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Freshandfitpod:
how much do you pay daily for it, no relationship is free, as a man you are always paying for it. Stop paying and see what will happen

is sex free

ukaface:
Hungry girl jam guy wey wan impress

how much you dey bill guys daily

Naa person wey get better money dey go on 50k date. I dey struggle for my life

SpencerForbes:
No vex😂😂 I’m a human before a man. I Dey help man, I Dey help woman. The money was something I could give a total stranger whether male or female.

Yes, you are free to help. Give part of it not all. Let her learn her lessons and be accountable next time. It's only in part of this world women are not accountable!

ThunderFireAgba:
Yes, you are free to help. Give part of it not all. Let her learn her lessons and be accountable next time. It's only in part of this world women are not accountable!

Valid point. Honestly, if we’re keeping it 💯 , I’d rather help a lady than a guy. I know some people will come for my head 😂😂 (I prefer helping younger guys) than those “I been get am before” men.

From my experience, I’ve received way more support from the female gender. You’ll ask a guy for help, he’ll say he’s broke and tell you to 'hustle harder,' only for you to find out he’s spending that same cash on a babe. Meanwhile, a lady who genuinely likes you will stick her neck out for you.

That said, I separate friendship from dating. I help my female friends because they reciprocate most times than men. But for my main chick? I apply brakes to avoid 'see finish.' 😂 Even professionally, na women dey refer clients pass men.

DyshApp:
A man has taken to X (Twitter) to share a costly and disappointing first-date experience, revealing that he spent over ₦100,000 on food and transportation only for the relationship to fizzle out immediately afterward.

In his post, he explained that he went on a first date where he spent ₦109,000 on food and an additional ₦18,000 on a Bolt ride.

Despite the grand gesture, the connection didn’t last.

He recounted some of the frustrations from the date, saying that they first ordered food worth ₦90,000, which they couldn’t finish.

Only for her to order more stuff, then pack the whole food, the leftovers, and the newly ordered ones home, without asking if he cared for any.

Reflecting on the experience, he advised caution for future dates, promising never to involve himself in such again.

He concluded his post with a blunt takeaway, saying he thinks he’s better off alone because he’s tired of meeting ‘funny’ people.

The post has since resonated with many online, sparking conversations about first dates, expectations, and the modern dating experience.

His tweet read;

“Went on a first date two weeks ago. Food 109k, bolt 18k. Now we aren’t talking anymore. Learned to never do that again. If you aren’t going on a walk or to a restaurant I recommend, and you recommend more expensive ones, I’ll ghost from there.

First ordered food of 90k, which we couldn’t finish. Only for her to order other stuff. Then they packed the rest of the food, and she took it all without asking if I cared for any. ngl I’m better off alone. Tired of meeting funny people.“

Over time this Man of Culture has squandered enough money on wine, women and song to fund a presidential campaign, but when I consider the returns on my investment, averaged over time, I can attest with full authority that all is well in the known universe at this time.

Jakumo:
Over time this Man of Culture has squandered enough money on wine, women and song to fund a presidential campaign, but when I consider the returns on my investment, averaged over time, I can attest with full authority that all is well in the known universe at this time.

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The poor gentleman has not seen where men spend millions only to be ghosted.

DeepSight:
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The poor gentleman has not seen where men spend millions only to be ghosted.

Man pikin will spend his very last penny just for a taste of the Promised Land for which every beautiful woman is the expensive gatekeeper.

Jakumo:
Man pikin will spend his very last penny just for a taste of the Promised Land for which every beautiful woman is the expensive gatekeeper.

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Arizoner:
whats your thoughts on urgent 2k gals

My thoughts on them are simple...they're not looking for relationships, they’re looking for sponsors. Their entire strategy is built around finding the next person to bill. It’s never about love, connection, effort, or reciprocity.

If every conversation you have with a girl somehow ends with a soft joke about money, a coded hint, or a direct request, just know that you’re dealing with someone who has turned begging into a lifestyle. And once you start giving, she'll see you as an ATM she can shake anytime things are tight.

Any lady who bills you constantly without shame has shown you exactly who she is. The best thing you can do is step back and let her find someone else to fund that behaviour.

SpencerForbes:
Valid point. Honestly, if we’re keeping it 💯 , I’d rather help a lady than a guy. I know some people will come for my head 😂😂 (I prefer helping younger guys) than those “I been get am before” men.

From my experience, I’ve received way more support from the female gender. You’ll ask a guy for help, he’ll say he’s broke and tell you to 'hustle harder,' only for you to find out he’s spending that same cash on a babe. Meanwhile, a lady who genuinely likes you will stick her neck out for you.

That said, I separate friendship from dating. I help my female friends because they reciprocate most times than men. But for my main chick? I apply brakes to avoid 'see finish.' 😂 Even professionally, na women dey refer clients pass men.

Ok bro. Whatever rocks your boat. Our stories are different, just like our destinies differ. There's no manual to relationship and life. 🤝

Arizoner:
how much you dey bill guys daily

When did I tell you I’m hungry?

muyico:
Gen Z will not stop to amaze me,

Honestly

Despite several comedy skit and films done on situation like this,some mugu are still falling!

Chief2410:
Lol, if he loses his job,he will finally realise he has been married to his enemy

Not necessarily his Enemy....But...
To me showering praises too Quickly in ROSY situation is not wise.

You a Witness?

Immatex:
Being happily married to a loyal woman (SPDAZZY) for 10 years and I will always count my marriage a blessing from God.

Never being insensitive to her demands but has proven to be Godly, virtuous, loving wife and mother, something now quite rear about this generation of women.

Our commitment is for happily ever after!

By the way, she’s also very brilliantly and only recently became a phd holder from a UK top university.

goody1shoe73:
You a Witness?

Certainly!