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SmartPolician:
Out of every 1 marriage that failed, 9 worked. Unfortunately, people prefer to talk the one that failed and its negative outcomes than the 9 that worked and their positive outcomes.

In the UK, this stat is wrong.

faceland:
These men are in marriage with women that HATE them.

Which leads me to the fact that many of these men marry eye candy, not really good women.

When you marry someone based on looks and not on character and the person's bad character manifests after marriage , that's when you will see redpillers and feminists busy throwing abuse at each other that all gender are evil

Well the story may or may not be true, however spousal rape is very real and punishable.

Even it is was consented but you didn't stop when she told you to, yes, that's rape.

nairalanda1:
Better marry another man then , since women are all like that.

Also disown your mother, she is a woman after all and all women are like that as you said

if you are not pleased with my position you can take a dive into river and die is not my problem

u know nothing

UniversalDove:
Very simple, inform the law about the DNA and it's not so hard to prove how it all works
I don't actually believe these things. I find it to hard to believe a woman you share everything with will want you to go hungry and broke.

If a girl/lady/woman you have never met b4 in ur life parks infront of you and accuses you of rape. You are 99% guilty.

B4 u explain yourself, your name must have been tarnished, if a violent group were to be around, you could be killed

How the law does nothing about wrongful accusations from women against men still baffles me

Many are in Jail today for wrongly accusations of rape.

This is absolutely crazy. You mean in the UK your wife must give you consent to ejeculate in her after she spreads her leg for you. And if you dare ejaculate you will be seen as a rapist.
This is the maddest news I have heard.

Saybal:
if you are not pleased with my position you can take a dive into river and die is not my problem

I am happy with your comment, that's why I am helpfully suggesting you marry another man.

You are being honest and that's good

So marry a man and leave those evil women alone. And tell your mother too she is like that. She will appreciate your honesty

Someone said their system doesn't support healthy marriages

kennethesan:
Someone said their system doesn't support healthy marriages

No system in the world supports healthy marriages

Husband and wife support healthy marriage

TOPCRUISE:
This is absolutely crazy. You mean in the UK your wife must give you consent to ejeculate in her after she spreads her leg for you. And if you dare ejaculate you will be seen as a rapist.
This is the maddest news I have heard.

Better leave that rape culture you are used to in Nigeria, where your traditions and religions let you lot slide when you commit those evils against your wives.

nairalanda1:
I am happy with your comment, that's why I am helpfully suggesting you marry another man.

You are being honest and that's good

So marry a man and leave those evil women alone. And tell your mother too she is like that. She will appreciate your honesty

I won't allow you to drag me to your level but I still maintain jump into river and die if you don't like my comment

SmartPolician:
Out of every 1 marriage that failed, 9 worked. Unfortunately, people prefer to talk the one that failed and its negative outcomes than the 9 that worked and their positive outcomes.

False and downright dubious statistics!!!

Una just wan lead young men to lifelong misery chasing shadows.

You will learn

Saybal:
I won't allow you to drag me to your level but I still maintain jump into river and die if you don't like my comment

Why are you angry?

I said that I was not upset or annoyed with your comment. I admire your candor

And I am making a humble suggestion that in line with your beliefs marry another man. Men are not as evil as women as you have stated.

I am also telling you that you have to be honest with your mother and tell her that she is like that. That she is like the woman in the story.

You have to do that to show your fellow men that you won't stand or suffer under a woman. Many men will benefit from your example, you know.

I am.not joking or abusing you. I am being serious. Marry a man. Do the wedding tomorrow so that you can Japa in a month.

All these cock and bull stories.

Real2088:
E go take time to heal, infact in his next world he would be among those brothers Above 46 wey their kinsmen dey beg to marry , and that's because in his previous life this gender showed him shege ,Life is so mysterious,my aunty who has a family plan implant called me one day to tell me that anytime she die we should make sure her implant is removed,I asked her why and she reluctantly told me that's because she doesn't want to be barren in her next world,it was just her opinion but till date I still dey reason am

You see this life.

alezzy13:
Well the story may or may not be true, however spousal rape is very real and punishable.

Even it is was consented but you didn't stop when she told you to, yes, that's rape.

I have such a great and wonderful life (believe it or not). I avoided marriage!!!

How men choose misery over a life of freedom and bliss is beyond my understanding.

And yet I am a dad to 2 successful kids.

descarado:
All these cock and bull stories.

Real tales by moonlight

UniversalDove:
Very simple, inform the law about the DNA and it's not so hard to prove how it all works
I don't actually believe these things. I find it to hard to believe a woman you share everything with will want you to go hungry and broke.

Have u heard of mason greenwood

GloriousGbola:
And no one is this saga has a name?

If the guy has been convicted of raping his wife it will be a matter of public record.

You believed this?

Absolute hogwash for clout.

Next 3 months, we will see another story like this again

We4all:
No marriage will ever work except one partner becomes a fool for the other to continue his/her shenanigans.

What if the two partners are behaving like two good friends. That's the kind of relationship I'm having right now. None of us is doing fools. We read relationship breakups like this together and try to discuss why it went those ways.

nairalanda1:
Why are you angry?

I said that I was not upset or annoyed with your comment. I admire your candor

And I am making a humble suggestion that in line with your beliefs marry another man. Men are not as evil as women as you have stated.

I am also telling you that you have to be honest with your mother and tell her that she is like that. That she is like the woman in the story.

You have to do that to show your fellow men that you won't stand or suffer under a woman. Many men will benefit from your example, you know.

I am.not joking or abusing you. I am being serious. Marry a man. Do the wedding tomorrow so that you can Japa in a month.

When you are arguing,the assumption is that the other person you are argiing with is an intelligent person. When that assumption is proven false the natural reaction is anger and dissappointment for having wasted your time like in your case now.
Hope that clears it up

nairalanda1:
Real tales by moonlight

Ills of social media

nairalanda1:
Which leads me to the fact that many of these men marry eye candy, not really good women.

When you marry someone based on looks and not on character and the person's bad character manifests after marriage , that's when you will see redpillers and feminists busy throwing abuse at each other that all gender are evil

Your point is a really good one and needs to be repeated over and over again
The question is now how many good women are remaining

geoworldedu:
What if the two partners are behaving like two good friends. That's the kind of relationship I'm having right now. None of us is doing fools. We read relationship breakups like this together and try to discuss why it went those ways.

I have seen people who are supposedly best of friends, but they are barely tolerating each other because they are used to people seeing them as friends and don't want to part ways.

When we say allow God to guide you on the choice of your partner, some people say it's old school or retarded. The Holy Spirit spoke to me to marry my wife which I rejected and the holy spirit spoke to me about 2 or 3 times about it, she wasn't my taste because I love some endowment but I finally agreed. Jesus, she is the daughter of Jesus! Jesus I thank God I listened. By the grace of God, we have many children already, and just this year, she said my former Pastor's wife told them I'll be here husband that was about 5 or 6yrs before God spoke to me, these times we were not even close. Hallelujah, God works, Jesus works the holy spirit is real and the bible is the final authority. I said this not to brag but to testify that God is interested in all of us. If you have several babes, emotion won't let you hear God.

Your environment has its role in defining whether a marriage is healthy or not, no doubt.

nairalanda1:
No system in the world supports healthy marriages

Husband and wife support healthy marriage

For her mind she thinks she would stay there?

Make the 2 of them dey come home.

I call bullshiiit on this one

hmmm would u agree to marriage to a single mother

SixSeven:
Human beings cannot pretend for too long so do not say the Nigerian wife is worse or better than the abroad wife. Those who have been abroad know what their eyes have seen, that's why they come home to look for wives. Ask your bros who marry women who grew up there. Until you have stepped into someone's shoes, it's easy to paint everything as black and white. What's funny about marriage is the question someone asked on social media recently. They asked,

Why don't we hear more news about good marriages and someone responded,

BECAUSE FLIGHTS THAT LAND SAFELY DON'T MAKE THE NEWS.

I know people who took a Nigerian woman there and did well and vice versa. Even the women come back home to Nigeria because 1, the men could be gay. 2, the men may not like black women. 3, the men may have bad morals corrupted by western life.

Why are people going all the way to Philippines, Thailand and other countries to marry TRADITIONAL WIVES If Nigerian women know what they are doing, most men know the value of a good woman not corrupted by western world. We would have been a big market for diaspora wedding because they know the value of a well brought up person. So I say to you that it's not about the location, it's about the person because environment will change but your values will steer you in the right direction.


@ Topic, the man is doing fear mongering. He should be happy that she has shown her true color. It's dangerous to be competing with a woman who's selling you to the spy. It's a hard lesson but just because he has had this experience doesn't mean we should start feasting on fears. What I advise men is to look at the family first because a woman whose family has high standards has more fear from her family than yourself. She will remember where she came from. Let's remove abroad from this story. What if she did this in Nigeria? Do you see where the family comes in? Whose family will accept away goal as their own? Their lineage don spoil be that. Africa should not lose its grip on their strong family and moral foundations, it's something admired by the Western world.