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Re: Lady Asks A Man To Send His Account Details For A Full Refund After A Date (pix) by Kobojunkie: 1:44am On Dec 14, 2025
Lalami3232:
Non-virgins go continue taking the lead as long as most of una wan impress. I can't give you what I can't afford to part with. She's a non-virgin for goodness sake!!!
So, in your mind, a virgin would require less than this woman got? Basically, you can't afford a non-virgin, but you should deserve a virgin? Poverty don overhaul una core ability to critically reason be the problem. 🥱🥱🥱
Re: Lady Asks A Man To Send His Account Details For A Full Refund After A Date (pix) by OlujobaSamuel: 3:03am On Dec 14, 2025
The food isn't much na, that's about 15k per plate for a person, depending on the level they started with their game, although I won't start a game at such level, it has to be lower.
Max of 20k for the two of us is my budget, I don't do more than that.
Btw, the guy supposed understand sey going on a date no mean relationship na
Re: Lady Asks A Man To Send His Account Details For A Full Refund After A Date (pix) by Harddiskng(m): 3:15am On Dec 14, 2025
Amotolongbo:
Honestly, for a date, everyone should foot his/her own bill.
Date should be “You see me, I see you and we talk further”.

I don’t know when it became operation feed the nation. Some of these girls go on a date every weekend, what exactly are they looking for, if not “feed me” undecided

That’s why I always advise, dates should be more than let’s take a stroll or sit or talk in a park somewhere. People you never know you are already spend 61k, let’s be real do they even plan to start a family together. Any babe that agrees to such level of spending is not wife material.

The boy should drop his account number, i can bet you that girl has no job.
Re: Lady Asks A Man To Send His Account Details For A Full Refund After A Date (pix) by Ahmeduana(m): 3:31am On Dec 14, 2025
Racheal45:
This girl na glutton if na she actually
See Watin person chop na 😂😂😂😂
That girl must be a toxic person to go into relationship with huh
Re: Lady Asks A Man To Send His Account Details For A Full Refund After A Date (pix) by Shimbo96(m): 3:38am On Dec 14, 2025
AllBlack:
She better not refund anything.

Ask this same boy how much him own mama or sister don chop for him hand wey he carry 60k dey feed woman in one sitting. We nova even talk of the Uber.
are you saying he is a disgrace to brotherhood?😁
Re: Lady Asks A Man To Send His Account Details For A Full Refund After A Date (pix) by RandomFellow: 4:01am On Dec 14, 2025
faceland:
Prices am seeing here would make me lose appetite... Any women that sees you spend and don't tell you claim down is the real red flag.
Calm down. It's obvious you're not in Lagos or Abuja. Those prices are for "Gardens" in Abuja, or if you visit upper end restaurants (not high ends ooo), these are the prices you'll see.

You see those "senior" restaurants in Maitama... Cocktails fit reach 70k sef. Salad like 27k

Wait... Lemme share Farm City Menu with you. After all those prices, add 7.5% of that money as vat cool

Re: Lady Asks A Man To Send His Account Details For A Full Refund After A Date (pix) by deltateam: 4:21am On Dec 14, 2025
Celebrityblog:
Drama ensues as a lady asks a man to send his account details for a full refund after he complained that she enjoyed their date but still said she wasn’t interested in a relationship.

The Man wrote:
The lady replied:

https://x.com/egirl_rae/status/1999192572678353124?t=RZ7B2RvhTr93WCins_SzXQ&s=19[/quote]Most girls know if they like you or not before any date. Date is merely to eat for them while massaging your ego and you're smiling like Bonga fish.
Re: Lady Asks A Man To Send His Account Details For A Full Refund After A Date (pix) by deltateam: 4:24am On Dec 14, 2025
AllBlack:
She better not refund anything.

Ask this same boy how much him own mama or sister don chop for him hand wey he carry 60k dey feed woman in one sitting. We nova even talk of the Uber.
She's equally paying for what he ate so Uber if any is covered.
Re: Lady Asks A Man To Send His Account Details For A Full Refund After A Date (pix) by kenchop: 4:25am On Dec 14, 2025
Yes refund him his money , making the dude spend 61k just to sit out with you. Can you spend 61k on yourself for just an hour? Poor girls everywhere.
Re: Lady Asks A Man To Send His Account Details For A Full Refund After A Date (pix) by aribisala0(m): 4:28am On Dec 14, 2025
advanceDNA:
As in....she sign covenant with food ...??
How u go swallow so much food at one sitting?? Some go even ask for take-away..

Very shameless
Seems to me like that is what both of them ate
Re: Lady Asks A Man To Send His Account Details For A Full Refund After A Date (pix) by chudez0147(m): 4:37am On Dec 14, 2025
brain54:
Society is divided into classes...

Some people can afford and some people can't afford. That bill is nothing to certain classes of people. That amount you are thinking is big and equating with people's salary is nothing to certain other class of people. They are even wondering why that's so cheap.

And that's 61k so split both ways each person ate about 31.5k and not the girl alone as a lot of people are assuming on this thread!
Can you help that your poor neighbor with just 20k ?? 61k is way too much for just a night food even to the super rich. Dangote wont advice you otherwise
Re: Lady Asks A Man To Send His Account Details For A Full Refund After A Date (pix) by Kobojunkie:
chudez0147:
➜Can you help that your poor neighbor with just 20k ?? 61k is way too much for just a night food even to the super rich. Dangote wont advice you otherwise
. Is he responsible for the well-being of the poor neighbor? 61k is not too much for someone who can afford it. It is only too much for those of you who cannot afford it. When you go to date, date only women who you can afford and also take them to places where you can afford, not places you cannot, and spend only what you can afford. Know this and gain wisdom! 🥱🥱
Re: Lady Asks A Man To Send His Account Details For A Full Refund After A Date (pix) by Kobojunkie: 4:45am On Dec 14, 2025
kenchop:
➜Yes refund him his money , making the dude spend 61k just to sit out with you. Can you spend 61k on yourself for just an hour? Poor girls everywhere.
The dude chose to date a girl above his means, chose to take her to a restaurant he was not comfortable with paying for, and you think she is the one to blame for his lack of discipline? Poverty men should know to date only women they can afford, not above their means. undecided
Re: Lady Asks A Man To Send His Account Details For A Full Refund After A Date (pix) by jojothaiv(m): 4:56am On Dec 14, 2025
grin grin grin grin grin

Trust me, Nairaland emotionally logical beings will dot this thread like maddddd
Re: Lady Asks A Man To Send His Account Details For A Full Refund After A Date (pix) by CandidNotes: 5:17am On Dec 14, 2025
She is trying to refund him for his own food and drinks on the date too. Baddest!🙌🙌🙌
Re: Lady Asks A Man To Send His Account Details For A Full Refund After A Date (pix) by APOPTOSIS: 5:30am On Dec 14, 2025
Wealthy & Innovative Girls give me Orgasm
They remain the Love of my Life any day any time.
It's always better to take rubbish from them than take same from leeches who have nothing to offer, after all, every woman comes with a pre-installed headache.
Re: Lady Asks A Man To Send His Account Details For A Full Refund After A Date (pix) by NoToPile: 5:35am On Dec 14, 2025
No comment about their matter but how some people can't infer that what she posted there is what both of them ate is baffling.

It's there in plain sight , once you see you should know she's talking about 2 of them.
Re: Lady Asks A Man To Send His Account Details For A Full Refund After A Date (pix) by 1972xy: 5:35am On Dec 14, 2025
Nigerians didnt really know what a date really implies.
It is not all about food. It is not all about sex.
It is an opportunity for both parties to meet each other and discuss each other.
Discuss family, education, work, personal interest, past relationships,success, failures, friends, goals, future etc
From these discussions while on dining ,you cab be able to assess your partner if it is suitable for you to accept as a potential suitor.
Not ,just to go and eat and you assumed that you have gotten a girl friend or a boy friend..
Be wise.
Re: Lady Asks A Man To Send His Account Details For A Full Refund After A Date (pix) by Fiscus105(m):
hatchy:
She's paying for what both of them consumed..
The young man should know that going out on a date doesn't mean that you're in a relationship.

However, any girl going on such journey should minimise what you take that day because not everyone will take that, after spending.
That's why many of these ladies ended up in wrong relationships/marriages owing to nature of gluttony in them.

You know you are not interested in man, yet, you are following him to restaurants to spend several times with him, dinning and whining, when you already know, where the guy is going and what he wanted to discuss with you.

Before you know, the guy, which he hitherto irritated you to date, you will start riding him on every available bed, and latter have kids for him.



After 5 years, eyes will open, and marriage turns to toxic.
Re: Lady Asks A Man To Send His Account Details For A Full Refund After A Date (pix) by greatiyk4u(m): 5:47am On Dec 14, 2025
Kobojunkie:
You live in the gutter does not mean everyone lives in the gutters with you. Does it? 🥱🥱
If the guy is as comfortable as you are trying to paint it here, he won't come to SM of all places to rank about ordinary 61K and relationship refusal
Re: Lady Asks A Man To Send His Account Details For A Full Refund After A Date (pix) by beey2(m): 6:13am On Dec 14, 2025
This is another method of knowing the one to wife (wife material) .
I had 2 suitors when I was single and searching, but this particular one agreed to go on a date with me, we visited places but when we got to the restaurant she asked for price per plate of food and to my surprise she offered to make me food at home. On her insistence we headed to my home and in deed she made us delicious meal with less than half of what I we would have spend out there. It was naturally her character and I need no one to tell me who my wife is. Now we are 18 going to be 19 years together after that day and we are happily married 16yrs+ with 4 wonderful children.
Re: Lady Asks A Man To Send His Account Details For A Full Refund After A Date (pix) by letitrainnow(m): 6:13am On Dec 14, 2025
🌹❤️May tomorrow bring new opportunities, joy, and growth. May hope and positivity fill your heart. Have a wonderful day!❤️
Re: Lady Asks A Man To Send His Account Details For A Full Refund After A Date (pix) by Maliqcious: 6:21am On Dec 14, 2025
brain54:
I agree with you it's poverty mentality...


They expect him to take her to eat ewa and pomo with bread with Fanta. Total 7h. Forgeting that even if you no get class the person you are taking out get class!
Define class
Re: Lady Asks A Man To Send His Account Details For A Full Refund After A Date (pix) by brain54(m): 6:30am On Dec 14, 2025
Maliqcious:
Define class
Go ahead and ask your ftr!
Re: Lady Asks A Man To Send His Account Details For A Full Refund After A Date (pix) by brain54(m): 6:33am On Dec 14, 2025
chudez0147:
Can you help that your poor neighbor with just 20k ?? 61k is way too much for just a night food even to the super rich. Dangote wont advice you otherwise
So dangote don't eat meals above 60k...?

Because they are poor people.


Keep your advice to yourself. Some of you are just so damn std!
Re: Lady Asks A Man To Send His Account Details For A Full Refund After A Date (pix) by Kobojunkie: 6:34am On Dec 14, 2025
greatiyk4u:
➜If the guy is as comfortable as you are trying to paint it here, he won't come to SM of all places to rank about ordinary 61K and relationship refusal
We should be calling out boys who go dating women that are above their means in this. He came on SM to rank but never mentioned that the lady put a gun to his head, either to date her or take her to eat at this expensive restaurant. He did all of that to impress her and came to rant when the lady still turned him down afterwards. That na a him problem, not a her problem. undecided
Re: Lady Asks A Man To Send His Account Details For A Full Refund After A Date (pix) by Emeskhalifa(m): 6:36am On Dec 14, 2025
Racheal45:
This girl na glutton if na she actually
See Watin person chop na 😂😂😂😂
How's she glutton? They ate only two plates abi you want them to be sharing from same plate?

Good thing is she asks him to send his account details for refund.
Re: Lady Asks A Man To Send His Account Details For A Full Refund After A Date (pix) by Smartworkfx2: 6:38am On Dec 14, 2025
FAKE INFORMATION.

This is just for clout and engagement.
Which girl will refund a man for a date.
She even calculated the bill for two.
Very weird story.

The boy should step up his game. All these GenZs are so immature and have no vibes.

When you take a girl out on a first date, don't ask her out. Just get to know her and make her happy.

If she is a working class and cultured lady that is not a parasite, you will know from the conversation. Stop rushing ladies, let them flow with you.

Young men, if you are broke and struggling, don't go into a relationship. It's better to build your life first and level up.

For easy tips on how to boost your income and level up in year 2026. Send me a DM
Re: Lady Asks A Man To Send His Account Details For A Full Refund After A Date (pix) by mrengage: 6:46am On Dec 14, 2025
Lalami3232:
Non-virgins go continue taking the lead as long as most of una wan impress. I can't give you what I can't afford to part with. She's a non-virgin for goodness sake!!!
Your comment just dey wicked soul most of the time 😂 🤣
Re: Lady Asks A Man To Send His Account Details For A Full Refund After A Date (pix) by kiddaz: 6:52am On Dec 14, 2025
AllBlack:
No mind am. Yes e get location wey dey sell water reach like that but Ask the mumu boy how much be him bathing soap you go hear say na premier cool soap.
Abeg I no fit laugh o 😂😂😂
Re: Lady Asks A Man To Send His Account Details For A Full Refund After A Date (pix) by DimIsaac10(m): 6:56am On Dec 14, 2025
Stop complaining. Drop am
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