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Look , the story I'm about to tell you right now is not a cook up one, but a real story and a very serious one for that matter , your advices will be highly appreciate.
This my guy, not just a guy, but a colleague I knew for almost 4 years now , we share same flat and as 9ja guys we are in good talking time , we eat together, we share our cry together, our fun, aspirations and future, I knew his wife because we talk some times but occasionally , on greetings level , sometimes me and my guy argue about Tinubu and others tribal stuff because he's from the W region, and it always ends in laughters and jokes .. here is the story, I came back one faithful morning from my shift and met him on call shouting, speaking in their dialects, as guy man i knew nah family matter despite i no dey hear the language most time he mix it with English, when he end the call i query to know if everything are alright but he gave me this stance look, fills with anger and regret but he managed to hold back and replied me, yes , we are fine.. i just smile and pass i knew he will never tell me anything at that moment, after few days , i came back from my shift, i jokingly told him, Oga let's go and have some bottles, i chop their money today , there's nearby shop where we normally hang out anytime we win extra money from online betting because we are partners in bet, smile. When we get there, I ordered four cans of beer chilled beer mortuary level , because I knew the story is going to be a very long one because I don't want to miss anything in the name of going to get another cans under Amibo level nah. I sat opposite him , we face each other so I can digest the full story well without asking what did you say... As we emptied the first cans and in the second one , I asked him, yeah, what is the problem the other day you are on phone shouting ontop of your voice as if you won commot clothes, is like your girlfriend want you to give her big Christmas money , he smiles and replied in more mature calmer way, not that, u know me nah , i pressed him further to open up, because the more you cry out the lighter the burden in the heart becomes. He said , well it's family matter but i will sort it out soon. I Sip my beer for long and continue, do you give woman belle , talk now make we know what to do oooo jokingly, because I knew street is tight here, men don't looseguide or have time for opposite gender due to nature of gravity this side , so men are guided, abeg if U have a boyfriend , a husband living outside the country whether nah Ghana or America please take your time and pray for him every 1am morning , wish him well and all the success in life because they are the most faithful partners any woman can find. smiles 😁, back to my story , he laugh and he said ok judge this, do you remember last year I told you my wife was complaining the new apartment my cousin find for her, the toilets are not flushing most especially the master room , I nod like agama lizard yes I remember , but the landlord fix it nah,he said yes , last week she started complaining again and i called the landlord and was threatening him to refund me my rent that i will move my wife and kids to my family house pending the time i will finish mine, 1.5m yearly apartment for that matter o, the landlord angrily told me that its not his fault that the toilet chamber always blocked that he will show me things the plumber found in the chamber that blocked the toilet, can you guess ? , hold your breath I will spill the beans, used (rubber bands) , come on I will not mention the name we have kids in here reading , the name start with C and end with M. about 23 pieces of them, who can guess , i have gift for fastest thinker , some old some new , but all used , he continues, i have confronted her with this evidence but she's busy denying and claiming her innocence, he just lower his head small showing some signs of frustration and regret, but continue after few seconds.. this flats, all are down building and all the apartment there has it own seperate toilet chambers non of them connected, so who put it there , did it fly from elsewhere and stuck there, what is going on , it means someone make use of it , flush it from my toilet, he have being honest with the wife and landlord that he will not renew after the current rent expires. He have informed his family and already planning to travel next month to on emergency, he wiped his sweaty teary face gently, and continue, what on earth woman need I have not done for her, I pays children school fews even before time, I placed her on 100k salary , 300k upkeep for the family, if her parent are sick I take care of them, just last week i gave her money to buy Christmas items for her mother and younger siblings, this guy just broke down in tears, come and see fellow man shedding tears like toddler missing her mother's Bossom , i allowed him , because the more he cry it out the less the burden. After he wiped his face again and as I can see that heavy burden has reduced, I ask him what do you intend to do now , he replies, I will take the kids to the hospital for DNA because I don't want a story that touches hearts in the future, and after that let everyone go his/her seperate ways that he is done... Hmmm the matter tie lappa because I'm equally full of words.. I have tried every possible corner to see if I can bail the cat or connect the story theoretically and exonerate the lady from the allegations, but no way, according to him, she don't have male adult siblings to say they might be the one that always bring girls to the house neither do she has too many single female friends to say they brought their boyfriends there to knack carpentering , or maybe she's into lezi lezi
(female GehGeh) , but non are aligning...

Me As special adviser on family matter online branch ,I decided to present the matter to my honourable panel of judges online in-laws for deliberation and online judgement so I can declare the judgement before something went wrong, I asked him when last did you guys met in the other room he said two years ago , but i should not blame him for his absence because he's working under harsh climate here to strive to provide for his family as many, his cassava no dey even rote 360 degree not to think of cheating.. Abeg lemme drop my pen before I burst out in tears because man knows man.. your good and bad judgements are highly welcome

Wish you guys happy new year in advance... Peeeew drop my pen 📝

Let him be patience please.

Divorce on the ground of infidelity is valid and justified. However, remarrying after divorcing when your ex partner is alive is ungodly and unchristian. That's one of the consequences of divorce as a Christian. Nonetheless, I support the divorce. If you can't remain single, and decide to remarry, I hope GOD will be merciful on you for the sake of your kids.

No be me kill Jesus.

I will read this later. Don’t worry, Kobojunkie will soon come to pass this through his AI analyzer. He’ll make it craft an argument which’ll blame you for everything.

EndBuhariNow:
Look , the story I'm about to tell you right now is not a cook up one, but a real story and a very serious one for that matter , your advices will be highly appreciate.
This my guy, not just a guy, but a colleague I knew for almost 4 years now , we share same flat and as 9ja guys we are in good talking time , we eat together, we share our cry together, our fun, aspirations and future, I knew his wife because we talk some times but occasionally , on greetings level , sometimes me and my guy argue about Tinubu and others tribal stuff because he's from the W region, and it always ends in laughters and jokes .. here is the story, I came back one faithful morning from my shift and met him on call shouting, speaking in their dialects, as guy man i knew nah family matter despite i no dey hear the language most time he mix it with English, when he end the call i query to know if everything are alright but he gave me this stance look, fills with anger and regret but he managed to hold back and replied me, yes , we are fine.. i just smile and pass i knew he will never tell me anything at that moment, after few days , i came back from my shift, i jokingly told him, Oga let's go and have some bottles, i chop their money today , there's nearby shop where we normally hang out anytime we win extra money from online betting because we are partners in bet, smile. When we get there, I ordered four cans of beer chilled beer mortuary level , because I knew the story is going to be a very long one because I don't want to miss anything in the name of going to get another cans under Amibo level nah. I sat opposite him , we face each other so I can digest the full story well without asking what did you say... As we emptied the first cans and in the second one , I asked him, yeah, what is the problem the other day you are on phone shouting ontop of your voice as if you won commot clothes, is like your girlfriend want you to give her big Christmas money , he smiles and replied in more mature calmer way, not that, u know me nah , i pressed him further to open up, because the more you cry out the lighter the burden in the heart becomes. He said , well it's family matter but i will sort it out soon. I Sip my beer for long and continue, do you give woman belle , talk now make we know what to do oooo jokingly, because I knew street is tight here, men don't looseguide or have time for opposite gender due to nature of gravity this side , so men are guided, abeg if U have a boyfriend , a husband living outside the country whether nah Ghana or America please take your time and pray for him every 1am morning , wish him well and all the success in life because they are the most faithful partners any woman can find. smiles 😁, back to my story , he laugh and he said ok judge this, do you remember last year I told you my wife was complaining the new apartment my cousin find for her, the toilets are not flushing most especially the master room , I nod like agama lizard yes I remember , but the landlord fix it nah,he said yes , last week she started complaining again and i called the landlord and was threatening him to refund me my rent that i will move my wife and kids to my family house pending the time i will finish mine, 1.5m yearly apartment for that matter o, the landlord angrily told me that its not his fault that the toilet chamber always blocked that he will show me things the plumber found in the chamber that blocked the toilet, can you guess ? , hold your breath I will spill the beans, used (rubber bands) , come on I will not mention the name we have kids in here reading , the name start with C and end with M. about 23 pieces of them, who can guess , i have gift for fastest thinker , some old some new , but all used , he continues, i have confronted her with this evidence but she's busy denying and claiming her innocence, he just lower his head small showing some signs of frustration and regret, but continue after few seconds.. this flats, all are down building and all the apartment there has it own seperate toilet chambers non of them connected, so who put it there , did it fly from elsewhere and stuck there, what is going on , it means someone make use of it , flush it from my toilet, he have being honest with the wife and landlord that he will not renew after the current rent expires. He have informed his family and already planning to travel next month to on emergency, he wiped his sweaty teary face gently, and continue, what on earth woman need I have not done for her, I pays children school fews even before time, I placed her on 100k salary , 300k upkeep for the family, if her parent are sick I take care of them, just last week i gave her money to buy Christmas items for her mother and younger siblings, this guy just broke down in tears, come and see fellow man shedding tears like toddler missing her mother's Bossom , i allowed him , because the more he cry it out the less the burden. After he wiped his face again and as I can see that heavy burden has reduced, I ask him what do you intend to do now , he replies, I will take the kids to the hospital for DNA because I don't want a story that touches hearts in the future, and after that let everyone go his/her seperate ways that he is done... Hmmm the matter tie lappa because I'm equally full of words.. I have tried every possible corner to see if I can bail the cat or connect the story theoretically and exonerate the lady from the allegations, but no way, according to him, she don't have male adult siblings to say they might be the one that always bring girls to the house neither do she has too many single female friends to say they brought their boyfriends there to knack carpentering , or maybe she's into lezi lezi
(female GehGeh) , but non are aligning...

Me As special adviser on family matter online branch ,I decided to present the matter to my honourable panel of judges online in-laws for deliberation and online judgement so I can declare the judgement before something went wrong, I asked him when last did you guys met in the other room he said two years ago , but i should not blame him for his absence because he's working under harsh climate here to strive to provide for his family as many, his cassava no dey even rote 360 degree not to think of cheating.. Abeg lemme drop my pen before I burst out in tears because man knows man.. your good and bad judgements are highly welcome

Wish you guys happy new year in advance... Peeeew drop my pen 📝

The DNA is important.

After that count your loss and move on with your life.

Nor go suffer your life they train other people children, come and do the DNA ASAP.

princeade86:
Let him be patience please.

These are not the kind of advice we'd
be needing as men as from next year . It's either you stay honest with your fellow man and tell him nothing but the brutal truth or you just stay off threads like this 😡.

Op,as for you..... Please Tell your friend to do a DNA test on the kids.....And no matter what the outcome may be,he should never accept that woman back into his life again

Abi Nigerian bannies don dey wear condoms dey bath these days? . Who knows?

Well, of all steps he'd take, divorce is the most important of those steps. It's inevitable

Let him run DNA test first then later all will be exposed..

The question is what if the wife is innocent?
In most cases on issues like this you will see windows of innocence.

Please he should take it easy.
In marriage and as Catholics we were told that our spouses are our crosses hence we should all we can before getting married cos the church will always frown at divorce.

We have seen so many cases where the victims where later proven to be innocent.

Please tell your paddy to take it very slow. When someone is getting lost he walks very fast.

I plead, he should still give that woman some benefits of doubt. Even if she is loosed I don't think she will be so loosed to fill up the toilet chamber. At least we should reason it

You be big aproko ooo🤣🤣. When an "aproko" intends on knowing any information, no matter what you do, aproko must find a way to know 🤣🤣

You men especially, don't seem to understand the depth of what love entails...

In the context of Christian marriage, your love should cover ALL her sins.

As long as you're not been stupid; you'll have to open your mouth, read her her faults, correct her in love, forgive continously and keep loving.

See, love is hard o...if you now seal it with marriage, you're bound into a deeper mess.
Love nonetheless, as love is meant to be.

...shey u know say some kind girls still the wear the actual cucumber c**d**m;
If the madam is online and can see this, use this line while guilt tripping him.
Then tell him he doesn't give you emotional attention, that you could never do that, and he is overthinking and over imagining things.

What is all that you typed
If you want to tell a story
Do it properly

I wish your friend godspeed

ManknowThyself:
The DNA is important.

After that count your loss and move on with your life.

Nor go suffer your life they train other people children, come and do the DNA ASAP.

So, you read the book op compiled?

Please summarise it for me 🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️

EndBuhariNow....the time you spend on betting platforms should be used to learn paragraphing.

Marriage…..those who are in wanna get out.
Those who are out wanna get in at all costs.

Is it a newly built apartment or some tenants previously occupied the place?..
Let your friend not jump into conclusion in a hurry.The probability that the wife is cheating is still 50/50, the used rubbers prove nothing.

He should go for DNA test and divorce his wife ASAP

Your guy needs to question the landlord closely. If that chamber has been opened and cleared since his wife moved in and it's not connected in anyway to other apartments in that building, then the woman is guilty. But if this is the first time they are clearing it then it might not be her doing.

Secondly, when your guy come back naija let him invite a plumber to check if another apartment is sharing that chamber with his own, just to be extra sure before he takes action.

EndBuhariNow:
Look , the story I'm about to tell you right now is not a cook up one, but a real story and a very serious one for that matter , your advices will be highly appreciate.
This my guy, not just a guy, but a colleague I knew for almost 4 years now , we share same flat and as 9ja guys we are in good talking time , we eat together, we share our cry together, our fun, aspirations and future, I knew his wife because we talk some times but occasionally , on greetings level , sometimes me and my guy argue about Tinubu and others tribal stuff because he's from the W region, and it always ends in laughters and jokes .. here is the story, I came back one faithful morning from my shift and met him on call shouting, speaking in their dialects, as guy man i knew nah family matter despite i no dey hear the language most time he mix it with English, when he end the call i query to know if everything are alright but he gave me this stance look, fills with anger and regret but he managed to hold back and replied me, yes , we are fine.. i just smile and pass i knew he will never tell me anything at that moment, after few days , i came back from my shift, i jokingly told him, Oga let's go and have some bottles, i chop their money today , there's nearby shop where we normally hang out anytime we win extra money from online betting because we are partners in bet, smile. When we get there, I ordered four cans of beer chilled beer mortuary level , because I knew the story is going to be a very long one because I don't want to miss anything in the name of going to get another cans under Amibo level nah. I sat opposite him , we face each other so I can digest the full story well without asking what did you say... As we emptied the first cans and in the second one , I asked him, yeah, what is the problem the other day you are on phone shouting ontop of your voice as if you won commot clothes, is like your girlfriend want you to give her big Christmas money , he smiles and replied in more mature calmer way, not that, u know me nah , i pressed him further to open up, because the more you cry out the lighter the burden in the heart becomes. He said , well it's family matter but i will sort it out soon. I Sip my beer for long and continue, do you give woman belle , talk now make we know what to do oooo jokingly, because I knew street is tight here, men don't looseguide or have time for opposite gender due to nature of gravity this side , so men are guided, abeg if U have a boyfriend , a husband living outside the country whether nah Ghana or America please take your time and pray for him every 1am morning , wish him well and all the success in life because they are the most faithful partners any woman can find. smiles 😁, back to my story , he laugh and he said ok judge this, do you remember last year I told you my wife was complaining the new apartment my cousin find for her, the toilets are not flushing most especially the master room , I nod like agama lizard yes I remember , but the landlord fix it nah,he said yes , last week she started complaining again and i called the landlord and was threatening him to refund me my rent that i will move my wife and kids to my family house pending the time i will finish mine, 1.5m yearly apartment for that matter o, the landlord angrily told me that its not his fault that the toilet chamber always blocked that he will show me things the plumber found in the chamber that blocked the toilet, can you guess ? , hold your breath I will spill the beans, used (rubber bands) , come on I will not mention the name we have kids in here reading , the name start with C and end with M. about 23 pieces of them, who can guess , i have gift for fastest thinker , some old some new , but all used , he continues, i have confronted her with this evidence but she's busy denying and claiming her innocence, he just lower his head small showing some signs of frustration and regret, but continue after few seconds.. this flats, all are down building and all the apartment there has it own seperate toilet chambers non of them connected, so who put it there , did it fly from elsewhere and stuck there, what is going on , it means someone make use of it , flush it from my toilet, he have being honest with the wife and landlord that he will not renew after the current rent expires. He have informed his family and already planning to travel next month to on emergency, he wiped his sweaty teary face gently, and continue, what on earth woman need I have not done for her, I pays children school fews even before time, I placed her on 100k salary , 300k upkeep for the family, if her parent are sick I take care of them, just last week i gave her money to buy Christmas items for her mother and younger siblings, this guy just broke down in tears, come and see fellow man shedding tears like toddler missing her mother's Bossom , i allowed him , because the more he cry it out the less the burden. After he wiped his face again and as I can see that heavy burden has reduced, I ask him what do you intend to do now , he replies, I will take the kids to the hospital for DNA because I don't want a story that touches hearts in the future, and after that let everyone go his/her seperate ways that he is done... Hmmm the matter tie lappa because I'm equally full of words.. I have tried every possible corner to see if I can bail the cat or connect the story theoretically and exonerate the lady from the allegations, but no way, according to him, she don't have male adult siblings to say they might be the one that always bring girls to the house neither do she has too many single female friends to say they brought their boyfriends there to knack carpentering , or maybe she's into lezi lezi
(female GehGeh) , but non are aligning...

Me As special adviser on family matter online branch ,I decided to present the matter to my honourable panel of judges online in-laws for deliberation and online judgement so I can declare the judgement before something went wrong, I asked him when last did you guys met in the other room he said two years ago , but i should not blame him for his absence because he's working under harsh climate here to strive to provide for his family as many, his cassava no dey even rote 360 degree not to think of cheating.. Abeg lemme drop my pen before I burst out in tears because man knows man.. your good and bad judgements are highly welcome

Wish you guys happy new year in advance... Peeeew drop my pen 📝

i am quoting you without reading. END IT, if when I read it and I have a different view, i’ll come back to modify.

My comment didn’t fail me, I only regretted reading this.

Lies.
Fiction
Stories

Olawrites:
Lies.
Fiction
Stories

cocks and bulls.....organizations and schools are on holiday now so people have enough time to type lies

Make we talk true, that your friend wey keep woman for house for 2 years, come comot for house deserves to be flogged with a cane that was soaked in kerosene.

Which kind wickedness be that one nau?

Not that I'm in support of the wife cheating on him though, but he created an opportunity for such through his absence. Make una dey pity women nau. Na flesh and blood dem self carry for body.

Having said that, you should tell your so-called friend to forgive and forget because it's his fault. The woman was even responsible enough to use a condom, so, in a way, it's not really sex since their flesh didn't touch. Besides, the Bible says; "Blessed are those whose transgressions are covered..." Psalm 32:1

#Picks_tooth

kpankpangolo:
No be me kill Jesus.

I will read this later. Don’t worry, Kobojunkie will soon come to pass this through his AI analyzer. He’ll make it craft an argument which’ll blame you for everything.

I take god beg you don't summon that evil spirit here.

Person wey dey use machine no fit tire. It’s why he can debate with ten members here for days on end.

Dogalmighty17:
I take god beg you don't summon that evil spirit here.

Someone has asked if the apartment has been used by another tenants before. I ask that same question.

The first time the wife complained that toilet is blocked, was the chamber opened, cleaned and what was found then?

When he gets home, he should call his own plumber to open that chamber in his presence to double check that it's not linked to another apartment.

Finally, your friend was wrong for leaving a young ovulating, menstruating woman alone in Nigeria for 2 years without k.nack.

Helpout12345:
Someone has asked if the apartment has been used by another tenants before. I ask that same question.

The first time the wife complained that toilet is blocked, was the chamber opened, cleaned and what was found then?

When he gets home, he should call his own plumber to open that chamber in his presence to double check that it's not linked to another apartment.

Finally, your friend was wrong for leaving a young ovulating, menstruating woman alone in Nigeria for 2 years without k.nack.

yes they open the chamber and clear everything, now this is the second time she complained

Helpout12345:
Someone has asked if the apartment has been used by another tenants before. I ask that same question.

The first time the wife complained that toilet is blocked, was the chamber opened, cleaned and what was found then?

When he gets home, he should call his own plumber to open that chamber in his presence to double check that it's not linked to another apartment.

Finally, your friend was wrong for leaving a young ovulating, menstruating woman alone in Nigeria for 2 years without k.nack.

bro are you suggesting he stay back because he married a young ovulating wife . Me I left mine immediately after marriage, she insisted I stay back but I told her can U manage any amount I brought home at the end of the month she allow me to go.. it's now easy men here are faithful but U don't have such time to start flirting around and moreover it's too expensive here.. why can't she zip up sexxxxx it not everything

derico:
You men especially, don't seem to understand the depth of what love entails...

In the context of Christian marriage, your love should cover ALL her sins.

As long as you're not been stupid; you'll have to open your mouth, read her her faults, correct her in love, forgive continously and keep loving.

See, love is hard o...if you now seal it with marriage, you're bound into a deeper mess.
Love nonetheless, as love is meant to be.

sins of infidelity is unforgivable.. as for me I will forgive but that love will depart from me for ever so it will be better everyone go his/her seperate ways than to be in unhappy unhealthy marriage in the name of to save face . Even if I didn't chase U away I will never trust again, and in marriage there's no trust how will they last... I will keep remembering how another man do skelewu on top of my wife that kind thing dey kill man... A woman owns her husband her everlasting Loyalty even if they are far from each other, the man is going through hell just to provide for family, lemme use mine as exactly, as a man I cry in secret, I'm still young in my late 30s suppose to be enjoying myself with my wife but i don't have such opportunity due to distance, i sleep in room fill with 4 adults but. Back home I built a duplex, have a car she drives around , I starved to provide for them to give them best thing in life, sometimes I'm sick i wont go to hospital because I don't want to spend much due to projects and others you tell me after all these sacrifices simplest thing she suppose to do which is loyalty she find if difficult... Come one there's no forgiveness in this kind person

This story is nauseating. So it hasn't occurred to you people that it could have been the previous occupants that flushed those things down the toilet?

You said it's a new apartment. When did she have the time to sneak a man in there enough times to flush 23 rubbers down the toilet? It doesn't even make sense. Lord pls don't let me marry a cynical and foolish husband in Jesus name, Amen