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My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by 22rockbottom: 6:41pm On May 26, 2023 |
Good Evening, I got married 11years ago, my mother in-law has always in the picture of everything in our home and has total control of my wife. My wife cannot object anything she says even when I, as her husband challenged it. 90% of the major issues we had as a couple were caused by my mother in-law. After 11years, I decided to confront her to stop controlling her daughter and stop interfering in our marriage and home. I confronted her and my wife left the house. Her reason for leaving the house is that I disrespected her family. more details later 39 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:44pm On May 26, 2023 |
you should have done that the FIRST time the mother interfered in your family matters...11yrs of letting her mother believe she was in charge, is way too long and now a waste of energy to try to correct it. 480 Likes 23 Shares |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by taylor89(m): 6:44pm On May 26, 2023 |
marry the mom as second wife Na why some guys dey like marry babe wey their parents don die 11yrs relationship and the mom is still acting like you guys are dating 82 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by thesicilian: 6:45pm On May 26, 2023 |
22rockbottom:Maybe you shouldn't have waited for 11 years before challenging her. It's always best to set the proper foundation from the beginning, otherwise whatever happens you just have to find a way to tolerate it. As it stands now you either go and apologize to them or wait and see if your wife will come to her senses 186 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Nobody: 6:48pm On May 26, 2023 |
22rockbottom: Does her Mom also control her when una wan do? 41 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by superCleanworks(m): 6:50pm On May 26, 2023 |
22rockbottom: You want to start mixing the cement after it has turned to a rock. good luck with that. 193 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Nebes: 7:01pm On May 26, 2023 |
Such holds are first broken spiritually. Attempts at just physical correction is an exercise in futility. I remember the beating I gave my inlaw in a dream as they were instigating quarrels in my home. The next day after the beating, they called their daughter for a meeting and advised her to go live in peace in her home. You could actually feel they were forced to call for that meeting. 103 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by madridguy(m): 7:17pm On May 26, 2023 |
So this is spiritual problem? Nebes: 54 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by sisisioge: 7:17pm On May 26, 2023 |
How did you confront your mil? Would you be fine if your wife used same style on your mother? She said you disrespected her family...there are a million and one ways to politely ask in laws not to meddle in your affairs without being offensive fa. Anyways, on a brighter note, the message has been passed across and mama wont be meddling in the future even when you need her to meddle...if there is a future. All of una go dey alright. 77 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Exmilitant(m): 7:18pm On May 26, 2023 |
effeminate men everywhere. 29 Likes |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by nifemi25(m): 7:29pm On May 26, 2023 |
Why waving on a train that has already left.... you should corrected this early why wait for good eleven years before the action .... 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Wawelexy(m): 7:44pm On May 26, 2023 |
You goofed up from the start, but never too late tho, allow her go, pretend to be nonchalant about her absence, fake a close relationship with a female friend or random girl, only send money for your child/children's upkeep, and make sure you look happy always... Her brain will come back to reset and she will realise she's giving out her food to the dogs by herself.... Please don't cheat on her 136 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Wodu89: 7:51pm On May 26, 2023 |
You managed to spin the narrative that the mother in law is evil. Share the core details of what happened and stop trying to tell the tale with you as the victim in it Watch fools begin to vilify the woman and her family. Hypocrite 12 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by bantilosha: 8:01pm On May 26, 2023 |
Don't ever call that kid you call wife to return. If she does, fine. If she doesn't, let her remain with her domineering mother. I won't even have anything to do with a woman that dumb. Even if she returns, stand your masculine ground and tell her you won't tolerate that nonsense ever again. Men are the price. 106 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Guyman01: 8:02pm On May 26, 2023 |
If una don taya to marry make una scatter the marriage habaš¤§ From morning to night we dey busy dey settle Marital crisis on Nairaland while those in the outgoing government are busy signing concessioning agreements and awarding contracts to their cronies while we are being distracted by people failinginmarriage Guy, there's a thread that has been running for long on this platform called Red Pillers you can get some few insights on how to handle and treat women with love while putting them in their place and getting the desired respect from them as an alpha male without simping 56 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by slawomir: 8:02pm On May 26, 2023 |
Damnnn niggar Isoright |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Kubin: 8:02pm On May 26, 2023 |
Thank God for you two load removed,inter cool joint and order some nkwobi and is ewu. 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by DMerciful(m): 8:02pm On May 26, 2023 |
Let her go! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by iHateFraudsters: 8:02pm On May 26, 2023 |
If my wife dares leave my house for 24hrs, then she'll stay out permanently. Cos she'll have a hard time explaining the man she went to visit. 78 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by opalu: 8:02pm On May 26, 2023 |
Hmmm 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Chibuzoc(m): 8:03pm On May 26, 2023 |
waiting for the full details 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Praktikal100000: 8:03pm On May 26, 2023 |
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Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by LEGALSER: 8:04pm On May 26, 2023 |
22rockbottom: For 11 years you have been tolerating this? Divorce her and get another woman man. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by EKONGKING: 8:04pm On May 26, 2023 |
Men are a vulnerable species in the world . If ur wife goes missing , u r the first suspect according to police . If ur wife goes to parents house after quarrel and does not come back . The blame will be upon you, either by neighbors or ur friend . The popular opinion is . You might have done some thing to her ,that why she left . 18 Likes |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by atobs4real(m): 8:04pm On May 26, 2023 |
Receive sense and leave her for a while 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Nobody: 8:04pm On May 26, 2023 |
Allow her go! That's one less burden for you. The mother-in-law cannot be Mistress in her own house and be Madam in yours! Do not panic, because she's coming back and when does, it'll be on your terms. Do not bother about what people say - their opinions and whatever they say count for nothing in your marriage. If you lose your grip on your destiny now, for your destiny is at stake here, then the man in you has become impotent. 49 Likes |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by atobs4real(m): 8:05pm On May 26, 2023 |
Receive sense and leave her for a while She believed in feeding you 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by udemzyudex(m): 8:05pm On May 26, 2023 |
Lol... I hope she left with her belongings? 17 Likes |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by sotall(m): 8:05pm On May 26, 2023 |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by iInjureHerYansh: 8:05pm On May 26, 2023 |
nifemi25:The matter tire me ehn 7 Likes 1 Share |
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