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In this current dispensation?... assuming e nor mind him business nor be only dat him groceries e for pay for

SpencerForbes:
The second you say 'hi' to them, they immediately start sending you vibes. Two days later, her gas runs out, and then suddenly she's 'not feeling well.' Whenever I see a beautiful woman, my brain just goes, 'Wow, that's God's masterpiece,' quickly followed by, 'And that's a one-way ticket to financial black hole.'

Na woman wey no like or rate you go dey bill you.. if you dont fall under that category, fear go dey catch them to even try it..

SA men are way primitive so you can't expect less. I'm not surprised

Samantha125:
Well, you said it yourself, I'm a Limpopofied Pedi girl from Bapedi land, men in our land have never been known to be stingy... That's why we Bapedi ladies tend to get hungry more often, we're used to being fed.

I've lost count of a number of times they offered to buy me lunch, dinner, or a quick snack out of nowhere...

Samantha125:
Hunger is too much, girl has to chop chop...

I really pitied those men that asked you out and you didn’t like them😂

But you look like a quiet, reserved lady. I doubt you really had time engaging with men. Offline I’m 45% sure you wouldn’t even collect 100 Rand from a guy except you really wanted to chop his money.

My dear, it's simple, it's because you are in a mall, the next thing that will happen is you asking him to pay for your groceries

ROFLMAO. Nairaland boys are toasting each other in this thread. Utter comedy.

brotherhood is proud of that guy for this xmas season, the guy escaped billings

Goodmarlian:
Women instinctively like men with guts and control, I did some experiment some few months ago,I approached some pretty ladies with extreme confidence and some with fear , I notice most of the ones I approached with extreme Confidence surrendered Instantly to my advances even though they wanted to do shakara but their resistance was weak ,and after getting their numbers they responded well to my chats and calls,but you see the ones I approached as a sissy they gave me their numbers but didn't pick my calls or reply my chats, women simply want a man that can trigger attraction in them but they are not even aware of this.

And where are ALL the ones you approached with "confidence" today?

i was the guy, my oga send me message

kpankpangolo:
She didn’t play her cards right. On to the next.

she has body odour but she will not tell us that part of the story

[b][/b] make I say Hi and second day make your mama shallow jiggar right [

PepeXKermit:
Na woman wey no like or rate you go dey bill you.. if you dont fall under that category, fear go dey catch them to even try it..

With this wild economy in Nigeria, where everyone's struggling. If your babe isn't 'billing' you, you better be careful and on high alert. She 100% has another dude on the side, and don't be surprised when you get a virtual wedding invite from her!

Nigerian girls are just wired to think relationships are all about transactions. If you're not spending money on her, they figure you don't actually love them.

In other words, he was simply window shopping her 😊.

Her situation reminds me of the Singer', James Blunt's song, You're Beautiful......

"You're beautiful
You're beautiful
You're beautiful, it's true
I saw your face in a crowded place
And I don't know what to do
'Cause I'll never be with you"

shilenji:
Not every beautiful goods in the supermarket you buy, some you just check and leave.

aww

EmperorIsaac:
And where are ALL the ones you approached with "confidence" today?

I had sex with 2 and let the others go, I can't fuuvk them all I am a very spiritual man.

Please don't waste your marital slot as a man.
Make sure the woman you want to marry earns her position in your life.

Be strategic. Never settle for less. Make sure she has a lot to offer. You can't lose at every point. You are sacrificing your FREEDOM, which is the highest thing a man can give.
Set boundaries and targets.

Even at 60, you can marry the choicest woman.
They Love men but they choose to wait.
Dia 4, don't be in a hurry to marry a Liability.
Your visit to planet earth is once in a lifetime.
Cherish it and never wish it away.
Know that and know peace

I can look at the menu does not mean I'm going to eat ! ..🤔

Billers forming lover's.

Goodmarlian:
I had sex with 2 and let the others go, I can't fuuvk them all I am a very spiritual man.

Indeed!
But if that was the goal, I feel that "confidence" was wasted, honestly!

brain54:
A guy can have a lot of reasons for staring...

Doesn't absolutely means it's because he likes you. I could be looking at you because you remind me of someone, your teeth looks weird, I like your dress very plenty reasons etc.

Not necessarily because I want to approach you. Girls most times get that wrong!

Na lie..
Most times when a guy look lustfully at a gal, he will go for her if the chance presents itself..
Which one is looking and drooling at a gal because she looks like someone you know?

EmperorIsaac:
Indeed!

Lol, you think getting women is hard na because you no get packaging and self esteem,they wanna Bleep just like you.

“Take me back to when men were men.”

Girl, he’s probably just another guy trained by life to play it safe and not make a move unless he’s 100% sure he won’t get embarrassed.
Or he was just shy. Happens.

But here’s the truth. You can’t control his conditioning, only your own actions. You liked him too. You could’ve said hi.

Dating today is basically two people staring at each other, waiting for courage to show up.

Coincidentally, I was browsing earlier today and saw that more women are asking men to be men. Girls, this is the result of 'equality'. Men don't date men, they date women.

Nothing wrong if she, herself initiated the conversation. Nothing is wrong with guys' confidence these days generally, that one just turned out to be typical shy guy who lacks confidence

Samantha125:
In fact, I'm hungry, can you send me an urgent 2k?

I’m beginning to doubt whether you’re truly South African! “Urgent 2k”? Wow! You’ve clearly rolled with us Nigerians here so much that one would even think you’re Nigerian.
"Urgent 2k", "Wotowoto" omo,you dey catch up o!

SpencerForbes:
With this wild economy in Nigeria, where everyone's struggling. If your babe isn't 'billing' you, you better be careful and on high alert. She 100% has another dude on the side, and don't be surprised when you get a virtual wedding invite from her!

Nigerian girls are just wired to think relationships are all about transactions. If you're not spending money on her, they figure you don't actually love them.

It says alot about the women you date. Tyoically, a woman who is het fathers's responsibility and is from a decent middle/middle upper class family does not bill... your circle determines if you will ever meet such women.. so when you say what you say, i understand

SpencerForbes:
The second you say 'hi' to them, they immediately start sending you vibes. Two days later, her gas runs out, and then suddenly she's 'not feeling well.' Whenever I see a beautiful woman, my brain just goes, 'Wow, that's God's masterpiece,' quickly followed by, 'And that's a one-way ticket to financial black hole.'

🤣😅🤣

Fiscus105:
You staring from head to leg and Ur 3rd legs raised inside Ur trousers, yet you have so many reasons not to approach.

Hahaha haha you don finish me with laugh 😂 😂 😂

It's December for crying out loud

Men are more careful with their decisions these days.... Saying hi isn't the issue my dear, it is the aftermath...

Goodmarlian:
Lol, you think getting women is hard na because you no get packaging and self esteem,they wanna Bleep just like you.

I have had women around me, I still have them around me, and will continue to have them around me, as long as I'm on earth. I noticed I didn't need "confidence" dealing with them.

Not every ster mean anything. Except the person continuing doing it every time they sees you.

She fumbled king

owobokiri:
Na lie..
Most times when a guy look lustfully at a gal, he will go for her if the chance presents itself..
Which one is looking and drooling at a gal because she looks like someone you know?

Obviously you have stated your reason for staring at her...


Which is lust. Not because she looks like someone you know.

My point was that there are plenty reasons to stare at anyone and not necessarily because you want to approach them!