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Lawyer Reveals Shocking Reason Behind Woman’s Decision to End Marriage.

You divorced your husband cus he cheated just to go and be a side chick to a married man. Bruhh! I don too hear rubbish since dem wear me this wig and gown.🤦🏾‍♂️

Chilipepper:
➜Lawyer Reveals Shocking Reason Behind Woman’s Decision to End Marriage.

And this one calls himself a Lawyer!🙄🙄🙄

Would he have preferred she remain married to the man while keeping herself a married side-dick on the side, probably like her husband? She did well to first leave her scumbag of a husband before moving on. She is not to blame for society's general lapse in judgment... the phenomenon that accepts adulterous acts of a married man. A sidechick is not to blame for a married man's cheating. 🥱🥱🥱

This one is just docile,cheating is enough to divorce one ,if she a side chick to a married man then you caused it

It's always the same. The grass isn't greener on the other side.

A divorced woman can only be a side chic to a married man because according to the singles association of Nairaland boys (SANB), a divorced woman has nothing to offer.

Foodqueen:
It's always the same. The grass isn't greener on the other side.

Stop generalising men! Not every man cheats! It is you ladies who leave your genuine lovers for some playboys then turn around and start crying when the guy man shows his true colour after the initial emotional feelings.

There are always multiple reasons to end any marriage at all. But there are better reasons to stay married, once married. Unfortunately, people will encourage you to divorce but cannot help you to secure another marriage. People will encourage you to divorce and turn around to blame you at every given opportunity after your divorce. People will encourage you to divorce but won't accommodate you after the divorce. Marriage is for the matured minds and not for babies. Unless domestic violence or life threatening situation is involved, couples should learn to settle their differences.

From fry pan to fire

Dreal1247:
✓ There are always multiple reasons to end any marriage at all. But there are better reasons to stay married, once married.
✓ Unfortunately, people will encourage you to divorce but cannot help you to secure another marriage. People will encourage you to divorce and turn around to blame you at every given opportunity after your divorce.
@✓ People will encourage you to divorce but won't accommodate you after the divorce.
✓ Marriage is for the matured minds and not for babies. Unless domestic violence or life threatening situation is involved, couples should learn to settle their differences.

Name some of these better reasons to stay married when rather than seek a divorce?

2. Why should another marriage be the solution for leaving one marriage? Why can't you focus on resolving the problems that got you stuck in the first marriage you had to leave before then deciding whether finding a new one or taking a long hiatus would be best option?

3. So, my guess is as a woman you were financially abused in your marriage explaining why after x number of years of marriage, you come out unable to afford a place of your own. And rather than direct your anger at the right person-- your abuser -- you turn around to blame those who told you you were better off without your abuser in your life in order that you can finally begin working on you? You want them to take you on as some sort of charity case after your foolish decision to invest all for nothing in the name of marriage?

4. I see! She should not leave even when she is emotionally, mentally or even financially abuse. (All more than valid reasons to want to leave an unfulfilling marriage, by hmm the way.) She should wait until the man is ready to literally throws her out into the streets -- something that ultimately happened to well over 50% of women by age 40 -- before she knows she should begin fighting for herself and her own life? 🥱🥱

Indeed education without wisdom is useless... He calls himself a professional lawyer while acting very unprofessional by bringing his clients' personal affairs on social media for the entire world to see and judge.

I'd never hire such a lawyer's services as a lady, I know a biased misogynist when I see one.

Kobojunkie:
And this one calls himself a Lawyer!🙄🙄🙄

Would he have preferred she remain married to the man while keeping herself a married side-dick on the side, probably like her husband? She did well to first leave her scumbag of a husband before moving on. She is not to blame for society's general lapse in judgment... the phenomenon that accepts adulterous acts of a married man. A sidechick is not to blame for a married man's cheating. 🥱🥱🥱

When will accountability become a word in your dictionary?

Kobojunkie:
Name some of these better reasons to stay married when rather than seek a divorce?

2. Why should another marriage be the solution for leaving one marriage? Why can't you focus on resolving the problems that got you stuck in the first marriage you had to leave before then deciding whether finding a new one or taking a long hiatus would be best option?

3. So, my guess is as a woman you were financially abused in your marriage explaining why after x number of years of marriage, you come out unable to afford a place of your own. And rather than direct your anger at the right person-- your abuser -- you turn around to blame those who told you you were better off without your abuser in your life in order that you can finally begin working on you? You want them to take you on as some sort of charity case after your foolish decision to invest all for nothing in the name of marriage?

4. I see! She should not leave even when she is emotionally, mentally or even financially abuse. (All more than valid reasons to want to leave an unfulfilling marriage, by hmm the way.) She should wait until the man is ready to literally throws her out into the streets -- something that ultimately happened to well over 50% of women by age 40 -- before she knows she should begin fighting for herself and her own life? 🥱🥱

He isn't referring to unmarried woman like you so leave this nonsense you wrote upstairs you will never understand.

Samantha125:
Indeed education without wisdom is useless... He calls himself a professional lawyer while acting very unprofessional by bringing his clients' personal affairs on social media for the entire world to see and judge.

I'd never hire such a lawyer's services as a lady, I know a biased misogynist when I see one.

Did he call names? He just shared different scenarios he has witnessed so what client are you talking about?

Where do you think he witnessed that scenario? I'm sure if his client sees this post, she'll know he's talking about her.

Next thing he'll be blaming his village people when people stop seeking his legal services... And how is the lady's personal affairs any of his business?

ExudeLoveToAll:
Did he call names? He just shared different scenarios he has witnessed so what client are you talking about?

Oloshoic proclivities are only temporarily suspended in marriage. It's almost genetic, if you asked me.

Samantha125:
Where do you think he witnessed that scenario? I'm sure if his client sees this post, she'll know he's talking about her.

Next thing he'll be blaming his village people when people stop seeking his legal services... And how is the lady's personal affairs any of his business?

He never stated if the lady or her ex husband was a client. He is only relating what he has seen and hear in regards to the profession. I have seen similar scenarios as well buh I aint a lawyer.

EmperorIsaac:
Oloshoic proclivities are only temporary suspended in marriage. It's almost genetic, if you asked me.

The man's oloshoic proclivities --- as community dick that he is-- are never the topic of discussion, abi? Yet someone keeps ranting up there about accountability and the lack there of. 🥱🥱

Yet he saw the need to entangle his profession in an issue that doesn't concern him or his career as a lawyer, what a coincidence.

HarunaWest:
He never stated if the lady or her ex husband was a client. He is only relating what he has seen and hear in regards to the profession. I have seen similar scenarios as well buh I aint a lawyer.

most of these are social media tales and the imagination of the folks who come up with that for engagement.

That's life for you, it's only bad when you're at the receiving end

Kobojunkie:
And this one calls himself a Lawyer!🙄🙄🙄

Would he have preferred she remain married to the man while keeping herself a married side-dick on the side, probably like her husband? She did well to first leave her scumbag of a husband before moving on. She is not to blame for society's general lapse in judgment... the phenomenon that accepts adulterous acts of a married man. A sidechick is not to blame for a married man's cheating. 🥱🥱🥱

This guy u always love talking rubbish consistently, honestly

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Chilipepper:
Lawyer Reveals Shocking Reason Behind Woman’s Decision to End Marriage.

Probably not because her husband cheated but just an excuse to be with the married man that she wants now .

Very anyhow females on this thread

As a single woman she is commiting no crime known to law or tradition ...so she did well

Who dey clueless reach some Women...


The same thing you left your Marriage for nA him u sef dey go run for another person marriage....


Trying to also destroy another person's home...

Perfect excuse to break away

F00lish woman.

Xxxxxxxx

Abeg make una allow the woman to make her choice in peace oh. Maybe she has been looking for a way to break free from marriage.

She knows where it profits her.

Where is the sense of rationale in this matter?

You decide to change roles from house wife to side chick.

Where is the sense in all this?

It pays her more given that side chicks get better pecks than wives get from their husbands