Uriel Oputa Seeks Fans' Advice As Mum's Dementia Makes Her Consider Having A Child Out Of Wedlock (Video)

IgbereTV reports that the former Big Brother Naija reality star, Uriel Oputa has opened up to her followers about her struggles and why she's considering having a child the unconventional way as a result. She said she has been celibate for almost four years.

December will make it four years since she hasn't dated anyone. She said she went celibate to save herself from getting hurt again.

But considering the fact that her mother is suffering from dementia and could soon forget everything, including her children, Uriel has contemplated having a child the unconventional way, rather than waiting until whenever she meets a man and gets married, during which time her mother's health may have declined.

Uriel said: "My mum... If I leave it any longer and I don't meet anybody anytime soon, she won't remember my child.

"Even if I were to introduce my child to my mum, and she's at her later stages of her illness, no connection, she will just... nothing. She's already on her way out. And that made me angry. It made me angry.

"I've never questioned religion in any way and I never will question religion... never question God, but I question my morals and for me that was deep.

"I question my morals in the sense of, I said to myself, 'what if I wanted to have a child in order for my child and for me to give my mum the chance to have a connection with my child before she goes?'

"Because, my mum is going to forget the memories that we cherished together..."

In tears, Uriel narrated a cherished memory she fears her mother will forget.

"And she'll forget all of that. She'll forget my name. So while she's still there just a little bit, would it be such a bad idea for me to have a child? And that thought crossed my head and I was like, 'no no no. It's not culturally... It's not right culture-wise. People might look down at me. People might say, 'you're wrong', 'I hate you' or 'you're setting a bad example'.

"So in what situation does a situation become morally right."

She continues: "Put your self in this shoe, and I'm not saying that I'm going to do it, but if you was in my position, would you say having a child whatever way - artificial insemination or whatever - is wrong? Is it morally right or wrong?

"You guys decide and let me know. It's a very interesting topic and I wanted to share that with you.

Watch the video below.

https://www.instagram.com/tv/B4NltkSHP1u/?igshid=lwr41tgzy3ez


http://igberetvnews.com/1098608/uriel-oputa-seeks-fans-advice-mums-dementia-makes-consider-child-wedlock-video/

Not this shit,I believe you must be very depressed for you to come out with such a stupid? Gone where the day when you remember God Punishment and he'll threats in all you do, is now a norm in Nigerian Christians to have a child out of wedlock just to keep breeding Bastard's in the society

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lol

U need to atleast have a bf serious or casual 1st before talking about this. She talks too much

Inside life

Fine gal ;

No wonder she was seducing big brother whenever she was called upon to speak with Big brother in the house then .

May God give your own ADEORI

December will make it four years since she hasn't dated anyone. She said she went celibate to save herself from getting hurt again.

We will advice you to keep this up.
Chikena!

When 9ja girl dey ask this kain question in present future tense, she don get belle already

This girl and attention seeking

Your choice... It's not against Nigeria's constitution.

Ok

Do you and the world will adjust...
I love this

Just forcing attention

MobilityExpress:
When 9ja girl dey ask this kain question in present future tense, she don get belle already

4 years faya

Na so Linda dey decieve her fans that year

Uriel, you sef you're running out of time. After all, you are in your 30's and you're becoming high risk yourself.

Do the artificial insemintation and have your child if you can't find a man. Not everyone will find a man, and we can't all keep waiting for goddoth, do you. If you make peace with the idea of AI, please, go ahead. Man that will come will come, kids or not. There are women with four kids remarrying, just as there are women with no kids not even marrying at all.

Make hay while the sun shines, in an age of unserious men, you have to take your destiny in your own hands. If i'm in my thirties without man, AI would definitely be an option

How do prostitutes like her even expect to attract responsible guys?

Trash... Anything to get noticed.

God will bring ur husband Uriel. If God can do it for Simi mom in her 50s,yours is a small case.

NonFarmPayrol:


4 years faya

Na so Linda dey decieve her fans that year

NonFarmPayrol:


4 years faya

Na so Linda dey decieve her fans that year

Itz just the tip that enta

Nothing is wrong or right.It is only perception that makes it so.

Anthony Joshua warming up to scatter that big buddy anyhow..... However, be careful #gelato crooner get her eyes on him.

This one just want to talk. Just do wetin dey your mind and let us hear word. Stop wasting Nairaland ink with unnecessary threads

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That’s a whole lot she spilled out there.

Chai, my only brother who married a woman that can't cook, even to sweep sef wahala, washes clothes on top bed, kitchen dirty enough to quench your hunger, chai, see woman na, home-girl, always happy despite her fear and pains.....chai i for say make my brother marry you, handsome man, asst director for office, chai chai chai, and too much church no let him carry that woman go her mama house

It’s a personal decision...If it’s gonna give you peace and create happiness then go ahead.... But I would advice you pray to God for a good partner cos you will definitely need a companion once your mom leaves for the world beyond �