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ExudeLoveToAll:
When will accountability become a word in your dictionary?

Kobojunkie your attention is needed

IkeAnumudu:
It’s women like you that are to blame.

100% sure that you an embittered castaway, who’s not married to any man, but a consort to many, hence those that intends staying in their husbands’ houses are a pain to hypocritical purists like you.

Go and get a life! Most women are learning sense now and avoiding gadflies like you .

Anybody that values thier mental health must ignore Kobojunkie's post/mentions.

The bolded is why

That's how it ends after divorce

My friend from Enugu married a big politicians daughter, brought her to South Africa but the gal and her mother so badly undermined this guy.

She decided to leave the marriage and moved back
To naija with their only Child

Fast forward it today, this ex wife of his is now his sidechick while he is happily to another humble gal.

Life no balance ooo

Samantha125:
Indeed education without wisdom is useless... He calls himself a professional lawyer while acting very unprofessional by bringing his clients' personal affairs on social media for the entire world to see and judge.

I'd never hire such a lawyer's services as a lady, I know a biased misogynist when I see one.

But he didn't mention names nau.. I am sure he just wanted some people to learn from the story...Even though the female gender will never learn from other's story. They love to learn by experience

Na very smart women

tunjijones:
F00lish woman.

Xxxxxxxx

Irony of life.

Bleep
Bleep
Ccc

No be juju be that

Kobojunkie:
And this one calls himself a Lawyer!🙄🙄🙄

Would he have preferred she remain married to the man while keeping herself a married side-dick on the side, probably like her husband? She did well to first leave her scumbag of a husband before moving on. She is not to blame for society's general lapse in judgment... the phenomenon that accepts adulterous acts of a married man. A sidechick is not to blame for a married man's cheating. 🥱🥱🥱

Wetin you dey talk self?

Sometimes it’s good to just keep quiet..

Jman06:
Stop generalising men! Not every man cheats! It is you ladies who leave your genuine lovers for some playboys then turn around and start crying when the guy man shows his true colour after the initial emotional feelings.

Almost every man wants to cheat.

Listed below are what stops men from cheating from my own perspective:
1. The fear of God
2. The fear of your wife
3. Poverty.

This lawyer should be stripped of her profession. Why bring this to social media? People's private life? Damn!

okada abeg drop me here

Tufia

emperor4love:
This one is just docile,cheating is enough to divorce one ,if she a side chick to a married man then you caused it

she made the right choice leaving the man though

Kobojunkie:
And this one calls himself a Lawyer!🙄🙄🙄

Would he have preferred she remain married to the man while keeping herself a married side-dick on the side, probably like her husband? She did well to first leave her scumbag of a husband before moving on. She is not to blame for society's general lapse in judgment... the phenomenon that accepts adulterous acts of a married man. A sidechick is not to blame for a married man's cheating. 🥱🥱🥱

What a poor sense of reasoning. Probably deliberate to defend the indefensible. Women supporting women as usual.

You knew what happened to you was wrong, but you are doing It to another person. She probably had that lifestyle before marriage. Sometimes it's karma. What a gender.

Dreal1247:
There are always multiple reasons to end any marriage at all. But there are better reasons to stay married, once married. Unfortunately, people will encourage you to divorce but cannot help you to secure another marriage. People will encourage you to divorce and turn around to blame you at every given opportunity after your divorce. People will encourage you to divorce but won't accommodate you after the divorce. Marriage is for the matured minds and not for babies. Unless domestic violence or life threatening situation is involved, couples should learn to settle their differences.

The differences is mostly one sided because if a married woman cheats, everyone will tell the man to divorce her and not forgive her

Then why did he mention his occupation when no one asked him? He's even using foul language to address the issue... Sure, he's only a human, but there are some things you need to refrain from doing as a law practitioner while on a public platform, unless it's a faceless forum like nairaland.

Remember that the internet never forgets and that same piece of information could one day be used against him.

BigYash:
But he didn't mention names nau.. I am sure he just wanted some people to learn from the story...Even though the female gender will never learn from other's story. They love to learn by experience

Jman06:
Stop generalising men! Not every man cheats! It is you ladies who leave your genuine lovers for some playboys then turn around and start crying when the guy man shows his true colour after the initial emotional feelings.

not every man cheat? Hmmmmmm this is the first time I'm hearing this.

The irony of life!

Dreal1247:
There are always multiple reasons to end any marriage at all. But there are better reasons to stay married, once married. Unfortunately, people will encourage you to divorce but cannot help you to secure another marriage. People will encourage you to divorce and turn around to blame you at every given opportunity after your divorce. People will encourage you to divorce but won't accommodate you after the divorce. Marriage is for the matured minds and not for babies. Unless domestic violence or life threatening situation is involved, couples should learn to settle their differences.

Anybody they ask to do evil, in which is obliged, he himself is evil already.

That's how stupid they are.

inoki247:
Who dey clueless reach some Women...


The same thing you left your Marriage for nA him u sef dey go run for another person marriage....


Trying to also destroy another person's home...

Exactly bro. Many people did not get the message the post is trying to pass

That's the only available option they could get oo, because their value have drop

Kobojunkie:
And this one calls himself a Lawyer!🙄🙄🙄

Would he have preferred she remain married to the man while keeping herself a married side-dick on the side, probably like her husband? She did well to first leave her scumbag of a husband before moving on. She is not to blame for society's general lapse in judgment... the phenomenon that accepts adulterous acts of a married man. A sidechick is not to blame for a married man's cheating. 🥱🥱🥱

You this woman. Which planet you came from. You are giving us problems in this forum.

Ewedegubbler:
My friend from Enugu married a big politicians daughter, brought her to South Africa but the gal and her mother so badly undermined this guy.

She decided to leave the marriage and moved back
To naija with their only Child

Fast forward it today, this ex wife of his is now his sidechick while he is happily to another humble gal.

Life no balance ooo

The story is common, 90% of ex wives, the ex husbands still having access to their honeypots, while the ex-husband now happily married with another woman.

Even the ex-wives that since remarried to another man not excluded.

Any guy that married single mother, which her husband still much alive, hail and hearty. I pity who no pity you.

Kobojunkie:
And this one calls himself a Lawyer!🙄🙄🙄

Would he have preferred she remain married to the man while keeping herself a married side-dick on the side, probably like her husband? She did well to first leave her scumbag of a husband before moving on. She is not to blame for society's general lapse in judgment... the phenomenon that accepts adulterous acts of a married man. A sidechick is not to blame for a married man's cheating. 🥱🥱🥱

Everytime I read your comment, I just dey hear am in the blabbering voice of a woman. Now I don confirm am say you be woman.

EmperorIsaac:
Oloshoic proclivities are only temporarily suspended in marriage. It's almost genetic, if you asked me.

what do you mean by genetic?

Samantha125:
Where do you think he witnessed that scenario? I'm sure if his client sees this post, she'll know he's talking about her.

Next thing he'll be blaming his village people when people stop seeking his legal services... And how is the lady's personal affairs any of his business?

"... blame village people...", lol, you sef don dey sound like Nigerians.

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Meanwhile, why are you defending the act? I've been noticing you small small. You get your own for body, this girl.

Ewedegubbler:
My friend from Enugu married a big politicians daughter, brought her to South Africa but the gal and her mother so badly undermined this guy.

She decided to leave the marriage and moved back
To naija with their only Child

Fast forward it today, this ex wife of his is now his sidechick while he is happily to another humble gal.

Life no balance ooo

Mehn! Do you mean what you just said now?

Becoming what she dislike. Breaking another woman's home, it's bad.

HydraFeeds:
Probably not because her husband cheated but just an excuse to be with the married man that she wants now .

what is so special about married men?

Oyindidi:
That's life for you, it's only bad when you're at the receiving end

Oyindidi is this really you? Welcome back.

Kobojunkie:
And this one calls himself a Lawyer!🙄🙄🙄

Would he have preferred she remain married to the man while keeping herself a married side-dick on the side, probably like her husband? She did well to first leave her scumbag of a husband before moving on. She is not to blame for society's general lapse in judgment... the phenomenon that accepts adulterous acts of a married man. A sidechick is not to blame for a married man's cheating. 🥱🥱🥱

When are you clocking 50? are you 45 yet?