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Men, remember this: no man can steal your woman, they can only steal your problems. That woman has been cheating on you. The man who took her from you did you a favour, because he delivered you from a treacherous b@st@rd

Odebayo4010:
Men, remember this: no man can steal your woman, they can only steal your problems. That woman has been cheating on you. The man who took her from you did you a favour, because he delivered you from a treacherous b@st@rd

. If only women would learn this too, and know side-chicks cannot steal their men, but instead it is their husbands cheating on them, hence they should endeavor to let the trash go completely with the side-chick.

Dis one from a bitter heart, u needs healing first b4 relationship can work

I agree with you...

And it goes for both sexes but it should apply to couples that are sincere and trustworthy on their part!

When a man cheat his wife forgive but when the woman make the same mistake she will be called trash

Diamond098454:
When a man cheat his wife forgive but when the woman make the same mistake she will be called trash

When a woman is jobless, the man overlooks but when a man is jobless, he will be ridiculed

There is no excuse for cheating as a person both man and woman!!!!!!!

It is always better to quit than to cheat, that’s dignity for you and your family name forever.

Cheating always comes when there is no purpose of alignment for the relationship.

I don’t date outside my frequency level, rather stay single than to cheat cos of the glitch of accepting someone below my energy level.


Clarity marries alignment
Emotion marries misalignment


I ready stay single and wait for that connection resonating in my frequency level.

My solitude and peace are so important to my future, kids and family.

Unseen:
When a woman is jobless, the man overlooks but when a man is jobless, he will be ridiculed

wow.........

Unseen

Like seriously🙁🙁

Lol.. for whatever reason, any woman uninterested again should be freed. There are many fishes in the ocean.

Diamond098454:
When a man cheat his wife forgive but when the woman make the same mistake she will be called trash

Here's a question! Why should a woman forgive a man who cheats on her? There are many men out there; there is literally no valid reason why a woman should remain with a man who literally has no respect for her or probably even hates her.🥱🥱

If you need to have a man in your life, then find yourself another one and stay with him for as long as he will respect you, and move on to the next man when that is gone. Men do that with women — they stay as long as she respects them and move on even before she loses respect for them — so why can't or won't women do the same? 🥱🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
Here.s a question! Why should a woman forgive a man who cheats on her? There are many men out there; there is literally no valid reason why a woman should remain with a man who literally has no respect for her or probably even hates her. 🥱🥱🥱

maybe they stayed because of love or maybe the general saying that men are polygamous in nature

Diamond098454:
➜maybe they stayed because of love or maybe the general saying that men are polygamous in nature

Love in cheating? Sounds more like insecure attachment, which is unhealthy, because love does not and should not hurt. Real love does not condone cheating or abuse of any kind. Sounds like way too many women(and men, too) in relationships need to make appointments with professional mental health therapists. 🥱🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
Love in cheating? Sounds more like insecure attachment, which is unhealthy, because love does not and should not hurt. Real love does not condone cheating or abuse of any kind. Sounds like way too many women(and men, too) in relationships need to make appointments with professional mental health therapists. 🥱🥱🥱

some women are like that . Some people can love ooooo sometimes I feel like the man is using something on them but my dear

The man is not using anything ooooo

Diamond098454:
➜some women are like that . Some people can love ooooo sometimes I feel like the man is using something on them but my dear The man is not using anything ooooo

Na mental problem born from unresolved childhood trauma. And with Nigerians not entirely conscious about dealing with mental health issues, women are not only brainwashed from childhood, but they are also shoved full of trauma enough to cause many of them to disconnect from common sense by the time they reach adulthood.

What is sad is that these mothers raise their children with adulterous and abusive marriage as their very foundation of what marriage is. And when they grow up, all of that trauma and abuse will majorly impact their relationships and decisions, maybe into old age too. The trauma becomes generational at that.

Kobojunkie:
Na mental problem born from unresolved childhood trauma. And with Nigerians not entirely conscious about dealing with mental health issues, women are not only brainwashed from childhood, but they are also shoved full of trauma enough to cause many of them to disconnect from common sense by the time they reach adulthood.

What is sad is that these mothers raise their children with adulterous and abusive marriage as their very foundation of what marriage is. And when they grow up, all of that trauma and abuse will majorly impact their relationships and decisions, maybe into old age too. The trauma becomes generational at that.

hahaha hahaha hahaha please please it's too early and I can't laugh so loud now hahaha hahaha hahaha🤣🤣🤣 abeg ooooo

Kobojunkie:
Here's a question! Why should a woman forgive a man who cheats on her? There are many men out there; there is literally no valid reason why a woman should remain with a man who literally has no respect for her or probably even hates her.🥱🥱

If you need to have a man in your life, then find yourself another one and stay with him for as long as he will respect you, and move on to the next man when that is gone. Men do that with women — they stay as long as she respects them and move on even before she loses respect for them — so why can't or won't women do the same? 🥱🥱🥱

This sounds good in theory but is not practical in a society like Nigeria

Kobicove:
✓ This sounds good in theory but is not practical in a society like Nigeria

What used to be the general norm until religion including Bollywood brainwashed and deluded Nigerian women is no longer practical?