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Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by femi4: 2:37pm On Dec 22, 2025
Fiscus105:
Sister A.
WORKING CLASS LADY.
FINANCIAL SUPPORTIVE.
CANNOT COOK/CLEAN.
GOOD IN BED.





Sister B.

JOBLESS LADY BUT CAN MAKE HAIR.
BROKE,BUT CAN PRAY.
CAN COOK & CLEAN.
LAZY IN BED.


For me I will go for sister A and cover up for her shortcomings
Prayer is habits that can be inculcated, and maid will be hired for cleaning.
No 1

A maid will do the cooking....pastor will handle prayers, you don't even need prayers to be successful
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Sirseedorf(m): 2:47pm On Dec 22, 2025
Me that has been building my career till am in my 30s will now come and settle for broke and jobless wife, tueh, I reject and rebuke it 💯
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by iajour(m): 2:48pm On Dec 22, 2025
Olachase:
Make I no lie the two of them carry back
🤣🤣🤣
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by iajour(m): 2:52pm On Dec 22, 2025
M not planning to get married. But if dis idea of mine later change. I will go for Lady A without hesitation. Her deficiencies aren't dat crucial and can be managed. But u see Lady B; broke and bad in bed, as how na. 😏
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by DeanSim: 3:03pm On Dec 22, 2025
3/4 is better than 1/4. In fact, the remaining part is learnable. I’m glad it’s vital. I will apply wisdom. So, it’s Sister A for me.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Peltop: 3:04pm On Dec 22, 2025
None 🥺
Fiscus105:
Sister A.
WORKING CLASS LADY.
FINANCIAL SUPPORTIVE.
CANNOT COOK/CLEAN.
GOOD IN BED.





Sister B.

JOBLESS LADY BUT CAN MAKE HAIR.
BROKE,BUT CAN PRAY.
CAN COOK & CLEAN.
LAZY IN BED.


For me I will go for sister A and cover up for her shortcomings
Prayer is habits that can be inculcated, and maid will be hired for cleaning.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Amumaigwe: 3:11pm On Dec 22, 2025
Fiscus105:
Sister A.
WORKING CLASS LADY.
FINANCIAL SUPPORTIVE.
CANNOT COOK/CLEAN.
GOOD IN BED.





Sister B.

JOBLESS LADY BUT CAN MAKE HAIR.
BROKE,BUT CAN PRAY.
CAN COOK & CLEAN.
LAZY IN BED.


For me I will go for sister A and cover up for her shortcomings
Prayer is habits that can be inculcated, and maid will be hired for cleaning.
Which of the two posses more of the qualities that will enable her perform the traditional responsibilities of a wife? That will be a good lead.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by henrimoto(m): 3:29pm On Dec 22, 2025
ManknowThyself:
Remember all women are beautiful, can cook and clean but not all are respectful and disciplined.

I just said something, i know you are a wise man.


A woman that can not cook nor clean has no respect for you as a man neither your family. It shows high level of indiscipline, an indiscipline woman destroy your masculinity as a man.

It is the duty of a good wife to cook for herself, husband and kids.

Sex is all about experience, we all were novice but improve with time and knowledge.
Nobody is lazy on bed, na to discover her center of gravity then hit that spot very well to activate her sexual response to sex. Nor make woman when nor like sex discover say sex sweet cos you go run.


Any way, you know them well they anyone one here.
Life is all about choice, the choice we make today determines our future tomorrow.

You are a king and it's a duty of wise and respectful queen to cook for king.
My brother 1,000 likes for you. You've written like a wise man.

You also wrote from Experience.

More wisdom to your head

See, a full blown woman/wife at adult stage that can't cook a good food for herself,husband and
family.. it will be. Very very difficult for her to learn how to cook a good meal at adult age..

You as the man of the house, e go tire you one day. It will cause problems in your home.

By the time you are tempted to go after your female maid because of her good foods, it's then you would know what you put yourself into.

On the part of the lady not Good at bed, it's easy and quick for her to discover the sweetness of sex , with continuous sex orientation and continuous sex practice, SHE IS TEACHABLE.

That her prayer life and Good cooking skills cover the rest. She is very good to go.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by talk2stefan(m): 3:29pm On Dec 22, 2025
Lol. See your life
Olachase:
Make I no lie the two of them carry back
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Entom(m): 3:30pm On Dec 22, 2025
Marriage works best when both partners are willing to build, learn, and grow together.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by qtguru(m): 3:41pm On Dec 22, 2025
Fiscus105:
Sister A.
WORKING CLASS LADY.
FINANCIAL SUPPORTIVE.
CANNOT COOK/CLEAN.
GOOD IN BED.





Sister B.

JOBLESS LADY BUT CAN MAKE HAIR.
BROKE,BUT CAN PRAY.
CAN COOK & CLEAN.
LAZY IN BED.


For me I will go for sister A and cover up for her shortcomings
Prayer is habits that can be inculcated, and maid will be hired for cleaning.
Imagine see early morning thinking, you need to get busy, but I will go with choice A sha lol
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by kentokay71: 3:47pm On Dec 22, 2025
do not forget she is lazy, so opening shop for her does not really matter.
Usmanovic95:
For me I will go for B. I don't see been lazy in bed as a weakness because a time will come sex will no longer excite like it used to,so at the time if you can't satisfy A ,she will definitely seek sexual gratification outside; the knack wey she good at ,na someone people knack am till she turn expert so she go still dey go for sumol extra training once in a while(my opinion 😂)
Since it's indicated that B is good at making hair,that means she has a skill she can monetize, it's better hustle sumol money and set up a salon for her so she can also become financially independent and can also contribute financially to family upkeep.

B strike more as someone who will give peace of mind which is what a man crave for.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by jubrilELsudan: 3:54pm On Dec 22, 2025
AS E BE SO NA THE ONE WEY FIT FOK WELL WELL SO OOOO

Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Usmanovic95(m): 3:57pm On Dec 22, 2025
kentokay71:
do not forget she is lazy, so opening shop for her does not really matter.
It is not explicitly stated that she is lazy. Lazy in bed is quite different from general laziness.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by akanjikokoro: 4:09pm On Dec 22, 2025
Nawa o, but I belong to A. House girl will do others.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Felimax(m): 4:13pm On Dec 22, 2025
Fiscus105:
Sister A.
WORKING CLASS LADY.
FINANCIAL SUPPORTIVE.
CANNOT COOK/CLEAN.
GOOD IN BED.





Sister B.

JOBLESS LADY BUT CAN MAKE HAIR.
BROKE,BUT CAN PRAY.
CAN COOK & CLEAN.
LAZY IN BED.


For me I will go for sister A and cover up for her shortcomings
Prayer is habits that can be inculcated, and maid will be hired for cleaning.
The second one is the choice of wise men. Don't quote or mention me please.
I don't want you to understand.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by ManknowThyself(m): 4:13pm On Dec 22, 2025
henrimoto:
My brother 1,000 likes for you. You've written like a wise man.

You also wrote from Experience.

More wisdom to your head

See, a full blown woman/wife at adult stage that can't cook a good food for herself,husband and
family.. it will be. Very very difficult for her to learn how to cook a good meal at adult age..

You as the man of the house, e go tire you one day. It will cause problems in your home.

By the time you are tempted to go after your female maid because of her good foods, it's then you would know what you put yourself into.

On the part of the lady not Good at bed, it's easy and quick for her to discover the sweetness of sex , with continuous sex orientation and continuous sex practice, SHE IS TEACHABLE.

That her prayer life and Good cooking skills cover the rest. She is very good to go.
Respect wise king
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by vislabraye(m): 4:19pm On Dec 22, 2025
correctyourself:
This Monday morning does this topic worth discussing?
Same thing my gf sent to me this morning. The first thing she sent and she is asking me to choose !!
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Omoawoke(m): 4:24pm On Dec 22, 2025
Fiscus105:
Sister A.
WORKING CLASS LADY.
FINANCIAL SUPPORTIVE.
CANNOT COOK/CLEAN.
GOOD IN BED.





Sister B.

JOBLESS LADY BUT CAN MAKE HAIR.
BROKE,BUT CAN PRAY.
CAN COOK & CLEAN.
LAZY IN BED.


For me I will go for sister A and cover up for her shortcomings
Prayer is habits that can be inculcated, and maid will be hired for cleaning.
I’d go for the one with the biggest ass
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by correctguy101(m): 4:26pm On Dec 22, 2025
Wetin una even mean by "lazy in bed" sef?

These people... shocked huh
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by dozymars(m): 4:29pm On Dec 22, 2025
The poster should get a busy with a job. Why posting this on a Monday morning?
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Fiscus105(op): 4:30pm On Dec 22, 2025
Omoawoke:
I’d go for the one with the biggest ass
Biggest ass not always satisfying man o, I guess you just started sleeping with women
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by GABRIEL6036: 4:33pm On Dec 22, 2025
Abeg the lady in white is ok 👌 😂 if this is the only option in the world 🌎. Cooking stuff can be corrected by me in no time 😎.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by CaseSensitive(m): 4:39pm On Dec 22, 2025
If Sister A’s money works, why is she still single? If Sister B’s prayer works, why is she still broke? In fact, Sister B will remain broke for life. Let's be serious please.

Reality check in a marriage is:
Cooking can be learnt, money can be made.
Prayer?? Don't make me laugh
Bed performance changes with NEPA, stress, and kids but character cannot be installed like an app. So, me personally, I'll keep "fasting and praying" till Sister C shows up.

I like replying this senseless posts sometimes. Takes the hedge off this seriously volatile world we live in.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Farrason: 4:49pm On Dec 22, 2025
Fiscus105:
Yes, but different opinions on same topic, meanwhile, only one of such opinion will be true, while rest are not genuine, valid or truth.

For woman to poor in bed, is not a yardstick for fidelity.
So na you be the judge of all the opinions!!. No be only fidelity na Wema! Anumpamis.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by livebullet(m): 4:53pm On Dec 22, 2025
Fiscus105:
Sister A.
WORKING CLASS LADY.
FINANCIAL SUPPORTIVE.
CANNOT COOK/CLEAN.
GOOD IN BED.





Sister B.

JOBLESS LADY BUT CAN MAKE HAIR.
BROKE,BUT CAN PRAY.
CAN COOK & CLEAN.
LAZY IN BED.


For me I will go for sister A and cover up for her shortcomings
Prayer is habits that can be inculcated, and maid will be hired for cleaning.
Non of them... They were both not properly raised. One was raised to be a liability. The other to be a lazy house manager.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by vicfajeze: 5:49pm On Dec 22, 2025
I hope say the first one sabi tidy herself when menstruating
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by pongwa(m): 6:19pm On Dec 22, 2025
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Fiscus105:
Sister A.
WORKING CLASS LADY.
FINANCIAL SUPPORTIVE.
CANNOT COOK/CLEAN.
GOOD IN BED.





Sister B.

JOBLESS LADY BUT CAN MAKE HAIR.
BROKE,BUT CAN PRAY.
CAN COOK & CLEAN.
LAZY IN BED.


For me I will go for sister A and cover up for her shortcomings
Prayer is habits that can be inculcated, and maid will be hired for cleaning.
A....I hope she loves you
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Justiceleague1: 6:30pm On Dec 22, 2025
Lamasta:
Hope you are ready to entertain her dirtiness and inability to know how to cook
Wrong again,it's most likely the opposite,it's the working class who most likely don't know howta cook and both are clean....you and the op just mixed things up
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by contentEngineer: 6:48pm On Dec 22, 2025
A ...we can employ a house help
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Oyindamolah: 8:34pm On Dec 22, 2025
The real answer
The best choice is neither A nor B as-is, but:
A partner who is responsible, teachable, hardworking, and willing to grow with you.
Money can be lost. Skills can be learned.
But character, mindset, and work ethic are what decide peace or stress in the long run.
That’s the honest Nigerian reality today.
Fiscus105:
Sister A.
WORKING CLASS LADY.
FINANCIAL SUPPORTIVE.
CANNOT COOK/CLEAN.
GOOD IN BED.





Sister B.

JOBLESS LADY BUT CAN MAKE HAIR.
BROKE,BUT CAN PRAY.
CAN COOK & CLEAN.
LAZY IN BED.


For me I will go for sister A and cover up for her shortcomings
Prayer is habits that can be inculcated, and maid will be hired for cleaning.
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