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| Igbo Men And Woman Don’t Marry For Love by Adexgentle005(op): 7:19pm On Nov 23, 2025*. Modified: 7:53pm On Nov 23, 2025 |
I just saw this on X. So it’s true igbo men and women don’t marry for love ? Is it just money money and money? I want honest answer!
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| Re: Igbo Men And Woman Don’t Marry For Love by muyico(m): 7:41pm On Nov 23, 2025 |
It gat solutions She go for plastic surgery! And not all is LovePeddler! Some were infections |
| Re: Igbo Men And Woman Don’t Marry For Love by Adexgentle005(op): 7:53pm On Nov 23, 2025 |
muyico:I don’t get ? What do you mean? |
| Re: Igbo Men And Woman Don’t Marry For Love by Jman06(m): 10:38pm On Nov 23, 2025 |
Marrying for 'love' has always been a recipe for failed marriages! But if the marriage is by recommendations, it does last longer because good character mostly form the basis for recommendations. Also recommendations are sometimes based on a strong family ties which can hold the marriage. Since the youths of this generation started to marry for so called "love", marriage lost all the features that held marriages in the past! Tuface and Annie Idibia married for "love", Tonto and Churchill also did same but we all know how those marriages ended. The list goes on and on. 3 Likes |
| Re: Igbo Men And Woman Don’t Marry For Love by Lalami3232(m): 10:48pm On Nov 23, 2025 |
  Aside tech and oil, the next big thing that would make people so rich in the coming years na vagina tightening cream. These non-virgins go patronize you tire  . Do you know why? If you don't know, then forget about it 😁. Almost every man wants a bigger cucumber because our non-virgin women are now super wide. A guy said something and I quote, he say "if you mistakenly meet girl with 5 body counts, then know she's a virgin". I just shake head because the bar don decrease so much. Anyways, may our children not ever become non-virgins(fairly used) before marriage. What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA 7 Likes |
| Re: Igbo Men And Woman Don’t Marry For Love by Nazgul: 10:54pm On Nov 23, 2025 |
Frigga13:Relax. Vivian is actually an Igbo lady. I know her very well on Twitter. If you follow her you'd see how clearly she tells anyone who cares to listen that she's of Igbo origin 5 Likes
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| Re: Igbo Men And Woman Don’t Marry For Love by Goo0dHardDick: 11:17pm On Nov 23, 2025 |
Igbo women marry money, not love. Just be a businessman, importer and exporter or have a good business with good streams of income, you'll knack her, her friends and sisters too. Igbo women don't joke with Igbo men who are doing exceptionally well in their businesses 8 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Igbo Men And Woman Don’t Marry For Love by Bendeco02: 6:47am On Nov 24, 2025 |
What is love if I may ask? So, north that a 70 yrs old Alhaji can marry 16 yrs old girl marries for love? So, in other tribes women don't marry for money?  Even in ordinary relationship, women don't stay if you're broke talk more of marriage. Bigotry makes someone sound mentally unstable. 5 Likes |
| Re: Igbo Men And Woman Don’t Marry For Love by Baronthecelebri(m): 10:02am On Nov 24, 2025 |
Men leave women and chase money 2 Likes |
| Re: Igbo Men And Woman Don’t Marry For Love by homealone(m): 12:05pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
Adexgentle005:Like get Like and Beget Likes |
| Re: Igbo Men And Woman Don’t Marry For Love by CrownOfClay724: 12:25pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
Not a tribal thing. People, these days, generally do not marry for love. They come together for convenience and mutual goals. Love somehow manage to creep in or not while they're at it. If the man was impotent or have a small pen, I heavily doubt she would stay. So, do your vetting, learn who you are doing life with and treat them how they will treat you. 1 Like |
| Re: Igbo Men And Woman Don’t Marry For Love by Adexgentle005(op): 5:53pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
Bendeco02:it has nothing to do with bigotry. This is reality and also remember this statement was posted by an igbo girl. |
| Re: Igbo Men And Woman Don’t Marry For Love by Adexgentle005(op): 5:57pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
CrownOfClay724:How can love creep in that kind of relationship? Take Ned as an example. When the foundation is faulty, it’s a recipe for disaster. |
| Re: Igbo Men And Woman Don’t Marry For Love by Jman06(m): 6:02pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
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| Re: Igbo Men And Woman Don’t Marry For Love by Jman06(m): 6:04pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
CrownOfClay724:Exactly! It's just to find someone who is good and ready to do marriage with you... simple! True love only exists between parents (especially mothers) and their children and between some siblings! Anybody who marries for what this generation of youths call "love" might end up having problems in the marriage because what they refer to as love is just mere ephemeral feeling that never lasts! 1 Like |
| Re: Igbo Men And Woman Don’t Marry For Love by Bendeco02: 7:03pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
Adexgentle005:What made it bigotry is for the op to post it in order to mock Igbo forgotten it's the same everywhere. 16 year northern girl can marry 70 years old Alhaji comfortably. Do they marry for love? Do Yoruba women marry bike riders or poor guys because of love when there is option of a rich man? Is all about individual/family not tribal thing because Igbo poor guys do marry as well. Abi the women married to Igbo poor men are from another tribes? So, what's the point? Make una dey try reason sometimes 2 Likes |
| Re: Igbo Men And Woman Don’t Marry For Love by Kobojunkie: 5:24am On Nov 25, 2025 |
Adexgentle005:Can love — mutual respect, dedication to equal growth and happiness f both individuals in the relationship— exist where one of the individuals in the relationship believes he occupies a role of greater importance—as head or master — over the other individual in the relationship whose major role is as servant or follower? This question applies to anyone in Nigeria regardless of tribe/ethnicity. |
| Re: Igbo Men And Woman Don’t Marry For Love by Kobojunkie: 5:29am On Nov 25, 2025 |
CrownOfClay724:It's not just people these days; we are now only finally talking about the reality of how many men out there marry women they literally hate(only a couple marry women they are indifferent to). And yes, a lot of women have, from time, been forced into marriage with men who don't even consider them for much except as tools for their physical pleasure and free labor. And so, it is no surprise that a lot of women continue to settle for any man they can get in marriage to date. Such a man does himself a disservice in marrying someone who does not already approve of him as he is. |
| Re: Igbo Men And Woman Don’t Marry For Love by AllBlack: 8:07am On Nov 25, 2025 |
Adexgentle005:The topic is a very misleading generalisation. Just because they did not marry her friend or sister doesn't mean she should apply it to a whole tribe of over 30 million people. Such baseless assumption can never come from the mouth of anyone who actually experienced even the slightest impact of education in school. 1 Like |
| Re: Igbo Men And Woman Don’t Marry For Love by AllBlack: 8:22am On Nov 25, 2025 |
Adexgentle005:Can you swear she is an igbo girl? What makes her an Igbo girl TO YOU? her name? Do you know if she has even lived in Igbo land for more than a month of her life? Can you vouch your left hand for her or you are just so eager to put a stamp of validation on that shallow talk? So if a RANDOM person on the internet who is named Yetunde or Omotayo comes and says ALL YORUBA MEN EAT THROUGH THEIR EARS, we should readily believe her even when we have no record of her level of Yoruba social inclusion and participation, her sense of rationalisation, judgment and educational level just because? Na wah oh 2 Likes |
| Re: Igbo Men And Woman Don’t Marry For Love by Adexgentle005(op): 6:27pm On Nov 27, 2025 |
AllBlack:check out her page and videos |
| Re: Igbo Men And Woman Don’t Marry For Love by AllBlack: 4:21am On Nov 28, 2025 |
Adexgentle005:So if a RANDOM Yoruba girl on the internet who is named Yetunde or Omotayo comes and says ALL YORUBA MEN EAT THROUGH THEIR EARS, we should readily believe her even when we have no record of her level of Yoruba social inclusion and participation, her sense of rationalisation, judgment and educational level just because? Na wah oh |
| Re: Igbo Men And Woman Don’t Marry For Love by Adexgentle005(op): 7:15am On Nov 28, 2025 |
AllBlack:why are you arguing blindly? She’s an igbo girl. Maybe a delusional one. |
| Re: Igbo Men And Woman Don’t Marry For Love by AllBlack: 7:49am On Nov 28, 2025 |
Adexgentle005:Answer my question and stop being DODGY & cunningly selective because YOU just want that irrelevant comment by a random person to be true. Above all, are you an Igbo man? a simple Yes or No would suffice from you that is not pushing this narrative BLINDLY and with the most shallow reasoning. How many Igbo compounds have you entered? but See as you carry WOMAN TALK for head like big "gele skentele". 1 Like |
| Re: Igbo Men And Woman Don’t Marry For Love by Adexgentle005(op): 10:07am On Nov 28, 2025 |
AllBlack:I’m not Igbo but I have an igbo babymama from Mbatoli imo state. I no carry her matter for head, na wetin me self don experience personally. |
| Re: Igbo Men And Woman Don’t Marry For Love by Bendeco02: 7:29pm On Nov 28, 2025 |
Adexgentle005:Funny man Just as I have 3 Yoruba baby mamas from Ijebu ode and Sagamu |
| Re: Igbo Men And Woman Don’t Marry For Love by Adexgentle005(op): 11:09pm On Nov 28, 2025 |
Bendeco02:You think I’m kidding ? I still have the marriage list with me till now. |
| Re: Igbo Men And Woman Don’t Marry For Love by ExudeLoveToAll: 3:38am On Nov 29, 2025 |
muyico:Team I am not a virgin but I will be celibate just for the guy to spend resources he shouldn't have spent if he was intimidated. Most of these ladies have been sexually active for more than 15 years but for some reason don't want to let the men who desired marrying them to know everything about them. |
| Re: Igbo Men And Woman Don’t Marry For Love by ExudeLoveToAll: 3:42am On Nov 29, 2025 |
Adexgentle005:The dude w correct unless your comprehensive skills are very low, he exudes critically asserted thought than you did, just did a comparison. Be open minded when you are exchanging communication with people so you can learn and develop your mind |
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