₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
Nature never intended these things as some sort of competition for the human race, but rather as an opportunity to allow for the creation of the best possible outcomes for the entire race. An 80-year-old man with a higher risk of producing defective children and also at higher risk of not being available to see and raise the child is not the best for either the child or the human race, don't you see? nd given the state of our health system, that child may have to deal with health issues for a significant enough amount of time if he inherited possible genetic defects and would not have his parents around to help with the cost.

Some things should be rightly discouraged, not celebrated.

SpencerForbes:
The choice is yours Just ensure you are ready for the inevitable moments: explaining to your children why they lack a father at events like Parents/Teachers Forums, or handling situations where they need a parental figure when you are absent. You must be prepared to fully embody both the mother and father roles, like aunty Tonto (she even had to dress like a man on Father’s Day) to ensure your children never feel the void of the missing parent.

Goodluck ✌️

Omowale2023:
How?
Which evidence supports your fallacious theory that older men can give birth to children with deformities?
Have you seen one before in your entire life?
Some of you just talk without reasoning and comprehension. Gosh......so annoying 😤😤😤

Omowale2023:
How? Which evidence supports your fallacious theory that older men can give birth to children with deformities?
Have you seen one before in your entire life?
Some of you just talk without reasoning and comprehension. Gosh......so annoying 😤😤😤

SixSeven:
How old is she again

The irony of life is that women mature faster than men, that's why they look down at you men when you are 16-28. Fortunately, the wise ones among them at this age know the best thing to do, the unwise keep building fantasies but reality sets in in their 40s when biology no be your mate again. The biological instinct will set in and they will swallow any fantasy they had and face reality. That's why you don't need to argue with them, allow them come to reality by themselves. Nobody leaves this world alive... The Lord is good.... All the time.

He who finds a good wife hath found a good thing! Keep the treasure.

Kobojunkie:
. Here's hoping you don't lose the pregnancy lottery, as some women out there did. If your looks are important to you, maybe pay a surrogate to birth your kids for you.

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
➜The pictures you posted are the actual image of those ladies without make up, so rest!

Kobojunkie:
You should Google to realize the new discovery made of men's biological clock this past October. It is a very interesting reveal which shows that difficult pregnancies and major birth deforms are actually more a result of the male biological clock than it is the female one. Check it out asap.🥱🥱
https://www.nairaland.com/8541960/men-actually-biological-clock-silent
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11026002/

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
➜You took advantage of the averseness of the average Nigerian to reading to make the bolded lie. I went through the entire document and at no point did it make any comparative statement between male and female fertility rates as age sets in. On the contrary, it states that male fertility can linger till 90, which cannot be said of female fertility, so hanty, please rest!

Kobojunkie:
I guess you are also one of those average readers in addition to the fact that comprehension seems to be a weakness of yours as well.

Where in the text you read do you come off reasoning that fertility in men does not linger until and even past 90?

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
➜The link to the document you sent without reading states that male fertility lingers 90, go read that?

Kobojunkie:
Again, what aspect of my comment suggested to you that male fertility does not linger up to 90 or beyond?

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
➜Did you not see that in addition to the statement that male fertility lingers till 90, I added that the same cannot be said of female fertility? That statement shatters your claim that female fertility is less affected by age than male fertility., and the document you posted did not help your claim.

Kobojunkie:
Again, what aspect of my comment suggested to you that male fertility does not linger up to 90 or beyond?

Notice how you continue to refuse to answer my question because you know well that the conversation that I was having had absolutely nothing to do with the length of fertility, but rather with the quality of fertility with age. You chose to ignore that so you could deviate from the main issue, only to pretend then that you could force your distracted line of reasoning on me as though to suggest that I somehow had my focus wrong. But I am not interested. So, move on along.

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
➜You are still talking about quality of fertility with age? Did the document you posted compare the quality of male and female fertility with age? Did you think we will not read it? Did you read it yourself? A man may have low quality fertility at 90, a woman has zero fertility at 80. Rest!

LegacyB:
Why attack a whole tribe for some people’s dumb Choices?

SpencerForbes:
The choice is yours Just ensure you are ready for the inevitable moments: explaining to your children why they lack a father at events like Parents/Teachers Forums, or handling situations where they need a parental figure when you are absent. You must be prepared to fully embody both the mother and father roles, like aunty Tonto (she even had to dress like a man on Father’s Day) to ensure your children never feel the void of the missing parent.

Goodluck ✌️

Jman06:
Igbo parents have really failed in this generation and that is why all these shameful things are happening in our tribe. Parents now watch as their daughters grow old in their houses and sometimes they do this for their selfish interests, especially if the daughter is doing well financially. Mothers for instance are failing in instilling marriage consciousness in their daughters. It's all about money, money and money! No values! No morals!
Am I the only one who feels ashamed that all these ladies having and wishing to have children out of wedlock are Igbos? That represents a failure in cultural values and our people must rise to the challenge and nip such disgraceful practice in the buds.

Lalami3232:
Age sabi humble people sha . If you hear the kind of men wey these non-virgins dey request for when dem dey early 20's, you will be shocked. Dem go say " a rich man who loves me, tall, handsome, romantic, chisel abs aka six packs, sweet, treat me like a queen etc ". You go see dem online saying, I can't cook for a man, I can't wash for a man bla bla bla. When 30+ comes knocking, standard go don low. You see them saying "I can do anything for a man I love" . Do you mean that you didn't love any man in your early 20's? You no find any man worthy to marry in your 20's but your kpekus find alot of preeq worthy to collect digging from . You wey no meet your wife as a virgin and you think she was different, I greet you sir .

What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA test

SixSeven:
This statement Mercy said,

I have heard women say this. At the point in life where reality sets in, they don't care. They have the career, they have the money but they miss that child. Life is indeed a strange journey. I asked one of them the other day why she couldn't get pregnant for a guy, she said, she cannot afford to have a baby for a man that would only donate sperm for her so she will rather do IVF and choose from there instead of giving herself 'freely' to the man. In her mind, she bought it. That's women for you The cheaper option is not worth it because of that pride so they don't mind spending money on the child that will never know who his real father is. Their thinking, only few understand it. Once you understand it, just play along with them IVF is also not cheap but you don't discuss logic with women when they are on their emotional roller-coaster. They hate the truth because it embarrasses them so they divert your attention with unrelated issues. Women are naturally more selfish than men but that's a topic for another day.