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Kalulu44:
Thank you jare! If your friend can't tell you the truth no one will. Leave Kobojunkie, as far it's a woman that they're talking about. She will always find a way to support them.

Even when supporting them makes her sound stopid, she'll still do it!

gassbee:
you are hailing her lifestyle but u can't accept her to be your kind of wife you would want, you are a bloody hypocrite

Oga nobody is hailing anybody. That Op came here to complain tears-ablazing because she stopped talking to him is whats cracking everyone up!
Aswearugad, Seun needs to make this site strictly 18+ 😆

Kalulu44:
What's wrong with you people, didn't you hear the op said they're friends. So friends can't tell each other what's good or bad.

Remember 10 friends can't be together for 10 years.

Everyone reserves the right to choose thier pals nd she didn't want to be frnds....na force?

SisterAnn:
Oga nobody is hailing anybody. That Op came here to complain tears-ablazing because she stopped talking to him is whats cracking everyone up!
Aswearugad, Seun needs to make this site strictly 18+ 😆

Lol...I swr

Kalulu44:
Lolz! I laugh you in Swahili. I'm not the op but I support the op 100%.
So I can't tell my friend the truth about what he or she did wrong. I can't be friends to someone who always wants praises irre I'mspective whether it's warranted or not

Then you simply keep your distance. Which one is the wailing that she's not talking to him and even branded her insecure? 😆

GenFunction:
Remember 10 friends can't be together for 10 years.

Everyone reserves the right to choose thier pals nd she didn't want to be frnds....na force?

She was never a friend in the first place. Bcus if she's, she would have ask him why he think otherwise about what she did. Had it been the guy told her she looks like miss world, she would have been happy abi? Those kind of people are not supposed to be someone's friend, cus they only want to hear praises from you and not scolding

GenFunction:
Lol...I swr

Mummy see oo 😅

olabrad:
Even when supporting them makes her sound stopid, she'll still do it!

I swear I tire for her. I always tell her and tackle her.

How mind your business

Kobojunkie:
You mean the same way that OP came here telling us that she stopped talking to her for that, so he can also be praised for his nonsense behavior by others, right? 🥱🥱🥱

If telling you the truth about your n0nsiense behavior is n0nsiense, then you need very serious investigation.

The OP's post has achieved something important: it exposes you as a blaind defender of women.

GenFunction:
Na you see am as motivational talk.
If u like,u ursef don't get busy.
Everyone reserves the right to select who they allow into their lives.
If u can't understand this,then u have a problem.

Which one be feel concern ?

Stop saying someone sho uld get busy, cus if you too is busy you won't be here. Cus we are here doesn't make us less busy.
Yes everyone has the right to select who they want in their lives. But in this case, they have already allow themselves into their lives by being friends. So why cut the friendship bcus you were told what you don't like. As a friend we disagree to agree, her type is the one that want false praises in everything she do whether good or bad. Abeg make she gerrarahere

olabrad:
➜If telling you the truth about your n0nsiense behavior is n0nsiense, then you need very serious investigation.
➜ The OP's post has achieved something important: it exposes you as a blaind defender of women.

OP, didn't tell her the truth. Rather, what he did was offer her his subjective opinion(should never be confused with truth) , which comes from a biased view of body piercings in general, are he made clear in his OP. 🥱🥱

I am not defending a woman but an individual's right to pierce one's own body as one chooses. There is a difference! 🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
All she did was stop talking to you, and you felt you should come here and whine to us about it as though to suggest that you are entitled to her energy and attention in one way or form?

Hello, please do you have a job? 🤔

Wotowotoman:
➜ Hello, please do you have a job? 🤔

You have absolutely nothing to offer me, just so you know.

He told her the truth and life goes on, so why is he still whining? She didn't even fight him.

From the look of things, it's obvious he's desperate for her attention.

Kalulu44:
You are saying rubbish. If she can't be told the truth by someone she call a friend then no one else can tell her

Kobojunkie:
There is nothing wrong with getting body piercings. Wrong is something like committing a crime or doing drugs, of which body piercings aren't.

2. Probably because she finally realized that he is not her friend but someone who subjects her to criticism based on societal standards and not truth.

You and I know in this part of the world, you're judge by your appearance.
Let me tell you the truth, if she like let her be a virgin. I can't take someone who Pierce three holes into each of her ears. Still have nose piercing and belly piercing to my family that I want to marry her.
All those things she did has giving her away as a prostitute or wayward girl and no one will believe me she's a virgin.
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And another one, I am not a church goer. But I can bet my balls that she can't attend any Bible believing church dress with three earrings on her ears, nose earrings. Bcus she knows they'll bounce her out, and if she can't attend church dress like that. Then she ought to know those things are wrong.
And lets I forget, her piercing her belly button means she will be dressing half naked cus she will want people to see her belly with those beautiful rings on it. How about that too

Kobojunkie:
A friend would not do to her what he did to her. A friend knows never to judge another by societal standards, which we all know are not set in stone or of value to most. 🥱🥱🥱

Hehehe, he didn't judge her but told her the simple truth. We should be wary of friends that praises us all the time even when we do wrong.

SisterAnn:
So Op actually needs time to get over the shading? LMAO 🤣🤣

Yes bcus he hold her as a friend, except that the friendship doesn't mean anything to her

Kalulu44:
➜Hehehe, he didn't judge her but told her the simple truth. We should be wary of friends that praises us all the time even when we do wrong.

There was nothing truthful about any of what he said since op admitted to being biased against piercings in general. You can't spew truth from a place of bias. That is an impossibility.

SisterAnn:
Oga stop the regurgitating! Abi you be the Op using another moniker? 😏😏

I have told you before I am not the op, but won't mind being in his shoes. Did I hide that

Kobojunkie:
She is insecure for choosing to distance herself from someone who does not value her right to do whatever she pleases with her own body? Oh boy!

Shaking my head for you for always supporting rubbish. I guess you also know for her piercing her belly button means she will be wearing half clothes for people to see it.

SisterAnn:
LoL 😄

Is it by force to take advice?

And dude actually had to loose sleep over it. 😃

No be by force to take advice, but it must be told anyways

Kalulu44:
➜ You and I know in this part of the world, you're judge by your appearance. Let me tell you the truth, if she like let her be a virgin. I can't take someone who Pierce three holes into each of her ears. Still have nose piercing and belly piercing to my family that I want to marry her. All those things she did has giving her away as a prostitute or wayward girl and no one will believe me she's a virgin.
➜And another one, I am not a church goer. But I can bet my balls that she can't attend any Bible believing church dress with three earrings on her ears, nose earrings. Bcus she knows they'll bounce her out, and if she can't attend church dress like that. Then she ought to know those things are wrong.
➜ And lets I forget, her piercing her belly button means she will be dressing half naked cus she will want people to see her belly with those beautiful rings on it. How about that too

1. There lies your major issue. You base your notion of what is right and wrong, not on facts but on changeable societal notions, and that is why you cannot make a good friend of anyone who does not reason or think inside the same box you are trapped in.

2. Sadly! Your bias continues to drive you to post nothing but drivel in support of an obviously inane way of thinking. You claim you are not a church but your reasoning is no different from that of many of them.

3. Again, the world outside of your head is not colored by your particular delusions. Only years ago, in that same Nigeria, society and your churches believed domestic abuse was a norm; now the society has evolved to realizing it was never right to condone such wickedness.

Kalulu44:
➜Hehehe, he didn't judge her but told her the simple truth. We should be wary of friends that praises us all the time even when we do wrong.

A friend does not need to praise you or lie to you. A friend knows how to accept you as you are.

Kalulu44:
➜Shaking my head for you for always supporting rubbish. I guess you also know for her piercing her belly button means she will be wearing half clothes for people to see it.

I see that you have a hard time minding your own life and business around other people. Sad, really!

What is funny is that this is coming from someone whose ancestors, for the longest time, had no problems walking around naked and exposed.

Kalulu44:
Stop saying someone sho uld get busy, cus if you too is busy you won't be here. Cus we are here doesn't make us less busy.
Yes everyone has the right to select who they want in their lives. But in this case, they have already allow themselves into their lives by being friends. So why cut the friendship bcus you were told what you don't like. As a friend we disagree to agree, her type is the one that want false praises in everything she do whether good or bad. Abeg make she gerrarahere

Stop having misconceptions.
Busy means this shouldn't bother him not referring to nairalanders or being on nairaland.
Like I said 10 frnds can't be together for 10 years.
Try and get understanding.

Kobojunkie:
1. There lies your major issue. You base your notion of what is right and wrong, not on facts but on changeable societal notions, and that is why you cannot make a good friend of anyone who does not reason or think inside the same box you are trapped in.

2. Sadly! Your bias continues to drive you to post nothing but drivel in support of an obviously inane way of thinking. You claim you are not a church but your reasoning is no different from that of many of them.

3. Again, the world outside of your head is not colored by your particular delusions. Only years ago, in that same Nigeria, society and your churches believed domestic abuse was a norm; now the society has evolved to realizing it was never right to condone such wickedness.

My dear I am not in your America, UK or Western countries to take all the rubbish they take there. This is Naija and we somehow go with society validation. Say whatever you like about me, I just told you my mind about the kind of person that op is talking about. And I am not surprised you're supporting such cus that's there behavior over there where you're

Kobojunkie:
There was nothing truthful about any of what he said since op admitted to being biased against piercings in general. You can't spew truth from a place of bias. That is an impossibility.

Op is not bias against piercing but against multiple piercing. Can't you decode that. What is she doing with three piercing in one ear. Wearing three earrings at a time. Even in the Western world where you're, have you seen such if not from people who have brain touch

SisterAnn:
Then you simply keep your distance. Which one is the wailing that she's not talking to him and even branded her insecure? 😆

Yes I repeat again, she's insecure bcus she hates been told the truth.

Kalulu44:
➜My dear I am not in your America, UK or Western countries to take all the rubbish they take there. This is Naija and we somehow go with society validation. Say whatever you like about me, I just told you my mind about the kind of person that op is talking about. And I am not surprised you're supporting such cus that's there behavior over there where you're

. And therein lies your particular problem, since not everyone in Nigeria seeks societal validation in their lives and ways. Yet you, with your full chest, are here declaring that societal validation is what you hold to, meaning you cannot be a good friend to. or be expected to tell any truth to any of the many Nigerians in the same society who do not.

Why are you having a seriously hard time with this simple fact, though?

There's a saying in pidgin...."them no dey beg shit to smell". If she doesn't talk to you anymore leave her to her fate

GenFunction:
Stop having misconceptions.
Busy means this shouldn't bother him not referring to nairalanders or being on nairaland.
Like I said 10 frnds can't be together for 10 years.
Try and get understanding.

Who says you must be friends forever with all your friends. But cutting someone off bcus you were told the simple truth doesn't cut it for me