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Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DiarisGodoo: 3:03pm On Dec 20, 2025
DeepSight:
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Jesus is Lord in heaven above to the glory of God the Father, Amen.

Bisimilahi Rahman Raheem.

When on Earth have I ever said the bold?

Please be careful, one thing I don't like is being deliberately misrepresented.
Well, your thing has always been that female sexuality is like men's - which is same as saying that most women want multiple sex partners, NOT commited relationships or marriage!
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DeepSight(m): 3:06pm On Dec 20, 2025
ThePureDiamond:
so in short, I should start having sex, and it doesn't matter if I'm single or married?!

what you're saying seems misleading. I've seen worse persecution of celibacy, and I'm sure yours won't move a strand of hair on my body, because I know what I'm doing.

To set things straight, active sex doesn't ensure the longevity of prostate gland. It doesn't even guarantee that - such a sexually active person won't be diagnosed with prostate cancer.
Researches made, have established the fact that - even those who are very active sexually, ends up having prostate cancer eventually.

"Lifestyle" and "genetic factors" are what really determines whether or not an individual would be diagnosed with prostate cancer. Both influences the presence and buildup of carcinogens in the semen.
And to be precise, the presence and accumulation of carcinogens in semen - are what induces carcinogenesis which causes prostate cancer.

Those reverend fathers who don't have an active sex life, are doing fine, and their prostate health is superb.
Even if an individual doesn't have sex, inasmuch as such person lives healthily, I mean - doesn't eat carcinogenic foods, stays away from alcohol, doesn't smoke, doesn't expose himself to toxic pollutants, exercises regularly, then, everything about such person would be fine and excellent, including his prostate health.

Sex isn't the only guaranteed way to have stress relief. Why will I risk exposing myself to STDs, especially HIV, when there are other proven ways of achieving stress relief?! What happened to exploring the rich option of utilizing diet and physical exercise to achieve an all around impeccable cardiovascular health rather than risk absorbing traumas, battles and evil spirits through sex?!

Man, I don't wanna get wordy today, so I won't be able to dissect the points properly. It's weekend, I wanna rest.
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Your life, your choice. Its not my stress. I have done my bit by advising you. Being a virgin at your age as a man is a calamity. You will find out later.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by ThePureDiamond(m): 3:17pm On Dec 20, 2025
DeepSight:
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Your life, your choice. Its not my stress. I have done my bit by advising you. Being a virgin at your age as a man is a calamity. You will find out later.
lol, it's actually a blessing and a form of solid protection, from those fiends who makes it their mission to harvest glories so as to stop fulfilment of purposes and destinies.

There's nothing to find out later. There's even nothing profound about "having sex" that's worth finding out later. It's all about pleasure, and having a firm and purposeful discipline from such form of pleasure - isn't a sin. Everything is in alignment, I believe.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DeepSight(m): 3:38pm On Dec 20, 2025
ThePureDiamond:
lol, it's actually a blessing and a form of solid protection, from those fiends who makes it their mission to harvest glories so as to stop fulfilment of purposes and destinies.

There's nothing to find out later. There's even nothing profound about "having sex" that's worth finding out later. It's all about pleasure, and having a firm and purposeful discipline from such form of pleasure - isn't a sin. Everything is in alignment, I believe.
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Your life your choice.
PS: I dont recall saying anything about it being profound.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by ThePureDiamond(m): 3:42pm On Dec 20, 2025
DeepSight:
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Your life your choice.
PS: I dont recall saying anything about it being profound.
You don't have to say the word "profound". Your detailed emphasis and mentality about the "sexually active" stuff said much more.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DeepSight(m): 3:43pm On Dec 20, 2025
ThePureDiamond:
You don't have to say the word "profound". Your detailed emphasis on the "sexually active" stuff said much more.
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Many things are worthwhile and positive without necessarily being profound.
Such as laughter and exercise.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by ThePureDiamond(m): 3:44pm On Dec 20, 2025
DeepSight:
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Many things are worthwhile and positive without necessarily being profound.
Such as laughter and exercise.
Actually, both are profound, health - wise.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DeepSight(m): 3:51pm On Dec 20, 2025
ThePureDiamond:
Actually, both are profound, health - wise.
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Both are positive.
Please leave that word profound.
I am not sure you understand it.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by ThePureDiamond(m): 4:02pm On Dec 20, 2025
DeepSight:
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Both are positive.
Please leave that word profound.
I am not sure you understand it.
Both are positive, buhh you're deliberately ignoring the sex you've been emphatic about, which is "profound".

Besides, why are you deliberately ignoring the "health-wise"?

The word "profound" fits in perfectly, that's if you actually have the insight to discern it.

I'm not sure you get it. The word is ambiguous, and you seem to attach limited meaning to it.

You sounded off point and evasive. I believe I don't have to make more explanations to you.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DeepSight(m): 4:04pm On Dec 20, 2025
ThePureDiamond:
so, why are you deliberately ignoring the "health-wise"?

The word "profound" fits in perfectly, that's if you actually have the insight to discern it.

I'm not sure you get it. The word is ambiguous, and you seem to attach limited meaning to it.

You sounded off point and evasive. I believe I don't have to make more explanations to you.
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https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/profound
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by ThePureDiamond(m): 4:07pm On Dec 20, 2025
DeepSight:
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https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/profound
abeg, wetin be dis?!

This move is disgusting. I've made my point about celibacy. That will be all.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DeepSight(m): 4:09pm On Dec 20, 2025
ThePureDiamond:
abeg, wetin be dis?!

This move is disgusting. I've made my point about celibacy. That will be all.
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Drawing your attention to the dictionary meaning of a word is disgusting?

Well done oh.

Good afternoon.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by udder: 5:26pm On Dec 20, 2025
Mattswaggz:
That's why you're meant to clarify it.....you made mention of "choice of words" and I presented another scenario to indicate that there is nothing wrong with the choice of words.......if you believe you're right or have been misunderstood then it's left for you to explain and clarify your position.
What is right or wrong can be subjective. In my world, nothing like masturbation abuse.
1. When you check the definition of all kinds of abuse, it is the abuse of something, not the abuse of an action.
2. The “thing” involved in masturbation is oneself and one cannot abuse oneself.

If what you are trying to describe is masturbation addiction - masturbating compulsively and uncontrollably, I don’t have that problem and you don’t need to be addicted to masturbation to get cum stuck in your d!ck which is what you were implying in you first post.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Mattswaggz: 8:40pm On Dec 20, 2025
udder:
What is right or wrong can be subjective. In my world, nothing like masturbation abuse.
1. When you check the definition of all kinds of abuse, it is the abuse of something, not the abuse of an action.
2. The “thing” involved in masturbation is oneself and one cannot abuse oneself.

If what you are trying to describe is masturbation addiction - masturbating compulsively and uncontrollably, I don’t have that problem and you don’t need to be addicted to masturbation to get cum stuck in your d!ck which is what you were implying in you first post.
Quite hilarious to realize that the very case I used as an example is something similar yet you still couldn't assimilate......when some abuse drugs....is it the drugs the suffers the consequences or the person?. undecided .

Secondly....."I" wasn't implying what you're talking about in ur second paragraph....maybe you're quoting the wrong person.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by udder: 9:40pm On Dec 20, 2025
Mattswaggz:
Quite hilarious to realize that the very case I used as an example is something similar yet you still couldn't assimilate......when some abuse drugs....is it the drugs the suffers the consequences or the person?. undecided .

Secondly....."I" wasn't implying what you're talking about in ur second paragraph....maybe you're quoting the wrong person.
God give me strength.

Who said anything about who suffers consequence of abuse? Sometimes it's the abuser, sometimes it's the abused. Not related to anything in what you quoted.

By the way, you literally implied what I was talking about in my second paragraph.

Mattswaggz:
Most people abuse masturbation a lot and you might fallen under such category...that could be why.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by beazie(m): 9:43am On Dec 21, 2025
NoahHadNoArk:
Keep riding on


You only speak harsh truth
I see u
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Mattswaggz: 2:15pm On Dec 21, 2025
udder:
God give me strength.

Who said anything about who suffers consequence of abuse? Sometimes it's the abuser, sometimes it's the abused. Not related to anything in what you quoted.

By the way, you literally implied what I was talking about in my second paragraph.
My statements there were under probability.

Stop changing the narrative.....the point isn't who suffers from abuse but if the word "abuse" is usable in this case or not which you claimed "it's not".
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by udder: 6:48pm On Dec 21, 2025
Mattswaggz:
My statements there were under probability.

Stop changing the narrative.....the point isn't who suffers from abuse but if the word "abuse" is usable in this case or not which you claimed "it's not".
You are the one who has been shifting goal post. Your reasoning is motivated, not logical.

You will go to any length to defend your viewpoint, however wrong they might be.
You believe what you want, then use unsubstantial evidence to support it, even when there's an abundance of information disproving your point.

It makes this exchange pointless. You have insulted my intelligence enough.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Mattswaggz: 7:46pm On Dec 21, 2025
udder:
You are the one who has been shifting goal post. Your reasoning is motivated, not logical.

You will go to any length to defend your viewpoint, however wrong they might be.
You believe what you want, then use unsubstantial evidence to support it, even when there's an abundance of information disproving your point.

It makes this exchange pointless. You have insulted my intelligence enough.
Lol.....insulted "intelligence" that isn't fact based or which one?.....which facts and evidence did you present here to back your claims?.

Anyway you can go ahead and run already....no need finding a baseless excuse. cheesy .
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Doctordan: 12:07am On Dec 24, 2025
Never anything 'casual' about sex actually. Just a few moments of pleasure can have long term effects
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Kobojunkie: 12:10am On Dec 24, 2025
Doctordan:
Never anything 'casual' about sex actually. Just a few moments of pleasure can have long term effects
Nothing protection and consent can't solve. 🥱🥱🥱
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Doctordan: 2:47am On Dec 29, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Nothing protection and consent can't solve. 🥱🥱🥱
. It doesn't matter.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Kobojunkie: 2:59am On Dec 29, 2025
Doctordan:
. It doesn't matter.
Stop lying! 🥱🥱🥱🥱
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Doctordan: 3:42am On Dec 29, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Stop lying! 🥱🥱🥱🥱
Did you know that when a person has sex, a spirit enters him?
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Kobojunkie:
Doctordan:
✓Did you know that when a person has sex, a spirit enters him?
Whoever did this to you hates you.🥱🥱9
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Doctordan: 6:58pm On Dec 29, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Whoever did this to you hates you.🥱🥱9
Quite On the contrary, whoever gave me this information has my interest at heart. This is the truth.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Kobojunkie: 8:51pm On Dec 29, 2025
Doctordan:
✓ Quite On the contrary, whoever gave me this information has my interest at heart. This is the truth.
An obvious lie can never be sold you in your best interest. 🤔
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Doctordan: 5:03am On Dec 31, 2025
Kobojunkie:
An obvious lie can never be sold you in your best interest. 🤔
Don't you know that sex is spiritual & not just physical. There are many people engaged in free casual sex as if they were drinking water only for them to regret it later in their lives. Regardless of whether one uses protection or not, one cannot avoid its spiritual implications. The regrets came from the fact that they didn't keep themselves pure and also it was hard to get a marriage partner.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Kobojunkie: 5:04am On Dec 31, 2025
Doctordan:
➜Don't you know that sex is spiritual & not just physical. There are many people engaged in free casual sex as if they were drinking water only for them to regret it later in their lives. Regardless of whether one uses protection or not, one cannot avoid its spiritual implications.
There is absolutely nothing spiritual about two bodies pocking each other same way there is nothing spiritual about two tongues fiddling with each other.🥱🥱🥱
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Doctordan: 5:07am On Dec 31, 2025
Kobojunkie:
There is absolutely nothing spiritual about two bodies pocking each other same way there is nothing spiritual about two tongues fiddling with each other.🥱🥱🥱
Just asking, would you marry a woman that has already been with many men before?
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Doctordan: 5:08am On Dec 31, 2025
Kobojunkie:
There is absolutely nothing spiritual about two bodies pocking each other same way there is nothing spiritual about two tongues fiddling with each other.🥱🥱🥱
Sexual intimacy is deeper than you may think.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Kobojunkie: 5:11am On Dec 31, 2025
Doctordan:
➜Just asking, would you marry a woman that has already been with many men before?
See the kain stewpid question you dey ask? Of course, there is absolutely nothing wrong with either a man or a woman who has been with partners. undecided

Your personal fear of people who have been with multiple partners before you is a mental problem likely linked with some trauma from your past that you need to detangle when you are ready to do so, and not something to brandish or weaponize against others. 🥱🥱🥱
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