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Double0h7:
I would never speak to my child like that. She is a human being and her purpose in life is not determined by her relationships with others. That’s a dehumanising statement to make about your own child.

I don't think you're a father yet. When you become one you'll.understand the frustration this father felt when he spoke like this

SmartPolician:
Thank you

Wetin you dey thank the oversabi person for. You're Nigerian... Saying Mannerless is okay. We understand.

Me wey dey Anambra here wey dem dey call "road" load and "rice" lice, as "rong" as I understand wetin dem dey pass across, it's all good😁🤧

Not her fault , they keep marrying her

Some Ladies na just Natural Signpost.
They are naturally designed to officiate, and direct others to their heartthrobs
Some are naturally designed to be sidechicks

Double0h7:
I would never speak to my child like that. She is a human being and her purpose in life is not determined by her relationships with others. That’s a dehumanising statement to make about your own child.

na people like you dey spoil piking, what is dehumanizing in that statement now? .

NoahHadNoArk:
Why blame the father, what happened to advising girls to stop the sampling and stick to one dick, that way she learns how to stay faithful to one man through thick or thin?!

One divorce could be swept away with reports of violence and domestic abuse.


But two divorces is enough to call all the ex husbands for a very awkward meeting which is certain to produce so many answers as to who is at fault here and what stuff the girl is made of




Again I say what wrong has the father done?!

You dey follow woman argue?
All the best.

NoahHadNoArk:
Why blame the father, what happened to advising girls to stop the sampling and stick to one dick, that way she learns how to stay faithful to one man through thick or thin?!

One divorce could be swept away with reports of violence and domestic abuse.


But two divorces is enough to call all the ex husbands for a very awkward meeting which is certain to produce so many answers as to who is at fault here and what stuff the girl is made of




Again I say what wrong has the father done?!

One bad habit I've noticed from majority of women is that they're quick to defend the bad character of their fellow women, and will never take responsibility for their actions.

See the way she's quick to blame the father of the girl as if he's the one that told her to be changing husband up and down.

Double0h7:
I would never speak to my child like that. She is a human being and her purpose in life is not determined by her relationships with others. That’s a dehumanising statement to make about your own child.

Then, she should stop bringing husbands home for her dad to marry her off again and again, the old man is tired. Because, you and I know that she's the one bringing potential new husbands to her daddy, not like dad is the one shopping for husbands for her

Double0h7:
End time father! May we never have or become such a parent. 😭

Why does she keep disgracing herself and her dad? If it was me, I would stop participating in her yeye weddings

Double0h7:
I would never speak to my child like that. She is a human being and her purpose in life is not determined by her relationships with others. That’s a dehumanising statement to make about your own child.

What exactly is your point here? A lady is getting married for the third time, not because she lost her husbands but was returned back to her father which is very clear that her bad character is the cause of her marriage failure and you're here talking about her purpose. No responsible father will be happy with that kind of news from his daughter. And am sure is that anger that made him say that to her. Although for me I cannot
say that to my daughter in public but will definitely scold her with that same words in private.

I don't encourage nonsense.

Mumu try the read an article before fooling yourself 😏

Double0h7:
End time father! May we never have or become such a parent. 😭

Kobojunkie:
That father should be very grateful his daughter is better off than Osinachi who got no second chance. He should gladly take her back instead of having her end up six feet under.

Just imagine, you have already concluded that she was being beaten and molested by those husbands, that's why her marriages failed.
I'm still waiting when your comments won't be about supporting women but men too.

Kalulu44:
➜Just imagine, you have already concluded that she was being beaten and molested by those husbands, that's why her marriages failed.
➜I'm still waiting when your comments won't be about supporting women but men too.

I never reached such a conclusion... You let your imagination do all that for you. Don't dump that on me like a coward!

2. Well, you should instead tell me what reason I have to have to set myself against a woman who is assumed to be not being forced here into what seems a fourth marriage?

Double0h7:
I would never speak to my child like that. She is a human being and her purpose in life is not determined by her relationships with others. That’s a dehumanising statement to make about your own child.

Do u think the father have peace within him that his own daughter keep coming out of one marriage and entering the other? Of course not, she is causing the father a heavy disgrace among his make folks naaaa. I know of a girl of 30 years of age that gave birth to four children for three men, the mum cried bitterly and cursed her .

Kobojunkie:
I never reached such a conclusion... You let your imagination do all that for you. Don't dump that on me like a coward!

2. Well, you should instead tell me what reason I have to have to set myself against a woman who is assumed to be not being forced here into what seems a fourth marriage?

Your comment, it's good she's alive than being dead like Osinachi says it all that you've concluded that she has been in abusive marriage

Kalulu44:
➜Your comment, it's good she's alive than being dead like Osinachi says it all that you've concluded that she has been in abusive marriage

Wrong! It simply insinuates that, whatever her reasons for leaving, she is better off than those who stayed back in unfulfilling/toxic/abusive/emotionally draining/unhappy/miserable marriages, only to end up dead for that choice they made. There are so many reasons why a woman would choose to leave a marriage or another. That in no way suggests she must have been abused, which is the particular conclusion you chose to reach all by yourself there.

Double0h7:
End time father! May we never have or become such a parent. 😭

See your life,no wonder Birds of the same feather flock together,if it's good they wouldn't reject it

And the third husband still wan collect am

It never happened. Leave twitter people and lies

Kobojunkie:
Wrong! It simply insinuates that, whatever her reasons for leaving, she is better off than those who stayed back in unfulfilling/toxic/abusive/emotionally draining/unhappy/miserable marriages, only to end up dead for that choice they made. There are so many reasons why a woman would choose to leave a marriage or another. That in no way suggests she must have been abused, which is the particular conclusion you chose to reach all by yourself there.

There you go again, she leaving. What if it was the men that were leaving her?

Kobojunkie:
That father should be very grateful his daughter is better off than Osinachi who got no second chance. He should gladly take her back instead of having her end up six feet under.

They keep returning her to me, which shows she is at fault

So sad she's unfortunate or probably has a bad character

Kalulu44:
There you go again, she leaving. What if it was the men that were leaving her?

She is still not in the marriage means she left a marriage and she did so alive. 😁🥱🥱

Double0h7:
End time father! May we never have or become such a parent. 😭

Did he lie?

Double0h7:
I would never speak to my child like that. She is a human being and her purpose in life is not determined by her relationships with others. That’s a dehumanising statement to make about your own child.

What is dehumanizing about what he said? Lightening they say doesn't strike a place twice. If it does then there is a problem somewhere.
Those two men cannot be wrong. Let's watch and see how it goes with the third because the same thing might still happen if she doesn't work on herself. At this rate she will become a glorified prostitute.
The father is even trying walking her up and down the aisle. Some father's won't bear the shame.
Let's stop supporting rubbish abeg. Marriage didn't start today for her to be doing merry go round with hers.

Third husband? She should know by now that marriage is not for her. She needs to check and work on her character as a lady.

The third one won't be any different trust me. There is definitely something she needs to work on in her attitude as a lady.

Harddiskng:
I don’t know why some men don’t see a red flag even when the whole pole is on fire.

All men are the same, simple creatures. Likes peace of mind, want love, respect and rest of mind.

Woman wey two men marry and reject, as a man you shouldn’t think that you have the most manliness to marry her. It’s common sense to avoid such venture cuz he might be the one that won’t make it out alive.

As extreme as this may sound.....
It's just so true.

Some men unfortunately think they can harbor all sorts of attitude from such women until they are at the very receiving end of it....

Pity!

so u mean men should avoid single mother

Samantha125:
I don't think I'd ever remarry if my marriage fails, what's the use of remarrying again if I already have children? The next husband might not even like them and starts ill treating them because they'd not be biologically his.

Introducing the children to different men as their step fathers would also constantly confuse the children.

Niwdog:
They keep returning her to me, which shows she is at fault

I am glad the world outside of your mind does not operate according to your particular biases. 🥱🥱🥱

You mean they gathered guests 3 times?

Double0h7:
I would never speak to my child like that. She is a human being and her purpose in life is not determined by her relationships with others. That’s a dehumanising statement to make about your own child.

You really don't know how shameful and painful it is for a parent to keep having his daughter disgracefully returned after each marriage.

Fine face go carry woman go husband house, bad character go carry am go back her Papa house