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There is a serious debate going on in my compound right now because of this trending movie **"ILE OKO"**. I need the wise people of Nairaland to settle this matter before they break bottles.

In the movie, a man (Bayo) cheats on his wife and eventually leaves her for a "Slay Queen" side chick. His excuse? He claims his wife is too **DIRTY**, lazy, and doesn't keep the house clean. He says he needs "peace of mind" and a clean environment.

The women here are screaming that the man is wicked and ungrateful after she gave him children. The men are saying **"No man can survive in a dirty house, he did the right thing."**

**My Question to Nairaland:**
Is being dirty truly enough reason for a man to destroy his home? Or is it just a useless excuse men use to cheat?

**Watch the scene that caused the wahala here:**

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5rTr3K4CJNI

**Watch the full movie to see the wife's revenge (It will shock you):**

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5rTr3K4CJNI?si=P7pQTfUO2sup4YvP

Guys, be honest. Who is wrong here? The dirty wife or the unfaithful husband?

Dirtiness is just a habit, it can be changed. He can actually change or teach her how to be clean. It's going to take time sha

Ladies in the house, I want to ask you a sincere question. If the tables were turned and it was your HUSBAND who was dirty, refused to bathe, and kept the house smelling bad... would you stay? Or is hygiene only a requirement for women? Be honest o!

I wonder if those men just don't notice the ladies habits while they were dating, or if he was so blinded by love that they thought they could change them? Or they themselves are really dirty. Because for you to deliberately choose a dirty girl, you’ve been living with it.

I honestly don't get how guys date girls who are that dirty. I can’t imagine a dirty woman trying to raise a kid. I’d rather remain single than marry one. If more men had some self-discipline and wisdom, they’d pass on those types of people until they’re actually ready to grow up.

Being dirty just shows immaturity, and honestly, no one is obligated to put up with it.

Dirtiness should come first before Nagging.
Also, if recalcitrant & deep-rooted, it's enough to end a marriage. This is on both sides.

solutions007:
There is a serious debate going on in my compound right now because of this trending movie **"ILE OKO"**. I need the wise people of Nairaland to settle this matter before they break bottles.

In the movie, a man (Bayo) cheats on his wife and eventually leaves her for a "Slay Queen" side chick. His excuse? He claims his wife is too **DIRTY**, lazy, and doesn't keep the house clean. He says he needs "peace of mind" and a clean environment.

The women here are screaming that the man is wicked and ungrateful after she gave him children. The men are saying **"No man can survive in a dirty house, he did the right thing."**

**My Question to Nairaland:**
Is being dirty truly enough reason for a man to destroy his home? Or is it just a useless excuse men use to cheat?

**Watch the scene that caused the wahala here:**

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5rTr3K4CJNI

**Watch the full movie to see the wife's revenge (It will shock you):**

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5rTr3K4CJNI?si=P7pQTfUO2sup4YvP

Guys, be honest. Who is wrong here? The dirty wife or the unfaithful husband?

Men don’t cheat only women cheat ok?

As men we go for what we want,and anyone we buy don’t have right to go meet another Man until divorce

I visited a friend in her lodge one day

I saw a guy very handsome no singlet
He was discussing with someone hmmmm when his guy raised his hand up I nearly throw up (vomit) that place was so busy. I got to bring my eyes down to check the down side well, couldn't see much but from the look of things, the down side maybe the same too

And this young handsome man has a girlfriend

xtivin:
Men don’t cheat only women cheat ok?

As men we go for what we want,and anyone we buy don’t have right to go meet another Man until divorce

wow..... 👏👏👏👏👏 really.........? Married women knows better now

Yes..

Why should a woman be dirty?

I don't know, but the day my husband starts carrying himself like a pig, it's the day I'll move out of our bedroom, and if he doesn't change, I'll leave the house.

Dirtiness is one of my deal breakers.

Samantha125:
I don't know, but the day my husband starts carrying himself like a pig, it's the day I'll move out of our bedroom, and if he doesn't change, I'll leave the house.
Dirtiness is one of my deal breakers.

Supported💯
Meanwhile make sure you are almost always spotless and neat to justify such. Or if both of you are dirty just make sure he's ahead of you 🤣. Dirty people deserve no peace.

I can’t stand a dirty lady

I can’t ! No no no…

I can’t even date them no to talk of marrying one

24 hours under the same roof with a dirty woman would be like 24 years to me. I won't bear it.

Diamond098454:
I visited a friend in her lodge one day

I saw a guy very handsome no singlet
He was discussing with someone hmmmm when his guy raised his hand up I nearly throw up (vomit) that place was so busy. I got to bring my eyes down to check the down side well, couldn't see much but from the look of things, the down side maybe the same too

And this young handsome man has a girlfriend

is that what you call dirty?because he has a bushy armpit, it is only a neat guy that can keep hair in the armpit without it smelling because it is not easy maintaining that place with a good smell

Henryfocoyo:
is that what you call dirty?because he has a bushy armpit, it is only a neat guy that can keep hair in the armpit without it smelling because it is not easy maintaining that place with a good smell

his girlfriend should do the needful by cleaning up those places

Not a good reason to cheat or scatter your home as a man.

Husband and wife are partners and they are to support each other during thick and thin in all aspects including where one is lacking.

One thing men don’t like saying out loud is when a women has terrible personal hygiene
It sometimes show up as a dirty houme too

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Train her
bath with her ,,,
cook with her ,,,
clean with her,,,
when she enjoys it she will do it on her own✌️

Some women just careless.

Is bad for a woman to be dirty.


Some will look neat outside but when they remove cloth you lose interest

solutions007:
Ladies in the house, I want to ask you a sincere question. If the tables were turned and it was your HUSBAND who was dirty, refused to bathe, and kept the house smelling bad... would you stay? Or is hygiene only a requirement for women? Be honest o!

Getting a divorce is one thing, cheating is something else. There is never a good excuse for why a partner should cheat on the other after swearing an oath of faithfulness to that partner. That oath can and should only end with divorce.

richiemcgold:
24 hours under the same roof with a dirty woman would be like 24 years to me. I won't bear it.

Cheating on a wife means the woman remains in your life 24/7. Divorce is a better, more legal option.

The husband is at fault

The husband can't clean the house himself?

Fountainofyouth:
The husband can't clean the house himself?

For how long will he continue cleaning the house?

Can the wife also hustle and provide for the family?

If you can't provide financially and also can't do domestic works, then of what use are you as human being?

Are you here to advertise the yaruba film or what

Every sane man like me knows that's a clean environment and wife is very important

The real question is

why would any man with a funcional brain take a dirty female from girlfriend to wife if he himself is not a dirty human being?

Bendeco02:
For how long will he continue cleaning the house?

Can the wife also hustle and provide for the family?

If you can't provide financially and also can't do domestic works, then of what use are you as human being?

This is 2025 people are supposed to have sense to know that men and women provide financially for the home, even women selling in the market are providing for their homes, so he should continue to clean the house as long as he's married to her, they should both domesticate themselves for their family

Bendeco02:
Some women just careless.

Is bad for a woman to be dirty.


Some will look neat outside but when they remove cloth you lose interest

On top of that the toto will have gone slack