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Well I cause this myself

I trusted this set of people now they turn against me

Start Looking for another job. That's the beginning of your end there, unless you are ready to play dirty. I mean give it anything it takes.... Be ready for war cos they are ready for you.
If you no geh strength, start packing ur load and looking for new job

Thisisa:
Well I cause this myself

I trusted this set of people now they turn against me

By this you mean you talked too much?

chatinent:
By this you mean you talked too much?

Well, they used my weaknesses against me

Start with what you did, then what they did, and we’ll help you figure out what you will do. 🤓

Thisisa:
Well, they used my weaknesses against me

Take this seriously, don't joke with it.

This is a storm to build your weakness into strength, God will see you through all you need is stillness in the storm.

It might cost you a lot , never take it to heart cos there is something God want to learn before going to next level.

Believe, be strong and fearless.

Nothing new under the sun.

After the storm and learnt lessons you will achieve your next level with your weakness been the foundation of the clarity of your strength.

Let fear be your friend but be still in the storm

Thisisa:
Well I cause this myself

I trusted this set of people now they turn against me

give us the full gist jor

Think of work like a game of cards.

You don’t show your hand just because others are smiling.

There is no smoke without fire. Let's know the cause.

Be vigilant.

Be friendly.

Trust no one.

See your colleagues as colleagues and not close friends.

Be independent as much as you can.

Be discreet on your personal life as much as you can.

Have a good office/work relationship with your colleagues.

This is how you gain back power and respect,mind you it won't be easy,they will try to frustrate you but remain firm.stop being friendly with anyone in your workplace. Your colleagues are not your friends,do your job,get paid and go home. Stop seeking validation from them,do your work diligently and leave. Do not overshare,you expose yourself when you talk too much at workplace. Trust no one but yourself. Show no fear while working,the worst thing that can happen is you lose your job. We don't pray for such but if it happens life must go on.

How do I advice you when U fail to give us d full details of what transpired!
Well, may God guide you through!

Thisisa:
Well I cause this myself

I trusted this set of people now they turn against me

Which mod moved this to front page. There's no story here na


Seun coman c oo

48laws of power is not for casual reading, read and practices it in your daily life and see how far you go in life

Type d question for A. I with details of how everything happen.
U will get a precise answer

Thisisa:
Well I cause this myself

I trusted this set of people now they turn against me

Face your work n go home. No office gist, no non work related gist. They are all your colleagues, you dont have friends at work

Pootle:
48laws of power is not for casual reading, read and practices it in your daily life and see how far you go in life

Please don't do it, 48 laws of power is for manipulators and people who love playing with people's head, it'll come back to bite you because guess what? Everyone has read that nonsense book and will smell out your tactics as soon as you start. Sha don't say you weren't told

PlsStayAlive:
Please don't do it, 48 laws of power is for manipulators and people who love playing with people's head, it'll come back to bite you because guess what? Everyone has read that nonsense book and will smell out your tactics as soon as you start. Sha don't say you weren't told

not everyone has read it, maybe the preambles and that does not give a complete insight into each law

You said you caused the problems.
Maybe you instituted the toxicity and now it's coming for you!
How do we help you now?

Thisisa:
Well I cause this myself

I trusted this set of people now they turn against me

Mr femi wetin u do no make sense.
You no try at all

Give details of what happened. That will guide people on how to give you precise advice.

Another alternative is prayer .

God will give you the wisdom to navigate the waters of people using your weaknesses against you. Pray for strength and grace through this time

There is nothing that has a beginning that does not have an end. Their taunting will come to an end one day.

Mind you, there is nobody who doesn't have a weakness. Bear that in mind. Don't let your weakness be your prison because everybody has one but yet living life despite of their weaknesses.

I hope this helps.

Thisisa:
Well, they used my weaknesses against me

You basically still talked too much or how on earth did they know your weakness??

chatinent:
By this you mean you talked too much?

Why you he/she trust anyone at work? You are there to work and not trust people.

Mr man 👨, you are not serious. See how people are asking you to explain what you did yet you didn't give detail, now I can discern why your colleagues would go against you.
When you ready

Just detoxify the toxic

How did this make it to frontpage? Is this a sponsored post? No details at all while many meaningful posts are sitting in the trending and other areas on this platform.

Thisisa:
Well, they used my weaknesses against me

Next time avoid getting involved in office gossip

Thisisa:
Well, they used my weaknesses against me

So now you know your weakness is cho cho cho

Go to work, shut-up, get work done & go home to your family. Do that on repeat.

Whatever your cho cho cho has caused accept the consequence, it will blow over. You should also start looking for another job

Ok so here’s what happened

I talked too much. I work in a government agency…
A lot of people here usually are comfortable with some extreme moves.

The people I trusted with some things have eventually used them against me.

Your work place is not a friend zone or a place you share your personal or family related matas..

You get to work, mind your business, do your job.. Say hi to those you admire from distance.. Closing time reach, you pack your bag and go your house.. Simple!! Some will call it pride,, but you don't hole them explanation as far you are doing your job.

Without your them knowing your personal life you are not save talkess of wen dey know.

Is it all that smiles wit you love you..