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As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Fiscus105(op):
Sister A.
WORKING CLASS LADY.
FINANCIAL SUPPORTIVE.
CANNOT COOK/CLEAN.
GOOD IN BED.





Sister B.

JOBLESS LADY BUT CAN MAKE HAIR.
BROKE,BUT CAN PRAY.
CAN COOK & CLEAN.
LAZY IN BED.


For me I will go for sister A and cover up for her shortcomings
Prayer is habits that can be inculcated, and maid will be hired for cleaning.

Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by correctyourself(m): 8:16am On Dec 22, 2025
This Monday morning does this topic worth discussing?
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Sonnobax15(m): 8:29am On Dec 22, 2025
lipsrsealed
How can you be jobless,and the same time be lazy in bed? angry.

Then,of what use are to me if you as a banny should possess such qualities? angry

Prayers alone without being backed by work is worthless..

I choose the one on white abeg.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Fiscus105(op): 8:54am On Dec 22, 2025
correctyourself:
This Monday morning does this topic worth discussing?
Yes, marital life is very important, Ur workaholicm will surely sent you to early grave if you fail to have good wife/husband
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Olachase(m): 9:06am On Dec 22, 2025
Make I no lie the two of them carry back
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by everythingtall3: 9:10am On Dec 22, 2025
None
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Fiscus105(op):
Olachase:
Make I no lie the two of them carry back
But the second one "back" she cannot use the back she carries effectively, according to the story.

So, it is not useful for you as a man.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by ManknowThyself(m): 9:20am On Dec 22, 2025
Remember all women are beautiful, can cook and clean but not all are respectful and disciplined.

I just said something, i know you are a wise man.


A woman that can not cook nor clean has no respect for you as a man neither your family. It shows high level of indiscipline, an indiscipline woman destroy your masculinity as a man.

It is the duty of a good wife to cook for herself, husband and kids.

Sex is all about experience, we all were novice but improve with time and knowledge.
Nobody is lazy on bed, na to discover her center of gravity then hit that spot very well to activate her sexual response to sex. Nor make woman when nor like sex discover say sex sweet cos you go run.


Any way, you know them well they anyone one here.
Life is all about choice, the choice we make today determines our future tomorrow.

You are a king and it's a duty of wise and respectful queen to cook for king.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Efuaye(m): 9:23am On Dec 22, 2025
Give me the first lady who cannot pray and cook but who works and is financially supportive, and I will teach her how to cook and turn her into a prayer Machine!
She already has productive characters.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Oblongata: 9:25am On Dec 22, 2025
The thing no balance at all!

Only one woman dey broke, jobless and lazy in bed!

Na liability be that one na!🤷🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by GOFRONT(m): 9:28am On Dec 22, 2025
With time, you go still Cheat on Her.....despite the Qualities and Quantities
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Usmanovic95(m): 9:52am On Dec 22, 2025
For me I will go for B. I don't see been lazy in bed as a weakness because a time will come sex will no longer excite like it used to,so at the time if you can't satisfy A ,she will definitely seek sexual gratification outside; the knack wey she good at ,na someone people knack am till she turn expert so she go still dey go for sumol extra training once in a while(my opinion 😂)
Since it's indicated that B is good at making hair,that means she has a skill she can monetize, it's better hustle sumol money and set up a salon for her so she can also become financially independent and can also contribute financially to family upkeep.

B strike more as someone who will give peace of mind which is what a man crave for.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Fiscus105(op): 10:05am On Dec 22, 2025
Usmanovic95:
For me I will go for B. I don't see been lazy in bed as a weakness because a time will come sex will no longer excite like it used to,so at the time if you can't satisfy A ,she will definitely seek sexual gratification outside; the knack wey she good at ,na someone people knack am till she turn expert so she go still dey go for sumol extra training once in a while(my opinion 😂)
Since it's indicated that B is good at making hair,that means she has a skill she can monetize, it's better hustle sumol money and set up a salon for her so she can also become financially independent and can also contribute financially to family upkeep.

B strike more as someone who will give peace of mind which is what a man crave for.
You biliv every woman that good in bed is a whoorre, and if a woman not good in bed, she cannot involve in extramarital relationship?


Your reasoning is shallow minded.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by EaglesEyes1(m): 10:15am On Dec 22, 2025
Na A
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by favour32(m): 10:18am On Dec 22, 2025
Una dey try.
But as a guy avoid broke or jobless girl.


E get why.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Usmanovic95(m): 10:41am On Dec 22, 2025
Fiscus105:
You biliv every woman that good in bed is a whoorre, and if a woman not good in bed, she cannot involve in extramarital relationship?


Your reasoning is shallow minded.
Oga we can have different opinion about same thing. No opinion is an established fact. Saying someone's reasoning is shallow minded is a condescending and demeaning thing to say in a public forum.If my opinion doesn't resonate with you,you could have just ignore.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Fiscus105(op): 11:16am On Dec 22, 2025
Usmanovic95:
Oga we can have different opinion about same thing. No opinion is an established fact. Saying someone's reasoning is shallow minded is a condescending and demeaning thing to say in a public forum.If my opinion doesn't resonate with you,you could have just ignore.
Yes, but different opinions on same topic, meanwhile, only one of such opinion will be true, while rest are not genuine, valid or truth.

For woman to poor in bed, is not a yardstick for fidelity.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Flangelo12: 11:24am On Dec 22, 2025
Just marry the 2.

Easy peasy.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by bestman09(m): 11:24am On Dec 22, 2025
I will chose A. Finance is very important in a home and if your partner can support the home financially, half of family problem is settled.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Image123(m): 11:25am On Dec 22, 2025
Let's leave this topic for those sitting at home on Monday morning.
How can just one person be broke, jobless and lazy. What sort of tribulation is that?
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by oluwaseunamos33(m): 11:26am On Dec 22, 2025
I'll go for both of them. They're both useful in one way or the other
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by xynerise: 11:26am On Dec 22, 2025
You gave every man one choice by including "Lazy in bed" to a broke woman
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Jahwinaboy(m): 11:26am On Dec 22, 2025
Both of them will do. 2 wives
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by iwaeda: 11:27am On Dec 22, 2025
Sister A, she will learn cooking. grin grin grin grin
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Daeveed(m): 11:27am On Dec 22, 2025
Which one is "Broke but can pray".. wetin I no go read grin grin
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by flexyrule(m): 11:27am On Dec 22, 2025
Topic for mentally lazy persons.

A financially stable woman who is supportive can hire a maid to do the cooking and cleaning?

Y - TF are we even having this conversation?
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by bmd1010: 11:28am On Dec 22, 2025
Sister A.
WORKING CLASS LADY.
FINANCIAL SUPPORTIVE.
CANNOT COOK/CLEAN.
GOOD IN BED.

This one we go hire maid
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Kelvinnchucks(m): 11:29am On Dec 22, 2025
Most people will pick Sister A because Sister B is literally described as jobless, broke, AND lazy in bed - that's a triple liability. At least Sister A is working and financially supportive, so cooking and cleaning can be outsourced with her income.

And let's be honest, the "good in bed" part probably sealed the deal for most guys here 😂

The comparison isn't even fair - one woman brings income and intimacy, the other brings... prayers? You can't pay bills with prayers alone.

P.S This is an A.I response and i didn't read it grin grin
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by prinsam30: 11:29am On Dec 22, 2025
I wont chose either of them, marriage is just overrated
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