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Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DeepSight(m): 9:45pm On Dec 19, 2025
DiarisGodoo:
What is "clouse"
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Maybe she means "Clause."
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DiarisGodoo: 9:47pm On Dec 19, 2025
DeepSight:
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Thats on account of a certain power and cultural dynamic which is changing as women become more empowered and liberated.
So why are almost all prostitutes still women and why is it when a man spends a lot he expects sex and gets mad if he doesn't get it??
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DiarisGodoo: 9:48pm On Dec 19, 2025
DeepSight:
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Maybe she means "Clause."
U right. Na wa
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Diamond098454(f): 9:49pm On Dec 19, 2025
DeepSight:
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I, an old man, an infamous former night crawler, will not understand?
No go assume oh.
bad guy



Men can't see something beautiful and remove their eyes and mind from it. They will sacrifice everything to make sure they have you.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Diamond098454(f): 9:51pm On Dec 19, 2025
DiarisGodoo:
Mrn know what they want alright - pussy preferably attached to a pretty woman.😅
It is woman that don't know what they want!
women know what they want abeg and that's why they hardly cheat in a relationship
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DeepSight(m): 9:52pm On Dec 19, 2025
DiarisGodoo:
So why are almost all prostitutes still women and why is it when a man spends a lot he expects sex and gets mad if he doesn't get it??
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Because the financial power dynamic still rests generally with men. As it gradually changes, all that will change too.
Dont forget that men hold/ held that power on account of sheer brawn in the past. Namely that physical strength was required to make money/ gather resources for much of history. However things have changed - now its intellectual strength which evens the battlefield, but because of where history has brought us, it will still take time to even the battlefield completely.

There will still be areas of inequality though - the mere fact that we do not menstruate or suffer menopause creates a biological difference to be sure.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DiarisGodoo: 9:52pm On Dec 19, 2025
Diamond098454:
bad guy



Men can't see something beautiful and remove their eyes and mind from it. They will sacrifice everything to make sure they have you.
Without adding "MOST" you're wrong
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Diamond098454(f): 9:52pm On Dec 19, 2025
maasoap:
The thing is the one controlling majority of us. Make I lie to you?
hahaha hahaha hahaha hahaha hahaha🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DeepSight(m): 9:54pm On Dec 19, 2025
Diamond098454:
bad guy



Men can't see something beautiful and remove their eyes and mind from it. They will sacrifice everything to make sure they have you.
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Thats the point, "something beautiful" is very subjective.

One white man somewhere thinks a toothpick is sexy, but to me its an abomination.

cc: Jakumo.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by udder: 9:57pm On Dec 19, 2025
maasoap:
Laughing. If you have lost a loved one to hepatitis B induced liver cirrhosis, your simplistic opinion would change. Or, if you have families who dependent on antiretroviral drug for the rest of their lives, your unpopular conviction would change.


We're not doing comparison here as different individuals are faced with different challenges. Cancer is bad but untreated syphilis is equally bad
Most people get Hepatitis B from birth or childhood.
It is not even uncommon for partners of people with these diseases to stay uninfected. People with high viral load are usually visibly sick.

I’m not encouraging carelessness but as an hedonist, see no point trying to stay alive if I’m not enjoying it. We will all die eventually.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Diamond098454(f): 9:59pm On Dec 19, 2025
DeepSight:
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Same goes for women.
No offense but you dont come across as though you have seen much of the world.
not really but I normally face hard situations
There are people you close to and some of their partners will know you are a friend to their girl or wife

Still they choose to tempt you

Such experience will make one begin think that this gender are all the same
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DeepSight(m): 10:02pm On Dec 19, 2025
Diamond098454:
not really but I normally face hard situations
There are people you close to and some of their partners will know a friend to their girl or wife

Still they choose to tempt you
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Yes that happens all the time, its an adult thing and you will have to be principled about it.
My recommendation is NEVER to have something to do with the partner of a sibling or friend, including their exes.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Diamond098454(f): 10:03pm On Dec 19, 2025
DeepSight:
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Yes that happens all the time, its an adult thing and you will have to be principled about it.
My recommendation is NEVER to have something to do with the partner of a sibling or friend, including their exes.
we are trying it not easy though but we will keep trying
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DiarisGodoo: 10:03pm On Dec 19, 2025
DeepSight:
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Because the financial power dynamic still rests generally with men. As it gradually changes, all that will change too.
Dont forget that men hold/ held that power on account of sheer brawn in the past. Namely that physical strength was required to make money/ gather resources for much of history. However things have changed - now its intellectual strength which evens the battlefield, but because of where history has brought us, it will still take time to even the battlefield completely.

There will still be areas of inequality though - the mere fact that we do not menstruate or suffer menopause creates a biological difference to be sure.
You are deceiving yourself. How many times have seen men complain they still pay everything though the woman makes equal or more money.
Simple: once sex is involved the man is the one who almost always pays
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Diamond098454(f): 10:07pm On Dec 19, 2025
DeepSight:
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Thats the point, "something beautiful" is very subjective.

One white man somewhere thinks a toothpick is sexy, but to me its an abomination.

cc: Jakumo.
hahaha hahaha hahaha🤣🤣🤣 but still you will like to taste the toothpaste to know actually.........
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Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DeepSight(m): 10:07pm On Dec 19, 2025
DiarisGodoo:
You are deceiving yourself. How many times have seen men complain they still pay everything though the woman makes equal or more money.
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Be careful - I never said I have seen men complain. In fact most men enjoy being in that position of control.

Simple: once sex is involved the man is the one who almost always pays
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That remains true - as things are today, however I spoke about an evolution of things through history and which will still take time.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DeepSight(m): 10:08pm On Dec 19, 2025
Diamond098454:
hahaha hahaha hahaha🤣🤣🤣 but still you will like to taste the toothpaste to know actually.........
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I have had enough toothpicks to understand that rounder more voluptuous things are my decided preference.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Diamond098454(f): 10:09pm On Dec 19, 2025
DiarisGodoo:
Without adding "MOST" you're wrong
smile smile smile thanks for the correction
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by maasoap(m): 10:10pm On Dec 19, 2025
udder:
Most people get Hepatitis B from birth or childhood.
It is not even uncommon for partners of people with these diseases to stay uninfected. People with high viral load are usually visibly sick.

I’m not encouraging carelessness but as an hedonist, see no point trying to stay alive if I’m not enjoying it. We will all die eventually.
You see, I knew all along that something was wrong with you, this just proved it. This is not a mentality of a normal human being
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Diamond098454(f): 10:10pm On Dec 19, 2025
DeepSight:
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Note he said "with a female he finds attractive."
every female is attractive to you guys naaa
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DiarisGodoo: 10:11pm On Dec 19, 2025
DeepSight:
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Same goes for women.
No offense but you dont come across as though you have seen much of the world.
No offense but you really can't compare men and women when it comes to sex. Men get in trouble all the time chasing sex. Women get in trouble chasing money (men with money), status, marriage!
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DeepSight(m): 10:12pm On Dec 19, 2025
DiarisGodoo:
No offense but you really can't compare men and women when it comes to sex. Men get in trouble all the time chasing sex. Women get in trouble chasing money (men with money), status, marriage!
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Fair enough, however I still dont think what you are saying is deep enough. If you know the amount of women who molest boy-children alone you will calm down.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Diamond098454(f): 10:12pm On Dec 19, 2025
DiarisGodoo:
What is "clouse"
something like

Eg: my wife sister

If not she's my wife sister I would have have her
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DiarisGodoo: 10:14pm On Dec 19, 2025
Diamond098454:
every female is attractive to you guys naaa
The other way round.
Every man of means or status is attractive to women. Almost all men are NOT attracted to old women or fat and shapeless, yet they have same hole
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Diamond098454(f): 10:15pm On Dec 19, 2025
DeepSight:
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I have had enough toothpicks to understand that rounder more voluptuous things are my decided preference.
hmmmmmm hmmmmmm
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DiarisGodoo: 10:18pm On Dec 19, 2025
DeepSight:
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Fair enough, however I still dont think what you are saying is deep enough. If you know the amount of women who molest boy-children alone you will calm down.
Outliers. Most women are attracted to men older than themselves
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by cucumbar: 10:20pm On Dec 19, 2025
udder:
Even masturbation is not safe.

Once got thick semen stuck at the base of my urethra. I was unaware for 2 days until I started having difficulty urinating.
Instead of masturbating again, I started forcing it out gradually with several urinations not knowing I was irritating my urethra.

The burning pain started the following day. If I was sexually active, I would have concluded I had an infection - the only difference was there was no discharge.

The irritation disappeared after a week without treatment.

Moral of the story is - No enjoyment without risk. Life is short and something must kill a man. STDs are overrated and usually treatable.
go for a check up , because what you described isn’t normal .
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DeepSight(m): 10:20pm On Dec 19, 2025
DiarisGodoo:
Outliers. Most women are attracted to men older than themselves
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True, for two reasons.

1. Women naturally mature faster than men. Men catch up later in life.
2. Finances.

Nevertheless please, please, please and please. When it comes to sex, MOST women want young hot blood.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Diamond098454(f): 10:21pm On Dec 19, 2025
DiarisGodoo:
The other way round.
Every man of means or status is attractive to women. Almost all men are NOT attracted to old women or fat and shapeless, yet they have same hole
smile smile smile smile
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DeepSight(m): 10:21pm On Dec 19, 2025
cucumbar:
go for a check up , because what you described isn’t normal .
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It isnt at all.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DiarisGodoo: 10:22pm On Dec 19, 2025
Diamond098454:
something like

Eg: my wife sister

If not she's my wife sister I would have have her
U right. It is man's nature to want to sex a woman he hadn't sexed before if there are no bad consequences
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DiarisGodoo: 10:27pm On Dec 19, 2025
DeepSight:
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True, for two reasons.

1. Women naturally mature faster than men. Men catch up later in life.
2. Finances.

Nevertheless please, please, please and please. When it comes to sex, MOST women want young hot blood.
You keep thinking women sexual attraction is like men's. For most women sex the physical act is a tiny part of aexual attraction - it is the whole man and his circumstances and things that surround him
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