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Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by bmd1010: 11:30am On Dec 22, 2025
correctyourself:
This Monday morning does this topic worth discussing?
N yet u respond with 2 sentence
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Morenikeji090(m): 11:30am On Dec 22, 2025
Even me na B sure pass…… she has hand work meaning if I got some cash I can invest in her… lady in bed no problem I will respect her sex nature I will give it to her as she want it in bed but aside I will look for a side chick that is good on bed outside. But I will make sure I secure my home…
Usmanovic95:
For me I will go for B. I don't see been lazy in bed as a weakness because a time will come sex will no longer excite like it used to,so at the time if you can't satisfy A ,she will definitely seek sexual gratification outside; the knack wey she good at ,na someone people knack am till she turn expert so she go still dey go for sumol extra training once in a while(my opinion 😂)
Since it's indicated that B is good at making hair,that means she has a skill she can monetize, it's better hustle sumol money and set up a salon for her so she can also become financially independent and can also contribute financially to family upkeep.

B strike more as someone who will give peace of mind which is what a man crave for.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by MrSly(m):
Fiscus105:
Sister A.
WORKING CLASS LADY.
FINANCIAL SUPPORTIVE.
CANNOT COOK/CLEAN.
GOOD IN BED.





Sister B.

JOBLESS LADY BUT CAN MAKE HAIR.
BROKE,BUT CAN PRAY.
CAN COOK & CLEAN.
LAZY IN BED.


For me I will go for sister A and cover up for her shortcomings
Prayer is habits that can be inculcated, and maid will be hired for cleaning.
I will go for B. She has no definite destination so I can set it as high as I want. A already has a defined path , most probably limited.

As for the bed thing. After a month of good job she will brush. It easy to learn. As a man do not joke with quality home made food made by wify not some maiden.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by macphilip: 11:31am On Dec 22, 2025
I go for Sister B
Working class lady will be difficult to fully respect a man.
Good in bed, what if am not good enough for her💀 lipsrsealed
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Alfred200825(m): 11:31am On Dec 22, 2025
Fiscus105:
Sister A.
WORKING CLASS LADY.
FINANCIAL SUPPORTIVE.
CANNOT COOK/CLEAN.
GOOD IN BED.





Sister B.

JOBLESS LADY BUT CAN MAKE HAIR.
BROKE,BUT CAN PRAY.
CAN COOK & CLEAN.
LAZY IN BED.


For me I will go for sister A and cover up for her shortcomings
Prayer is habits that can be inculcated, and maid will be hired for cleaning.
She can't be useless on both fronts na
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Morenikeji090(m):
Who told you A can’t lose her job remember someone else company is not yours.. but B got job skilled by making hair if I have money I will invest in her hair making. So for bed side I will respect her nature rather to have problem with that I will have a side chick outside who is good In bed so that will keep my home safe.
favour32:
Una dey try.
But as a guy avoid broke or jobless girl.


E get why.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Morenikeji090(m): 11:34am On Dec 22, 2025
I will go for sister B… she can pray…. She got skilled hardwork…… I’m not worried of poor sex I will have a side chick good on bed to pleasure myself…
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by MrSly(m): 11:35am On Dec 22, 2025
Fiscus105:
You biliv every woman that good in bed is a whoorre, and if a woman not good in bed, she cannot involve in extramarital relationship?


Your reasoning is shallow minded.
You reek of cyber immaturity and poor etiquette. So because his view is not in line with your opinion which is based purely on probabilities, you called him shallow minded.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by DixseenMktPlace(m): 11:35am On Dec 22, 2025
Na to go employ house help to cover up the small lapses of the financially and sexually stable mama naw
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by millionboi(m): 11:36am On Dec 22, 2025
Fiscus105:
Sister A.
WORKING CLASS LADY.
FINANCIAL SUPPORTIVE.
CANNOT COOK/CLEAN.
GOOD IN BED.





Sister B.

JOBLESS LADY BUT CAN MAKE HAIR.
BROKE,BUT CAN PRAY.
CAN COOK & CLEAN.
LAZY IN BED.


For me I will go for sister A and cover up for her shortcomings
Prayer is habits that can be inculcated, and maid will be hired for cleaning.
how will you call a girl that can make hair jobless.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Babaibeji2020(m): 11:42am On Dec 22, 2025
correctyourself:
This Monday morning does this topic worth discussing?
Shows you the average mind set of most Nigerians........On a Bright Monday morning ooooooo
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Chucks13: 11:43am On Dec 22, 2025
Why did you totally knock the babe on the gown out completely? Not fair na.

If by physical looking sincerely the girl that wear simple gown look OK

Pls rearrange the quality of that girl in simple gown she can't be that bad in everything than prayer and prayer has nothing to do with relationship or wife material and beside this is Monday mornig this type of topic is dream killer on Monday morning and a begining of th week it doesnt wirth it
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by walozanga(m): 11:45am On Dec 22, 2025
Fiscus105:
But the second one cannot use the back she carries according to story.

So it not useful for you as a man.
If she no sabi use am, teach am
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by bewla(m): 11:47am On Dec 22, 2025
correctyourself:
This Monday morning does this topic worth discussing?
man most not leave by bread alone

How take the two as we are polygamous by inheritance


African thing
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by walozanga(m): 11:47am On Dec 22, 2025
If your are a well to do guy, u can easily repair the 2nd lady than the first
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Love800(m): 11:49am On Dec 22, 2025
B for me.

Both will still frustrate you about money, whether working class or not. As the man, your money is the priority, plus your coordination/ideas.

B is worthy because she can cook and do the house laundry. Of what use is A(working class) if she has money but can't do anything at home!

Usually with time, i must set-up something for B so she can be earning. She already has hair-making skills, so its just to expand or scale-up her initiative to a better state.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Skepticus: 11:52am On Dec 22, 2025
I won't go for any. Women are a complete waste of time for any serious man
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by ejieddy: 11:53am On Dec 22, 2025
Fiscus105:
Sister A.
WORKING CLASS LADY.
FINANCIAL SUPPORTIVE.
CANNOT COOK/CLEAN.
GOOD IN BED.





Sister B.

JOBLESS LADY BUT CAN MAKE HAIR.
BROKE,BUT CAN PRAY.
CAN COOK & CLEAN.
LAZY IN BED.


For me I will go for sister A and cover up for her shortcomings
Prayer is habits that can be inculcated, and maid will be hired for cleaning.
A all the way... She's good in bed o, financially supportive... Don't worry, I fit cook.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by AZControversial: 11:53am On Dec 22, 2025
sad
I'll go for A if she can't cook...... not doesn't cook.

She can learn to. But say she no won cook at all..... No way!!
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Lukuluku69(m): 11:53am On Dec 22, 2025
correctyourself:
This Monday morning does this topic worth discussing?
Absolutely 💯
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by abidragon: 11:54am On Dec 22, 2025
No all women can cook oooo
ManknowThyself:
Remember all women are beautiful, can cook and clean but not all are respectful and disciplined.

I just said something, i know you are a wise man.


A woman that can not cook nor clean has no respect for you as a man neither your family. It shows high level of indiscipline, an indiscipline woman destroy your masculinity as a man.

It is the duty of a good wife to cook for herself, husband and kids.

Sex is all about experience, we all were novice but improve with time and knowledge.
Nobody is lazy on bed, na to discover her center of gravity then hit that spot very well to activate her sexual response to sex. Nor make woman when nor like sex discover say sex sweet cos you go run.


Any way, you know them well they anyone one here.
Life is all about choice, the choice we make today determines our future tomorrow.

You are a king and it's a duty of wise and respectful queen to cook for king.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by fitinwell: 12:01pm On Dec 22, 2025
Fiscus105:
Sister A.
WORKING CLASS LADY.
FINANCIAL SUPPORTIVE.
CANNOT COOK/CLEAN.
GOOD IN BED.





Sister B.

JOBLESS LADY BUT CAN MAKE HAIR.
BROKE,BUT CAN PRAY.
CAN COOK & CLEAN.
LAZY IN BED.


For me I will go for sister A and cover up for her shortcomings
Prayer is habits that can be inculcated, and maid will be hired for cleaning.
You will be forever enslaved, by selling your birth right to Lady A... If your option was based because of Money...

You don't trade peace of mind in Marriage with anything in the World .


Option B lady not good in Bed is a Plus for me... Ofcos she too would be curious to want to explore sexual fantasies with you... If you both genuinely love eachother and married together...

Yoruba adage says small swallow with peace of mind is better.. than big bowl of trouble...
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Eju2018(m): 12:02pm On Dec 22, 2025
What is this so fuzz about sex, for me I will go for tbe 2nd lady. Being lazy in bed is not a liability.. As a married man, a time comes when sex is not your priority but peace of mind and companionship.
Do you know what prayer can do? Prayer can turn a broke man into a favored man. Prayer gives you access to the mind of God which is more valuable than any amount of money.
Lady B is mine all the time.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by FriendsAndFans(m): 12:04pm On Dec 22, 2025
None of the 2
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Emeskhalifa(m): 12:05pm On Dec 22, 2025
Marriage is overrated for real
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Swissh: 12:08pm On Dec 22, 2025
This fine day is this topic worth discussing?
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Fiscus105(op): 12:11pm On Dec 22, 2025
fitinwell:
You will be forever enslaved, by selling your birth right to Lady A... If your option was based because of Money...

You don't trade peace of mind in Marriage with anything in the World .


Option B lady not good in Bed is a Plus for me... Ofcos she too would be curious to want to explore sexual fantasies with you... If you both genuinely love eachother and married together...

Yoruba adage says small swallow with peace of mind is better.. than big bowl of trouble...
You will forever in your life remaining in abject poverty, if you solely rely on prayer, even your holy books,say work & pray( work comes before prayer)
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by erico2k2(m): 12:11pm On Dec 22, 2025
correctyourself:
This Monday morning does this topic worth discussing?
Yes it does, the is the Genesis of our problems as MEN
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by erico2k2(m): 12:12pm On Dec 22, 2025
Fiscus105:
You will forever in life remaining in abject poverty, if you solely rely on prayer, even your holy books,say work & pray( work comes before prayer)
No mind them, they pray pastors wont rely on prayers to grow the church
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by erico2k2(m): 12:13pm On Dec 22, 2025
Fiscus105:
Sister A.
WORKING CLASS LADY.
FINANCIAL SUPPORTIVE.
CANNOT COOK/CLEAN.
GOOD IN BED.





Sister B.

JOBLESS LADY BUT CAN MAKE HAIR.
BROKE,BUT CAN PRAY.
CAN COOK & CLEAN.
LAZY IN BED.


For me I will go for sister A and cover up for her shortcomings
Prayer is habits that can be inculcated, and maid will be hired for cleaning.
I shall take the one in Blue all day everyday Sister A[b][/b]
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by jericco1(m): 12:14pm On Dec 22, 2025
A
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