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Guys, can you marry a lady who lives alone? If Yes, why? If No, why not?

If you no marry a lady that lives alone, seh na the one wey dey live with like 5 friends you wan con marry. The latter are easy to manipulate while the former have the minds of themselves

A lady living alone, paying her own bills can be somehow regarded as self independent which is a sign of responsibility

Most ladies who live alone fall into 2 categories.

Either they turn their apartment into a hosting place for different random man who just want to have sex with them for a fee.

Or they go out every night to hustle for men at clubs and hotels and return at 5AM every day.

essentialone:
Most ladies who live alone fall into 2 categories.

Either they turn their apartment into a hosting place for different random man who just want to have sex with them for a fee.

Or they go out every night to hustle for men at clubs and hotels and return at 5AM every day.

I am very very sure you don't live in Lagos.

So, you mean a lady was grew up in a small town, got a good job in Lagos or Abuja whixh would require a change of location. She decided to get her own apartment.... Automatically, ahe is wayward?

You dey try!!!

essentialone:
Most ladies who live alone fall into 2 categories.

Either they turn their apartment into a hosting place for different random man who just want to have sex with them for a fee.

Or they go out every night to hustle for men at clubs and hotels and return at 5AM every day.

This is pure horseshiiit

essentialone:
Most ladies who live alone fall into 2 categories.

Either they turn their apartment into a hosting place for different random man who just want to have sex with them for a fee.

Or they go out every night to hustle for men at clubs and hotels and return at 5AM every day.

You have a long way to go on working on yourself, your perception and your mentality

It takes courage to be independent!!!!!!!

Any true lady living alone not for prostitution is a winner. That's the uniqueness and beauty of her worth ready for marriage.

Never be afraid to wife an independent, respectful, discipline, intelligent but not perfect woman.


No woman big pass man, all you need is to build your kingdom and empire yourself.
She only comes for the stability of the structure already in place.

Remember all women can cook and clean but not all are respectful and discipline.

essentialone:
Most ladies who live alone fall into 2 categories.

Either they turn their apartment into a hosting place for different random man who just want to have sex with them for a fee.

Or they go out every night to hustle for men at clubs and hotels and return at 5AM every day.

You really need to change your perceptions , mentality about life generally. Infact if possible, change your environment, change your friends, your exposure is just too low.

Truth is bitter. This has nothing to do with exposure but the general reality. Remember that it rains everywhere, though patterns may differ.

I still maintain that most ladies who live alone fall into 2 categories.

Either they turn their apartment into a hosting place for different random man who just want to have sex with them for a fee.

Or they go out every night to hustle for men at clubs and hotels and return at 5AM every day.

essentialone:
I still maintain that most ladies who live alone fall into 2 categories.

Either they turn their apartment into a hosting place for different random man who just want to have sex with them for a fee.

Or they go out every night to hustle for men at clubs and hotels and return at 5AM every day.

The apartment just Infront of mine, me I am just waking up properly but this lady must have gone to work as early as 7:30am, every morning except if she's on off.

The only time I heard man's voice, they are like 4 men, probably friends.

I can't even count how many hustling ladies I know not to talk of career ladies.

Your exposure about life is just too low

helinues:
The apartment just Infront of mine, me I am just waking up properly but this lady must have gone to work as early as 7:30am, every morning except if she's on off.

The only time I heard man's voice, they are like 4 men, probably friends.

I can't even count how many hustling ladies I know not to talk of career ladies.

Your exposure about life is just too low

If I tell you where I lived and where I live presently, you won't speak to me about exposure. Make your findings around you or keep mute. I repeat, it has nothing to do with exposure.

essentialone:
If I tell you where I lived and where I live presently, you won't speak to me about exposure. Make your findings around you or keep mute. I repeat, it has nothing to do with exposure.

It has to do with your exposure bro. You are relaying what you are seeing or experiencing.

There are no genuine career ladies around your environment. Even genuine hustlers self

This marriage thing will end up running you people mad one day…

Too many analogy just to fulfil the duties of marriage…







But again,what’s life without proper bedmatics skills seff,I’m here to solve all your woes

helinues:
It has to do with your exposure bro. You are relaying what you are seeing or experiencing.

There are no genuine career ladies around your environment. Even genuine hustlers self

This person is not serious at all. You think too highly of these so called career ladies. So these career ladies you mentioned do not entertain different men in their apartments and have sex with them? Or these your career ladies don't go to visit different men at nights and have sex with them? What exactly are you smoking? Why do you not see the ladies responding? Or you think they are not aware of the truth?

essentialone:
Guys, can you marry a lady who lives alone? If Yes, why? If No, why not?

Before I married my wife, she was staying alone in a different city. So no biggie.

She was living alone and paying her bills while we take turns in visiting each other

essentialone:
Most ladies who live alone fall into 2 categories.

Either they turn their apartment into a hosting place for different random man who just want to have sex with them for a fee.

Or they go out every night to hustle for men at clubs and hotels and return at 5AM every day.

Rubbish!

essentialone:
This person is not serious at all. You think too highly of these so called career ladies. So these career ladies you mentioned do not entertain different men in their apartments and have sex with them? Or these your career ladies don't go to visit different men at nights and have sex with them? What exactly are you smoking? Why do you not see the ladies responding? Or you think they are not aware of the truth?

What is wrong with a single career lady who lives alone entertaining her boyfriend in her apartment?

Don't single guys entertain their girlfriends in their apartments?

Your problem is that you lack exposure!

essentialone:
This person is not serious at all. You think too highly of these so called career ladies. So these career ladies you mentioned do not entertain different men in their apartments and have sex with them? Or these your career ladies don't go to visit different men at nights and have sex with them? What exactly are you smoking? Why do you not see the ladies responding? Or you think they are not aware of the truth?

Don't shift from the narration with your quarter cleverness. You claimed any lady living alone is either doing prostitution at home or outside. Sex is different from prostitution

I live alone and i don't bring men into my apartment, I don't go out at night to hustle

The way you guys look down on women is too alarming and this is why some of you make grave mistake in terms of marriage

essentialone:
This person is not serious at all. You think too highly of these so called career ladies. So these career ladies you mentioned do not entertain different men in their apartments and have sex with them? Or these your career ladies don't go to visit different men at nights and have sex with them? What exactly are you smoking? Why do you not see the ladies responding? Or you think they are not aware of the truth?

I'm a lady. Well brought up and well mannered
I don't bring men into my apartment and i don't go out at night or even in the day time to hustle. Only one girlfriend and no boyfriend

Diamond098454:
I live alone and i don't bring men into my apartment, I don't go out at night to hustle

The way you guys look down on women is too alarming and this is why some of you make grave mistake in terms of marriage

Do you know...

it's a great crime punishable by law to have a heart for anyone and you don't tell them.

Maybe likeness, love or heart cramp. Know I have a heart for you.

Don't tell anyone.

essentialone:
Guys, can you marry a lady who lives alone? If Yes, why? If No, why not?

Bro you might need to get busy, what type of question is this ?

You're not even getting engagement from this in terms of money, just being slow for free. Chai

qtguru:
Bro you might need to get busy, what type of question is this ?

🤣🤣🤣🤣

acmev2:
Do you know...

it's a great crime punishable by law to have a heart for anyone and you don't tell them.

Maybe likeness, love or heart cramp. Know I have a heart for you.

Don't tell anyone.

Hi, how do you do? And how was your Sunday?

Diamond098454:
Hi, how do you do? And how was your Sunday?

I'm fine Diamond. Great, with you so much on ma mind.

essentialone:
What exactly are you smoking? Why do you not see the ladies responding? Or you think they are not aware of the truth?

This is Dec 2025, many of us have learned to avoid brain draining NL conversations or threads that serve as humiliation rituals.

acmev2:
I'm fine Diamond. Great, with you so much on ma mind.

smile smile smile

Too much on your mind? Oohh dear
So, tell me what's on your mind?

Women aren’t engaging because your assertions are outdated and poorly reasoned. What century are you stuck in? This line of thinking shows a lack of maturity and basic understanding.

essentialone:
This person is not serious at all. You think too highly of these so called career ladies. So these career ladies you mentioned do not entertain different men in their apartments and have sex with them? Or these your career ladies don't go to visit different men at nights and have sex with them? What exactly are you smoking? Why do you not see the ladies responding? Or you think they are not aware of the truth?

xmasgift:
Women aren’t engaging because your assertions are outdated and poorly reasoned. What century are you stuck in? This line of thinking shows a lack of maturity and basic understanding.

Well, I am stuck in the century of Truth and Reality. You can move on in your century of self deception. I always stay around to remind people that I warned them ahead.

pocohantas:
This is Dec 2025, many of us have learned to avoid brain draining NL conversations or threads that serve as humiliation rituals.

Still does not change the facts on the ground. Does it?

Diamond098454:
I'm a lady. Well brought up and well mannered
I don't bring men into my apartment and i don't go out at night or even in the day time to hustle. Only one girlfriend and no boyfriend

Yes. For one out of thousands. Right?