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| Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DiarisGodoo: 3:03pm On Dec 20, 2025 |
DeepSight:Well, your thing has always been that female sexuality is like men's - which is same as saying that most women want multiple sex partners, NOT commited relationships or marriage! |
| Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DeepSight(m): 3:06pm On Dec 20, 2025 |
ThePureDiamond:+ Your life, your choice. Its not my stress. I have done my bit by advising you. Being a virgin at your age as a man is a calamity. You will find out later. |
| Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by ThePureDiamond(m): 3:17pm On Dec 20, 2025 |
DeepSight:lol, it's actually a blessing and a form of solid protection, from those fiends who makes it their mission to harvest glories so as to stop fulfilment of purposes and destinies. There's nothing to find out later. There's even nothing profound about "having sex" that's worth finding out later. It's all about pleasure, and having a firm and purposeful discipline from such form of pleasure - isn't a sin. Everything is in alignment, I believe. |
| Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DeepSight(m): 3:38pm On Dec 20, 2025 |
ThePureDiamond:+ Your life your choice. PS: I dont recall saying anything about it being profound. |
| Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by ThePureDiamond(m): 3:42pm On Dec 20, 2025 |
DeepSight:You don't have to say the word "profound". Your detailed emphasis and mentality about the "sexually active" stuff said much more. |
| Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DeepSight(m): 3:43pm On Dec 20, 2025 |
ThePureDiamond:+ Many things are worthwhile and positive without necessarily being profound. Such as laughter and exercise. |
| Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by ThePureDiamond(m): 3:44pm On Dec 20, 2025 |
DeepSight:Actually, both are profound, health - wise. |
| Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DeepSight(m): 3:51pm On Dec 20, 2025 |
ThePureDiamond:+ Both are positive. Please leave that word profound. I am not sure you understand it. |
| Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by ThePureDiamond(m): 4:02pm On Dec 20, 2025 |
DeepSight:Both are positive, buhh you're deliberately ignoring the sex you've been emphatic about, which is "profound". Besides, why are you deliberately ignoring the "health-wise"? The word "profound" fits in perfectly, that's if you actually have the insight to discern it. I'm not sure you get it. The word is ambiguous, and you seem to attach limited meaning to it. You sounded off point and evasive. I believe I don't have to make more explanations to you. |
| Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DeepSight(m): 4:04pm On Dec 20, 2025 |
ThePureDiamond:+ https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/profound |
| Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by ThePureDiamond(m): 4:07pm On Dec 20, 2025 |
DeepSight:abeg, wetin be dis?! This move is disgusting. I've made my point about celibacy. That will be all. |
| Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DeepSight(m): 4:09pm On Dec 20, 2025 |
ThePureDiamond:+ Drawing your attention to the dictionary meaning of a word is disgusting? Well done oh. Good afternoon. |
| Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by udder: 5:26pm On Dec 20, 2025 |
Mattswaggz:What is right or wrong can be subjective. In my world, nothing like masturbation abuse. 1. When you check the definition of all kinds of abuse, it is the abuse of something, not the abuse of an action. 2. The “thing” involved in masturbation is oneself and one cannot abuse oneself. If what you are trying to describe is masturbation addiction - masturbating compulsively and uncontrollably, I don’t have that problem and you don’t need to be addicted to masturbation to get cum stuck in your d!ck which is what you were implying in you first post. |
| Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Mattswaggz: 8:40pm On Dec 20, 2025 |
udder:Quite hilarious to realize that the very case I used as an example is something similar yet you still couldn't assimilate......when some abuse drugs....is it the drugs the suffers the consequences or the person?. .Secondly....."I" wasn't implying what you're talking about in ur second paragraph....maybe you're quoting the wrong person. |
| Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by udder: 9:40pm On Dec 20, 2025 |
Mattswaggz:God give me strength. Who said anything about who suffers consequence of abuse? Sometimes it's the abuser, sometimes it's the abused. Not related to anything in what you quoted. By the way, you literally implied what I was talking about in my second paragraph. Mattswaggz: |
| Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by beazie(m): 9:43am On Dec 21, 2025 |
NoahHadNoArk:I see u |
| Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Mattswaggz: 2:15pm On Dec 21, 2025 |
udder:My statements there were under probability. Stop changing the narrative.....the point isn't who suffers from abuse but if the word "abuse" is usable in this case or not which you claimed "it's not". |
| Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by udder: 6:48pm On Dec 21, 2025 |
Mattswaggz:You are the one who has been shifting goal post. Your reasoning is motivated, not logical. You will go to any length to defend your viewpoint, however wrong they might be. You believe what you want, then use unsubstantial evidence to support it, even when there's an abundance of information disproving your point. It makes this exchange pointless. You have insulted my intelligence enough. |
| Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Mattswaggz: 7:46pm On Dec 21, 2025 |
udder:Lol.....insulted "intelligence" that isn't fact based or which one?.....which facts and evidence did you present here to back your claims?. Anyway you can go ahead and run already....no need finding a baseless excuse. . |
| Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Doctordan: 12:07am On Dec 24, 2025 |
Never anything 'casual' about sex actually. Just a few moments of pleasure can have long term effects |
| Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Kobojunkie: 12:10am On Dec 24, 2025 |
Doctordan:Nothing protection and consent can't solve. 🥱🥱🥱 |
| Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Doctordan: 2:47am On Dec 29, 2025 |
Kobojunkie:. It doesn't matter. |
| Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Kobojunkie: 2:59am On Dec 29, 2025 |
Doctordan:Stop lying! 🥱🥱🥱🥱 |
| Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Doctordan: 3:42am On Dec 29, 2025 |
Kobojunkie:Did you know that when a person has sex, a spirit enters him? |
| Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Kobojunkie: 3:46am On Dec 29, 2025*. Modified: 4:13am On Dec 29, 2025 |
Doctordan:Whoever did this to you hates you.🥱🥱9 |
| Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Doctordan: 6:58pm On Dec 29, 2025 |
Kobojunkie:Quite On the contrary, whoever gave me this information has my interest at heart. This is the truth. |
| Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Kobojunkie: 8:51pm On Dec 29, 2025 |
Doctordan:An obvious lie can never be sold you in your best interest. 🤔 |
| Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Doctordan: 5:03am On Dec 31, 2025 |
Kobojunkie:Don't you know that sex is spiritual & not just physical. There are many people engaged in free casual sex as if they were drinking water only for them to regret it later in their lives. Regardless of whether one uses protection or not, one cannot avoid its spiritual implications. The regrets came from the fact that they didn't keep themselves pure and also it was hard to get a marriage partner. |
| Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Kobojunkie: 5:04am On Dec 31, 2025 |
Doctordan:There is absolutely nothing spiritual about two bodies pocking each other same way there is nothing spiritual about two tongues fiddling with each other.🥱🥱🥱 |
| Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Doctordan: 5:07am On Dec 31, 2025 |
Kobojunkie:Just asking, would you marry a woman that has already been with many men before? |
| Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Doctordan: 5:08am On Dec 31, 2025 |
Kobojunkie:Sexual intimacy is deeper than you may think. |
| Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Kobojunkie: 5:11am On Dec 31, 2025 |
Doctordan:See the kain stewpid question you dey ask? Of course, there is absolutely nothing wrong with either a man or a woman who has been with partners. Your personal fear of people who have been with multiple partners before you is a mental problem likely linked with some trauma from your past that you need to detangle when you are ready to do so, and not something to brandish or weaponize against others. 🥱🥱🥱 |
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