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FaAbData:
Is it just me?
This journalist/OP. Why not simple drop what the person said instead of writing your long essay narrating what the person is trying to.

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Lol 😂, wannabe columnist.

ChiefOloye:
Copied! Next time try and acknowledge the source you stole from.

Chief Make I no talk wetin dey my mind.

jiggyman:
No they are not! The side dudes know their place and husbands dont really care.

A married man can have 6 gf at same time, sleep with maid, secretary, bar girl, fuel attendant and don't even remember their names.


Only a 🤡 would think women cheat more, being discrete is not equal to more

Funny.
How many married men does that?
There's this fact that I've known for long, there are more virgin boys at the age of 18 than girls.

Old cargo trying to be relevant, go and feed your baby with no father ma

Yemike:
Funny.
How many married men does that?
There's this fact that I've known for long, there are more virgin boys at the age of 18 than girls.

My guy... I been no wan talk o but damn! This one enter.

Thank God for yahoo weh small boys get access to these days... they for no even fit dey approach their age mates.

Egbon weh don see small bar no go let their age mates reason them.

Sad.

Normally. Most of the first child's in most marriages in this country don't belong to the husbands.

Let government make DNA test mandatory today, you'll see the crisis that will erupt. Almost all the marriages in the country will collapse because of what'll be revealed.

I'd advise every married man to go for dna test. And if you claim you don't have the funds, well, in my opinion if you cannot afford something as basic as DNA test you have no business getting married in the first place.

When they finally realized that they're getting old, they start another form of manipulation by acting like they now care or start saying something pleasing to men...

Fear who no fear woman

They're only supposedly good at hiding it cos we guys know our place.
A lady a married man is having an affair with, will surely break their agreement and start calling or texting at the wrong times. The man on the other hand would stay in the shadows. Wetin concern am, he's not trying to kuku personalize you, he just wants to chop and move.

Aan once stated the reason why men get caught cheating more than women.
He said a man cheating with a married woman will follow the rules set by the woman
But when a cheating married mam sets rules for a woman, she won't follow the rules. That's how the man gets caught.

FaAbData:
Is it just me?
This journalist/OP. Why not simple drop what the person said instead of writing your long essay narrating what the person is trying to sat. Like readers can't comprehend on their own

imo...I got bored with the op...I had to scroll down to see toke's...he didn't attach her post. Eyesoflagos take note

It is difficult to catch women when they cheat but you can easily catch a man.

The fact that their man no go ever know say dem dey cheat on am....gives them a lot of thrills...
That's why paternity fraud no go ever end...As per wetin you no know pass you...

As you dey run up and down dey find money to feed her and your child ....she dey happy dey mock you inside her mind say **and the pikin no be he own ooo**



Bros...the best you can do is to confirm the paternity of your child/children. Try! cos women will always be women...na u go come act like Man wey you be.

autoez:
I have worked in hotels. Women cheat heavily. No carry their matter for head at all else you'll die young.

That place is a business arena, which makes it normal

phosky:
https://eyesoflagos.com/2025/12/28/toke-makinwa-women-cheat-more-discreet/

A woman's problem will always be another woman.

HeadNigga:
imo...I got bored with the op...I had to scroll down to see toke's...he didn't attach her post. Eyesoflagos take note

And sometimes they (OP/journalist) form an opinion or narrative for readers that isn't exactly the person's intension.

Why not allow readers read and make judgement themselves. It's not a PhD thesis, it's just simply news/gist

Sccarrr:
She's right, men stupidly leave evidences everywhere, e.g on their phones to read or watch again for stupid ego😎, women wipe dem all off immediately 🥱

Nahh, men trust too much. Even when the signs of cheating are evident, they deceive themselves that their women are saints until it's no longer hidden.

Rilwayne001:
You're not so smart.

How many men have more to spend before sleeping with the women you listed above that men cheat with?

Or do you think women will sleep with you just for Konjiii sake? Of course the man spends money before he gets to sleep with those women.

But before a woman can sleep around with a man, do you think she will need to spend anything? You know the answer.

Women benefit more from cheating. She gets money, gifts etc. So it's easier for her to sleep around with men that are ready to part away with those money and gifts.

How many men have money to throw around to have sex?

You have your answer

lol you’re not so smart

Don’t digress cheating is not about who spends money or who benefit financially. A woman who cheats usually has one side guy but men can be juggling multiple women at the same time.

What people keeep ignoring is scale and pattern. A man can have side chicks , casual flings secret girlfriends sometimes without emotional attachment and statistically, men have more freedom , encouragement and tolerance to cheat especially in our society. Both genders cheat, but men cheat more and on a larger scale .

autoez:
I have worked in hotels. Women cheat heavily. No carry their matter for head at all else you'll die young.

Those women are sleeping with men who are also cheating. That makes it even.

It's hard to know who cheat more

But if it's by numbers, men cheat more. A married man can have 2, 3 sidecheck but the woman could have only 1 or 2. They both cheat but the man has more numbers.

Any woman u see cheating is cheating with a man who also have a partner he's cheating on.

To me it's even. Being discreet doesn't mean you cheat more or less


Modified.

I have gone to do some reading, seems you're correct.

Transgender is how you feel inside ( you're a man but feels like a woman) you don't necessarily need to remove your phenis or grow breest to become transgender. Once you feel like it and you accept and identify by it you're a transgender.

Omo!
That stats might be correct

maik:
It is difficult to catch women when they cheat but you can easily catch a man.

You have to be very smart to catch a woman cheating, for me it’s one of the easiest things to get while I am in a relationship!

kingthreat:
Nahh, men trust too much. Even when the signs of cheating are evident, they deceive themselves that their women are saints until it's no longer hidden.

that's part of it

Three reasons a man doesn't know the wife cheats:
1. The man cheats and the fear of the wife knowing about it obfuscates any sign he might see that the wife cheats.
2. He lacks the intelligence to look out for signs the wife cheats.
3. He is hopelessly in love with his wife and trust her absolutely, hence no need to doubt her faithfulness.

Where is 🥱 junky 🥱 that likes to malign men and marriage

No epistle for this? 🥱 Abi are we to just accept & conclude that ALL women cheat more just cos Toke or. few research papees said so 🥱 🥱

phosky:
https://eyesoflagos.com/2025/12/28/toke-makinwa-women-cheat-more-discreet/

phosky:
https://eyesoflagos.com/2025/12/28/toke-makinwa-women-cheat-more-discreet/

Olosho should stop speaking for women generally.People like Toke are never loyal to anyone but the bag.Olosho always think others are oloshos like her.

Women cheat a lot, far more than conservative Nigerian society would admit, but not more, or even as much as men.

It is very unlikely that women would cheat as much as men. One man fit dey cheat on him wife with six or seven different women at the same time, but before you go find woman wey go dey cheat on her man with two different men at the same time na by connection.

But as society continues to 'progress' and women become more expressive and liberal and comfortable in their own skins, beliefs and convictions, I expect that their cheating would tend dangerously close to male cheating trends. It is what it is.

Toke is right on this one. Cheating in relationships is not an exclusive reserve of a particular gender.

If we say the men cheat more, who do they cheat with? That should point anyone to the truth.

Women are careful, they're discreet. They can multitask. A woman can cheat throughout the entire lifespan of a relationship. This explains why in a 10-year-old marriage, a man will supposedly have 3 kids and on conducting a DNA test, none of them will be his. Fear women!

I concur with her on this .

Men don't cheat. I don't know when this woke nonsense started.

That's becos the men they cheat with are more discreet.

The men put them on a particular boundary. So d cheating go legit

Hadeyemy:
lol you’re not so smart

Don’t digress cheating is not about who spends money or who benefit financially. A woman who cheats usually has one side guy but men can be juggling multiple women at the same time.

What people keeep ignoring is scale and pattern. A man can have side chicks , casual flings secret girlfriends sometimes without emotional attachment and statistically, men have more freedom , encouragement and tolerance to cheat especially in our society. Both genders cheat, but men cheat more and on a larger scale .

You dey talk nonsense.

There is a reason reason they said " you will know a man that loves woman, when he hits money"

Talking about jogging women as if its free like that. How many men has the resources to keep up with that? Unless you are extremely handsome...even at that, a broke handsome dude qill have ugly rich old men humping his babes..cos those women need the latest gadget and wigs.

Dont deceive yourself. A girl can have 5 or more boyfriends and it wont cost her nothing. She will only gain more materially. But a guy of her age can only manage one girlfriend and still be struggling to keep her, cos men with money will be luring her. Its simple.

If a woman wants sex now, she will get. She wont break a sweat. If she flirts with any of her numerous toasters, them go send Tfare sharp sharp. A man that wants sex now will part with something, unless that woman is your wife or girlfriend. But if she no get money at the time, you go part with tfare.

Men that keep.mumtiple women has the resources to do. Women just have to look good.

Unless you are talking about men in their 50s vs women in their 50s. This is the point men have the upper hand...cos qomen that age will need to part qith money to get a boy to sleep with them...but then, women are naturally not built to soend on men, so only a few in that age will do it.

From 40 downwards....women cheat faaaaaarrrr more than men. Accept the bitter truth. They will never admit it due to shame. They will keep shouting men cheat so you wont ever suspect them. Its a Defense mechanism

Bahamas95:
This lady should be thanking make-up everyday.

Honestly.
.....stretchmark pandemic