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MrDoGood:
➜Did you read where Reg asked Ned "What have you done for me?"
➜ That's my summary to everything you wrote there

. I don't know about them, so, I cannot speak to the question or their condition. But here's a question for you. What makes you think she had no right to ask those questions of the man who said he would a husband to her husband? Is he exempt from needing to answer the woman because he is supposedly a billionaire like the many other billionaires you have in Nigeria?

2. I am sorry, but ain't no summary but a bullsheet offering!

Kobojunkie:
1. Women are not commodities; rather, relationships are transactional. Note the difference! A man who wants a certain type of woman should be willing and able to take on a part of what it costs— be it financial cost, emotional, physical& mental labor, etc.,— for her to maintain herself in the way that he likes her. A man who wants a woman who dresses like a million dollars should be ready to have to take on some of the cost of maintaining that million-dollar look that he so likes. This is nothing new.

There have always been costs associated with dating culture; this is something that adult men and women have engaged in for centuries; only a child of a man would think he could get a woman he cannot afford above his range at no cost to him.

2. I don't play these childish games with your kind, using the content of that book, which you lot have little or no regard for at the end of the day. 🥱🥱🥱🥱

Everytime I see your post it reminds me of this

irumole1975:
I didn’t know what to say so I just left her on read. And I liked one of the msgs where she prayed for me. I wish her well tho

Don't reply!

Kobojunkie:
People who have jobs can also see what they want to buy and expect to be able to ask their boyfriends/girlfriends for at least some of the money they need to buy it. That is normal behavior among those who are dating.

..if she is desperate to look for guys that will buy all she wants and her needs....she can go and date a guy that she does not actually know much about and who the guy is ...all that glitters is not gold..that is why many girls date and fall into hands of dating a guy which they do not know that he is a ritualist, kidnapper, cultist, ... and the guy will use her for money ritual ..many girls have been victims of money rituals especially at this ember month period because the girl is desperate for money and a rich guy..so because of desperation she can fall into the wrong guys , ritualist..all that glitters is not gold ... that is why I am saying she should not depends much on guys for money and her needs..she should be contented and work inorder to make money to provide her own needs... they are some girls out there working and hustling and providing their own needs without much depending on their guys for money and not disturbing their guys to much for money...guys respect girls that are independent, girls that do not depend on guys for survival, money or their needs..guys respect such girls and guys respect and do not maltreat such girls

I'm

Nefort:
Women are allowed to work these days. Women earn so much money and compete with men for jobs, but they still want to depend on men for their financial needs. So what is the usefulness of allowing women to work when they still depend on men financially? Wouldn't it be better to stop women from working so more men can get jobs and the money to take care of women?

best comment so far

Kobojunkie:
None of this makes any sense to me, nor do I find any correlation between this nonsense and what I posted.

A woman obtaining her financial independence does not free any man from the responsibility of catering to her needs( as determined by her) while he is dating her and possibly married to her. Her financial independence does not erase or impact this responsibility that her potential suitors should know they submit to should they engage her.

In a nutshell, you must buy a woman things for her to be your girl friend right?

irumole1975:
I didn’t know what to say so I just left her on read. And I liked one of the msgs where she prayed for me. I wish her well tho

If your story is true, that girl name probably start with G or H. That’s why most of them are still single

Kobojunkie:
There is an easier way not to have to add a woman to your budget at all. Don't date women at all. You can always date your fellow men.

your opinion

Chetas81:
your opinion

It ain't an opinion but a fact. Men can and do date other men. Most men who do it are too ashamed to admit that their admiration lies with their fellow men and not with women..🥱🥱

Montana23:
That was what Lola typed to me..thankfully i am good 🙂

did u dig her well

ukaface:
So at this age and time, women still Dey do dependency on men?

Frivolous behaviour

Break up because of no money for hair

first time you spoke sense

Bo obo je

Arizoner:
did u dig her well

Boomyvig:
I’m always extra crafty with my money with any lady that I date. In fact, there was a time I did an investment through my ex. It was time to collect the profit , she didn’t know I had gone behind her back to change the withdrawal account from her account to mine. When money dropped I saw almost 80% and the rest went to her account. Come and see drama. I asked for her to send the remaining. That’s how she started showing her entitlement mentality. I quickly escalated the matter. I ensured I collected all my money to the last kobo. I don’t joke with my money especially with women. Aside basic financial bail out of 2k 3k, bill me beyond this range, I go just start to dey give excuse till she’s tired. When you realize women plenty even better than the current one giving you attitude, you won’t get pressured by any woman ever again.

so you give urgent 2k?

Arizoner:
so you give urgent 2k?

That was in the past, when I was very young. Not anymore. I date mature ladies who are gainfully employed. They don’t demand.

Kobojunkie:
So, a woman asking her man for money to take care of her hair needs is a street girl?

Why bother dating women when you are not willing to give even the bare minimum where dating is concerned? Why even engage women if you know you have nothing to offer them?

You’re always trying too hard to be relevant

Kobojunkie:
. She says she deserves better. So, yes, let her go, and you, too, can move on to finding yourself a woman well within your range. Work on getting a woman you can afford, or better still, put all of your energy into building your financial capacity and strength so you don't run up against the same issue again.

So you have concluded now that she really deserve better, not from herself but from a man. Is it a crime if she makes that better by herself.
What's the meaning of within his range?
Don't women ought to have range too?
How can a woman who depends on man for common airtime deserve better.
Na una dey make all these girls see us finish

Kobojunkie:
So, a woman asking her man for money to take care of her hair needs is a street girl?

Why bother dating women when you are not willing to give even the bare minimum where dating is concerned? Why even engage women if you know you have nothing to offer them?

And what are they offering back?

correctyourself:
Her tone said it all and very clear that both of you're:

1) Very young & inexperienced
2) Not relationship that would be meaningful
3) You're in a materialistic relationship
4) You're not stable financially for such relationships

Finally my advice; continue to improve and develop your yourself for the future ahead of you. Maybe you guys can still be together in future. She understands she needs help which you can't render for now.

Must the help come from a man, can't she help and sort ourselves without it being a man

Kobojunkie:
None of this makes any sense to me, nor do I find any correlation between this nonsense and what I posted.

A woman obtaining her financial independence does not free any man from the responsibility of catering to her needs( as determined by her) while he is dating her and possibly married to her. Her financial independence does not erase or impact this responsibility that her potential suitors should know they submit to should they engage her.

Just STFU

Kobojunkie:
1. Women are not commodities; rather, relationships are transactional. Note the difference! A man who wants a certain type of woman should be willing and able to take on a part of what it costs— be it financial cost, emotional, physical& mental labor, etc.,— for her to maintain herself in the way that he likes her. A man who wants a woman who dresses like a million dollars should be ready to have to take on some of the cost of maintaining that million-dollar look that he so likes. This is nothing new.

There have always been costs associated with dating culture; this is something that adult men and women have engaged in for centuries; only a child of a man would think he could get a woman he cannot afford above his range at no cost to him.

2. I don't play these childish games with your kind, using the content of that book, which you lot have little or no regard for at the end of the day. 🥱🥱🥱🥱

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