Take Care Of The Five Kids His Wife Left Behind by AKWATGOLD1(m): 2:03pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
I will suggested that for sake of the blood, please give your brother the that will suite you to take the custody of his kids but not in his house because you know who those kids will be in future. Kobojunkie: |
| Re: Brother Wants Sister To Take Care Of The Five Kids His Wife Left Behind by manuelkel(m): 2:03pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
dingbang:What happened to reporting to human rights?? Most times na illiteracy dey make some marriages cast. None of them fit reason as educationist. |
| Re: Brother Wants Sister To Take Care Of The Five Kids His Wife Left Behind by Juoflife1(f): 2:04pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
It's time women normalize leaving kids for the men. Make them single fathers and move on. The kids will always come back. 8 Likes |
| Re: Brother Wants Sister To Take Care Of The Five Kids His Wife Left Behind by DMCA: 2:05pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
This is the real definition of witchcraft |
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