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Kobojunkie:
Do you even know the meaning of the word Accountability?

A woman who formerly declared that she would never date married men eventually realized, for reasons unknown to us here, that maybe she was best marrying a married one. How does that mean she has not taken accountability? Perhaps she considered, in whatever situation she found herself —maybe after a couple of years at Shiloh — she realized that settling to become a third wife to a married man isn't such a bad way to go. What has any of that to do with a lack of accountability— assuming you, in fact, understand the meaning of the word.

Diamond098454:
I don't blame her it's not easy to resist pressure from this men, married men are too desperate and very stubborn they don't give up easily. If they want you hmmmm they will come for you with everything they have

She would have been more careful

Bwilliam:
Women and accountability are mortal enemies.

Fekumzi123:
I totally agree with you.
They use tricks on men and it's working well.
In the end, we still need them.
Ask married men how they met their wives, tricks is involved.

Emmy000seun:
Yes bro...woman are manipulative in nature..am married with kids, but I travel tho(coming back soon) most time if my wife complain she don't all what she needs from me, I simply ask her I can't force her on me, if she see someone more better for her than me, she should just be sincere with me, infact we can b a good friend, and I won't even request for the dawry I paid on her, I will just take my kids and appreciate her past effort...but for where😂 she no fit say no...like if I can advised the younger version of me I will say marriage this days don't worth it, moral has lost in marriage and everything is now monetized and having a partner that doesn't even appreciate the little effort you put drains alot..

essentialone:
Most married men are really suffering silently these days. Ladies have lost all sense of decency, courtesy, and morality.

Emmy000seun:
To be sincere with you woman are all the same,..especially Nigeria woman, ...the same attitude (entitlement mentality) I complain about my wife back home, is still the same the girl I have with me here too portrait..but my stand is if you think I'm not trying leave, but they don't .. which tells you they know what they get from man but can't appreciate it,due to their manipulative nature..

SixSeven:
Women don't want true "equality." They want selective equality when it serves them. They don't like to be held accountable as well.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g4WbDqb9QDI

aswani:
This is very true and the sooner men clarify this before involving themselves in relationships with women, the better.

Diamond098454:
I don't blame her it's not easy to resist pressure from this men, married men are too desperate and very stubborn they don't give up easily. If they want you hmmmm they will come for you with everything they have

Diamond098454:
I don't blame her it's not easy to resist pressure from this men, married men are too desperate and very stubborn they don't give up easily. If they want you hmmmm they will come for you with everything they have

She would have been more careful

essentialone:
By "with everything they have", you meant money, right?

Diamond098454:
yes

Money and gifts

essentialone:
That means you now agree that with money and more money, a man can get under any lady pants?

Diamond098454:
please please please don't put me on this hot sit

Money can attract some girls not all girls

essentialone:
If you see it as Hot Seat, it means the Truth makes you uncomfortable.

Diamond098454:
I can only speak for myself

essentialone:
Quite true. But it's a serious issue that I observe always. If Ned Nwoko was poor, I am sure Regina Daniels will sing the same song of, I don't date married men.

Diamond098454:
dating married men is something every woman should avoid but no matter how you try as a woman hmmmmmm it's may not be easy

essentialone:
1. I know you are not from a poor home. So that means you have never accepted any cash or gift from any guy ever?

Response will determine number 2

Diamond098454:
why not. I do accept gifts but my point is

Some girls doesn't date married men because of money but because, maybe they are there type of man, there spec

Bendeco02:
Be whining yourself

Which one is dating married man because of spec and not money?

Of all the thousands of single young guys in the town, so only the married man should a girl find attractive more?

Most married men are older men and have less attraction compared to young single guys.

No girl will take the risk of dating someone else husband without monetization.

Diamond098454:
there are so many Yong married men out there too. The same way many single guys go after young married women

It's only depends on choices

Bendeco02:
Single guys that goes after married women does that because the woman need them as sex object.

Women and men case are not the same.

No young guy willl be aware that a woman is married and chose to date the older hen when their are fresh young chicks available.

They only do that for the sake of free toto that the woman gives them.

Observe such relationship and you will see that the guys are not the one that spend on the woman but vice versa.

How can I take a married woman out and spend on her? Shame will not even allow me to hang out with a mature woman. Everything between me and her should end indoor

Diamond098454:
Ben , you are right but as a young growing girl there are things you can't resist when they hit you most.

My dad always tell me to stay away from married men, I was like hmmmmmm dad what can of talk is this? He said Diamond they will come for you but i didn't take it serious

Bendeco02:
Yeah, normally majority of men are polygamous in nature, whether married or not.

It only take self discipline for a man to stick to one woman.

Diamond098454:
why not. I do accept gifts but my point is

Some girls doesn't date married men because of money but because, maybe they are there type of man, there spec

Diamond098454:
Ben , you are right but as a young growing girl there are things you can't resist when they hit you most.

My dad always tell me to stay away from married men, I was like hmmmmmm dad what can of talk is this? He said Diamond they will come for you but i didn't take it serious