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What are the signs that someone had not gone through hardship in life

What is hardship to you? Define hardship.

Simplicity should be a sign to look out for

Sirchiboy:
What are the signs that someone had not gone through hardship in life

Everything we go through gives us experience. Don't compare your hard to another person's hard. Compare your yesterday to today. It is YOU yesterday vs YOU today.

I used to think that some things were easy and what's doing this person that they cannot chest the pain. I then understood that we are created to chest pain differently. Just because you can survive sleeping in a dump site does not mean everyone must go through it. It's when you hear someone who slept near a stinking canal that you look at life differently. The person in IDP camp only had to look at another person in Gaza to understand another level of hard. Pray for wisdom to survive God's test on you, not how others waste the privileges of their experiences.

Sirchiboy:
What are the signs that someone had not gone through hardship in life

Talking down on struggling people's efforts.
Unnecessary boasting.
See the less privileged as lazy.
Thinking life is an easy game.

Having very White eyeballs.
Having Soft skin with no veins.🤨

Being Humble and Reserved and spending money little by little.

Poor Man Pikin or those that have tasted correct Poverty,
once they sees money, he rushes to buy designer clothes, iPhones, Gold chains and carry Ashawo (for boys).

Anyone who says, I can’t eat leftovers

CodeTemplarr:
What is hardship to you? Define hardship.

Good question.

If they do not crave for peace. Which also mean they can’t give peace, and can’t appreciate those that bring peace. Peace is boring to such people.

They crave for chaos. They may not actively say they like chaos, but their lifestyle proves it. They want to give it to you wotowoto, wants to prove themselves, and always wants to turn up.

They haven’t experienced the harsh experience of life that will humble them, and kill off those vain exuberance hence, they are like the proverbial empty can that makes the loudest noise.

You will notice the above from young people (aka students) still under the sponsorship of their guardians/boyfriends, as they are still in the discovery stage of life. Give them time, and life will humble them.

If the humbling didn’t come with a corruption of their soul, they will become a better person, otherwise, they become bitter and content creators to corrupt the rest.

pansophist:
If they do not crave for peace.

Which also mean they can’t give peace, and can’t appreciate those that bring peace. Peace is boring to such people.

You will notice the above from young people still under the sponsorship of their guardians, as they are still in the discovery stage of life.

So so so so true.
I wonder why I am so gentle and cool nowadays.
I don't like dramas, nagging or arguments.
I just want Peace. A quiet and gentle predictable life.
I hate unpredictability whether finance or relationship.
I don't want or like quarrels. I just anticipate and do things quietly.
I don't have time or room for explanation or trying to explain myself over and over.
I just want Peace.
I guess this is because Life has Humbled me and it has made me to be quiet and gentle to listen and learn rather than the other way round..
All my plans that I wrote down will achieve so so so years when I was younger, my business empire forecast etc Life Humbled me and now I am quiet and want peace jeje

emmaodet:
So so so so true.
I wonder why I am so gentle and cool nowadays.
I don't like dramas, nagging or arguments.
I just want Peace. A quiet and gentle predictable life.
I hate unpredictability whether finance or relationship.
I don't want or like quarrels. I just anticipate and do things quietly.
I don't have time or room for explanation or trying to explain myself over and over.
I just want Peace.
I guess this is because Life has Humbled me and it has made me to be quiet and gentle to listen and learn rather than the other way round..
All my plans that I wrote down will achieve so so so years when I was younger, my business empire forecast etc Life Humbled me and now I am quiet and want peace jeje

In real life I am very very gentle.

You can see me eating at a roadside restaurant with pure water in my mouth, I really no too send like that.

If you think I am broke, that’s your problem. I have iPhone 16 pro max I only take out for events due to its camera, but prefer to use techno because the battery is good and it has dual sim.

I dress casually , sometimes even second hand cloths. A good day for me is when I woke up very late because my body has all the sleep it want, and always try to help people genuinely.

My intuition is as sharp as sunlight. By the question a person ask, their interest, how they dress, behaviour, I already know what they are up to and treat them accordingly.

Most of what I have written here are experiences all through the decades, and brother, I have seen and experienced a lot. With what I know now, peace and structure are things I protect. I hate chaos, and keep distance from unrefined people.

My trust is the most difficult thing to get. I doubt if up to five people on this planet have it. I see humans for what they are, and protect myself 100%. When chaotic people meet me at first, they just assume I can be taken advantage of.

The longer they stay to execute their plans, it becomes clearer that my gentle nature is actually a result of decades of real life experiences forged in pain, which leaves no loophole to actualise their plans, then they get frustrated.

Peace is my biggest currency. Without it, life becomes boring. So yes, I agree with you.

Quick success creates ego, slow success creates character.

pansophist:
In real life I am very very gentle.

You can see me eating at a roadside restaurant with pure water in my mouth, I really no too send like that.

If you think I am broke, that’s your problem. I have iPhone 16 pro max I only take out for events due to its camera, but prefer to use techno because the battery is good and it has dual sim.

I dress casually , sometimes even second hand cloths. A good day for me is when I woke up very late because my body has all the sleep it want, and always try to help people genuinely.

My intuition is as sharp as sunlight. By the question a person ask, their interest, how they dress, behaviour, I already know what they are up to and treat them accordingly.

Most of what I have written here are experiences all through the decades, and brother, I have seen and experienced a lot. With what I know now, peace and structure are things I protect. I hate chaos, and keep distance from unrefined people.

My trust is the most difficult thing to get. I doubt if up to five people on this planet have it. I see humans for what they are, and protect myself 100%. When chaotic people meet me at first, they just assume I can be taken advantage of.

The longer they stay to execute their plans, it becomes clearer that my gentle nature is actually a result of decades of real life experiences forged in pain, which leaves no loophole to actualise their plans, then they get frustrated.

Peace is my biggest currency. Without it, life becomes boring. So yes, I agree with you.

All you got is clarity!!!!


Clarity is freedom
Freedom bring true happiness from within without the noise and chaos of the world.