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Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by nonny1212: 7:13pm On Dec 10, 2025
Next week is always their birthday.
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by nonny1212:
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Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Felaincarnated: 7:17pm On Dec 10, 2025
ALMAJIRI QUOTE
Samantha125:
Gas is not an issue, but a girl has got to eat and look good afterwards... cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by correctguy101(m): 7:17pm On Dec 10, 2025
Fiscus105:
You staring from head to leg and Ur 3rd legs raised inside Ur trousers, yet you have so many reasons not to approach.
Oga, which kind woman go even agree to a man wey ordinary staring, propeller don stand? That one fit later do "forced entry" o..

I don't admire anything and anyone that's outta control. Such wereys are too predictable. Predictable is too boring. I enjoy unpredictable. Even if it makes lazy me uncomfortable . At least my heart go shake small...
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by jaxxy(m): 7:20pm On Dec 10, 2025
Any girl that is very active on twitter posting whatever is already a red flag. kiss
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Emeskhalifa(m): 7:23pm On Dec 10, 2025
Samantha125:
Well, I'm a lady and you know we ladies don't like offering our services free of charge, we're always hungry... grin grin grin
Used to think girls in other countries are different but this just confirmed it.

Y'all just after men's money 😕💔
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Dididrumz(m): 7:24pm On Dec 10, 2025
Admiring how good you look doesn't mean I must approach you and talk to you.

I admire you and that's all it is.
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Samantha125(f): 7:25pm On Dec 10, 2025
Well, I'm not complaining, in fact, I like them like that... cheesy cheesy cheesy

And what do you know about Bapedi Men? because I don't remember generalising the entire SA men.
IamAtAnger:
SA men are way primitive so you can't expect less. I'm not surprised
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Fiscus105(op):
correctguy101:
Oga, which kind woman go even agree to a man wey ordinary staring, propeller don stand? That one fit later do "forced entry" o..

I don't admire anything and anyone that's outta control. Such wereys are too predictable. Predictable is too boring. I enjoy unpredictable. Even if it makes lazy me uncomfortable . At least my heart go shake small...
Men are loosing it big for several independent ladies, gone are the day men take pride in maniputing ladies to submission, but now guys start fidgeting wen they meet classic ladies.
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Lanre1st(m): 7:27pm On Dec 10, 2025
Make she approach you and you shout he's harassing you.

These days women are too delicate to deal with
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Goodmarlian: 7:28pm On Dec 10, 2025
EmperorIsaac:
I have had women around me, I still have them around me, and will continue to have them around me, as long as I'm on earth. I noticed I didn't need "confidence" dealing with them. grin
That's a big lie women love confident men like mad unless you are dealing with less attractive ones.
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Diamond098454(f): 7:28pm On Dec 10, 2025
SpencerForbes:
The second you say 'hi' to them, they immediately start sending you vibes. Two days later, her gas runs out, and then suddenly she's 'not feeling well.' Whenever I see a beautiful woman, my brain just goes, 'Wow, that's God's masterpiece,' quickly followed by, 'And that's a one-way ticket to financial black hole.'
you are funny . Many sweet girls you see are independent they don't care about your wallet
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by EmperorIsaac(m): 7:29pm On Dec 10, 2025
Goodmarlian:
That's a big lie women love confident men like mad unless you are dealing with less attractive ones.
In fact, they approach me almost all the time. I can't remember ever needing "confidence" dealing with them, honestly!
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Diamond098454(f): 7:30pm On Dec 10, 2025
brain54:
A guy can have a lot of reasons for staring...

Doesn't absolutely means it's because he likes you. I could be looking at you because you remind me of someone, your teeth looks weird, I like your dress very plenty reasons etc.

Not necessarily because I want to approach you. Girls most times get that wrong!
you are absolutely right
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Samantha125(f): 7:32pm On Dec 10, 2025
If we don't go after your money, who will? Your fellow men?
Emeskhalifa:
Used to think girls in other countries are different but this just confirmed it.

Y'all just after men's money 😕💔
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Diamond098454(f): 7:32pm On Dec 10, 2025
brain54:
How do you know my 3rd legs is raised inside my trousers...


Are you in my trousers. Your 3rd legs raise by staring in a public place?
hmmmmmmmmm I tire ooooo
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by JimD(m): 7:34pm On Dec 10, 2025
Goodmarlian:
Women instinctively like men with guts and control, I did some experiment some few months ago,I approached some pretty ladies with extreme confidence and some with fear , I notice most of the ones I approached with extreme Confidence surrendered Instantly to my advances even though they wanted to do shakara but their resistance was weak grin,and after getting their numbers they responded well to my chats and calls,but you see the ones I approached as a sissy they gave me their numbers but didn't pick my calls or reply my chats, women simply want a man that can trigger attraction in them but they are not even aware of this.
My kind of people. You can even approach with gibberish. Once you have confidence, you still win some over. It's why ugly guys that don't care get all the girls.
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Diamond098454(f): 7:36pm On Dec 10, 2025
Fiscus105:
You staring from head to leg and Ur 3rd legs raised inside Ur trousers, yet you have so many reasons not to approach.
how can a third leg raised in a public place like mall? Just by staring at a stranger or any lady at all.
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Iran2025: 7:37pm On Dec 10, 2025
Africa China song came to play there.
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by shankara7: 7:38pm On Dec 10, 2025
Fiscus105:
A lady on X queries that why guy staring but unable to approach, she said , she met a guy in mall in which, he was staring and staring back, but doesn't have enough ball to toast her.


I think, men are loosing confident day by day to approach women for relationship, in recent times, no thanks to independence of several ladies now, unlike before.

Sometimes it's just to avoid unnecessary expenses expecially when you remember you have some ongoing projects that still need much funds


Source
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by collins2good(m): 7:39pm On Dec 10, 2025
You went to the mall to stair at boy, so that wen he says hi, then u open office for he end, why u not go beer parlour go stair make u see who go tell you hi
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by correctguy101(m): 7:40pm On Dec 10, 2025
Fiscus105:
Hi


Men are loosing it big for several independent ladies, gone are the day men take pride in maniputing ladies to submission, but now guys start fidgeting wen they meet classic ladies.
The so-called classic ladies that we will now later hear is "collecting" from their gateman?

Abegi.

Well, no matter who, I see women as the same as I have too many of them in my life. Mother, many sisters and two daughters. Not to mention female friends. Yes, even this old boy has female friends.

Plus I have never been the type to show uncontrollable lust and stupidity. In fact, I go ignore a classic lady wey nothing concern me and her and I'll focus on the business wey bring us together. If anything go happen, that might be later as I no dey do strangers, as I hardly trust anyone aside those in my circle.. (no matter how beautiful) never in my life..

Me like ignoring some kind matter just to spite the person involved. I just like to dey annoy them like that....
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Nobody: 7:42pm On Dec 10, 2025
Diamond098454:
you are funny . Many sweet girls you see are independent they don't care about your wallet
Seriously, that's the biggest lie we ever hear! If a girl tells you she doesn't care about your money, that's a HUGE red flag! You need to RUN! Like, 98 times out of 100, she's actually going to end up 'billing' you way more than any other girl.
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Love800(m): 7:46pm On Dec 10, 2025
He wasn't ready to woo at that moment, but though some men think that ladies will have courage to do the toasting, only few women can do that.

Men need to learn that you need to approach a woman you like. You met her and she reject you, fine, you find another to approach. Out of four(4), you will surely see one who will accept your advance.
But first, you must pursue your career or job to earn good and be doing well for yourself before you start adding a woman to your life.
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by ZooOga: 7:46pm On Dec 10, 2025
SpencerForbes:
The second you say 'hi' to them, they immediately start sending you vibes. Two days later, her gas runs out, and then suddenly she's 'not feeling well.' Whenever I see a beautiful woman, my brain just goes, 'Wow, that's God's masterpiece,' quickly followed by, 'And that's a one-way ticket to financial black hole.'
Very well said. An unknown wiseman once said it's better to toast a 5,6, or 7 babe than a 9 or 10 slay queen. Most (not all) of the latter are factory installed with empty a guy's pocket or bank account. grin
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Silentgroper(m): 7:48pm On Dec 10, 2025
Fiscus105:
Wen men staring on ladies, 8/10 of such guys, their 3rd legs already tormenting them.
Are you that sex starved. 😏😏😏

You did not say going close to her , just staring at her, nahh, that's extreme...
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Fiscus105(op): 7:50pm On Dec 10, 2025
Diamond098454:
how can a third leg raised in a public place like mall? Just by staring at a stranger or any lady at all.
He or she?


I prefer not to answer hymephrodite.
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Fiscus105(op): 7:51pm On Dec 10, 2025
Silentgroper:
Are you that sex starved. 😏😏😏

You did not say going close to her , just staring at her, nahh, that's extreme...
If you are not sex starved, women in brothels would have closed business.


Here is what hypocrite wrote in the past

Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by dierich: 7:51pm On Dec 10, 2025
Fiscus105:
Wen men staring on ladies, 8/10 of such guys, their 3rd legs already tormenting them.
I doubt if you're a guy coz your mentality is below that of a 10yr old kid
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Diamond098454(f): 7:53pm On Dec 10, 2025
APOPTOSIS:
Trouble Looming.
Every woman comes with her baggage of troubles.
If you must choose, choose the one with added values attached to her.
You shouldn't lose out entirely.
Choose that woman that has something to lose too
bad guy
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by dannyspeejay(m): 7:57pm On Dec 10, 2025
Wow make e reach this side ooooo
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Diamond098454(f): 7:58pm On Dec 10, 2025
SpencerForbes:
Seriously, that's the biggest lie we ever hear! If a girl tells you she doesn't care about your money, that's a HUGE red flag! You need to RUN! Like, 98 times out of 100, she's actually going to end up 'billing' you way more than any other girl.
hahaha please please i don't have strength to laugh again hahaha hahaha hahaha it's okay I heard you....... Hahaha hahaha
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