₦airaland Forum

Sermwell:
When I was in the university, me and my ex girlfriend cohabited for close to 4 years. She was studying pharmacy while I was studying law. There was nothing we didn't do sexually, including an*l sex and all. She even mistakenly took in 3 times and we had to abort because we weren't ready. We eventually broke up amicably after school. ...

Kaczynski:
oga rest


you are simply jealous




the woman you marry tommorrow person don already pipe am

Sermwell:
Jealous of what exactly? I was the one who ended the relationship amicably with her and told her to marry someone else when she gets the chance. So why should I be jealous?

Kobojunkie:
You intentionally refused to use protection during sex with your girlfriend, endangering her life 3 times — abortions in Nigeria remain very unsafe for the body of the woman— and you came here to announce this, why? So you could get applauded and commended for it?

Sermwell:
➜Two adults did something and you conveniently blame one of them? We cohabited for close to 4 years, and it's only normal for such to happen.

SultanOfPuna:
That is the African way of Life.
We are hypocrites to the core.

Our parents live and breath hypocrisy
That's why I don't take them serious including older people. Because they are all hypocrites.

Hypocrisy is an African way of life.

Kobojunkie:
Two adults did something... You mean to tell us that it was your body, too, that had to deal with the impacts of the abortions? Nonsense!

Sermwell:
➜Which impact are you talking about? Is the same girl not married now and the parents even claiming she's a virgin?

Kobojunkie:
Two adults did something... You mean to tell us that it was your body, too, that had to deal with the impacts of the abortions? Nonsense!

Meedon:
➜Why did the girl accept to cohabit with someone who is not her husband?

SultanOfPuna:
If you want to enjoy and live long in Africa
You must become a Hypocrite.

Nigeria is like a Masked Party
The losers are those who attended the party with their real face. You must wear mask to survive.

Nigeria is a place where a woman who has done 6 abortions will be claiming virgin and preaching No SEX before marriage.

Rev. Father's knacking up and down
Everybody doing opposite of what they preach
Everybody is wearing a mask.
Na the honest ones dey suffer. The real ones. The ones that quickly show their emotion.

Hypocrisy is the code of our existence in Africa. Know this and know peace

Kobojunkie:
Because she could, same way that you can.

Sermwell:
When I was in the university, me and my ex girlfriend cohabited for close to 4 years. She was studying pharmacy while I was studying law. There was nothing we didn't do sexually, including an*l sex and all. She even mistakenly took in 3 times and we had to abort because we weren't ready. We eventually broke up amicably after school.

Last Saturday, she had her wedding and invited me. To my shock, right in the church during the sermon and marriage counseling or whatever, the pastor began to praise her for keeping her virginity till marriage, and also praised her parents, who are elders in the church for bringing their daughter up in the way of the Lord. As if that wasn't enough, after the reception, I saw the groom lieing on camera of how it's a Godly marriage because he met his wife a virgin and they kept themselves till marriage bla bla bla. The girl's parents also spoke to the cameras advising other parents to train their children morally in the way of the Lord and sexual chastity bla bla bla.

My question is why lie about these things that are not even true in the first place? Why fake sexual chastity that's not there?

Meedon:
➜Anything her eyes see for such cohabitation make she take am.

advanceDNA:
U fvck up....when they were calling who object to the union why u nor raise your hand..... U allow ur guy man marry woman wey u don use use use use use ...abort 4 times..

. But guy.....u nor be better person oooooo

SultanOfPuna:
If you want to enjoy and live long in Africa
You must become a Hypocrite.

Nigeria is like a Masked Party
The losers are those who attended the party with their real face. You must wear mask to survive.

Nigeria is a place where a woman who has done 6 abortions will be claiming virgin and preaching No SEX before marriage.

Rev. Father's knacking up and down
Everybody doing opposite of what they preach
Everybody is wearing a mask.
Na the honest ones dey suffer. The real ones. The ones that quickly show their emotion.

Hypocrisy is the code of our existence in Africa. Know this and know peace

Sermwell:
But I don't have any objections to the marriage. I'm only wondering why they had to lie about virginity or not, when the wedding can still take place peacefully without any mention of virginity.

advanceDNA:
U sure wont see sarcasm even if it's a giant bill board in front of your house

its normal for women to lie about being chaste.....they believe it gives them some form of bragging rights ....They lie about body count, lie about paternity....and if they see they are dealing with an inexperienced man, sure why not...they'll lie about being being a virgin...

What I find weird is why you were invited to the wedding.....was it just you or all other other exes??

Sermwell:
When I was in the university, me and my ex girlfriend cohabited for close to 4 years. She was studying pharmacy while I was studying law. There was nothing we didn't do sexually, including an*l sex and all. She even mistakenly took in 3 times and we had to abort because we weren't ready. We eventually broke up amicably after school.

Last Saturday, she had her wedding and invited me. To my shock, right in the church during the sermon and marriage counseling or whatever, the pastor began to praise her for keeping her virginity till marriage, and also praised her parents, who are elders in the church for bringing their daughter up in the way of the Lord. As if that wasn't enough, after the reception, I saw the groom lieing on camera of how it's a Godly marriage because he met his wife a virgin and they kept themselves till marriage bla bla bla. The girl's parents also spoke to the cameras advising other parents to train their children morally in the way of the Lord and sexual chastity bla bla bla.

My question is why lie about these things that are not even true in the first place? Why fake sexual chastity that's not there?

AndroBlaze:
➜My brother, Ned Nwoko shamelessly did the same thing to, when no one asked him. He claimed he married Regina Daniel as a virgin on national TV, only for him and her to both confirm during this their fight that they had been sleeping together since before marriage and that she had already had an abortion for him.
It is those who believe everything they hear, especially the ones ready to die for politicians that I pity.
Like someone said earlier on this thread, to enjoy your peace in Nigeria, you must wear your mask and follow them with their hypocrisy.

Kobojunkie:
You intentionally refused to use protection during sex with your girlfriend, endangering her life 3 times — abortions in Nigeria remain very unsafe for the body of the woman— and you came here to announce this, why? You knew well the dangers of abortion on the bodies of women, yet you ignored that because, after all, it was not your body or life at risk each time. That's also why you came here to regale us with this story, let me guess... so you could get applauded and commended for it?

Uptheante:
➜Did he force her?

Kobojunkie:
Anyone below the age of consent is FORCED, by default.
Please, make Google your friend in these things.