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Why Would Any Cheater Do This? by FineUsername(op): 11:57am On Nov 30, 2025
I met this FWB about three months ago. She told me while having our first knacking session that she’s about yo get married, I didn't even understand what she was saying. It was after we arrived abi na I arrived that i asked and she explained that she is in a relationship and will soon get married. I reminded her I am into relationships and that what we’re doing is strictly physical. She said she was only warning me so I wouldn’t fall in love, and I just laughed in my mind.

Normally, with most of my FWBs, if it’s going to be a steady thing, I openly share my other escapades with them. It keeps the boundaries clear so nobody starts catching feelings. I even let them go through my chats, messages, and gallery freely.

One day she showed me a chat with her hubby to be, and I noticed the messages were in disappearing mode. I asked why she put her bobo on disappearing but our own chat isn’t, and she just said, You won’t understand.

Omo, I gas run oooo, no be say dem dey plan coup for my head. grin

Re: Why Would Any Cheater Do This? by muyico(m): 12:00pm On Nov 30, 2025
Person wife to be?? Wey the man dey seriously hustling for wedding money, and anoda man dey banging her! Aye o......
Re: Why Would Any Cheater Do This? by FineUsername(op): 12:04pm On Nov 30, 2025
muyico:
Person wife to be?? Wey the man dey seriously hustling for wedding money, and anoda man dey banging her! Aye o......
Person fit dey bang my own too grin
But my own no fit put any of my messages for disappearing mode? E get why. Even my exes and other FWBs no put me for disappearing mode. Why would a fiancee put her fiancé on disappearing mode?
Re: Why Would Any Cheater Do This? by Caaz: 12:14pm On Nov 30, 2025
muyico:
Person wife to be?? Wey the man dey seriously hustling for wedding money, and anoda man dey banging her! Aye o......
They re doing Shifting cultivation.
Re: Why Would Any Cheater Do This? by muyico(m): 12:21pm On Nov 30, 2025
FineUsername:
Person fit dey bang my own too grin
But my own no fit put any of my messages for disappearing mode? E get why. Even my exes and other FWBs no put me for disappearing mode. Why would a fiancee put her fiancé on disappearing mode?
maybe 🤔💭 lacks of trust, not yet wedded! Anything can happen tomorrow
Re: Why Would Any Cheater Do This? by OlaOfLagos(m): 12:44pm On Nov 30, 2025
FineUsername:
I met this FWB about three months ago. She told me while having our first knacking session that she’s about yo get married, I didn't even understand what she was saying. It was after we arrived abi na I arrived that i asked and she explained that she is in a relationship and will soon get married. I reminded her I am into relationships and that what we’re doing is strictly physical. She said she was only warning me so I wouldn’t fall in love, and I just laughed in my mind.

Normally, with most of my FWBs, if it’s going to be a steady thing, I openly share my other escapades with them. It keeps the boundaries clear so nobody starts catching feelings. I even let them go through my chats, messages, and gallery freely.

One day she showed me a chat with her hubby to be, and I noticed the messages were in disappearing mode. I asked why she put her bobo on disappearing but our own chat isn’t, and she just said, You won’t understand.

Omo, I gas run oooo, no be say dem dey plan coup for my head. grin
Omo some things i read on the internet about relationship and marriage 🤦‍♀️💔

The relationship & marriage pool is so toxic and messed up.


Make God epp us
Re: Why Would Any Cheater Do This? by DaudaTheSexyGuy(m): 2:16pm On Nov 30, 2025
OlaOfLagos:
Omo some things i read on the internet about relationship and marriage 🤦‍♀️💔

The relationship & marriage pool is so toxic and messed up.


Make God epp us
There is nothing toxic about it, toto should be shared freely grin

Monogamy is too restrictive
Re: Why Would Any Cheater Do This? by DaudaTheSexyGuy(m): 2:18pm On Nov 30, 2025
FineUsername:
Person fit dey bang my own too grin
But my own no fit put any of my messages for disappearing mode? E get why. Even my exes and other FWBs no put me for disappearing mode. Why would a fiancee put her fiancé on disappearing mode?
This is the type of mentality I expect people in relationship to have grin
Re: Why Would Any Cheater Do This? by FineUsername(op): 3:21pm On Nov 30, 2025
Even married folks. grin
DaudaTheSexyGuy:
This is the type of mentality I expect people in relationship to have grin
Re: Why Would Any Cheater Do This? by OlaOfLagos(m): 3:30pm On Nov 30, 2025
DaudaTheSexyGuy:
There is nothing toxic about it, toto should be shared freely grin

Monogamy is too restrictive
You’re very correct till you share some STDs your eye go clear. Until then, keep sharing ✌️
Re: Why Would Any Cheater Do This? by advanceDNA: 3:34pm On Nov 30, 2025
OlaOfLagos:
Omo some things i read on the internet about relationship and marriage 🤦‍♀️💔

The relationship & marriage pool is so toxic and messed up.


Make God epp us
No overthink am.....and no drag God into the matter ....na garbage in garbage out things

....if u jump around from one penis/pvssy to another before marriage....na norm....u go must continue ur habit inside marriage ....Marriage nor dey fix pple sexual appetite
Re: Why Would Any Cheater Do This? by AllBlack: 3:40pm On Nov 30, 2025
muyico:
Person wife to be?? Wey the man dey seriously hustling for wedding money, and anoda man dey banging her! Aye o......
Another man's SERIOUS BABE is always the sweetest. Especially those guys that like to call their babe Seventy times a day.
Re: Why Would Any Cheater Do This? by AllBlack: 3:47pm On Nov 30, 2025
FineUsername:
One day she showed me a chat with her hubby to be, and I noticed the messages were in disappearing mode.
If you have been smashing babes since the SMALL PHONE ERA you would recognise the pattern. Remember those girls that Never ever keep sms on phone?

Na their descendants dey game now.
Different dance, same song.
Re: Why Would Any Cheater Do This? by OlaOfLagos(m): 3:56pm On Nov 30, 2025
advanceDNA:
No overthink am.....and no drag God into the matter ....na garbage in garbage out things
.if u jump around from one penis/pvssy to another before marriage....na norm....u go must continue ur habit inside marriage ....Marriage nor dey fix pple sexual appetite
Are you marriedhuh

And if you’re not yet married, then get ready for your partner to start jumping from one pen1s/p*ssy since it is a norm like you said… I hope you will have the mind to bear the trauma when you finally find out someone is pounding your partner like fufu then you will understand better…
Re: Why Would Any Cheater Do This? by Aleem26(m): 5:02pm On Nov 30, 2025
Naso baba Suliyat take go climb MAGUN on top person wife 2 weeks ago for Meiran there...shine ya eyes well ooo...make wetin u wan chop no go chop u ooooo.
Re: Why Would Any Cheater Do This? by galantjoe(m): 5:06pm On Nov 30, 2025
Op if you can can give me her contact phone no. I will chat her up and continue where you stopped

I need seriously FWB. I get one girl like that, I told her I want relationship. Immediately she changed that we needed to study ourselves very well it has been 3 months no sex no smooching. When I pressed further she said if we re FWB would have it.

Nawaoo
Re: Why Would Any Cheater Do This? by advanceDNA: 5:54pm On Nov 30, 2025
OlaOfLagos:
Are you marriedhuh

And if you’re not yet married, then get ready for your partner to start jumping from one pen1s/p*ssy since it is a norm like you said… I hope you will have the mind to bear the trauma when you finally find out someone is pounding your partner like fufu then you will understand better…
Shebi you saw where i wrote garbage in garbage out .......but u dont get

Lol. ..the problem is yall think everyone is marriable because they have a penis/pvssy....na una dey use una money marry problem because of big yænsh and fine face....
...imagine say u go marry women wey 30 men don sample and you think you won't have problem.... Hahahahahahhaha
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