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ukaface:
How is it your business sef?
You brought in bad energy to her and she cut you off
Fini

You guys should stop saying rubbish and say the truth for once. She is his or her friend, and if her friend can't tell her the truth no one else will. She felt insecure and hence block him or her bcus she can't swallow the truth

Oyeneku:
if she choose to piece her eye balls hw does that contribute to ur life.. u no go mind ur business ode..

What's wrong with you people, didn't you hear the op said they're friends. So friends can't tell each other what's good or bad.

Kobojunkie:
Many women out there would probably not consider you and OP husband material, does that mean that those women are better than you and OP? Nonsense!

why r u dodging my question, is dat d kind of woman you like to have as your wife

gassbee:
➜why r u dodging my question, is dat d kind of woman you like to have as your wife

I didn't dodge the question but simply posed it a different way to get you to see how unreasonable your original question really was.

Such busy body. It's not your body that was pierced, mind your gadamn business.

Kalulu44:
Yes she's insecure, if someone who she call a friend can't tell her the truth then no one will.

LoL 😄

Is it by force to take advice?

And dude actually had to loose sleep over it. 😃

GenFunction:
Get busy man,you won't know who stopped talking to you.

Make una dey let person hear word with this una motivational talks. They're friends and he or she the op have the right to feel concern.
For telling a friend a simple truth about her behavior doesn't warrant such. Yes he or she the op will definitely get over it over time

Outthemudbyvoke:
tears-ablazing keh? 😂😂😂 Indeed Nothing Amoda no go see for bandits hand o.

Yes o. Thanks to Trump's gun-ablazing. 😆

Yankiss:
I wonder what his interest is. If he wants her and she's into this stuff, he simply back off. Is she his sister? It's okay to just chill off. Creating a post for comments? That's crazy

Must she be his sister before he tell hers the truth. They're friends don't forget that. And if your friend can't tell you the truth no one will
She's just insecure bcus the truth hurts

Is this a news, an information or do you need advice?
Why do you people like making us waste our hard earned data reading and viewing rubbish?

abobote:
I think you are the insecure one here, a girl stopped talking to you and you are bothered

Why won't he be bothered. So a friend of yours just stop talking to you bcus you told he or she the truth and you will just take it like a pinch of salt.
Yes the op will get over it with time, but that shouldn't make him just wave it aside as nothing.

kings59:
We have two types of girls

The credit alert ones and the debit alert ones

Choose for yourself the one you want.

I would prefer the ones that would always make me have credit alert

Jasper! 😆

Kalulu44:
➜Yes she's insecure, if someone who she call a friend can't tell her the truth then no one will.

She is insecure for choosing to distance herself from someone who does not value her right to do whatever she pleases with her own body? Oh boy!

I think all of you bashing the op are not serious. How can you tell me a friend of yours just stop talking to you bcus you told he or she the truth about him or her. If you as a friend don't tell he or she the truth who else will.
And why do you guys think it's not his business and shouldn't have bothered she's not talking to him again. If he pretends or just forget about her bcus she's not talking to him, then they were not friends in the first place.
She stop talking too him bcus she's insecure and hates the truth. She wants someone who will be telling her everything she's doing is fine and good, even when they're bad.
@op it's good you raise such concern, but forget about her. Her talking to you or not will not add or minus anything from you. Except maybe she has been doing something for you.

Kalulu44:
What's wrong with you people, didn't you hear the op said they're friends. So friends can't tell each other what's good or bad.

Oga stop the regurgitating! Abi you be the Op using another moniker? 😏😏

Kobojunkie:
Many of you are really no different from the OP, incapable of minding your own business and life. The concept of live and let be is lost of you, ehn? 🥱🥱🥱

Let's hear word jor! She's his friend, so someone can't tell his friend his mind again.
If she can't swallow the truth, then she should get lost.

Kalulu44:
Make una dey let person hear word with this una motivational talks. They're friends and he or she the op have the right to feel concern.
For telling a friend a simple truth about her behavior doesn't warrant such. Yes he or she the op will definitely get over it over time

So Op actually needs time to get over the shading? LMAO 🤣🤣

Goodmarlian:
Some women are really insecure beings and don't like the truth. There is this female friend of mine who developed a sudden likeness towards piercing her body and fitting rings everywhere. She pierced her nose, pierced her ear with 3 holes, I didn't criticise her because it was still common among girls, but the last one she did was awkward I had to tell her it doesn't fit her

This girl has a protruding Tommy and went ahead to pierce he navel and fitted a belly ring and it doesn't look good on her because it fits only women with very flat tummy, she went ahead started making Dance videos on her WhatsApp which I know is to entice men.

She wore tight and a short top that was where I noticed she did a navel piercing. I told her straight up that it doesn't fit her ever since she stopped talking to me.

Google image used for illustration

You should have let her be since have told her once. I don't blame her for avoiding you. If you were in her shoes, you would have done the same. Besides, there are polite ways of telling people things and if they chose continue with what they want, you let them be.

Kalulu44:
Yes the op will get over it with time, but that shouldn't make him just wave it aside as nothing.

We go contribute sorry, handkerchief and basin for Op to help him get over his loss lmao 🤣😂

Kalulu44:
➜Let's hear word jor! She's his friend, so someone can't tell his friend his mind again. If she can't swallow the truth, then she should get lost.

A friend would not do to her what he did to her. A friend knows never to judge another by societal standards, which we all know are not set in stone or of value to most. 🥱🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
All she did was stop talking to you, and you felt you should come here and whine to us about it as though to suggest that you are entitled to her energy and attention in one way or form?

She also showed that she only wants people who praise her nonsense behavior around her.

gassbee:
➜you are hailing her lifestyle but u can't accept her to be your kind of wife you would want, you are a bloody hypocrite

She did not commit any crime that she should be charged as having a lifestyle that should not be hailed. So, why can't she be a wife, or what makes you think that you are somehow better than her?

Kobojunkie:
Too quick there since I also see nothing wrong in what the world woman chose to do with what is her own body. The Universal Human Rights of all allows individuals do what they please with their own bodies...OP is also wrong in thinking his opinion of her getting piercings should matter more in some way.

We all have opinions like arse holes. No one should pretend theirs is better than the others. Only facts carry more weight than opinions, and most out there are devoid of those... facts, that is.

Kobojunkie, we are talking about friends here.
So I can't tell my friend if what he or she did with his or her body is wrong or right?
If truly she's his Friend, why did she stop talking to him instead of asking him why he thinks what she did is not good and doesn't fit her.

olabrad:
➜She also showed that she only wants people who praise her nonsense behavior around her.

You mean the same way that OP came here telling us that she stopped talking to her for that, so he can also be praised for his nonsense behavior by others, right? 🥱🥱🥱

Kalulu44:
I think all of you bashing the op are not serious. How can you tell me a friend of yours just stop talking to you bcus you told he or she the truth about him or her. If you as a friend don't tell he or she the truth who else will.
And why do you guys think it's not his business and shouldn't have bothered she's not talking to him again. If he pretends or just forget about her bcus she's not talking to him, then they were not friends in the first place.
She stop talking too him bcus she's insecure and hates the truth. She wants someone who will be telling her everything she's doing is fine and good, even when they're bad.
@op it's good you raise such concern, but forget about her. Her talking to you or not will not add or minus anything from you. Except maybe she has been doing something for you.

You are surely the Op. Nothing anybody wan tell me. 🤣🤣😂

olabrad:
She also showed that she only wants people who praise her nonsense behavior around her.

Thank you jare! If your friend can't tell you the truth no one will. Leave Kobojunkie, as far it's a woman that they're talking about. She will always find a way to support them.

Kalulu44:
➜..., we are talking about friends here. So I can't tell my friend if what he or she did with his or her body is wrong or right?
➜ If truly she's his Friend, why did she stop talking to him instead of asking him why he thinks what she did is not good and doesn't fit her.

There is nothing wrong with getting body piercings. Wrong is something like committing a crime or doing drugs, of which body piercings aren't.

2. Probably because she finally realized that he is not her friend but someone who subjects her to criticism based on societal standards and not truth.

Truvelisback:
You should have let her be since have told her once. I don't blame her for avoiding you. If you were in her shoes, you would have done the same. Besides, there are polite ways of telling people things and if they chose continue with what they want, you let them be.

You are even pampering the simp.
Mummy see o 🤣

Kalulu44:
Make una dey let person hear word with this una motivational talks. They're friends and he or she the op have the right to feel concern.
For telling a friend a simple truth about her behavior doesn't warrant such. Yes he or she the op will definitely get over it over time

Na you see am as motivational talk.
If u like,u ursef don't get busy.
Everyone reserves the right to select who they allow into their lives.
If u can't understand this,then u have a problem.

Which one be feel concern ?

SisterAnn:
You are surely rrathe Op. Nothing anybody wan tell me. 🤣🤣😂

Lolz! I laugh you in Swahili. I'm not the op but I support the op 100%.
So I can't tell my friend the truth about what he or she did wrong. I can't be friends to someone who always wants praises irre I'mspective whether it's warranted or not