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Re: Man Shares Shocking Response From Talking Stage Who Refused To Pay Back Money by Dogalmighty17: 5:01pm On Nov 24, 2025
Nigerian women? Lazy entitled lot
Re: Man Shares Shocking Response From Talking Stage Who Refused To Pay Back Money by irumanle(m): 5:04pm On Nov 24, 2025
Smartguyboy:
A lady ask you to borrow her money that her app is not working and you believe her ?

This just proves you are a big f👀l if you can fall for such scam.

You want to empress olosho in talking stage.

Una go learn the hard way don’t worry.

Them no dey borrow woman money , just give what you can afford to lose unless you know her very well and she’s working or doing business.
Weak men everywhere. Ladies didn't become wiser or stronger. Men were the ones who became weaker.
Re: Man Shares Shocking Response From Talking Stage Who Refused To Pay Back Money by Afriifa(m): 5:06pm On Nov 24, 2025
Goo0dHardDick:
Only a Simp and a f 👀 l would do the same.

That format is old already. It doesn't work anymore
very loud simp at that.
Re: Man Shares Shocking Response From Talking Stage Who Refused To Pay Back Money by Freshandfitpod: 5:07pm On Nov 24, 2025
Who does business with that gender, just be transparent and pay for the P-sleeve. This women are selling it.
Re: Man Shares Shocking Response From Talking Stage Who Refused To Pay Back Money by essentialone(m): 5:10pm On Nov 24, 2025
He messed up in 2 ways

1. I don't ever give a Kobo to a lady I have not had sex with. No lady deserves such kindness. Doubt this and regret it later.

2. I don't ever borrow (lend) money to any lady. They will never ever pay you back. Don't even give it a thought. If she asks me to borrow her money. I give her a little I can afford from that amount and ask her not to pay back. Only a foolish man borrows money to a lady. Don't ever dare it.
Re: Man Shares Shocking Response From Talking Stage Who Refused To Pay Back Money by otipoju(m): 5:11pm On Nov 24, 2025
Person wey I no go argue with. I go reason that loan as advance payment for 20 rounds....once my 20 don complete I let am know that the scales are even now.
Re: Man Shares Shocking Response From Talking Stage Who Refused To Pay Back Money by Greattha: 5:11pm On Nov 24, 2025
It's not just any riff-raff with y@n$h and b00b$ you engage in "talking stage "....

The guy should've written it off immediately the money left his account abi does he really mean he never saw this coming a mile away?

Don't give any love interests money you can't afford to forget.

DyshApp:
A young man is making waves on social media after sharing his frustrating experience with a “talking stage“, who he lent money.

In a viral WhatsApp chat screen recording shared on X (formerly Twitter) by @Teniola, the man recalled lending her ₦20k and even shared his account details to make repayment.

The lady, however, responded by asking if he was actually serious about taking the money back, and tensions quickly rose.

He reminded her that she had asked him to lend her money to sort out an issue due to her app not functioning, and he trusted her word.

She still insisted that even though her app had problems, it didn’t mean he should demand repayment. She became upset, saying she wouldn’t pay the money because the app was still malfunctioning and wouldn’t work forever.

Many took to the comments section to weigh in. One commentator said, “He helped her, now she’s making him feel guilty.” Another wrote, “When generosity becomes a drama… Nigerian relationships sef.”

What started as a simple act of trust became a heated conversation, leaving Nigerians divided: should he have demanded repayment, or let go of the money.
Re: Man Shares Shocking Response From Talking Stage Who Refused To Pay Back Money by Josywhyte: 5:15pm On Nov 24, 2025
Na this same wey happen wey them use jazz kpai one banny like that. Tomorrow if something do her now she go begin run from pillar to post for spiritual help. You borrow now you no wan pay back
Re: Man Shares Shocking Response From Talking Stage Who Refused To Pay Back Money by We4all: 5:21pm On Nov 24, 2025
essentialone:
He messed up in 2 ways

1. I don't ever give a Kobo to a lady I have not had sex with. No lady deserves such kindness. Doubt this and regret it later.

2. I don't ever borrow (lend) money to any lady. They will never ever pay you back. Don't even give it a thought. If she asks me to borrow her money. I give her a little I can afford from that amount and ask her not to pay back. Only a foolish man borrows money to a lady. Don't ever dare it.
Backward mentality.
Re: Man Shares Shocking Response From Talking Stage Who Refused To Pay Back Money by ozo13(m): 5:22pm On Nov 24, 2025
DyshApp:
The money he’ll spend in sueing her will definitely be more than 20k and if she can’t even pay 20k she won’t be able to pay anything more
when it's time to return money for damages will likely be added to the said 20K.
Re: Man Shares Shocking Response From Talking Stage Who Refused To Pay Back Money by Fekumzi123: 5:26pm On Nov 24, 2025
Smartguyboy:
A lady ask you to borrow her money that her app is not working and you believe her ?

This just proves you are a big f👀l if you can fall for such scam.

You want to empress olosho in talking stage.

Una go learn the hard way don’t worry.

Them no dey borrow woman money , just give what you can afford to lose unless you know her very well and she’s working or doing business.
Recently, one of my guy says he wants to borrow a girl N50,000...I told him he won't get the money back, he say no ooo, the girl is selling something in the market. I just tired, this particular girl never give am fkkk, this particular guy is close to 43yo still not married. This thing just tired me.
I have left him ooo
Re: Man Shares Shocking Response From Talking Stage Who Refused To Pay Back Money by Urgent1Million: 5:28pm On Nov 24, 2025
DyshApp:
The money he’ll spend in sueing her will definitely be more than 20k and if she can’t even pay 20k she won’t be able to pay anything more
If this kind of case goes to court, the judge will make her pay the claimant the cost of litigation.
This is so so wrong!
Very soon, we'll make that gender to sign forms before lending them anything.
Re: Man Shares Shocking Response From Talking Stage Who Refused To Pay Back Money by davillian(m): 5:28pm On Nov 24, 2025
one thing i noticed about people that borrow
they hate paying back and they are ready to loose that friendship and trust....
very shameless set of people....
just imagine a friend that borrowed 150 k from me for over 18 months refused to pay friendship crashed because of that money he still dint pay and he has been collecting salary of #350k per month....
if person go him house go stab or kill am people go de say na because of 150k its really a annoying
Re: Man Shares Shocking Response From Talking Stage Who Refused To Pay Back Money by pappilo(m): 5:30pm On Nov 24, 2025
Women be oloriburuku.

But we men sef dey too do. Na so I borrow my ex LOML 20,000 Krona to complete her land wey she wan buy for Uganda. We come plan buy flat together for her country when I move there so I was sending her 5000 krona every month for 3 months until I soji say something wasnt right.

Na money still cause our fight. The werey go buy sofa of 50,000 krona to put inside sitting room for council estate. She dey expect make I put money, I just lookaway. The total money wey I take furnish my own flat including TV, fridge, sofa, bed x 2 no reach 50,000 krona.

Oya na we don break up send me my 35,000 krona, the werey dey laugh me. She no no say I get time well well and Google translator dey there. Na Kronafogden I take collect my money complete. She sef shock. Na principle thing. If she simply pleaded to let the money go, I for consider but to dey laugh me.... Nah we dont do that here
Re: Man Shares Shocking Response From Talking Stage Who Refused To Pay Back Money by neonly: 5:32pm On Nov 24, 2025
Until we men learn dis Barney go dey take us for a ride
Sex doll better pass most of Nigeria. Girls
Re: Man Shares Shocking Response From Talking Stage Who Refused To Pay Back Money by MaziObinnaokija: 5:36pm On Nov 24, 2025
angryHer family go pay if he drag her well.
DyshApp:
The money he’ll spend in sueing her will definitely be more than 20k and if she can’t even pay 20k she won’t be able to pay anything more
Re: Man Shares Shocking Response From Talking Stage Who Refused To Pay Back Money by alpharoyalty: 5:38pm On Nov 24, 2025
He should share her pic so we boys will avoid her 😉
Re: Man Shares Shocking Response From Talking Stage Who Refused To Pay Back Money by Yong4ever(m): 5:42pm On Nov 24, 2025
DyshApp:
A young man is making waves on social media after sharing his frustrating experience with a “talking stage“, who he lent money.

In a viral WhatsApp chat screen recording shared on X (formerly Twitter) by @Teniola, the man recalled lending her ₦20k and even shared his account details to make repayment.

The lady, however, responded by asking if he was actually serious about taking the money back, and tensions quickly rose.

He reminded her that she had asked him to lend her money to sort out an issue due to her app not functioning, and he trusted her word.

She still insisted that even though her app had problems, it didn’t mean he should demand repayment. She became upset, saying she wouldn’t pay the money because the app was still malfunctioning and wouldn’t work forever.

Many took to the comments section to weigh in. One commentator said, “He helped her, now she’s making him feel guilty.” Another wrote, “When generosity becomes a drama… Nigerian relationships sef.”

What started as a simple act of trust became a heated conversation, leaving Nigerians divided: should he have demanded repayment, or let go of the money.
That's dubious, she needs to be sued for it,it doesn't matter who lends you the said money,so far you borrowed it,you need to pay back for credibility sake,the lender might now decide to ask you not to bother based on some factors if he or she wishes.
Re: Man Shares Shocking Response From Talking Stage Who Refused To Pay Back Money by chatinent: 5:47pm On Nov 24, 2025
Person wey you go carry police go pick una dey exchange letters.
Re: Man Shares Shocking Response From Talking Stage Who Refused To Pay Back Money by rajiedreez: 5:47pm On Nov 24, 2025
Alimanjiri
Re: Man Shares Shocking Response From Talking Stage Who Refused To Pay Back Money by Lovit(m): 5:51pm On Nov 24, 2025
'I nor get" would have saved you all these stress

Dem nor dey borrow Nigerian girl money, just give her what you can afford to ignore or tell am say you nor get
Re: Man Shares Shocking Response From Talking Stage Who Refused To Pay Back Money by Iretii0511(m): 5:54pm On Nov 24, 2025
ruggedtimi:
sue to where..for a loan?
For fraud.
Re: Man Shares Shocking Response From Talking Stage Who Refused To Pay Back Money by kenchop: 5:56pm On Nov 24, 2025
WRETCHED GIRLS EVERYWHERE
Re: Man Shares Shocking Response From Talking Stage Who Refused To Pay Back Money by CodeTemplarr: 6:01pm On Nov 24, 2025
The app wouldn't work forever unless he buys her another phone of around N500k, sub data of N100k, then finally get back his N20k.
Lol. Endtime relationship
Re: Man Shares Shocking Response From Talking Stage Who Refused To Pay Back Money by Nobody:
It's a script...

It called opening a bank account...that was your account opening deposit.

Just say no to anyone you are not intimate with, as a basic rule. You will save a lot.

You can expand the rule as you become more discerning.


DyshApp:
A young man is making waves on social media after sharing his frustrating experience with a “talking stage“, who he lent money.

In a viral WhatsApp chat screen recording shared on X (formerly Twitter) by @Teniola, the man recalled lending her ₦20k and even shared his account details to make repayment.

The lady, however, responded by asking if he was actually serious about taking the money back, and tensions quickly rose.

He reminded her that she had asked him to lend her money to sort out an issue due to her app not functioning, and he trusted her word.

She still insisted that even though her app had problems, it didn’t mean he should demand repayment. She became upset, saying she wouldn’t pay the money because the app was still malfunctioning and wouldn’t work forever.

Many took to the comments section to weigh in. One commentator said, “He helped her, now she’s making him feel guilty.” Another wrote, “When generosity becomes a drama… Nigerian relationships sef.”

What started as a simple act of trust became a heated conversation, leaving Nigerians divided: should he have demanded repayment, or let go of the money.
Re: Man Shares Shocking Response From Talking Stage Who Refused To Pay Back Money by BItt: 6:17pm On Nov 24, 2025
There is nothing wrong ito borrow someone money. This one has no intention of paying ba
Re: Man Shares Shocking Response From Talking Stage Who Refused To Pay Back Money by Hayzead07(m): 6:20pm On Nov 24, 2025
No pity for him. You go dey borrow woman money. If at all, he ought to know better to have sent what he can afford to let go
Re: Man Shares Shocking Response From Talking Stage Who Refused To Pay Back Money by AllBlack: 6:33pm On Nov 24, 2025
DyshApp:
The money he’ll spend in sueing her will definitely be more than 20k and if she can’t even pay 20k she won’t be able to pay anything more
Bros why u dey talk like this?

Thats even the more reason to sue her so it will be like a WILD DREAM to her when she is hit with a 5 million naira lawsuit over 20k.
Re: Man Shares Shocking Response From Talking Stage Who Refused To Pay Back Money by AllBlack: 6:33pm On Nov 24, 2025
Hayzead07:
No pity for him. You go dey borrow woman money. If at all, he ought to know better to have sent what he can afford to let go
Walahi he make mistake but she seff no dey right and e good as he let her know.
Re: Man Shares Shocking Response From Talking Stage Who Refused To Pay Back Money by Moreze: 6:36pm On Nov 24, 2025
Entitle mentally. How useless most of them has become..I hate girls who act this way..
Re: Man Shares Shocking Response From Talking Stage Who Refused To Pay Back Money by OlujobaSamuel: 6:46pm On Nov 24, 2025
One still do am for me few months ago,the money sef Na just 2k, I actually reconfirm from her if Na borrow or dash, as she already accused me of never wanting to give her money when she knows I'm having, she requested for data, I told her me self just dey find who go sub for me.
I borrowed her the 2k after she promised heaven and earth to pay back, I gave her 24hrs after due repayment time, I no see alert.
I just made it a point of duty to drag her first thing in the morning and last thing at night, she vexed, curse, e no concern me, after 4days, she sent the money still abuse me join
I told her, next time don't borrow when you are not willing to repay
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