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Aye13th:
After Fighting with your Husband, How will You call Him when food is Ready ?
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Lovit:
In all you do, marry an emotionally intelligent woman

If not, small quarrel like this, she won't cook talk less of serving you food

Women low on EI, always lose their marriages, sometimes people think it is an evil spirit or village people that are causing women from a particular family to lose their marriages, but it is just low emotional intelligent that runs in that family

How do you know a woman with low emotional intelligence?

1. They quarrel a lot
2. They are very irritable
3. They don't know how to say sorry
4. If there is a quarrel, even if she is at fault, she won't admit it and she won't apologize
5. If you are married to them, you the man will always be the one to make peace, she doesn't know how to make peace
6. Their mood swings controls them, they don't think outside the box
7. Relationship with them is always one sided, you do everything to keep the relationship going. the day you stop, relationship dies
8. They are always critical, frowns at jokes, they don't overlook faults

etc

dbestuncle:
Nairaland ladies don't like to share opinions on topics like this, most times it is us the men asking and same we answering even some female monikers are actual males too.
So where are the women, ladies and girls who we look onto to take over

LordReed:
I love the way my wife does it. She will make sure she serves me herself instead of sending someone as usual. I cannot stay angry at such a beautiful woman.

Kobojunkie:
An emotionally intelligent woman is actually a woman who would not cook for you when she is emotionally disregulated. Cause she would be afraid that if care is not taken, she might do something dubious in retaliation for being harassed by another human being, such as poisoning you, for instance. Go read up on murder files and learn how many husbands were murdered by the very woman whom they expected to cook for them, even after enduring violent assault from them.

2. If your idea of an emotionally intelligent woman is a woman who shows none of her emotions when with a man she supposedly loves, you have yet to experience life at best. 🥱🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
An emotionally intelligent woman is actually a woman who would not cook for you when she is emotionally disregulated. Cause she would be afraid that if care is not taken, she might do something dubious in retaliation for being harassed by another human being, such as poisoning you, for instance. Go read up on murder files and learn how many husbands were murdered by the very woman whom they expected to cook for them, even after enduring violent assault from them.

In conclusion, if she cooks after a true quarrel, don't eat o. Yes... she has said it all in the above.
Wait till she gives u sex b4 u can believe she is now happy. Let her take the move for the sex first, then u can later ask for food. I am sure, she will run to go make the food anytime of the day or night

2. If your idea of an emotionally intelligent woman is a woman who shows none of her emotions when with a man she supposedly loves, you have yet to experience life at best. 🥱🥱🥱

Caaz:
Op the illustration pictures you use is scary and it depicts domestic violence.
If it's the normal quarrel that couples normally have there is no big deal in serving him food the normal way,i go even siddon follow ham chop the food.

When i m quarreling with my spouse i still serve him food so he can have strenght to quarrel with me,although my husband is not the talking type and on the calm side,he will collect the food and eat and still tell me thank you.

Moreso our quarrels dey be like skits,i go just talk my mind and the next minute we don dey talk.

Between us we know say we go always dey miserable without each other.

Bukolaberry:
Hmmmmm i will drop the food on dinning table and say COME EAt, but if i want to continue with The quarrel i will send my daughter, omo that wan dey pain him.

donmik:
Una no quarrel, bro

Kaczynski:
what will make husband and wife to have quarrel if not for financial and emotional issue.


when a household runs on emotions , its doomed to fail .


marriage is not simply not worth but you must marry, get a preup rule.

donmik:
You must be in true love with no partner cheating.
Or, you allowed the church built your marriage, I guess

SixSeven:
They don't make adverts like this anymore because it is 'serving men' and fuels the patriarchy


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CZYyinIXhlU

wany:
All you listed here can also be found in a man.

Kobojunkie:
An emotionally intelligent woman is actually a woman who would not cook for you when she is emotionally disregulated. Cause she would be afraid that if care is not taken, she might do something dubious in retaliation for being harassed by another human being, such as poisoning you, for instance. Go read up on murder files and learn how many husbands were murdered by the very woman whom they expected to cook for them, even after enduring violent assault from them.

2. If your idea of an emotionally intelligent woman is a woman who shows none of her emotions when with a man she supposedly loves, you have yet to experience life at best. 🥱🥱🥱

Caaz:
Op the illustration pictures you use is scary and it depicts domestic violence.
If it's the normal quarrel that couples normally have there is no big deal in serving him food the normal way,i go even siddon follow ham chop the food.

When i m quarreling with my spouse i still serve him food so he can have strenght to quarrel with me,although my husband is not the talking type and on the calm side,he will collect the food and eat and still tell me thank you.

Moreso our quarrels dey be like skits,i go just talk my mind and the next minute we don dey talk.

Between us we know say we go always dey miserable without each other.

HallahGeisher:
Me I don't wait to be called that food is ready, I loiter around the kitchen especially around the time I am expecting the food . I sit on the dinning especially the chair next to the kitchen door and zoom I consume my food almost immediately.

I won't give you that privilege of starving me, or give my enemies the opportunity to rejoice over my falling down from self inflicted hunger,. Never . I worked for the money and I can't beg to eat my own food.

On another thought, where will I get the energy to fight if I don't eat well. She might probably nag me into fainting when I might have exhausted the little Silvia in my mouth.

Abeg , na my food. After eating the fight can resume...it is tactics for survival against a womans wahala.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Remijuice:
What are you feeling like, with this statement

PaNnamdi:
No don't serve it

Lovit:
In all you do, marry an emotionally intelligent woman

If not, small quarrel like this, she won't cook talk less of serving you food

Women low on EI, always lose their marriages, sometimes people think it is an evil spirit or village people that are causing women from a particular family to lose their marriages, but it is just low emotional intelligent that runs in that family

How do you know a woman with low emotional intelligence?

1. They quarrel a lot
2. They are very irritable
3. They don't know how to say sorry
4. If there is a quarrel, even if she is at fault, she won't admit it and she won't apologize
5. If you are married to them, you the man will always be the one to make peace, she doesn't know how to make peace
6. Their mood swings controls them, they don't think outside the box
7. Relationship with them is always one sided, you do everything to keep the relationship going. the day you stop, relationship dies
8. They are always critical, frowns at jokes, they don't overlook faults

etc

Lovit:
In all you do, marry an emotionally intelligent woman

If not, small quarrel like this, she won't cook talk less of serving you food

Women low on EI, always lose their marriages, sometimes people think it is an evil spirit or village people that are causing women from a particular family to lose their marriages, but it is just low emotional intelligent that runs in that family

How do you know a woman with low emotional intelligence?

1. They quarrel a lot
2. They are very irritable
3. They don't know how to say sorry
4. If there is a quarrel, even if she is at fault, she won't admit it and she won't apologize
5. If you are married to them, you the man will always be the one to make peace, she doesn't know how to make peace
6. Their mood swings controls them, they don't think outside the box
7. Relationship with them is always one sided, you do everything to keep the relationship going. the day you stop, relationship dies
8. They are always critical, frowns at jokes, they don't overlook faults

etc

Caaz:
Go back to your mother to raise you properly,its not an insult,its the raw truth,,And one innocent woman ended up with someone like you,you re always bitter,i m here wondering how toxic your life will look like offline.
You had better not enter 2026 with this toxic attitude of yours that has kept you stagnated for years..
It's well with you..



You can take the floor!

We4all:
Your points are valid. But most times, women degenerate into becoming emotionally unintelligent because they married men who are abusers, chauvinistic and irresponsible. These types of men will even expect their wives to say sorry if when they are guilty.

Lovit:
➜Emotionally intelligent women master their emotions.
➜They know when to laugh and when to be serious with issues
➜ They also know that there will be conflicts in marriage, so they manage their emotions not to escalate issues
➜ The foolish ones destroy the union at minor issues. All these applies to MEN too

Samantha125:
What if she decides to eat out instead of cooking after every fight?

HallahGeisher:
I will enter the kitchen and cook for myself alone and make a very delicious rare meal what will make her tongue wagging.🤣🤣🤣 And she can still eat the left over in the pot. Buy the fight will continue my dear immediately I belch....🤣🤣🤣

Kobojunkie:
1. Mastering one's emotions does not render one emotionless. It simply means one is better able to identify, regulate, and channel that emotional energy into more productive outlets than those who don't have a handle on their emotions. Humans are all generally emotional... we cannot stop or seal off our emotions. However, we can better identify them and mine that energy to our benefit when we learn of them.

2. Laughing is not an emotion. And no, one who has mastered his or her emotions can also choose to laugh when you least expect it. Again, folks who have mastered their emotions do not become robots. They are still just as human as you, only with better control over emotional outbursts.

3. People who walk on shells around their marriage partners ARE NOT emotionally regulated, but rather emotionally insecure. Emotionally intelligent individuals realize that conflicts are healthy for relationship building and so use conflict-resolution tactics to resolve them. Again, emotionally intelligent people are not robots but human beings like you.

4. Wrong! Emotionally intelligent individuals know to prioritize the peace, mental health, and joy of the individuals involved in the relationship above any union or relationship they find themselves in. If the marriage has become unhealthy for one, it becomes unhealthy for all. The emotionally intelligent individual — man or woman —knows it is best to walk away completely from it than to keep the union intact as a priority.

NB: An emotionally intelligent human being does not work on behalf of you. Rather, the emotionally intelligent individual prioritizes his mental health, peace, and joy above all else.