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The Rise Of Absentee Fathers by Ibrahim1985(op): 3:46pm On Dec 14, 2025
Whether it was a one night stand or long term relationship, once the child is your, it is your responsibilities. Do not run away and even you doubt it is yours, thank God there is DNA to confirm, the child is your responsibility. Even if baby mama is an olosho for area, once it is your child, you are responsible. Whether condom burst or baddie refuse to take birth control, once the child is born. It is your responsibility. Even if baby mama na witch or Jezebel or druggie or wayward or strange, your child is still your responsibility. Too many men just having children without even owning up to responsibility.
Whether you hate your babymama because she is this or that, your child is still your responsibility
Stop running away and be involved in your child.
Re: The Rise Of Absentee Fathers by Diamond098454(f): 4:54pm On Dec 14, 2025
Both men and women should be conscious while making up

Anything sex material is important to avoid unwanted pregnancies
Re: The Rise Of Absentee Fathers by Ibrahim1985(op): 1:18pm On Dec 15, 2025
Diamond098454:
Both men and women should be conscious while making up

Anything sex material is important to avoid unwanted pregnancies
Thank you, the children are the one who suffer the most.
Re: The Rise Of Absentee Fathers by Exceed15: 2:20pm On Dec 15, 2025
What of bittered stubborn woman who denies the man access to the child/ children. No be Everyman get time for child custody fight o
Re: The Rise Of Absentee Fathers by Samantha125(f): 2:45pm On Dec 15, 2025
If you love your children unconditionally, you'll fight for them.
Exceed15:
What of bittered stubborn woman who denies the man access to the child/ children. No be Everyman get time for child custody fight o
Re: The Rise Of Absentee Fathers by Exceed15: 2:54pm On Dec 15, 2025
Samantha125:
If you love your children unconditionally, you'll fight for them.
Abegiii.. fight and develop HBP to die abi?
Men, if your wife deny you access to your child/ children WALK AWAY and IMPROVE your life. Let the children grow up to see a successful and well established father. Noone ignore a relevant object.
Re: The Rise Of Absentee Fathers by Dzzzz: 3:05pm On Dec 15, 2025
Exceed15:
Abegiii.. fight and develop HBP to die abi?
Men, if your wife deny you access to your child/ children WALK AWAY and IMPROVE your life. Let the children grow up to see a successful and well established father. Noone ignore a relevant object.
You cold pass North-pole🤔
Re: The Rise Of Absentee Fathers by spencekat(m): 3:20pm On Dec 15, 2025
Exceed15:
What of bittered stubborn woman who denies the man access to the child/ children. No be Everyman get time for child custody fight o
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Re: The Rise Of Absentee Fathers by Samantha125(f): 4:24pm On Dec 15, 2025
How would they see you when you'd have given up on them long time ago?

I'm sure they wouldn't even know your whereabouts by that time or even recognise you... It's only men who'd see fighting for their children as equivalent to death, hence it's only women who can love their children unconditionally... So you're free to take your belongings and leave.
Exceed15:
Abegiii.. fight and develop HBP to die abi?
Men, if your wife deny you access to your child/ children WALK AWAY and IMPROVE your life. Let the children grow up to see a successful and well established father. Noone ignore a relevant object.
Re: The Rise Of Absentee Fathers by Ibrahim1985(op): 4:55pm On Dec 15, 2025
Exceed15:
Abegiii.. fight and develop HBP to die abi?
Men, if your wife deny you access to your child/ children WALK AWAY and IMPROVE your life. Let the children grow up to see a successful and well established father. Noone ignore a relevant object.
You can still let your child know you . I know of one where his baby mama denied one of my guys yet but his daughter kept disturbing his baby mama that she wants to see her dad. Even the stubborn baby mama was forced to let his daughter see him. Your children will always remember you if you are a good dad. So please do not disappear completely. By the way, it is way better to develop high blood pressure for the sake of your children than to completely disappear.
Re: The Rise Of Absentee Fathers by JejelifeNG: 5:07pm On Dec 15, 2025
Develop HBP and die?

This advice is the same as telling a woman to remain in a domestic violence ridden marriage for the sake of her kids. Anything that threatens your health or life should be avoided at all costs. Those children will still be neglected if you die while fighting... It's is not cowardice to leave and fight another day

Additionally, you can take the woman to court for parental alienation. Make sure you and that woman are always in court fighting. It keeps her careful with the kids. The moment she feels she can do anything and get away with it, she will do anything she likes

Ibrahim1985:
You can still let your presence be known. I know of one where his baby mama denied one of my guys yet but his daughter kept disturbing his baby mama that she wants to see her dad. Even the stubborn baby mama was forced to let his daughter see him. Your children will always remember you if you are a good dad. So please do not disappear completely. By the way, it is way better to develop high blood pressure for the sake of your children than to completely disappear.
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