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hello guys,omo my strong guy don turn weak guy,i dey weep sleep,sleep self no dey come,i don free girl wey don travel enter cairo wey won marry me,even girl wey her papa get hotel,i mean even a 33plus lady whose father left a house for her....i no still gree marry dem oo......na one single mother of one wey no get anything i come still dey beg dey pursue even as shes cheating on me rubbing it on my face..now if i vex mute,maximum 4days i don dey run after her.....now i had to speak up to my mum cos i don lose weight from sleepless night,cant eat even declined some some work,30 yr old single mother ooo imagine...now my mum took me to an alfa, na there it was revealed the girl used spirituality...mind u d girl is cherubim and seraphim attendee..im just forming strong man here, cant even focus at work
So the issue is how do i break free..in between our relationship ,she bought waist bead and i asked her where she got it, she said nearby market..now im thinking dat bead wasnt ordinary ....the issue now is shes very very rude and disrespectful, shes not even adding anything to me,if i sleep it has to be her dream...imagine ur fiancee cheating and still rubbing it in ur face but u still wouldn't let her go..what wrong guyz

Kai!!!

You don really enter wahala!

Nobody used any juju on you. U have fallen in love with her.

now thats d point, i try to erase dat, but moment i sleep,its her dream, i mean i wouldn't thought of marrying a single mother..shes not even contributing to my acct....i mean u as a guy,would u still go after a girl cheating on you

ogashman:
Nobody used any juju on you. U have fallen in love with her.

Of all people wey dey to mingle with na single mother you go put body for? Otilor sir.


You can reach out to deepspirituals, I think the guy can help you here.

thanks

Demetrix:
Of all people wey dey to mingle with na single mother you go put body for? Otilor sir.


You can reach out to deepspirituals, I think the guy can help you here.

so for real single mothers are real no no....but what are u implying by otilor

Mistersolar:
thanksso for real single mothers are real no no....but what are u implying by otilor

Single mothers are a red flag because what Landed them in that state can be detrimental to you on the long run. (Except she's a widow). You can always break free, just get closer to God and work on your mind. Meet a prophet if possible.

sighhhh....

Demetrix:
Single mothers are a red flag because what Landed them in that state can be detrimental to you on the long run. (Except she's a widow). You can always break free, just get closer to God and work on your mind. Meet a prophet if possible.

The only solution now is to turn to your creator: Jesus. Accept Him as your Lord and personal savior, and that yoke shall be broken.

let me give you a formula that actually works: Go No Contact.

You need to be careful because the 'love bombing' phase can be intense, and if you aren't careful, you'll never leave. The best thing you can do for your sanity right now is to cut ties completely.

Delete her number, delete the chats, and remove anything around you that reminds you of her. You don't even need to call to start a fight or quarrel—that’s unnecessary drama. Just make it clear it's over and block access.

Give yourself some time off. You’re likely feeling this way because of the 'sunk cost fallacy'—you think because you’ve invested so much emotion, you have to stay. You don't. Take this as a lesson: never invest more in a relationship than your partner is willing to give.

thank u,thank u,thank u

SpencerForbes:
let me give you a formula that actually works: Go No Contact.

You need to be careful because the 'love bombing' phase can be intense, and if you aren't careful, you'll never leave. The best thing you can do for your sanity right now is to cut ties completely.

Delete her number, delete the chats, and remove anything around you that reminds you of her. You don't even need to call to start a fight or quarrel—that’s unnecessary drama. Just make it clear it's over and block access.

Give yourself some time off. You’re likely feeling this way because of the 'sunk cost fallacy'—you think because you’ve invested so much emotion, you have to stay. You don't. Take this as a lesson: never invest more in a relationship than your partner is willing to give.

each time it seems her juju is working again, i will come back to read dis....

SpencerForbes:
let me give you a formula that actually works: Go No Contact.

You need to be careful because the 'love bombing' phase can be intense, and if you aren't careful, you'll never leave. The best thing you can do for your sanity right now is to cut ties completely.

Delete her number, delete the chats, and remove anything around you that reminds you of her. You don't even need to call to start a fight or quarrel—that’s unnecessary drama. Just make it clear it's over and block access.

Give yourself some time off. You’re likely feeling this way because of the 'sunk cost fallacy'—you think because you’ve invested so much emotion, you have to stay. You don't. Take this as a lesson: never invest more in a relationship than your partner is willing to give.

I would have advised you but I've stopped this lifestyle.
.
.
When I was still in the world. The only way out to this is.
.
1. Stop having sex with her and stop asking for it
2. Turn down her sex seduction, I mean when she stylishly tried to seduce you. Ignore it. And snub her that moment or form angry.
3. Don't take her out again and don't act nice, and don't call except she calls, intentionally miss her calls.
.
4. Go out with other girls
5. Bring new girl in. Or attach yourself with new girl.
6 Make her catch you with new girl in your apartment.

Whatever comes out of it, let me know

Mistersolar:
hello guys,omo my strong guy don turn weak guy,i dey weep sleep,sleep self no dey come,i don free girl wey don travel enter cairo wey won marry me,even girl wey her papa get hotel,i mean even a 33plus lady whose father left a house for her....i no still gree marry dem oo......na one single mother of one wey no get anything i come still dey beg dey pursue even as shes cheating on me rubbing it on my face..now if i vex mute,maximum 4days i don dey run after her.....now i had to speak up to my mum cos i don lose weight from sleepless night,cant eat even declined some some work,30 yr old single mother ooo imagine...now my mum took me to an alfa, na there it was revealed the girl used spirituality...mind u d girl is cherubim and seraphim attendee..im just forming strong man here, cant even focus at work
So the issue is how do i break free..in between our relationship ,she bought waist bead and i asked her where she got it, she said nearby market..now im thinking dat bead wasnt ordinary ....the issue now is shes very very rude and disrespectful, shes not even adding anything to me,if i sleep it has to be her dream...imagine ur fiancee cheating and still rubbing it in ur face but u still wouldn't let her go..what wrong guyz

Put prick inside well well, release & continue...

Hmmmmmm I don't even know where to start hmmmmmm rude, disrespectful and other things involved

NiRfreak:
I would have advised you but I've stopped this lifestyle.
.
.
When I was still in the world. The only way out to this is.
.
1. Stop having sex with her and stop asking for it
2. Turn down her sex seduction, I mean when she stylishly tried to seduce you. Ignore it. And snub her that moment or form angry.
3. Don't take her out again and don't act nice, and don't call except she calls, intentionally miss her calls.
.
4. Go out with other girls
5. Bring new girl in. Or attach yourself with new girl.
6 Make her catch you with new girl in your apartment.

Whatever comes out of it, let me know

wow wow wow........... Ooohhhh my goodness you are wicked

i mean im trying shut her our, dont wanna be back

sacajawea:
Put prick inside well well, release & continue...

ive detached since a month plus

NiRfreak:
I would have advised you but I've stopped this lifestyle.
.
.
When I was still in the world. The only way out to this is.
.
1. Stop having sex with her and stop asking for it
2. Turn down her sex seduction, I mean when she stylishly tried to seduce you. Ignore it. And snub her that moment or form angry.
3. Don't take her out again and don't act nice, and don't call except she calls, intentionally miss her calls.
.
4. Go out with other girls
5. Bring new girl in. Or attach yourself with new girl.
6 Make her catch you with new girl in your apartment.

Whatever comes out of it, let me know

whats ur take

Diamond098454:
Hmmmmmm I don't even know where to start hmmmmmm rude, disrespectful and other things involved

Mistersolar:
whats ur take

I won't advice you to leave her

Do you know why? Because you love her

Mistersolar
If she's truly bewitched, what does the Bible say, "Draw close to God, and he draw close to you. Oppose the Devil and he will flee from you." (I am summarising James 4:7,8

There is a saying that if you want someone to assist you put a load on your head, you too must bow down.

Likewise, to get help from God, you too must bend down.

As that scripture says, draw close to God and he will draw close to you.

Why not start to learn more about God and what he is like? (Read Psalms 103:8-14) You can request a visit by the Jehovahs Witnesses here https://hub.jw.org/request-visit/en/request. It is 100% free!

Mistersolar:
ive detached since a month plus

Then move on. Face your new girl , career, hobby or any ambition.

If you have detached then you will do everything possible to limit connection or interraction with her which might trigger your affection or emotion

Demetrix:
Single mothers are a red flag because what Landed them in that state can be detrimental to you on the long run. (Except she's a widow). You can always break free, just get closer to God and work on your mind. Meet a prophet if possible.

"If fada (the priest) beat the children wey come late to church, what about the children that did not come?"

In the same vein, if you write off single mothers, what of those who carried out abortions? It seems they get a pass.

We must be fair and balanced when judging people (Read Psalms 130:3,4;130:8-14, Luke 7:36-50, Matthew 7:1-4)

Mistersolar:
hello guys,omo my strong guy don turn weak guy,i dey weep sleep,sleep self no dey come,i don free girl wey don travel enter cairo wey won marry me,even girl wey her papa get hotel,i mean even a 33plus lady whose father left a house for her....i no still gree marry dem oo......na one single mother of one wey no get anything i come still dey beg dey pursue even as shes cheating on me rubbing it on my face..now if i vex mute,maximum 4days i don dey run after her.....now i had to speak up to my mum cos i don lose weight from sleepless night,cant eat even declined some some work,30 yr old single mother ooo imagine...now my mum took me to an alfa, na there it was revealed the girl used spirituality...mind u d girl is cherubim and seraphim attendee..im just forming strong man here, cant even focus at work
So the issue is how do i break free..in between our relationship ,she bought waist bead and i asked her where she got it, she said nearby market..now im thinking dat bead wasnt ordinary ....the issue now is shes very very rude and disrespectful, shes not even adding anything to me,if i sleep it has to be her dream...imagine ur fiancee cheating and still rubbing it in ur face but u still wouldn't let her go..what wrong guyz

okay guy, na you go use your mind judge yourself. My question "Let say after all this pain now and u know you are in discomfort, obviously you're in discomfort, okay, the barney give you opeuh, shey you go smash or pass" no whine me o. Because all this thing you dy mention beads baba na lamba, na sweetness of opeuh wan ruin your life". If you answer this my question you supposed done know your right answer to your problem. Abstinence because you are too emotional and he dy wrong for man to dy emotional baba aswear. Call me God sent. Piss

Op. Are u guys living together?
Have u done introduction between the families ?

Mistersolar:
i mean im trying shut her our, dont wanna be back

You have no S*nse... Your typing is irritating and annoying

do we av any personal beef

sacajawea:
You have no S*nse... Your typing is irritating and annoying

You miss the sex and you are in tears because others are doing it too. The ones you have left and the ones you will still meet are the same. Better don't kpai yourself

Use a mirror to break the spell