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None of the Exes of several single ladies may ever or has ever reconnected again with intention to marry these ladies. Even if these ladies desperately need husbands or joking bring up the idea of marriage to their Exes, such may idea may be diverted. Another thing is that some of these exes may not even be willing to reconnect for sex with these ladies while they have no suitor or fiance.

The issue here is that, when some of these ladies get fiance to marry & have a wedding date set, they may demand for good-bye sex from the Exes that never wanted to marry them. These Exes may sleep with them when they go to share wedding cards. These Exes may even bring up the idea of goodbye sex.

When a husband has side chics in marriage, it may be a consequence of the good bye sex the wife had before the wedding. Husbands have no excuse for cheating.

cutecommend:
➜None of the Exes of several single ladies may ever or has ever reconnected again with intention to marry these ladies. Even if these ladies desperately need husbands or joking bring up the idea of marriage to their Exes, such may idea may be diverted. Another thing is that some of these exes may not even be willing to reconnect for sex with these ladies while they have no suitor or fiance.
The issue here is that, when some of these ladies get fiance to marry & have a wedding date set, they may demand for good-bye sex from the Exes that never wanted to marry them. These Exes may sleep with them when they go to share wedding cards. These Exes may even bring up the idea of goodbye sex.
When a husband has side chics in marriage, it may be a consequence of the good bye sex the wife had before the wedding. Husbands have no excuse for cheating.

Men have been demanding goodbye sex from their exes — Strippers and so on—for the longest time. Many of these so-called goodbye rendezvous never even end after the wedding has taken place. And society has literally mostly turned a blind eye to the practice for the longest. Those exes and/or strippers never came back with the intention to marry, and society has been all fine with that, too. So, why the noise over women wanting the same courtesy to be extended to them? 🥱🥱🥱

Omo na una know o, Shay no marry who go kpia you.

cutecommend:
None of the Exes of several single ladies may ever or has ever reconnected again with intention to marry these ladies. Even if these ladies desperately need husbands or joking bring up the idea of marriage to their Exes, such may idea may be diverted. Another thing is that some of these exes may not even be willing to reconnect for sex with these ladies while they have no suitor or fiance.

The issue here is that, when some of these ladies get fiance to marry & have a wedding date set, they may demand for good-bye sex from the Exes that never wanted to marry them. These Exes may sleep with them when they go to share wedding cards. These Exes may even bring up the idea of goodbye sex.

When a husband has side chics in marriage, it may be a consequence of the good bye sex the wife had before the wedding. Husbands have no excuse for cheating.

This post is painting with a very broad brush, and it’s not fair or accurate for most situations.

Not every ex refuses to marry his former girlfriend forever. Plenty of couples break up young, grow up, fix what went wrong, reconnect, and end up happily married with kids. It happens more often than people admit.

But yes, in many cases, when a man leaves a relationship, he has already decided (consciously or not) that he doesn’t see her as wife material. Reconnecting later is often for convenience, loneliness, or sex—not marriage.

That’s why “goodbye sex” or “one last time” happens when the woman is finally moving on. The ex suddenly wants what he thinks he’s losing.

And the claim that a wife’s pre-wedding “goodbye sex” causes her husband to cheat later? That’s just shifting blame.

Cheating is a choice the cheater makes, full stop. No past action from the wife justifies it.

Real talk to ladies reading this:
1 If he left once and only comes back when you’re happy or engaged, he’s not serious about marriage—he’s just scared of losing access.

2 Protect ur dignity. No “goodbye sex,” no “let’s see how it goes.” If he wants u, let him commit properly.

3 Focus on the man who chooses u first, not the one who chooses u last.

To the men: If u know she’s not the one, leave cleanly and stay gone. Don’t come back for ego boost or bedroom benefits when she’s finally healing.

Breakups hurt, but playing games hurts more.


Let people move on in peace. That’s true maturity. 🙏🏾

infogenius:
This post is painting with a very broad brush, and it’s not fair or accurate for most situations.

Not every ex refuses to marry his former girlfriend forever. Plenty of couples break up young, grow up, fix what went wrong, reconnect, and end up happily married with kids. It happens more often than people admit.

But yes, in many cases, when a man leaves a relationship, he has already decided (consciously or not) that he doesn’t see her as wife material. Reconnecting later is often for convenience, loneliness, or sex—not marriage.

That’s why “goodbye sex” or “one last time” happens when the woman is finally moving on. The ex suddenly wants what he thinks he’s losing.

And the claim that a wife’s pre-wedding “goodbye sex” causes her husband to cheat later? That’s just shifting blame.

Cheating is a choice the cheater makes, full stop. No past action from the wife justifies it.

Real talk to ladies reading this:
1 If he left once and only comes back when you’re happy or engaged, he’s not serious about marriage—he’s just scared of losing access.

2 Protect ur dignity. No “goodbye sex,” no “let’s see how it goes.” If he wants u, let him commit properly.

3 Focus on the man who chooses u first, not the one who chooses u last.

To the men: If u know she’s not the one, leave cleanly and stay gone. Don’t come back for ego boost or bedroom benefits when she’s finally healing.

Breakups hurt, but playing games hurts more.


Let people move on in peace. That’s true maturity. 🙏🏾

Respect, respect and more respect.

It's better to end it with dignity than playing with someone heart and feelings.
I keep to my words cos it's my bond.

Me rather remain single than entering relationship below my frequency for pleasure.

God bless my Exs but were i say goodnight, i don't say good evening.

Ex na ex